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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Sally Carom, 79 years old, born on June 19, 1921, and passed away on June 30, 2000. We will remember her forever.
June 30, 2023
June 30, 2023
I rather remember your birthday and all the other special days we all had with you then June 30. I look at the pictures on this site and remember them clearly. Beach days were always fun, shopping in Rehoboth at Joss's, eating at Phillips and so much more. I always wonder how you could go all day on our Pittsburgh trips. I will never forget us being in Kauffman's Department store downtown Pitt and the snow was coming down really heavy we got to Whitehall area and you got out to push the Datsun and I drove! They we had a man toe us up a hill on the last stretch near Perropolis. I thought we never get home. Alot of good times as John said wish we could do it all over again. We all have our special thoughts and memories of you Dad and Evan. With loving memories...
June 21, 2023
June 21, 2023
Hi,Mom.Like GG said, Diane and I mention you in conversation every day or so.You left a lasting impression on our lives.Often old friends remember you so well.And I will always wish I had followed your lead with some of the parenting decisions I made with Evan.You often saw through life changes with more clarity than I.
I miss you all the time and at 71 I wish I still had my Mom here to help me.
But I also miss you for who you are that's not simply a mother to me.As a whole person I miss you just as much.Wish we could do life with you all over again.
Love you Sally.
June 19, 2023
June 19, 2023
Can’t believe we’ve been without you this long. Think of you so often and Dan and I remember you daily for one thing or another. It goes without saying, but I miss you always. Love you. G
June 30, 2022
June 30, 2022
Mom,Today I remember the delight you got from a good story or minor revelation and I remember your laugh and expression when you were visibly happy about one thing or another.It isn't a specific time,just my memory of you when you were feeling good.
You will never know how often I think or say to Diane how much I want you back.
It's such a shame that the living take for granted those they love.It seems only in books do characters appreciate in the moment the mythic quality of the people in their lives.
You know we all loved you but you have reached mythic proportion in our shared memories of you.
I wish we could have shared more of the books and conversations about what we'd read.I think you would be my go to person to talk to and that would delight us both.Love you always.
June 30, 2022
June 30, 2022
Mom, I miss you always! what great memories you created for me. You were the best! No way can I fill our shoes you sacrificed so much for us. My friends still talk about you and dad and our home . Love you mom!
June 19, 2022
June 19, 2022
It’s the same every year Mom, never goes away, love and miss you.

You would’ve been so proud of your granddaughters recently. Both so accomplished and beautiful, inside and out. 

Thinking of you, Evan & Dad this weekend. Happy Birthday Mom.
June 19, 2022
June 19, 2022
Dear Mom, well life has come a full circle for me. Now I know what I must of put you through when I was young. But then again you had 3 other children before me. So maybe you were a bit more relaxed with me not sure. Alison had a full senior year back at school even though the virus is alive and well. She had an amazing graduation outside and you and dad would have been so proud to hear her speech at commencement. A little hard for me to see her grow up and move on but I'm so very happy and proud. I been thinking about how you were as a mom and what you went through. You were an amazing mom to all of us. Hard to fill your shoes. I saw a lady the other day wearing a denim skirt, top, sneakers, shoulder bag and she just reminded me of you not her face but her attire. Missing our days together but you live on in my memory, Love you mom, Jennie
June 19, 2022
June 19, 2022
Hi,Mom.Wish you could have been here to celebrate your granddaughter, Alison's graduation.You'd be the proudest Situ there.
I miss you more today than yesterday.
July 2, 2021
July 2, 2021
Mom, 21 years I remember too well. Tony and I were getting ready to leave to come home for the July 4 weekend to spend with you. 
I remember when I was little I tell you I never get married and stay with you and dad. Alison used to say the same thing to me as well:) We had a lot of special times together, but wish I knew more about you and dad. Life in general seemed much nicer in the years we were growing up. Technology is good but just feel we lost alot along the way as people in our society. Times are so different and not sure it is always for the best. 
I stopped to see you, Dad and Evan last month before your birthdays. Miss you all. Jen
June 19, 2021
June 19, 2021
Hi Mom. Can’t believe another year has passed. So often miss just talking on the phone about this and that with you. Often wonder what you’d think about these changing times. You were a wonderful Mom, and always missed, never ever forgotten. Till we see each other again, sending my love. G
June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
Mom, I'm lost for words today. I added a few more pictures of you and dad. I enjoy when Aunt Jenny tells me stories. She mentioned how you had a fur coat when you were 18 that Gidu got you and about an ice cream party they had on Locust Street when you turned 16. Paris made the ice cream. 

