Tributes
Leave a tributeI miss you all the time and at 71 I wish I still had my Mom here to help me.
But I also miss you for who you are that's not simply a mother to me.As a whole person I miss you just as much.Wish we could do life with you all over again.
Love you Sally.
You will never know how often I think or say to Diane how much I want you back.
It's such a shame that the living take for granted those they love.It seems only in books do characters appreciate in the moment the mythic quality of the people in their lives.
You know we all loved you but you have reached mythic proportion in our shared memories of you.
I wish we could have shared more of the books and conversations about what we'd read.I think you would be my go to person to talk to and that would delight us both.Love you always.
You would’ve been so proud of your granddaughters recently. Both so accomplished and beautiful, inside and out.
Thinking of you, Evan & Dad this weekend. Happy Birthday Mom.
I miss you more today than yesterday.
I remember when I was little I tell you I never get married and stay with you and dad. Alison used to say the same thing to me as well:) We had a lot of special times together, but wish I knew more about you and dad. Life in general seemed much nicer in the years we were growing up. Technology is good but just feel we lost alot along the way as people in our society. Times are so different and not sure it is always for the best.
I stopped to see you, Dad and Evan last month before your birthdays. Miss you all. Jen
As we all have said you created so many memories for us and we live through those memories till this day.
Love and miss you dearly, Jen
John said it all very clearly.
We wish you and dad were here. There’s So much to say.
Forever in our hearts and memories.
I'm thinking maybe I got that from you.Looking back I don't remember you becoming hysterical, overwrought or hypersensitive.You didn't seem to be anxious,though I guess you must've been at times.
I'm not saying if this calm reserve is a good or bad thing.I wish though like so many of us that you were here to have this and many other,talks.
We all have this regret.I wonder why we never learn to grab more times to really talk with the ones we love most.
I told someone recently that though I don't really believe there is an afterlife,and she did, stating that in some form we'd be reunited,I'm completely open to it if it happens.
I'd love to be reunited with you,Mom.
This time of year seems a bit tougher for all of us with you and Evan's bdays and Father's day all packed in the same time frame.
Thinking of you always with love from me.
Now home I'll get back,with Georgette,to contact the Michael Family to try to bring them together for a reunion dinner in September,the same day as the fundraiser D and I are doing again in Evan's name.Everyone helps with this event on both sides of my family,the Taylor's and my sisters.
I also want to remember here the Michael Family reunion in 2011 that Patrick and I organized.It turned out well with98 members in attendance.The best part for me was the next generation of family meeting each other.The effect doesn't last long but it does help the kids understand their history a bit.
Aunt Mike made the trip.And she was a trooper, because she obviously was tired and not at her usually strong self.
Here is some unexpected news...Rick George's family bought Mt.Vernon apartments from us.So the house that was in the Carom family since the 1940s flipped to the Michael side.Our family felt a little bad about selling the property but it was the right thing to do for me.
We remain close to the Hanna's, visiting them now once a year now.Uncle George is up and running following many challenges and he has great support from all his kids and grandkids especially Joan and Rachel.He remembers you fondly every time we visit.
D and I also visited with Charlie two years ago for lunch after our trip to Kennedy Space center.
So there's so many things I want to share with you knowing how happy it would make you feel.Your influence lived on,Mom.Love you til my dying day.
I have a deep feeling for you some days...I want you back, I miss you. I want my mother.I regret the things we never got to talk about. I believe that had you been alive when I let Evan begin to make some of his own decisions as a 15 yr old you would have counselled me differently. Maybe then I'd have listened to you and Evan would still be here. So many things could be different if we had acted differently sometime in our lives. But it happened the way it did. Still I've always thought you had a kind of wisdom that made sense to me. Even though we didn't agree on everything I always knew you were smarter than me in many things. I love you ,Mom.If there's an afterlife I hope you are there and at peace.
