My beautiful GF.

I know you are not around to celebrate this beautiful day with me , but your beautiful, gorgeous, sweet, spirit lives on forever in my hearts.

Do enjoy your day with the Angels.

Happy birthday my darling.

Love you always.

I miss you very much.

Roli.

My friend, I sometime just say your name in amazement that you are actually no longer here, still seems so unreal, you were so full of energy, so full of life, always thinking big thoughts, dreaming big dreams, taking risks, and forever on the move, taking the bitter with the sweet and never letting anything bug you down, living your truth and walking your walk with God, your bible always at your side, very resourceful and entertaining, the perfect hostess. We miss you no be small.
Rest easy my friend.

Seiyefa it is a year since you left to be with our Lord. Indeed your silence has shown that you have left us. All through the year I did not get a call from you to tell me that I am an "Egbon" I never missed 30th March to say "your Egbon" was wishing you a happy birthday. We miss you.

Martha, may Seiyifa's soul continue to rest in perfect peace.. God is your refuge and strength.. Hold on to the memories they are valuable.. I pray that God shall bless and give your aged mum, siblings and Seiyifa's daughters long life and prosperity

Seiyefa Oma-Wilkie my darling sister it's exactly a year today but the pain of losing you is still as raw as it was the day I received the dreaded phone call. I miss you so much. Sleep well sis. I love you

My mum went to heaven a year ago today. Seems like forever since she passed. There are times the wound still feels fresh. No matter what I do to move on from this pain deep down I know I'll never get to hug her again. She gave her all so we would have ours. Her love can never be replaced.
Mum, your beautiful memories and sacrifices are my solace. Death can't take that away from me. You live on in my heart. We love and miss you mama. Keep flying my guardian angel. ❤️

It's exactly a year since you left mama. I still close my eyes and pinch myself to wake up from this nightmare but I guess this is the curveball life has chosen to throw at me. Sometimes I wonder how I've survived this long without you, seeing as you are my everything. But then I remember that one of the numerous things you stood for was strength and so I have to be strong. Sometimes I fail woefully but I get back up because it is what you'd expect. I love you and appreciate your support and sacrifices over the years. You were too selfless mum and I strive to become who you were and if I ever get there, I know that I have fulfilled my purpose. I love you more than words can say. Your baby girls are alright and I know that you're happy seeing how we constantly look out for each other. I know we'll be alright because you're our mum, our superwoman, our guardian angel and your values were the greatest inheritance you could ever leave to us. Today, I choose to celebrate the life you lived because I can very well say that you lived a purpose filled life and you made heaven. I'm a 101% sure of that and so I thank the Lord for a life well lived. I miss you so much and I'll love you till the day I take my last breath. My heart will always beat for you and I know for a fact that Sisi and I will make you proud. Rest in peace mama ❤️

Happy Posthumous Birthday Aunty. Rest On.

Sei it's your birthday and regardless of where you are I will forever celebrate you. God bless this day. It was the day you brought joy to our lives. Although, a small girl then I still remember how happy our father was when they brought you home. From the moment you were old enough you took on the role of a mother. I smile when I think of how you used to baby me, forgetting it should be the other way round. Even in your condition you were still worried about others. You were so selfless. I miss you so much. I'm trying my best with the girls but it can never be like you. The girls are fine and coping as best as they could. We are in touch everyday. They call me to ask for permission to do things. The girls are a blessing to you. It's just painful to think you're not here to enjoy all your hard work with the girls. Sleep well my darling sister. I miss you and our chats.

Sei, It would have been your birthday today but you have gone to be with our Lord. Your girls made you proud when their results finally came and we know you would have been ecstatic if you had been here. Your tenacity on their education was not wasted. They miss you. We all do. Continue to rest in peace.

Sei, It would have been your birthday today but you have gone to be with our Lord. Your girls made you proud when their results finally came and we know you would have been ecstatic if you had been here. Your tenacity on their education was not wasted. They miss you. We all do. Continue to rest in peace.

Sei, It would have been your birthday today but you have gone to be with our Lord. Your girls made you proud when their results finally came and we know you would have been ecstatic if you had been here. Your tenacity on their education was not wasted. They miss you. We all do. Continue to rest in peace.

Dear Seiyefa, I am yet to believe you're gone away from us. I am still in a state of mind, where I believe you are here on earth. Happy Birthday and I will always love you. Your lovely younger sister, Tonipre.

Dear Aunty Seiyefa, I miss you so much and I really can't believe that I would never see your beautiful smile again, you were truly an angel and you would forever be missed by me and you would always be in my heart. I love you so much and Happy Birthday. Mudia Isokpan.