As we all have said you created so many memories for us and we live through those memories till this day.

Love and miss you dearly, Jen
June 19, 2020
June 19, 2020
Thinking about you and missing you. Trying to just think of the good times, you made so many for us.  Christmas always comes to mind, you made it all so great every year. I’ll forever have those great memories. Love you Mom, see you again someday.

June 30, 2019
June 30, 2019
You are Forever Missed Mom. 
John said it all very clearly.
We wish you and dad were here.  There’s So much to say.
Forever in our hearts and memories.
June 30, 2019
June 30, 2019
So soon after your 79th bday you were gone.I remember that morning too well.I have always handled these traumatic events with my rational mind, almost matter of factly.It must be a coping mechanism.I feel the loss,I cry alot,I get emotional.But at the moment of trama I've been calm.
I'm thinking maybe I got that from you.Looking back I don't remember you becoming hysterical, overwrought or hypersensitive.You didn't seem to be anxious,though I guess you must've been at times.
I'm not saying if this calm reserve is a good or bad thing.I wish though like so many of us that you were here to have this and many other,talks.
We all have this regret.I wonder why we never learn to grab more times to really talk with the ones we love most.
I told someone recently that though I don't really believe there is an afterlife,and she did, stating that in some form we'd be reunited,I'm completely open to it if it happens.
I'd love to be reunited with you,Mom.
June 22, 2019
June 22, 2019
Hi Mom, a little late with my post but not with thoughts of you on your birthday.  You’re always remembered and you are mentioned often for one reason or another. The smallest things bring you to mind, cooking something & wishing I could phone you for advice, or something I saw that maybe you would like. You’re never far away, although I wish you were around so often. Love you & miss you always. G
June 21, 2019
June 21, 2019
Thinking the other day about how I wish I knew more about you than I do. As you mature you think differently about all sorts of things. There's so much I like to share with you and dad. 
This time of year seems a bit tougher for all of us with you and Evan's bdays and Father's day all packed in the same time frame. 
Thinking of you always with love from me.
June 21, 2019
June 21, 2019
Hi,Mom.I missed posting again on your bday.We were traveling back from Hawaii for Taylor's 16th bday wish trip.While in Hawaii I remarked to D and sisters how much you would have loved Hawaii and it's history and natural beauty.
Now home I'll get back,with Georgette,to contact the Michael Family to try to bring them together for a reunion dinner in September,the same day as the fundraiser D and I are doing again in Evan's name.Everyone helps with this event on both sides of my family,the Taylor's and my sisters.
I also want to remember here the Michael Family reunion in 2011 that Patrick and I organized.It turned out well with98 members in attendance.The best part for me was the next generation of family meeting each other.The effect doesn't last long but it does help the kids understand their history a bit.
Aunt Mike made the trip.And she was a trooper, because she obviously was tired and not at her usually strong self.
Here is some unexpected news...Rick George's family bought Mt.Vernon apartments from us.So the house that was in the Carom family since the 1940s flipped to the Michael side.Our family felt a little bad about selling the property but it was the right thing to do for me.
We remain close to the Hanna's, visiting them now once a year now.Uncle George is up and running following many challenges and he has great support from all his kids and grandkids especially Joan and Rachel.He remembers you fondly every time we visit.
D and I also visited with Charlie two years ago for lunch after our trip to Kennedy Space center.
So there's so many things I want to share with you knowing how happy it would make you feel.Your influence lived on,Mom.Love you til my dying day.
June 30, 2018
June 30, 2018
Hi Mom. Hard to believe how long it’s been since we talked, sat at the table on Race Street, talked on the phone about this and that or went shopping together. I miss you and all those things we did together, every morning at 9:30 from Abby’s, checking in with you, hearing your voice, I’d love to do that just one more time. Wish I would’ve known you more as a person than I did. A great Mom, a wonderful person to everybody. I hope you and Dad are watching over all of us and are together with everyone we’ve loved and lost. Miss you and love you. Xxoo  G
June 24, 2018
June 24, 2018
Mom we all miss you and dad.  Wish we had more time. You gave so much of yourself for your family. I think you and dad be proud that we still are a family that you created.  You are forever missed mom
June 23, 2018
June 23, 2018
Mom, I missed posting this on your birthday. It was a hard week with Father's day on Evan's birthday and Skid died on Evan's birthday back in 2011.I was pretty upset there for those days, thinking about you and Evan and missing Skid too.
