SCOTT SHAFER
  • 39 years old
  • Date of birth: Nov 22, 1970
  • Place of birth:
    Maryland, United States
  • Date of passing: May 4, 2010
  • Place of passing:
    Bethalto, Illinois, United States
Let the memory of SCOTT be with us forever

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, SCOTT SHAFER who was born on November 22, 1970 and passed away on May 4, 2010. We will remember him forever.

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 22nd November 2016

"Happy 46th birthday, Scottie! I know you are celebrating with Grandma and Grandpa. You are missed beyond words.....my heart is broken. I know I will see you again....I can't wait for that day! I love you, my precious child.... Mom"

This tribute was added by Dave/Sharon Shafer on 22nd November 2016

"Dearest Scott. We know your are having a blast  today on your birthday. That's just the way you are. We miss you so much every day. We are doing ok. Just waiting to see your face and hear your laugh again. Kind of like your big hugs too.   Miss you and love you, Dad and Sharon"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 4th May 2016

"Today marks your 6 year Angelversary. It doesn't seem possible....I miss you so much. Thank you for the "sign" today! I know that you are always with me in spirit. Until I see you again, I love you, my wonderful son. Love, Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 22nd November 2015

"Happy 45th Birthday in heaven my precious son!! I'm so glad that God chose me to be your mom. What I would give to see you one more time. But having faith in God gives me the assurance that I will see you again. Until that day, I will remember you always and love you with all my heart. I love you, Mom......"

This tribute was added by Sue Hopper on 4th May 2015

"Dear Scott,
I just lit a candle in your memory, not that anyone could ever forget you.  I did not see you in the later years but from what I have seen, you did not change from the sweet little boy I knew.  You would be so proud of your girls.  They are both so smart and beautiful.  It doesn't seem  possible but it's already been five years since you made your journey from this world to the next.  Say hello to your grandma and grandpa for me.  Your mother struggles every day because you were her life.  Anything you can do to make her feel better would be great.  We miss you, Scott.  Our world is not as bright as it was when you were here."

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 4th May 2015

"Today marks the 5 year anniversary of your death. I never thought I would live to see this day, but we continue on this journey that we've been given. I think about you all the time. I know that you're safe in heaven with grandma and grandpa. I will see you all again one of these days. Until then, you are remembered and loved with all my heart. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 22nd November 2014

"Happy 44th Heavenly Birthday, my precious son! What fun we always had on your birthdays.....you, and your crazy antics. You are deeply loved and sadly missed every minute of every day. I love you with all my heart......Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 4th May 2014

"Four years ago today, God called you back home. I am thankful for the time I had with you, for the love you gave me. You are the joy of my life and I miss you so much. Your face, your laughter, your beautiful voice.....all these things are immortalized in my mind. Fly high, my angel, and I will see you again some day. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 23rd November 2013

"As I have survived another one of your birthdays without you, I reflect upon happier days when you were here. Your laughter filled the room and you were the spirit of our family. You were a wonderful son, grandson, and father. I am so proud of the man you became and your contributions to this world. We will be reunited one day for eternity.....oh happy day!!! I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by Jerry Jones on 22nd November 2013

"I hate to see a friend going through the pain of losing a child and not being able to do anything about it.
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.” From a headstone in Ireland
Love you with the love of Christ Kathy"

This tribute was added by Jerry Jones on 12th May 2013

"I'm sorry that I'm late in posting Kathy. I was out of the country. My thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family.
Our pain in losing a child will never end. And, as for me, I'm not sure that I want it too."

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 4th May 2013

"It's been 3 years.....I miss you more as each day passes, but I know that I will be reunited with you some day. I feel your spirit around me and your life lives on in your beautiful daughters. I thank God every day for giving me such a wonderful son. You were the best! I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by Jerry Jones on 23rd November 2012

"Birthdays are only once a year. The indescribable pain of losing a child is forever. With the Love of Christ"

This tribute was added by linda mckinnis on 22nd November 2012

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This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 22nd November 2012

"Happy Birthday my precious son. You are in my thoughts every day and today I will give thanks that God gave me such a wonderful son. You were the best!! I love you with all my heart....Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 17th June 2012

"Happy Father's Day Scotty. This is my third Father's Day without you. I miss you more with each passing day, but I know you and grandpa are watching over all of us with love. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by Jerry Jones on 6th May 2012

"I too have lost a son. For those who have never experienced this terrible tragedy may say that he’s in a better place and that after a mourning period should be let to rest. It may be true but that loss, pain, and memory will be in our hearts till the day we die. With the love of Christ."

