Shu "Eric" Ho (何恕)
  • 51 years old
  • Date of birth: Apr 27, 1963
  • Place of birth:
    Taipei, Taiwan
  • Date of passing: May 5, 2014
  • Place of passing:
    Holmdel, New Jersey, United States
一代名票,骤失英才; 德艺双馨,百世留芳 Let the memory of Shu be with us forever !

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Shu Eric Ho (何恕), 51, born on April 27, 1963 and passed away on May 5, 2014. We will remember him forever.

Shu "Eric" Ho, 51, of Holmdel, New Jersey, passed away suddenly surrounded by his loving family on Monday, May 5, 2014 at Bayshore Community Hospital in Holmdel, New Jersey.

Eric was born on April 27, 1963 in Taipei, Taiwan, where he grew up. In 1984, Eric moved from Taiwan, to Queens, New York. Soon after, he settled in New Jersey. While living in New Jersey, Eric received a Bachelor's Degree from Kean University. For the majority of his career, Eric worked for Evergreen Marine Corporation and was currently working as a Real Estate Broker for Re/Max Real Estate Company in Matawan, New Jersey. He was predeceased by his father, Yao Xian Ho. Eric is survived by his loving mother, Mary (Ma) Hsu and his step father, Harry A.K. Hsu, his beloved and devoted wife, Yong Hong Jia, his cherished daughters, Katherine and Tiffany Ho and his dear brothers, Mark Ho, Herman Hsu and Johnson Ho. He will be sadly missed, but never forgotten.

Family and friends are invited to visit on Thursday, May 8, 2014 from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM at the Shore Point Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 3269 State Route 35 North, Hazlet, New Jersey 07730. A religious ceremony will be offered at the funeral home from approximately 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM, with visitation beginning at the end of the ceremony. In respect of Eric's wishes, he will be privately cremated.

(1)  Obituary website
To visit the obituary webiste provided by the funeral home and see more condolences, please visit: http://obituaries.expressionstributes.com/?mobile=6c42329543


(2) Fund Raising website (捐款基金会)
In the honor of the memory of Eric, a group of freinds have established a fund to raise money to help his family during this most difficult time. We appreciate your supports and generous donation:
http://www.youcaring.com/memorial-fundraiser/in-memory-of-eric/17488
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Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 5th May 2015

"Forever Missed and remembered........we will have a show upcoming,  dedicate to you Eric.

Zhao Xin"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 11th August 2014

"[From Eric's Family]

2014/8/12 (100 days after Eric's passing on 2014/5/5)

       Thank you so much for supporting us and caring so much about us after our sudden loss. All the support we earn gives us the strength to know that we have our friends and family that are behind us whenever we fall. There really is no way to return all the love that you have shared with us. How to repay all those who have helped us, is a mystery- because there is nothing so great that can make up what you all have given us. From the visits, the gifts, the considerate calls, to just a simple hug or smile really warmed our hearts. Many have shared words with us to help us stay strong, the words that are kept inside our hearts that keeps us moving forward. We will walk through the great plain of life, head held high, with all those who helped us holding up the sky and clearing the way through the forest of difficulties for us. All the help and love we received has cleared out most of the dark clouds in the sky and allowed us to see the golden sun. Thank you for showing that there is so much more in life, that we weren’t stuck at a dead end. All of you kept us moving forward and we want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts. Friends that stood by our side and held us until we smiled, who gave us words that melted the frozen ice inside of our hearts. Thank you all so much. To those who helped: we aren’t just close friends, we are family. We never knew how strong we were until the only choice we had was to be strong.

They say life is from B to D: From BIRTH to DEATH. But what’s between B and D? It’s a “C”, so what’s a C? It’s a choice.

                                                                Sincerely,

                                                                        Yong Hong Jia Ho

                                                                        Katherine Ho

                                                                        Tiffany Ho"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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贾永红:[Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob]我一生一世深深珍愛着的恕!大家伴我一起愿你一路開心的走好啊!在這里替我的恕感謝大家了"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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柯嘉惠(Sissi): 從下午兩點左右聽到消息,真如失去自己孩子一樣痛心,晚上去看了賈老師,哭斷干腸,人生太無常了!
昨日才聽見你優美的戲音,今日卻見到你微笑的遺容,本以為六月份,可在紐約的舞台上再度欣賞到你迷人的風彩,卻萬萬沒想到上帝那兒也需要一位可愛的天使!    你那溫純善良的心,雍容嫵媚的扮相,醇淨繞樑的餘音,將永遠埋藏我們心底深處!     何恕:好好的休息去吧! 不再有人間俗事的煩惱,安享你在極樂世界的天籟之聲! Peter Sissi 愛你! 疼你!