Sei , l can safely predict how today would have been if you were around. It would have been a time of immense thanksgiving to our Lord for His mercies and it still is because l know you are part of the assembly of the saints singing HOLY,HOLY IS THE LAMB. God's got your back girl. Your children are well. Rest in peace.

Seiyefa. Rest on dear. May God grant you continuous eternal rest. May his perpetual light continue to shine upon you. Amen.

I love you and I miss you so much. Happy birthday s-baby. You're the light of my heart and best mother anyone could ever ask for. Your values and everything you stood for will always be with me. Rest well my darling

Mum.. Happy birthday in heaven. God bless you my guardian angel.

Girl-friend... Our God must have a good reason to have called you home to stayed with him. I know in our my father's house are many mansions and am sure you are in one of the best resting. I miss you, everythings about... our laughs, our gists, our plan for our kids, our fights and lots more my dear. Thinking of you always Oremi. Still love you just like I did from the start....

Mummy, I miss you. Just know that I haven't forgotten you, never will. I think about you everyday. The day you left, a huge part of my heart and world went with you. There's a lot going on but I don't have anyone to talk to about all that's happening in my head. No one will ever understand and know me the way you do. You were and will always be my rock and best friend. I love you forever and always.

It is not until someone dear to you leaves this earth that you realise that space which they occupied meant a lot to you. Your space on earth is empty but your spirit is still with us. You reside in our hearts; it's in the things you said, the way you said them, the things you did, how you did them, your smile, your laughter, your joy, your excitement, your infectious being. You were beautiful inside and out. You will forever remain in our hearts. My dear friend, till we meet again 'cos friends never say goodbye... 20/10/15

Sei, people are telling me it will get easier with time. I’m finding that really hard to believe. You’re in my thoughts all the time. I wish you were still here. I still play back our last few weeks together. I never knew it would end the way it ended. I miss you so much it hurts. I will forever LOVE you!

I still miss you everyday baby girl. Sometimes I see your pictures and start talking to them like I would to you. I'm still hoping and praying that this is some sort of nightmare and I would wake up from it. I miss your smile, your laugh, your kisses, how you pinch me when you're laughing, how you come to our room to peep, how you sit in front of the tv squinting even when you have your glasses beside you. I miss everything about you.... Every single step of the way. I love you forever and a day.

I miss you so much mummy... We're stronger now but it's not the same without you here with us. I love you mama. Watch over us from heaven, we love you.

Babes , l still cant come to terms with your departure but to question the will of God is to loose peace. I console myself with the fact that you are resting in the bosom of our father till we meet again. Adieu my friend.

Seiyefa !
It so sad to see you are gone .
I remember our days together in RCCG Jubilee Christian Centre.
Very friendly, very humble and always willing to help.
May The Lord grant you eternal rest and comfort the family you left behind. Amen.
Sleep on beloved.

"Blacky", that was the name Telema and you fondly called each other. She called to say you had passed and the shock was way too much. What can we say or do than to thank God in all things. He gave you to us and you made such an impact and touched so many lives in these your 47 years you sojourned on this earth. Its time for Him to have you. You are indeed exceptional. We thank God that our paths crossed and that we have memories to hold onto.
Seiyefa, you live on in our hearts. You left just before your harvest and that's what makes it so painful. God knows best
God grant you eternal rest. Sleep on Blacky.
                                           Telema and Gogo.

Sei,Sei, Sis as we fondly call ourselves. It's been a journey from our childhood days to our University days, then our foray into motherhood with each of us marrying and then having children and then to watching them grow,  attain adulthood, and then alas!!! When we should all be waiting to enjoy the fruits of our labour our father thought it best to call you home. 

Who are we to question our maker the giver and taker of life. 

Sei you were an epitome of a virtuous woman. ‎Selfless, hard working, always ready with your toothy, gappy smile taking on all challenges like the child of God that you are. 

You brought up your girls in an enviable Christian way and we are all proud of your accomplishments to the Glory of God. ‎
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Memories of you flood my heart at this point and I thank you so much ‎for allowing me kiss you on the forehead hug and pray for you when we visited you in the hospital. You were so full of life and we jisted like old times throughout that visit and even looked forward to your Thanksgiving.
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  Thank you for the optimism you ‎showed throughout your treatment period, you were still very prayerful, bubbly, all smiles, courageous, still selfless (offering your biscuits and still caring about others) Hmmm how I'm going to miss that gappy  smile of yours. Hmmmm Unquestionable  God, what can we say???..... we can only give God all the praise and thanks for enabling us all share a part of your life with you. 

Adieu darling Sei......Sleep on beloved until we meet again on the resurrection morning. Love you!!!!! ‎

Ose Ben-Willie‎

My beautiful, sexy and lovely Seiyefa, This is heartbreaking, words cannot express how I feel right now, I miss your beautiful face, I miss your smile, gone so soon but God knows best, rest in peace my dear, we'll never forget you.

Seiyefa, M.D has I call you it so sad that you are no more in this world. I miss you, your smile, phone calls, messages visits, I will cherish the moments. May God look after your daughters and family. May your soul rest in peace.Good night my friend.

Dear Aunty Seiyefa, you were one of a kind. I never knew you to the extent that I wanted to, or saw you anywhere near enough. I took your presence for granted and convinced myself after so many prayers that you were recovering and that I would see you again. You always had a special place in my heart, right from when you used to take me home from school and play with me as a toddler. From a tender age I saw you as my second mother and wanted to be around you as much as possible. Your motherly nature, your kindness and your sense of humour drew me close to you. Now I understand that in addition to these things your warm heart, your energy, your strength, your resilience, your selflessness and the way you served God relentlessly caused so many people to cherish you. Your passing has been devastating but we find comfort in the fact that you are resting in the bosom of the Lord. God needed you, and His Will prevails. Your beautiful, magnetic soul will always be remembered and will be sorely missed! Rest in perfect peace.

Sei, that was how i loved to address you because you were a cherished friend and sister from another mother and a strong one indeed. You had always been an encourager! I had to brace up to write this tribute as I found it so difficult to write about you in the past tense. Having known you and cherished our relationship of over 35years, of our small beginnings to where God had led us to before your demise. We had indeed come a long way, thank God for the paths we had trod together, the joys we had shared together and the challenges we had conquered. You were a confidant and trustworthy one at that, you were always full of life despite the storms of life,

I will forever cherish the last moments we shared together, was it at your bedside in London, the spirit being one that I searched for you by all means same day you were admitted in the hospital? Memories of evergreen times we had at OLASS and things we did and had in common, you were forever acknowledging our relationship. Times we had together at your bedside in LASUTH with your sweet sister Martha? I had no inkling that my visit with Wunmi and Banke on the night of the 17th of October, 2015 would be the last time i will see you. 

I thank God for the last visit, that Ii was eagerly nudged by the Holy spirit to leave all I was doing to go and see you. Those memories will keep me going till we meet at the feet of Jesus. I know without any doubt that you are resting peacefully in the bosom of our Lord Jesus free from all pains. Yours was a short BUT very impactful and purposeful life. Adieu my sweet sister and friend till we meet to part no more.

Funeral Service for our Mother, Wife, Sister and Friend Seiyefa Oma-Wilkie.


1) SERVICE OF SONGS on Wednesday, November 4th, 2015 @ 5pm, RCCG-Jubilee Christian Centre. 15 Williams St., Off Adenuga St., Off Olatunde Onimole St., Bakery Bus-Stop. Aguda, Surulere.

2) FUNERAL SERVICE on Thursday November 5th 2015 @ 10am.
Venue: Vaults & Gardens Lekki By Mayfair Gardens, Lekki, Lagos.

INTERMENT Follows Immediately at the Cemetery.

My God! I'm really trying to be strong for my mum, nieces and sisters but it's so hard. I miss my sister. I miss her so much, I miss our chats, I miss her calling me 'aunty Ma' when in a mischievous mood. She was my best friend. I'm grateful to God that I was able to spend quality time with her in the last four weeks of her life. I will forever cherish those moments. I remember the text message she sent to me referring to me as her hero. I smiled to myself and whispered '..and you're my rock'. She probably didn't know she was my rock. I relied on her for so many things, right from when she was little girl. We had a special bond. I love you so much my sister, my best friend. Sleep well my darling and may your soul rest in perfect peace. ❤️

Seiyefa, I am so sorry about your passing. Words cannot describe the shock and discomfort and pain of hearing such a bad news from my sister and friend, Augusta. You are Augusta's little sister, that is how you remain in my minds memory, It was long long ago when we were in FSAS, when I would come to your house to see Augusta. You were a kid, how could you be gone now? I am so sorry for everyone especially Mama. I am so sorry, my little sister, May God Almighty accept your soul and grant the rest of your prayers, Amen. I thank God for your children ,the fruits you sowed.

Dearest aunty Seiyefa, I still can't believe you're gone so soon. Beautiful, strong, hardworking and caring; you were indeed a priceless jewel, one that was greatly loved. I will never forget how you always sent me caring messages with your skilled use of emoticons (coolest aunty ever) to encourage me, you will forever be loved and missed.
We will remember you, we'll remember you in our hearts, our thoughts, our memories of the times we shared, the joy, the laughter, the smiles, the times we cried and the times we fought.
We will always remember you, not as you are now but as you used to be.
Rest in perfect peace ❤

You were like a fresh cool breeze on a hot day, refreshing and leaving your imprint on everyone you touched.

I never thought that as we spoke that Thursday evening before you left that it would be the last time we would talk together.

You were a wonderful woman, a wonderful mother, a wonderful sister, a wonderful wife, a wonderful daughter and a wonderful friend.

Rest in peace My Little Princess.

Rest easy mummy. God bless you.

I know we only met a couple months ago but it feel longer, we all miss you... You'd be so proud of your daughters, they're so strong, everyone's in pain knowing that you're gone, but I know you watching over us. You'd forever be in our hearts and never be forgotten

My darling aunty, you taught me so much and I will never forget you. I love you so very much and I am still finding it hard to believe that you are no longer with us butI pray that you will rest in perfect peace. Heaven couldn't wait for you.

Nothing can compare with a heart so cheerful and gay,
May the heavens be open to your soul as you reach the break of day.

To whom my heart goes out,
I sing this song,
That the silver lining of this cloud,
Shall soon come,
Some may question,
The actions of The Father,
But unto His bosom,
Shall we all gather.

Consolation lies in a life of happiness and joy,
The life that is eternal can never be destroyed,
Paradise awaits, behold the clarion call,
In Christ shall you be forever immortal.

Rest in peace Aunty Seifa.

Rest sweetie❤️

The plan of the Lord is different from the plan of men. Rest in Peace Ma.

I am at a loss for words. I know there is nothing for me to say that will make your loss easier but know that I am sending you my love and support. I hope you can understand what I can't put into words. Seiyefa, was a kind-hearted, generous person. Prayerful and a loving sister and mother, as a recipient of her kindness and generosity, I will miss her greatly.

Mary Debo, Seiyefa Oma- Wilkey...0ver 30 years that's how far we've come. Confident, Practical, Sincere, Loyal, Peaceful, Hardworking, Determined, Go Getter, Generous, Friend in a million, Sister to the core, Prayer Worrior, Woman of God.
Everything you started you strived to finish no matter the obstacle, you were highly Disciplined, You knew God and served Him well. Sei you are that friend who even if we did not see or speak for years, whenever we did, we'd just pick up like we never missed a beat..You spoke your mind and never cared to bear a grudge, always forgiving, always ready to take correction, always ready to bend over for your family and your friends and even sometimes for strangers.
You were a big dreamer, a Woman with a purpose, A woman of Substance, A phenomenal woman, an awesome Mother, a principled employee, an awesome business woman, a great student, Sei I could go on and on.
I would have asked God why he took you from us so soon, (since you would be spending eternity with Him anyway) But I know in my heart of hearts that he took you because you are worth more to Him, I know for a fact that we could not appreciate you like He does, and that he'd had enough of seeing you go through all that you were going through on this earth "under appreciated", and hastened your return "HOME"
Your passing was a shock Sei, my heart is aching so bad... But I thank God for the honor of knowing you my friend, you have raised 2 wonderful young ladies, we will try to continue where you left off knowing of cos that your shoes can never be filled, knowing you and your power of impartation and old woman sense, those two young women may even be wiser than some of us lol!
Sei, You have made sure that their story shall be different from yours in every GOOD WAY...
Rest blissfully in His presence my friend, my sister my confidant, you have earned your wings, SHOW THEM OFF!

Beautiful Seiyefa, your smile, your laughter will forever be in our hearts. I'm grateful for the recent reunion we had together.

Beautiful Seiyefa, you left us too soon. 

Beautiful inside and out. Caring & Kind....Seiyefa, may you rest in peace.

May your beautiful Family find comfort in the sweet memories of you.

We love you.

Seiyefa!!! My ever joyful, ever radiant sister......Continue to flourish in the bosom of our Lord sweetheart...... I miss you, you will live on forever in my heart!!! Sleep well dear friend and sister, till we meet again

Rest in peace Sei. The little time I met you was a memorable one. You are in a better place. God knows better and the children you left behind, God will see them through. Rest in the Lord.

Feels like things will never be the same. I will see you again sometime but for now I'll hold on to the sweet memories of you. I miss you.

Sei yours was a life cut short, yet iit was full. You blessed us with your conviction, your elegance, grace and confidence. You never tolerated unfairness and fought for what you believed...I sincerely took it for granted when I heard you were ill; I totally forgot that it could end up this way. I feel bad that I didn't reach out. Your memory will always stay with me because you stood up for me when I hesitated...
I pray for strength for your Alero & Sesami, I pray for peace & healing for mama and your siblings. Your passing hurts, but His Will has been done. Soar Seiyefa like an eagle and rest in peace.