I have a deep feeling for you some days...I want you back, I miss you. I want my mother.I regret the things we never got to talk about. I believe that had you been alive when I let Evan begin to make some of his own decisions as a 15 yr old you would have counselled me differently. Maybe then I'd have listened to you and Evan would still be here. So many things could be different if we had acted differently sometime in our lives. But it happened the way it did. Still I've always thought you had a kind of wisdom that made sense to me. Even though we didn't agree on everything I always knew you were smarter than me in many things. I love you ,Mom.If there's an afterlife I hope you are there and at peace.
July 2, 2017
July 2, 2017
Tough time of year (remembering family birthday's, 4th of July cookouts, vacations etc we all shared together). We had good times. Miss you always and forever
June 30, 2017
June 30, 2017
Mom, miss you all the time, not just a parent, but as a friend as well especially as we both got older. Enjoyed your company as much or more than most people no matter the age. Miss talking to you every single day, there's no replacement for that. You were the best Mom, I love you from the bottom of my heart. Gigi
June 20, 2017
June 20, 2017
Because we went to Lebanon in April this year it's important to know that this would have made you ,Mom, very happy for us . For the things in life you didn't get to do I know that you would have been supportive and thrilled to see any of your kids do some of those things.For anyone reading this they should know that Sally was a persistent student of knowledge.Knowledge about the world in general and often about culture(Russians,Tudors,the Middle East just to name a few),food and home making,plants and gardening,and much more. She didn't have the opportunity to go to college bc she was more or less required to stay home with her Mother and Father to help raise her youngest siblings and to help her Mother who it seems was often sick. She did get to run her father's store in thomas WV and she did own a dress shop in Smithfield for a short time that we know very little about. She worked at Sparrows Point in Maryland during the War.Always we were told by Sally and some of her siblings how smart she was with her schoolwork and books and that she was shortchanged by not having the opportunity for advanced education and a profession. Still after marriage and with children coming quickly she again had to be the homemaker/caretaker and tried to fulfill her desire for knowledge through avid reading and conversation ,which she liked alot.
She would have been a great student of the world,no one who knew her doubts that. And I think she'd have been a great traveller. If only she could have stood in Abdelli like Diane and I did to think about what it must've been like for her Mom and Dad at the beginning of their lives before they came to America. If she could've seen all we saw in the mountains, monasteries and ancient towns of the old country then I know another portion of her spirit would have been satisfied.I wish for few things these days and one of them is for my mom to have seen us in Lebanon.
June 21, 2016
June 21, 2016
Dearest Mom, We always look for you for guidance even though you are not here. Hoping you hear us some way some how. I hope you and Dad are taking care of our sweet Evan. It's just not right. I have shed so many tears, we all have. My heart is broken for John, Diane and Evan. Miss you all terribly. I love you Mom.
June 20, 2016
June 20, 2016
Mom, I never did get back here to add some of the stories i wanted to add. Things have been messed up since Evan died.i will tell you or anyone reading this that I intend on gathering much of your family history and pics and hopefully, getting them collected in the church archives.Mom, if you can hear me know that I love and miss you now more than ever.
June 20, 2016
June 20, 2016
Miss you alot Mom, thinking of you on your birthday, stopped to see you, Dad and Evan. Look out for us, we all need your guidance. Love ya, G
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Hi Situ. I'm not so good with words, but I thought I'd wish you a Happy Birthday. Thinking of you today and everyday. Although I don't really remember you, I am grateful for the short time that we got to spend together. I'm thankful that I get to see you through pictures and videos of you and Gidu with me as a baby. Mom always talks highly of you and tells stories about what you were like. She misses you very much. As I'm beginning to start making decisions for college and starting my senior year I can't help but wish you could be here to see me graduate. At times I think about what you might have said or though about me now at 17. Wish you were here for birthdays, Christmas, and other holidays. I would give anything to have the shortest conversation with you, or to just hear your voice. Sometimes I feel like you're here watching me and I try to think about what advice you would give me. Anyways, maybe you aren't presently here with us, but I believe that you are always watching, and I'm grateful for that. Love and miss you and Gidu dearly. Happy Birthday.

