This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, "Peter" Shu Chun Pang, 67, who passed away on September 21, 2014. He is survived by his wife, Monica, and son, Alex. Known by his family, friends, and colleagues for his generous heart and considerate soul, he has always put others before him. We will remember him forever.
A memorial service was held at St John Neumann Catholic Church on Saturday morning, September 27, 2014. Special thanks to all who attended. We are very grateful to the staff of St. John Neumann, O'Connor Mortuary, and Angel's Ashes. As per Peter's wishes, he was buried at sea off of Alamitos Bay.
Because many of his friends and family are dispersed throughout the world, this online memorial has been created to celebrate his life. We welcome your tributes and stories of Peter below.
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Leave a tributeKathy and Willie.
Kathy and Willie
Kathy and Willie
We miss you. We miss your great laugh and big smile. We miss your kind heart and sweet soul. We are thankful to have been your friends. Forever friends.
Kathy and Willie
Kathy and Willie
We think of you often and always with a smile. We speak of you with much love. We miss you.
Kathy and Willie
Your little sister, 妹妹
Kathy and Willie
Kathy and Willie
" Always "
" I'll be loving you, always ...
with a love that's true, always ...."
Your wife,
Monica
We miss you and your family,
Happy Birthday to you today.I miss you so much. Sending Birthday wishes to you in heaven dear friend. Emilia Frankel
Happy Birthday! Willie and I always made a point of calling you on your special day. I wish I could talk to you today. We miss you, dear friend.
For Chris Ho, Artist
Since I live in Colorado, I almost pass thru LA everytime I went back to Hong Kong. For varies reason, flight delay, or just stopping over, Uncle 5 and Aunt 5 always invite me to visit them. The Dim Sum lunch. The time where I have to take a shower in their friend's place. The time we went to check out some painting. The time me and Simon visited him when angela was still a baby. The walk we had around the lake near his place.
Uncle 5 gave me a phone call last month since I had a leg injury. Although the leg injury is the topic of the conversation, we did talk a bit about life in general. A bit more detail than our other conversation. As much as I sense the unusual nature of it. Subconsciously, I don't want to acknowledge it.
Uncle 5, ever the fighter, the optimist and a caring person. Thank you and memories with you will stay with me.
I did not have a chance to know Uncle Five as a person until I started my first job in San Diego. He invited his nephew to his house during thanksgiving and Christmas, and treated me with kindness and respect. Uncle Five has a special charisma of relating to people. This fabulous personality likely stems from his genuine love of others, and also his true acceptance of who he is. The former allows him to care for people around him, with both words and actions. The later enables him to share his experiences and stories, freely with joy. Proud moments called for celebration and triumph. Humble lessons were passed on for the benefit of his nephew. I asked him to write down his legacy. I don't know if he ever did.
Uncle Five is special as he and I share a common faith for Jesus Christ. We not only prayed together as he battled the illness, we also discussed about our hope in a medically desperate situation. He agreed that he will go to heaven and meet God, but he also must continue to fight, because he must fight for those who so deeply love him. He must give hope to those who care about him.
五叔, our encounter is brief but colorful. We will be temporarily apart, but I will see you again in heaven. We will pick up our unfinished thoughts at that time. We will celebrate again at that time.
Love,
Simon 世民
Denny Konshak and Dorothy Yim
I was shocked when I heard from you in late July this year about your recurring nasal cancer and you were very brave to talk about it. I know you love your family very much.
Peter, we miss you. I am grateful to have a friend like you.
I often went to his home to play. I still remember his 4th brother ShuFun taught us to play contract bridge. He also managed to let me borrow his new Sony 4-track stereo audio tape recorder, so that I could duplicate our favourite songs from his to mine. At one time I had a serious fever and I could not go to school, and he was the first one to come over to visit me by my bed side. We often went after school to the inner track of a race course close by together with Christopher Fok and William Woo, Alfred Ma and a few others. Sometimes we ran around the course (1 round = approx 1400 meters), and sometimes we just played plastic ball soccer, using make shift goals and imaginary boundary lines formed by our school bags. We had to watch out for the park attendants because we were not allowed to be on the grass other than walking. When the attendant showed up, we just stopped and waited for him to go away, then we continued!
After secondary school graduation I went onto matriculation and eventually HKU and he went to HKTC (Polytechnic). We kept in touch with each other though we were in different schools. In the summer of 1967, my first year in HKU, I dragged him along to a volunteer week long summer work camp to build a concrete wall along a stream in Aberdeen. His cheerful personality and helping attitude had won him a lot of friendship amongst the campers. I still have one photo of him holding two pieces of 4x4 as he helped to unload them from the roadside. I'll upload it to the gallery.
We lost contact with each other after he went to Carolina. I also immigrated to Los Angeles in 1981. Several years after I bought my house in Hawthorne, I got a knock on my door one evening. Outside, there stood Peter! What a surprise! He told me that we was not even sure, but he somewhat got my address and he just gave it a try. That was when he first joined the US Custom Department, and he was just renting a room in Torrance. His home was still in Raleigh and he was commuting every weekend back home to see Monica and Alex. I also met Peter's mother when she was visiting, and she even taught my wife how to use some fancy strings to create classic Chinese art patterns.
After he settled in Irvine, he told me one evening that his 36-inch Sony TV had a problem. I volunteered to take a look, and eventually got it fixed - for another week's of service, oh well so much for the "fix".
We continued to see each other until one day he said that he had nose cancer. I was shocked, but eventually he recovered, and even had a few more years of fabulous career life after that. Three years ago, he told me that he would have a family cruise in Denmark that summer. Later he told me again that he had to cancel that trip on the eve of going, as his checkup revealed that his cancer had suddenly reappeared. Hope and disappointment followed after that, but he just hanged on. I called him up on 7/25/2014 and he said he was not doing too well. I offered to visit him the next day, but he said he would go to San Francisco to see Alex the next morning. He also said that might be his last farewell to me. I was afraid of calling him again after that, for fear of hearing the final bad news. Well, that conversation was his farewell to me!
Peter, we miss you and your family.
I first met Peter in 1978 Christmas in North Carolina. We had a good time driving to Florida and the Disney World. