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For Selma

May 5, 2012

In a world driving itself crazy with Big and little wars,
with Institutional Injustice and environmental destruction,
Along Comes Selma Rubin --
an unpretentious, generous, Can-Do Spirit
who was invariably positive.

Selma looked for ways to promote peace and justice,
to foster gender equality and essential Common Sense
wherever and whenever she could.
You Could Always Count On Selma!

Our community was very fortunate that she chose to live here
and care for all of us.
Selma was a good and true friend and is one of my heroes.
I am better for having known Selma Rubin. 

May 4, 2012

"If Selma Says It's Right, It Must be Right" - the tag line of the poster we made in the early 1980s, when Santa Barbara voters passed the only pro-development referendum since the day Selma arrived. After years of fighting, Fess Parker, the Community Environmental Council, and the City Council had reached an agreement on what is today the Doubletree Hotel on East Beach. While environmentalists (including myself) were not especially excited about the hotel, we agreed it was the best deal that could be made - a low-profile hotel (to avoid blocking mountain views) with substantial provision of public space, viewed as better then the alternative, since the area was zoned for hotel-motel development. Not all environmentalists agreed, however, and enough signatures were gathered for a referendum.  I don't think Davy Crockett or Daniel Boone would have carried the day, but Selma's word was enough to guarantee voter approval for building the hotel.

Selma's word was always anough. When we lost our house in the Tea Fire, Selma called and offered to give us some of her books. We promptly forgot about the offer, but Selma persisted, reminding us every time our paths crossed. Eventually we gave in and stopped by, and Selma again insisted: "I don't want them sold to just anyone for a dollar and a half each. Take them all," she commanded. Selma, it turned out, had a treaure trove of books - an entire progressive/left/socialist library, bound volumes of classics, collectors items, and - amazingly - a 45rpm record and instruction book, "Chairman Mao's 4 Minute Physical Fitness Plan." Selma chanelling Mao for physical fitness? We carted off a carload of books, while Selma celebrated her success in at least partially depleting her collection (books lined her shelves 2 and 3 deep).

Karen and I visited Selma in the hospital a few weeks before she died, when she was in for treatment of lung cancer. She railed against the cost of the chemo she was required to undergo, explaining how she had categorically refused to pay for medication that cost thousands of dollars a week. Selma dug her heels in, and eventually the hospital agreed to slash its cost - most likely out of fear for the consequences if they refused. Selma also told us how she planned to be cremated, but had rejected the $55 for the higher-priced urn; a plastic one, at $25 or so, would do just fine.

Selma was forever young in her intellect, her spirit, even her voice. She never wavered in her relentless optimism, carrying the world with her by sheer force of will. She was the thread that knitted together the many strands of Santa Barbara's progressive community, as we saw tonight at the lovely and moving memorial service. Like Joe Hill, she is not dead - not in our spirit, not in our actions.

 

 

 

Selma -- always the first to help

April 14, 2012
Selma Rubin was the first in many ways. In 1970 when I arrived in Santa Barbara, Selma and Ana Laura Myers were already folk heroes for their efforts to save El Capitan and the Gaviota Coast. Selma and her husband Bill were the first volunteers at the Gary Hart for Assembly headquarters on Milpas Street in 1972. Selma helped me open the first campaign headquarters for Stan Roden for District Attorney in 1974. Selma was tireless in her successful efforts to drive a corrupt D.A. out of Santa Barbara County and elect Stan Roden D.A. and send Gary Hart to Sacramento. Selma liked to quote Winston Churchill: "You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life." Selma stood up for the poor, the environment and honest government her whole life. She loved Santa Barbara and Santa Barbara loved her.

Selma & Lois

April 14, 2012

Rep. Lois Capps, D-Santa Barbara, issued a statement about Rubin’s passing, saying Santa Barbara had lost one of its true heroes.

“Selma was a shining example of a woman with the enthusiasm and passion to excel and the vision to turn her dreams into reality,” Capps said. “Her tireless efforts have made our community a better place to live, work and raise a family.”

She said Rubin’s lifetime of service, fighting offshore drilling, preserving the Gaviota coast and encouraging women to become involved in government, will live on for generations.

“I will deeply miss her friendship, her wisdom and her enthusiasm for life,” Capps said.

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