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 4th May 2012

"Two years ago today my life as I knew it ended. You were the light of my life and I was so proud of you. As I live the rest of my life without you, I think about you every day. Your spirit lives on in your two beautiful daughters. I will see you again some day......I love you,
Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 25th December 2011

"Merry Christmas my precious son. This is my second Christmas without you and the pain has not lessened. I miss you more each passing day, but I know I will see you again. I know you and grandpa are together and watching over us. I loveyou, Mom"

This tribute was added by Jerry Jones on 22nd November 2011

"One of the most difficult things to deal with in life is the death of a loved one. However, the losing of ones child is an indescribable pain. This pain will never go away, but rather it’s multiplied by our lack of understanding.
2 Samuel 12:23 But now he is dead. Why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he will not return to me.”"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 22nd November 2011

"Happy Birthday to you, my precious son. 41 years ago today I gave birth to you and today I sit here alone trying to survive this life without you. I will miss you and love you forever. Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 20th September 2011

"My precious son, I miss you sooooo much. You are always on my mind. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 20th June 2011

"Happy Father's Day to you, my son. You were a GREAT dad! I miss you and love you so much. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 9th June 2011

"Life and death do not separate the great love we had for one another. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 14th May 2011

"I miss you more everyday. You are on my mind every moment and all I have now is your picture in a frame. Somehow, that just isn't enough..... I love you!!"

This tribute was added by Jerry Jones on 4th May 2011

"You’ll be with Scott again Kathy. Trust in our Lord, for only He can make it possible. God will bless you and give you the strength and comfort that “only” He can provide.
Matthew 5:4 - Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Jerry"

This tribute was added by Carolyn Jones on 3rd May 2011

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal,and Scott you have left us with unforgettable memories.
To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 1st May 2011

"Hi Scott. We had a beautiful memorial service for you today. It will be a year next week since you left us. So many people loved you and miss you. Your memory will live forever in our minds. Our memories of you are beautiful. As the song say, "gone t"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 24th April 2011

"Hi Scott, It's Easter and I missed you so very much. I had to hide the eggs by myself. I miss your laughter, your craziness, and your voice. I miss all of you!  I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by Dave/Sharon Shafer on 23rd April 2011

"Scott,we miss you more than words can ever say.You were always the life of our get togethers,always loving and fun.We so miss seeing you and talking with you, and those BIG BEAR HUGS.Our only comfort is to know you are out of your pain here on earth."

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 22nd April 2011

"Hi Scott. It will soon be a year since you've been gone. It has been a year filled with much grief and sadness. You were such a special person who touched so many lives. You are sadly missed by all who knew you. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by L Bellan on 16th April 2011

"Scott, I didn't have the pleasure of knowing you well, but I definitely liked you!  Your sense of humor and smile are what I instantly recall about you.  You have your mother's smile, which she has from her wonderful Dad, now you're with him!"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 14th April 2011

"You were filled with spirit and compassion. You were sensitive and thoughtful,loving and loyal. You always had a gleam in your eye and laughter in your voice. I love you, Mom"

This tribute was added by jamie statton on 9th April 2011

"I didn't know Scott as an adult but I sure did admire him as a kid.  he was older than I was and always went out of his way to make me laugh and keep me entertained while the "adults were talking."  I missed out knowing him as an adult, but bet he wa"

This tribute was added by Mandy Malone Timpe on 9th April 2011

"Uncle Scotty , we miss you and talk of you daily. You were such a big part of our lives!! Maci talks of you often. Wish you weren't taken so soon!!"

This tribute was added by Sue Hopper on 8th April 2011

"Scotty, you were a sunny little boy and always the apple of your mother's eye.  You grew up to be a wonderful man, husband and father.  You were loved by many and will never be forgotten.  You were just taken from us too soon.  God needed a new angel"

This tribute was added by KATHY LEWIS on 8th April 2011

"To my beloved son, Scott. You were the best son anyone could ever hope to have. You were my life, my vision, my future. I will never let your memory fade away. I love you with all my heart. I will see you again someday. I love you, Mom"


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