京劇世界,痛失英才,
巨星殞落,梅童損樑。

柯嘉惠(Sissi): 這兩天京劇社@Tina Zhang (张彤) @灼如 @Wei Li 等,一直在討論送花圈,寫輓聯的事,大家都辛苦了!   紐約及洛杉磯的琴師,票友們也來信請我代為轉逹哀思和捐助! 希望時間能冲淡我們的悲傷! 但永遠不會忘記何老師在我們心中的位置!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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卢德先Peter: 各位票友們:真是震撼天地令人難以置信的大信息,吿訴吳似雯她在電話中立刻痛哭失聲說不出話耒。曹老師和小黃老師也是立刻痛哭得難以一置信,我也是告訴人家一次就哭一次,中飯也吃不下了![Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob]
@Sissi 請在我的電腦桌子抽屉內找到我的支票本開一張支票給賈永紅老師作為我們家給何恕的奠儀金額為x元正----何恕千秋萬古。嗚呼哀哉尚饗![Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob][Sob]

吳世雯已經給我三百美元請@Sissi 転交給賈永紅並代表致哀何恕好走---小賈老師多節哀保重身體為要---[Sob][Sob][Sob]"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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张朕绮:何先生一路好走……贾老师贾老师节哀顺变!!!
似乎今天早上还和何先生聊天呢!简直是不敢相信这是真的。太突然了。安息吧,何先生!!!
冬林说的好一定要坚强。还有孩子需要永红来抚养。化悲痛为力量。"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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陈冬冬 (费城京剧社票友,前社长):“我们所爱的人只是离开我们去了神那里,而神离我们很近很近。” 再见,亲爱的何恕![Rose][Rose][Rose][Rose][Rose][Rose][Rose][Rose][Rose]

陈冬冬:宾大约我周四下午和病理主任一起审核他在中国做报告的中文ppt等,我周四去不了追悼会,心哭......病理主任太忙,没有别的时间...我对宾大这次中国行负全部责任,无法脱身。我哭......不能再见一眼何恕......
今天有位从北京来的病人,安置好他们,刚回到家里,明早6点要动身去宾大,协助他们的体检,下午和病理主任review 他中国行的细节,还有很多事去北京前要完成.....我的工作无人能替代,我连哭都不敢,怕乱了心,误了职业的责任.....

这两晚失眠了,心中一次次的追思和何恕,小贾,还有你们大家并不长久的认识,感叹太多了。人生如戏,戏如人生。生命太脆弱,也太宝贵了。何恕是我心中的榜样,他的离去,在我的心中留下了永远的痛......

明天我不能亲去看他最后一眼,送他最后一程,是太大的遗憾,太无奈......我会用心和你们一起最后守护在他身边,心中不停的泪水诉说我的哀思.....我会安排这个周日去看望一下小贾。我周二一早动身去中国。呜呼哀哉! 请明日待我问候小贾,切切!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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灼如

梵音远播,极乐净土添宝玉
菊坛同唁,凡尘知音送明原

骤去为何,戏痴本当恋红尘
常来入梦,时时同台寄相思

忠恕爱人,君子风骨,善缘广结遍九州
敏达敦厚,赤子之心,悄然骤去疼煞人

                               新泽西京剧社敬挽

灼如:贾老师请我代谢大家。她最近非常忙,有很多事情要处理,一直没有时间写感谢卡片给大家。谢谢大家对她的关心和帮助。她會好好照顧自己和孩子"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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林胜天: 悲痛万分!真是不能接受!还在想多听何老师的教诲和指教。何老师安息!贾老师和家人节哀!
尊敬的京剧名家,长辈,爱好者兄弟姐妹们,可否请教一下下列挽联:

何日再闻春秋配
恕心永念铁弓缘
何恕先生:有歌伴你,一路走好!
华夏爱迪生中文学校敬挽

附:春秋配,铁弓缘均为何恕兄弟代表作 。更多介绍可参见:
http://www.baike.baidu.com/view/1702743.htm
怀念恩师益友!共勉节哀。谢谢大家!
恕心是仁爱之心。悲痛不能免,靠大家一起坚强!

贾老师,何老师给我们留下的都是美好!万万节哀!他的音容笑貌永远留在我们心中。他走了,乘着他的歌,荡涤我们心灵的歌,在去神的路上。何老师,有歌伴你,一路走好!人生无常,唯独爱永恒!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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李玮:[BrokenHeart]心痛!何老师,和我们情同手足,好亲近的一个人!我会买卡片,周四也会去,若是哪位忙,无法成行,想捐款,可以私下告知,我会先替您表达心意!