She would have been a great student of the world,no one who knew her doubts that. And I think she'd have been a great traveller. If only she could have stood in Abdelli like Diane and I did to think about what it must've been like for her Mom and Dad at the beginning of their lives before they came to America. If she could've seen all we saw in the mountains, monasteries and ancient towns of the old country then I know another portion of her spirit would have been satisfied.I wish for few things these days and one of them is for my mom to have seen us in Lebanon.
Love always,
Christina
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I miss you all the time and at 71 I wish I still had my Mom here to help me.
But I also miss you for who you are that's not simply a mother to me.As a whole person I miss you just as much.Wish we could do life with you all over again.
Love you Sally.
Basketball
Anyone reading this should know that you and Dad traveled around Western and North Western Pennsylvania to watch just about every game I ever played in. I played for me but I always love the fact that you and the rest of the family seem to enjoy it. Of course the highlights of you coming to all my games home or away or the two or three shopping bags full of food that you would bring. My teammates and roommates much appreciated that too. Some of our more non-ethnic friends at school didn't understand the food you were bringing me, our Lebanese food. And Mike McGuire will still tell the story today at age 73 that I tricked him into thinking that the turkey you brought me was something called White liver that only Lebanese people ate. And of course after I'd eaten it I had to let him know what a fool he was. My teammates and roommates always liked seeing you and Dad and the girls. It wasn't always a great time of life for me although some of it was but it was so comfortable knowing that I would see you and you would be there. Love you Mom.
Your birthday 2020
This morning the sisters and I were talking a little about your yard and garden at Race St. I told them I do zinnias every year bc of you but that I had given up on the straw flowers which didn't do well for me.
I have a new couple as customers who live in Thomas and love it up there. I'm ready to take a trip back there .I know Aunt Ginny would love to go back but as the years roll by it becomes less and less likely. She travelled last year with Patrick on a 3-4 day trip for the little reunion dinner we had.And this morning I told Diane i'm looking for a sfe place to stay near Boston in the Fall so we can visit her and see Christina who starts at BU in August. You'd be so proud of her. And Alison would make you very proud as well and I'd love it if you had known Taylor too. These 3 girls are so important to me.Listen I want to get some pictures on this site and then share it again with your family. And though i don't have much I will be making a scrapbook of the Michael clan and getting it to the church archival room. Love you Mom.Just stating this and writing to you is a sad but comforting thing to me. I sure wish you could know how much you are loved.
West Virginia
Most people alive today wouldn't know how much you cared for your life and memories of Thomas ,WV.It seems your family liked it a lot too as Aunt Mary,Aunt Ginny and your Uncle Tom have visited before.Your birthplace, Uniontown,didn't seem to hold you the same way.I remember the week you Evan and I went to stay a few days in Canaan ,Diane staying behind a few days at work.You had described the town of Thomas so well to me that it was like I had been there before though it was my first time.
The trees so thick and close to town,the railroad tracks running parallel to the main Street.The row of buildings that made up the town opening to the tracks.
When,blind with macular degeneration,you described in detail the building you lived in with your family and its location on the street,I found it and parked my car at the curb.
You stayed in the car while 7 yr old Evan and I walked between the narrow space between your building and the one next to it,to the back porch and pushed open the door to enter where you lived 50 years earlier.
Ev was afraid we'd get arrested for B&E.We walked down a long wide hallway with big rooms on either side to the front kitchen.There a 1940 calendar hung on the wall.
The apartment had obviously been occupied for a time but was under what appeared to be a stalled renovation.It had a 1940s feel to it.Wood GCMurphy-like floors,big doors to each bedroom.I don't recall a living roo.
We only stayed 5minutes but it really was like a time machine inside that big apartment.
I remember you telling me how you and a school age Ginny stayed there after your parents went to live in Uniontown bc Situ needed to be near doctors.
How you went to the hotel for breakfast each morning before walking Ginny to school and then opening Gidu's,left in your care.
I wish to remember more but can't today.But I remember that day and how close I felt to you there.I miss that.
I wish I could believe Evan was with you now.Love you ,Mom.