September can't start without thinking about you!
You "Shirley" are missed!
Until we meet again, Kellie Ann
Miss Shirley Adele's Philosophy About Life
“Life should NOT be a journey to the grave
with the intention of arriving safely
in an attractive and well preserved body
but rather to skid in sideways,
Absolut in one hand--Sanders chocolates in the other,
body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming,
WOO HOO, What a Ride!”
The back story: Shirley loved this quote,
first saw a version of it on "The Floridian" restaurant
menu in Fort Lauderdale and asked that it be adapted
and used in her memorial service.
Michael R Meyer
12192 North Lakeshore Drive
LaSalle, Michigan 48145
February 10th, 2014
Dear Chairman Bill and trustees of Monroe County Community College, directors of The Foundation at MCCC, President Kojo, Vice Presidents Grace, Randy and Sue, administrators, faculty and staff of MCCC:
On behalf of myself and the entire extended family of my mother, Shirley Adele Meyer, please accept our deepest gratitude for the many, beautiful and touching expressions of support and sympathy.
The exquisite eulogy by Vice President Sue Wetzel, the wonderful resolution of tribute adopted and presented by the Board of Trustees and the lovely blog post by President Quartey were profoundly meaningful. Each superbly captured my mother’s spirit, dynamic presence in our personal and community life, and her very proud relationship with MCCC.
The video tribute at the Jeff Daniels performance ---what can I possibly say?---it was simply breathtaking! Special thanks to the exceptional team of talented folks who are responsible---Josh Myers, Sue Wetzel, Joe Verkennes, Tom Ryder, Casey Waterworth, and narrator Paul W. Smith. And thank you to the entire audience for the enthusiastic standing ovation. I am quite confident that my mother heard it!
The thoughtful comments by family, friends and members of the community affirm that my mother’s hopes have truly been realized. First, MCCC has clearly become the cultural arts center of the community of Monroe. Second, MCCC is front and center as the premier philanthropic choice for anyone wishing to expand and enrich educational opportunities and improve the quality of life in this special community we all love so dearly.
In the video clip my mother reminisced about the opening of the La-Z-Boy Center and Meyer Theater in October 2004. She said that when saw all the smiling faces she got chills up and down her spine and that it was one of the happiest days of her life. Thank you for generously sharing that happiness with my mother and my family over and over during the last ten years. You filled her life with joy, laughter, love and meaning, and she felt those “chills of excitement” over and over. My mother was confident that those “chills of excitement” would prove highly contagious and inspire many others to support the mission of MCCC…and so it has!
With deep and enduring gratitude,
Mike
Michael Richard Meyer
Chair, The Foundation at Monroe County Community College
MCCC Trustee (1994-2012)
I'll always cherish the memory of sipping champagne and discussing interior design with Shirley on the stern of Liquidity on Easter Sunday four years ago. Our shared enthusiasm for design made our friendship an instant success. She had a remarkable eye for design, but I'll remember her most for her grace and her immeasurable joy. Austrian poet and novelist, Rainer, Maria Rilke, once said, "There is really no more beautiful way of puting one's own life force to the test than by recognizing and seizing joy itself, without exaggeration but purely with the strength of joy, and to grasp with its proper measure the perfection and loveliness of a few days without even the least sense of a 'too much'."
Thank you for sharing your gift of joy with me.