- 39 years old
- Date of birth: Nov 22, 1970
- Place of birth:
Maryland, United States
- Date of passing: May 4, 2010
- Place of passing:
Bethalto, Illinois, United States
|Let the memory of SCOTT be with us forever|
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, SCOTT SHAFER who was born on November 22, 1970 and passed away on May 4, 2010. We will remember him forever.
"Today marks your 6 year Angelversary. It doesn't seem possible....I miss you so much. Thank you for the "sign" today! I know that you are always with me in spirit. Until I see you again, I love you, my wonderful son. Love, Mom"
"Happy 45th Birthday in heaven my precious son!! I'm so glad that God chose me to be your mom. What I would give to see you one more time. But having faith in God gives me the assurance that I will see you again. Until that day, I will remember you always and love you with all my heart. I love you, Mom......"
I just lit a candle in your memory, not that anyone could ever forget you. I did not see you in the later years but from what I have seen, you did not change from the sweet little boy I knew. You would be so proud of your girls. They are both so smart and beautiful. It doesn't seem possible but it's already been five years since you made your journey from this world to the next. Say hello to your grandma and grandpa for me. Your mother struggles every day because you were her life. Anything you can do to make her feel better would be great. We miss you, Scott. Our world is not as bright as it was when you were here."
"Today marks the 5 year anniversary of your death. I never thought I would live to see this day, but we continue on this journey that we've been given. I think about you all the time. I know that you're safe in heaven with grandma and grandpa. I will see you all again one of these days. Until then, you are remembered and loved with all my heart. I love you, Mom"
"Happy 44th Heavenly Birthday, my precious son! What fun we always had on your birthdays.....you, and your crazy antics. You are deeply loved and sadly missed every minute of every day. I love you with all my heart......Mom"
"Four years ago today, God called you back home. I am thankful for the time I had with you, for the love you gave me. You are the joy of my life and I miss you so much. Your face, your laughter, your beautiful voice.....all these things are immortalized in my mind. Fly high, my angel, and I will see you again some day. I love you, Mom"
"As I have survived another one of your birthdays without you, I reflect upon happier days when you were here. Your laughter filled the room and you were the spirit of our family. You were a wonderful son, grandson, and father. I am so proud of the man you became and your contributions to this world. We will be reunited one day for eternity.....oh happy day!!! I love you, Mom"
"I hate to see a friend going through the pain of losing a child and not being able to do anything about it.
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.” From a headstone in Ireland
Love you with the love of Christ Kathy"
"I'm sorry that I'm late in posting Kathy. I was out of the country. My thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family.
Our pain in losing a child will never end. And, as for me, I'm not sure that I want it too."
"It's been 3 years.....I miss you more as each day passes, but I know that I will be reunited with you some day. I feel your spirit around me and your life lives on in your beautiful daughters. I thank God every day for giving me such a wonderful son. You were the best! I love you, Mom"
"Birthdays are only once a year. The indescribable pain of losing a child is forever. With the Love of Christ"
"Happy Birthday my precious son. You are in my thoughts every day and today I will give thanks that God gave me such a wonderful son. You were the best!! I love you with all my heart....Mom"
"Happy Father's Day Scotty. This is my third Father's Day without you. I miss you more with each passing day, but I know you and grandpa are watching over all of us with love. I love you, Mom"
"I too have lost a son. For those who have never experienced this terrible tragedy may say that he’s in a better place and that after a mourning period should be let to rest. It may be true but that loss, pain, and memory will be in our hearts till the day we die. With the love of Christ."
"Two years ago today my life as I knew it ended. You were the light of my life and I was so proud of you. As I live the rest of my life without you, I think about you every day. Your spirit lives on in your two beautiful daughters. I will see you again some day......I love you,
"Merry Christmas my precious son. This is my second Christmas without you and the pain has not lessened. I miss you more each passing day, but I know I will see you again. I know you and grandpa are together and watching over us. I loveyou, Mom"
"One of the most difficult things to deal with in life is the death of a loved one. However, the losing of ones child is an indescribable pain. This pain will never go away, but rather it’s multiplied by our lack of understanding.
2 Samuel 12:23 But now he is dead. Why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he will not return to me.”"
"Happy Birthday to you, my precious son. 41 years ago today I gave birth to you and today I sit here alone trying to survive this life without you. I will miss you and love you forever. Mom"
"My precious son, I miss you sooooo much. You are always on my mind. I love you, Mom"
"Happy Father's Day to you, my son. You were a GREAT dad! I miss you and love you so much. I love you, Mom"
"Life and death do not separate the great love we had for one another. I love you, Mom"
"I miss you more everyday. You are on my mind every moment and all I have now is your picture in a frame. Somehow, that just isn't enough..... I love you!!"
"You’ll be with Scott again Kathy. Trust in our Lord, for only He can make it possible. God will bless you and give you the strength and comfort that “only” He can provide.
Matthew 5:4 - Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Jerry"
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal,and Scott you have left us with unforgettable memories.
To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even"
"Hi Scott. We had a beautiful memorial service for you today. It will be a year next week since you left us. So many people loved you and miss you. Your memory will live forever in our minds. Our memories of you are beautiful. As the song say, "gone t"
"Hi Scott, It's Easter and I missed you so very much. I had to hide the eggs by myself. I miss your laughter, your craziness, and your voice. I miss all of you! I love you, Mom"
"Scott,we miss you more than words can ever say.You were always the life of our get togethers,always loving and fun.We so miss seeing you and talking with you, and those BIG BEAR HUGS.Our only comfort is to know you are out of your pain here on earth."
"Hi Scott. It will soon be a year since you've been gone. It has been a year filled with much grief and sadness. You were such a special person who touched so many lives. You are sadly missed by all who knew you. I love you, Mom"
"Scott, I didn't have the pleasure of knowing you well, but I definitely liked you! Your sense of humor and smile are what I instantly recall about you. You have your mother's smile, which she has from her wonderful Dad, now you're with him!"
"You were filled with spirit and compassion. You were sensitive and thoughtful,loving and loyal. You always had a gleam in your eye and laughter in your voice. I love you, Mom"
"I didn't know Scott as an adult but I sure did admire him as a kid. he was older than I was and always went out of his way to make me laugh and keep me entertained while the "adults were talking." I missed out knowing him as an adult, but bet he wa"
"Uncle Scotty , we miss you and talk of you daily. You were such a big part of our lives!! Maci talks of you often. Wish you weren't taken so soon!!"
"Scotty, you were a sunny little boy and always the apple of your mother's eye. You grew up to be a wonderful man, husband and father. You were loved by many and will never be forgotten. You were just taken from us too soon. God needed a new angel"
"To my beloved son, Scott. You were the best son anyone could ever hope to have. You were my life, my vision, my future. I will never let your memory fade away. I love you with all my heart. I will see you again someday. I love you, Mom"
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