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Miss you

March 2, 2021
Hey mom remember on our  birthdays you would always tell us a story of our birth I long to hear your voice telling us the stories of our birth and aspiring to be just like you and hear the story of your birth from your lips a story of Grandma and you growing up your horse Pearl and when you met dad and fell in love got married and had us .I feel you are near when the Sunshine's the rain falls birds çomeby and butterflies .I know you never really left our sides for good that you visit us and still guide us . Miss you mommy your little Tam 

Sally - the Hy's Days - from James Brady

“Sally was one of the most gracious and kind people I ever knew.  To think that she put up with Pete Purcell for all those years and finally terminated him from Hy’s when she HAD to, although they remained the best of friends and Pete always thought the world of her.  Sally was universally respected by both clients and staff – and made a positive impression on everyone. “

 

 

 

when we got sick

May 22, 2011

When we ever got sick my mom ,would worry but, smile and I remember one specific occasion Lisa and I ,Tammy were sick I was about 16  and my mom said, there was only one thing to do  . lLisa looked up into mom,s green eyes with wonder and we both said  "what "' she opened the back door to her bedroom which faced the backyard and look she said," God is here it is snowing" and without another second gone by our mom jumped into the snow in her night gown . It made us laugh soo hard we forgot we were sick . Bev i wish she could jump for you too. I,m sure she is .

A Special Memory...

May 20, 2011

Of all the wonderful memories I have of Aunt Sally, living with her, Uncle Dan, Grandma and Grandpa during my 7th grade was the most awesome experience any young girl could have.  I had never flown before nor been anywhere so here I was, embarking on this wonderous adventure to NB, on my way to live with the most popular aunt in our family.  Although loved and adored by all, it was the youngster's who came running the minute Aunt Sally showed up.

I remember one day, in particular, where she spent the entire day with me.  She had my hair put up in curls, showed me how to apply makeup and dressed me in one of her most elegant saris.  I then accompanied her and Uncle Dan to my "first" ever grown up dance where the most handsome man in the world asked me to dance - and yes, he was a young doctor.  I thought I'd died and gone to heaven.              

Aunt Sally was beautiful, charming, witty, elegant and well educated.  She was soft and warm, caring and giving.  And - she was  also one of the greatest storytellers of all time...LOL 

We became very close during those months and formed a special bond that remains to this day.  It took me many years before the pain of her death subsided.  I know, if Aunt Sally were here today, she would be one of my greatest supporters, providing me with all the love and support I need to battle the beast I'm living with. 

Dear Aunt Sally, I dropped a tear in the ocean.  The day you find it is the day I will stop missing you.

Sally - written by Heather Brachvogel

What I do remember is many years ago I had been invited to a Halloween Party, and didn't know what to wear. Your mother very kindly picked out on of her Sari's which was pink and helped me put this beautiful outfit on. I went to the party and lo and behold I won first prize. To this day I love the Indian clothes.

A story about our mother from Jennifer Mackay Spratt

Aunt Sally was such a special person in my life. I loved going overto the cottage and seeing all the family including Rosie. Aunt Sally would take me to the toy store so I could pick any doll I wanted and it was not even my birthday! She always included me when staying at hotels in Ottawa so i could be with my cousins.She was soo calm all the time and talked to me with so much respect. The most vivid exciting parts of my childhood include Aunt Sally and her children. On the darkest day of my young life when I had to get through the first night of my fathers Wake when i was 20 years old, she was the one who got me through. She was way more than an Aunt. She was my friend Much of what i do with students who have trouble each day is a direct reflexion of how Aunt Sally was with me. When I look at them I see them, when I listen to them I hear them. She lives on in all the hearts she has touched along the way.

My Aunt Sally

May 19, 2011

My dear Aunt Sally has such an enormous presence.  Anyone who had ever met her would never forget her.  I didn't get to see her often enough, but any time I did, I have such fond memories of her always managing to pull me aside for some 'quality girl talk'.   She'd ask me about boys (I was a teenager at the time), and give me some wise words of advice, most often about being a confident and beautiful young woman and not to waste time with idiots!  She would also be so candid, with a wink and a giggle, I wouldn't know what to say (which is a rare thing!), which would make her laugh even more.  

She was such a good story teller, she would always have us laughing with her antics and crazy self-confidence.  She'd burst into songs like "tru-ra-lu-ra-lu-ra" or "when a man loves a woman" without any prompting at all or a care for what others might think of her.

I remember visiting the condo in Toronto when I was in University and she would get such a charge out of how the security guys always just buzzed me in.  I didn't visit often enough, but I'd say I was there to see Sally and they assumed I was her daughter and let me right in.  I take that as a big compliment. 

So many fond memories of such a bright light - in life so loved, and never forgotten. 

Your niece,

Crystal Mackay

 

 

Our Mother - Lotis Lin Nip gives more insight

 

Sally Ethel MacKay-Mehta
You’ve asked a close friend for to write her memories after 20 years. Of course our relationship was different than the one she had with each one of you. It should be. Having brought you into the world, it was her Dharma (Right Conduct) to love you and raise you to the best of her abilities. As the three of you are so different from each other, your relationship with your mom is unique and I know for a fact she loved all three of you so much. She loved each one of you for who you were. It was not like there was 100 units of love for her children and each of you got 33 l/3 units. I saw her give 100 units to each of you. I do know that’s what was in her heart.
 
Sally modeled COMPASSION for me. She shared her concerns for her family and people she only just met and never knew. I saw many ‘good works’ she would do for people in ‘lesser’ positions and then promptly forgot she did them.
 
She had the greatest sense of HUMOUR that often left me laughing so hard tears would roll down my eyes and I’d be clutching my sides.
 
She taught me SPONTANEITY and being in the moment. She would get an idea in her head and away we’d go, often to great adventures, before settling back into family routine.
 
Only in hindsight do I realize she also taught me that, ‘what you dwell on, you attract’. She is the only person I knew who read the Obituaries every day and darned if she didn’t find people she knew.  Whatever she repeated said (forecast) would come to pass.  (Mixed blessings)
 
From Sally I learned how rewarding it was to get people to smile, especially if you know they’ve just had a hard time. I later came to know that as ‘shifting the energy’ so that better things could happen.
 
I loved the cajoling, border-line con-job, she’d do on people to get them to do something, often for their own benefit. With her intuition, she could see where they needed to be, before they could. That was a mixed blessing, although I often found it extremely funny when she was doing it as she let me in on what was going to happen.
 
I think her ‘strong will’ over-compensated for her childhood wheezy horse, Pride. Sometimes her ON button would get stuck.  I know there were times I, the younger one, could not keep up.  So when she'd get sick and down for the count, there was stark contrast.  And all I knew to do then, as her friend, was to sit quietly by her.
 
I grew to love that wife of my former badminton partner. While she did not live a long time on this earth, she LIVED FULLY, mostly her way,  and probably got more out of LIFE  than people living twice her age.
 
Namaste,
Lotus Lin

Rainy Days

I remember as a child growing up when it rained mom used to sing "Just a walking in the Rain" and we would sing along with her and she'd dance around the house singing to make us laugh.  It made the day much more fun.

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