Tina(张彤):何老师在天之灵安息!贾老师我们大家都和你在一起。您和贾老师一起这一年来帮着拉起了新州京剧社,何老师虽走了,可是觉得他还是和我们在一起。请您节哀顺变、多多保重身体!网页可能要在追悼会后建。我可以先把一些照片放到一起再加入背景音乐,这样可以在周四时用。各位如有想要放的照片,可以微信或email寄给我。网上看到的何老师表演的“十八扯”http://v.youku.com/v_showcommentlist/id_8754401_time_1?x

沙丹:傍晚得知这一消息,非常震惊,难过万分。发觉人的生命有时真的很脆弱。很遗憾昨天没能参加聚会再多听何老师讲讲戏和他聊聊天。何老师,望一路走好。贾姐姐,请保重节哀!http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EK0xcmMpeeA&sns=em
苍天也在流泪,为何老师送行[Sob]"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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赵津津:我刚刚认识何老师,聚会了几次,还说要带我女儿和她女儿一块玩儿。觉得那么平和多才的人,说走就走了。不过我觉得他一定会去一个更好的地方,不过很远就是了。我们大家说不定还会见到他。贾老师,节哀!

桃花源:悲痛万分 愿何老师安息 请贾老师节哀"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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徐江天:真是晴天霹雳,令人痛心!认识何老师的时间虽不长,但他做人作戏皆可为师,永远怀念他!贾老师节哀,我们大家和你在一起!

邱莉:十分悲痛,晴天霹雳。大家节哀,贾老师节哀!我们的何老师您走好、安息。昨天去贾老师家听说她前天一夜未合眼,回来后一直担心放心不下。
谢谢赵新打电话!希望贾老师坚强的渐渐走出悲痛之境,重新扬起生活的勇气,有我们和你在一起,没有克服不了的困难!

黄晓彦: 驚悉何老師不幸病故,十分震驚十分悲痛!永紅節哀!何恕兄弟,這嗚咽咆哮的大瀑布在為你哭泣流泪安息吧,我的好兄弟!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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Feifei(高飞): 贾老师,节哀!让我们分担你的悲哀!我们的何老师安息吧!一早起来,还是泪流满面,不忍心痛!替贾老师与孩子担心。愿上苍的慈爱与你们同在,安抚你在此时的悲哀!下面的路仍要一步步走,愿何老师生命与艺术之光护癗他的全家!也谢谢sisi,和群主一直update 最新的消息!贾老师和俩个孩子,我们牵挂着你们,多保重!这个春天太难了。几个星期前我的好友27岁的儿子离世,陪伴他们夫妇一路过来,太不容易了!贾老师,太理解你现在的处境,珍重再珍重!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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Brenda 吴蕴青:很遗憾我一直没有见过何老师,但我相信何老师这么多年来一直致力于帮助华人传承京剧艺术,他人缘好,一定有很多朋友和学生怀念他,他也应该有不少神采奕奕的珍贵照片散落在各位朋友手中。我知道有些追思的方式之一,是建一个网站,大家上传手中保存的照片,可以发表感言,这样可以让更多的人看到他另一段人生的风采和故事。
建立何老师追思网页时,注意几点要求:1.可以上传照片;2. 读者可以在上传了的任何一组照片在任何时候能够跟贴,加感言;3.可以上传视频(视频链接一般会自动显示视频,国内能看到的优酷或已经在YouTube上但国内看不到的视频);主页有配乐。哪位如果有比较适合这种京剧、缅怀艺术家的背景音乐,请提供。这个网页可以不断更新内容,不会因为追思会时间的仓促而截止上传,何老师永远和我们在一起,他带给人间的温暖和阳光会记载史册,也给那些不曾认识他人们讲述京剧史上有这样一位值得尊敬和缅怀的业余京剧艺术家!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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吴似文(上海票友):惊闻恶耗,如晴天霹雳!心痛不已!英年早逝,上天不公!何恕,一路走好!贾老师节哀顺便!

Kathy(兰州票友毛恺萍): 看到这个消息,不敢相信自己的眼睛,两天前还在微信上欣赏你们聚会的照片,一切都那么好,可是瞬间,就噩耗传来!!人生无常,万事难料。
贾老师请节哀顺变!
何老师安息吧!
我们永远怀念你!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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金魁明(费城京剧社董事长):昨天噩耗传来,心情一直很沉重,虽然认识何先生,贾老师时间不久,但钦佩何先生多年投身京剧艺术、尤其星期天还和何先生一起吃饭聊天、听他的清唱!真是老天不公!何先生一路走好,贾老师节哀顺便!我和Sissi想的一样!参加追悼会我的心情不好、为什么何先生这么年轻就走了?我刚刚练了一段女起解,还不熟、有幸给何先生拉了一次、心想下次一定要全拉对、上星期天何先生还专门给我录了一盘张君秋的起解!可惜转天就走了!你怎么也不给我机会练几段给你伴奏呢"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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张学利(京剧专业老生):当时我和金先生真想讲几句,由于惋惜和伤心没有讲,如果科隆更加发达就给他一个属于自己的心脏,让为京剧做着贡献,酷爱京剧的人长命百岁,道耍问问上帝他这么年轻就见你去了,撇下上有老下有小,二个女儿还小,还需父爱,难道上帝也要听听京剧吗,你要听等他八九十岁以后再听也不晚呀,再问问阎王爷你也这样认为吗,生死部上真的这样吗?上天下地你们要听京剧别听年轻人,要听就听老一辈己经在你们那的,真让我们伤心和发怒!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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新泽西京剧社挽联:

               何堪驟逝戲痴應憐紅塵短
               恕難從命斷弦棄養白髪傷

费城京剧社:惊悉何恕先生病逝,哀哉,痛惜。代表费城京剧社向家属致哀!敬请转发,谢谢。

纽约梨园社:惊闻何先生过世,天不永年,情何以堪!人世间又少了一位好好先生!望賈老師節哀,多多保重身体才好。"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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李春:不能相信,不敢相信,更不愿相信!昨日京剧社的相聚,竟是今日的师友诀别。我因病最近没能参加新卅任何社区活动,却一直从微信关注着我所参加过的社区群。新卅京剧社的活动在何老师的鼓励和亲自参与下,朝气蓬勃,蒸蒸日上,噩耗传来,心胆俱裂。虽从未相见,但感到心心相印,息息相通。玮,我会单独联系你,亲自送上我的心意,请帮助转答。谢谢。何老师,一路走好;贾老师,节哀顺变。新卅京剧社是你的家,你和何老师永远是新卅京剧社的"家长"。何老师生前最后的活动不就是在这个家里搞的吗?!
                    花开花榭哭立夏,
                    人聚人散送何侠;
                    社里社外祭英杰,
                    天上天下慰师贾。
Sarah Chen: 惊闻何老师的事,不敢相信..... 短暂相识,印象很深。Wish him RIP. 贾老师多保重!化悲痛为力量,孩子们需要你坚强。"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

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赵新: 想必个別朋友已经获悉这个噩耗。难以置信,昨晚还在一起唱戏开心,今天何老师竟离我们而去!Sissi,冬冬姐,灼如和我刚从贾老师家回来。讣告见上,希望大家尽力安排时间,周四(大后天)10am-1pm, 参加追思聚会,送我们亲爱的何老师一程,表示对贾老师和家人的安慰!
干事会建议能参加追思聚会者,按自己心愿奉献(最好是cash)。不能参加者,以后可以再以其它方式表示心意和安慰。谢谢大家!京剧社会送花圈到追思会,谢谢Tina !

赵新:鉴于很多人无法去参加周四的追思会,但同时又有心对贾老师及家人表示帮助和支持的朋友,Sissi愿意帮助您收授捐款委托,参加追思会时一并交给贾老师。请您私下联络Sissi,告知数目,以后把代捐数目还于Sissi。(当然多少不拘,只表心意)。去参加聚会者,可以选择届时直接奉献。谢谢大家!

赵新:刚刚和贾老师通过话,听起来她已经好多了,身心的疲惫已经恢复好多,走出来了头一两天的完全的shock 和剧烈悲伤,感谢上苍!为了孩子,她很坚强,永红姐大家为你骄傲!我们永远在你身边!她也委托我再次感谢大家的爱心,多方对她和家人的支持!"

This tribute was added by Xin Zhao on 2nd June 2014

"(The following tributes are selected, copied and pasted from WeChat posts from 5/5~10/2014)
韩奎喜(上海京剧院):小高(高飞),听到这消息我很震惊,也很唯过,沒想到何恕这么年青这走了,我和他合作过很多戏,象:乌龙院,大英杰烈,拾玉镯,醉酒,春秋配,红楼二尢,凤还巢等。真是不可多得的人才,太可惜了,5月8号何怒的追悼会请小高转告贾永红我来不了,因为我工作的合作者回大陆了到现在还没回来,班上只有我一人离不开,你代我向永红表示深切的哀悼,和欠意,谢谢你。

李新华(费城京剧社社长,李万春大师的女儿): 致哀!愿家人节哀顺便!

吕华(费城京剧社前社长):请转告永红及全家,何恕先生一路好走,在天堂继续你所爱的京剧!望家人节哀!

李淑媛(费城京剧社指导老师,李万春大师的女儿):何恕先生一路好走,望家人节哀!

虞先生(梨园社负责人):惊闻何先生过世,天不永年,情何以堪!人世间又少了一位好好先生!望賈老師節哀,多多保重身体才好。"


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