Love always,
Christina
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Mom, can't help to say all the time "wish you and dad were here" to be apart of our lives and to know Alison. You be so proud of her. I want to believe you and dad were looking down on her on her promotion night in 5th grade as she had a great award given to her as a 5th grader.  I miss you more than ever no matter how old I get. I miss our phone calls, visits, and coming home to Race Street. You left us all with such great memories growing up and coming back home to the house we loved. My friends over the years have said your parents were so nice and coming to your house was always fun. You made it very special for us, no matter what. Holidays or coming home for a weekend there was always something you did to make it special.  One of many memories is when you came to Virginia and I took off work as it was my bday and we had our hair done and went shopping at Tyson's and ate at Don Pablo's in Sterling. It was such as nice day together. The time we drove back in that crazy snow storm from Pitt. Were rin Kaufman's dept store downtown Pitt and we looked out side on the first floor and saw snow. We decided to leave and driving back we got stuck twice on the road, once near Whitehall you told me to drive and you push the car and once near Perryopolis. We were in the Blue Datsun (I loved that car) . Cars every where on route 51 and we thought we make it but cars stopped and we got stuck. You said don't tell your dad but I'm paying this guy to pull us up the hill and we barely made it home. What a night that was. Thanks for the memories mom..... I love you Mom.
February 9, 2015
February 9, 2015
Mom, I am a lot later than I thought I should be on setting this up to commemorate your memory.I can't stand the fact that I don't have the time I want to do things like this.I talk to you and about you often. Jamie recently transferred tape to DVD so we could see and hear you again. I need to look for more bc we all want you back and these little films are the best we can get. You know I'm not a big believer but I want to believe that you are visiting with Aunt Mike even if it's on a heavenly phone call.You may be happy to know that when I questioned Evan last week he is a believer though he never says much he really wanted to memorialize you and his Gidu,Therefore the big tattoo. plus he knew we wouldn't flip out about the tattoo that way.There's so much I want to tell you so with this memorial I will. Love you always.Diane says Hi and she loves you too.

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June 30, 2023
June 30, 2023
I rather remember your birthday and all the other special days we all had with you then June 30. I look at the pictures on this site and remember them clearly. Beach days were always fun, shopping in Rehoboth at Joss's, eating at Phillips and so much more. I always wonder how you could go all day on our Pittsburgh trips. I will never forget us being in Kauffman's Department store downtown Pitt and the snow was coming down really heavy we got to Whitehall area and you got out to push the Datsun and I drove! They we had a man toe us up a hill on the last stretch near Perropolis. I thought we never get home. Alot of good times as John said wish we could do it all over again. We all have our special thoughts and memories of you Dad and Evan. With loving memories...
June 21, 2023
June 21, 2023
Hi,Mom.Like GG said, Diane and I mention you in conversation every day or so.You left a lasting impression on our lives.Often old friends remember you so well.And I will always wish I had followed your lead with some of the parenting decisions I made with Evan.You often saw through life changes with more clarity than I.
I miss you all the time and at 71 I wish I still had my Mom here to help me.
But I also miss you for who you are that's not simply a mother to me.As a whole person I miss you just as much.Wish we could do life with you all over again.
Love you Sally.
June 19, 2023
June 19, 2023
Can’t believe we’ve been without you this long. Think of you so often and Dan and I remember you daily for one thing or another. It goes without saying, but I miss you always. Love you. G
Her Life

Brain surgery 1972

June 29, 2021
Brave she was. When diagnosed with an acoustic neuroma, after a year of symptoms when local doctors told her she was just "menopausal" or imagining that she was sick, surgery was scheduled at WVU by a Dr. Donaldson, who had returned from Austria where he was taught new surgical procedures for the surgery using a microscope ,at least that's how they explained it to us.
The night before her surgery, head shaven, Mom told me that the doctor told her that her chances of surviving the surgery were 50-50. I had not heard that before and she said that she was fully aware and that she had no reservations about going on the table with those odds. I was taken aback and scared that we could lose her but her sort of nonchalant attitude toward the whole thing showed me that she had weighed the risk and was bravely facing down what she had to endure.
Well the surgery removed the tumor and wreaked great havoc on the nerves in her face, ear and eye on the affected side, side effects that plagued her the rest of her life. She rarely complained about these daily side effects but it was easy to see how aggravating they were every single hour.
All the while she didn't want her family to suffer inconveniences because of her situation. In conveniences! We were scared to death.
She toughed out the recovery( I remember how she talked me through cleaning out the deep hole in her skull without the slighest bit of concern.).She taught me resilience ,something I think improved my life every time back then when I faced a challenge.
I know there are many people in the world who have faced similar or worse things but I didn't have a front row seat for those. Thankfully I had a brave Mom as a role model to learn from and carry that with me as I moved into young adulthood. She was 51 years old at the time.
P.S. Mom survived diphtheria as a child and also a very bad burn to her upper arm and shoulder when as the story was told she pulled a pot of scalding water from the stove ,also as a child. Ten years after her brain surgery she had a quadruple bypass operation. She was the quickest "recovery" person I ever heard of. When around age 78 her cardiololgist recommended against a second open heart surgery because of her age and condition I countered that opinion with reports of how strong she had been and how quickly she recovered. Mom sided with the cardiologist. From her experiences I took away her positive mental outlook in every medical challenge she faced.

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June 30, 2023
Mom I will always remember being able to see you clearly in a crowd of 3,000 people at the IUP basketball games. I SWEAR YOU SEEM TO YELL THE LOUDEST.
Anyone reading this should know that you and Dad traveled around Western and North Western Pennsylvania to watch just about every game I ever played in. I played for me but I always love the fact that you and the rest of the family seem to enjoy it. Of course the highlights of you coming to all my games home or away or the two or three shopping bags full of food that you would bring. My teammates and roommates much appreciated that too. Some of our more non-ethnic friends at school didn't understand the food you were bringing me, our Lebanese food. And Mike McGuire will still tell the story today at age 73 that I tricked him into thinking that the turkey you brought me was something called White liver that only Lebanese people ate. And of course after I'd eaten it I had to let him know what a fool he was. My teammates and roommates always liked seeing you and Dad and the girls. It wasn't always a great time of life for me although some of it was but it was so comfortable knowing that I would see you and you would be there. Love you Mom.

Your birthday 2020

June 19, 2020
You wouldn't believe what is going on right now in this country and around the world as I write this.
This morning the sisters and I were talking a little about your yard and garden at Race St. I told them I do zinnias every year bc of you but that I had given up on the straw flowers which didn't do well for me. 
I have a new couple as customers who live in Thomas and love it up there. I'm ready to take a trip back there .I know Aunt Ginny would love to go back but as the years roll by it becomes less and less likely. She travelled last year with Patrick on a 3-4 day trip for the little reunion dinner we had.And this morning I told Diane i'm looking for a sfe place to stay near Boston in the Fall so we can visit her and see Christina who starts at BU in August. You'd be so proud of her. And Alison would make you very proud as well and I'd love it if you had known Taylor too. These 3 girls are so important to me.Listen I want to get some pictures on this site and then share it again with your family. And though i don't have much I will be making a scrapbook of the Michael clan and getting it to the church archival room. Love you Mom.Just stating this and writing to you is a sad but comforting thing to me. I sure wish you could know how much you are loved.

West Virginia

June 30, 2018

Most people alive today wouldn't know how much you cared for your life and memories of Thomas ,WV.It seems your family liked it a lot too as Aunt Mary,Aunt Ginny and your Uncle Tom have visited before.Your birthplace, Uniontown,didn't seem to hold you the same way.I remember the week you Evan and I went to stay a few days in Canaan ,Diane staying behind a few days at work.You had described the town of Thomas so well to me that it was like I had been there before though it was my first time.

The trees so thick and close to town,the railroad tracks running parallel to the main Street.The row of buildings that made up the town opening to the tracks.

When,blind with macular degeneration,you described in detail the building you lived in with your family and its location on the street,I found it and parked my car at the curb.

You stayed in the car while 7 yr old Evan and I walked between the narrow space between your building and the one next to it,to the back porch and pushed open the door to enter where you lived 50 years earlier.

Ev was afraid we'd get arrested for B&E.We walked down a long wide hallway with big rooms on either side to the front kitchen.There a 1940 calendar hung on the wall.

The apartment had obviously been occupied for a time but was under what appeared to be a stalled renovation.It had a 1940s feel to it.Wood GCMurphy-like floors,big doors to each bedroom.I don't recall a living roo.

We only stayed 5minutes but it really was like a time machine inside that big apartment.

I remember you telling me how you and a school age Ginny stayed there after your parents went to live in Uniontown bc Situ needed to be near doctors.

How you went to the hotel for breakfast each morning before walking Ginny to school and then opening Gidu's,left in your care.

I wish to remember more but can't today.But I remember that day and how close I felt to you there.I miss that.

I wish I could believe Evan was with you now.Love you ,Mom.

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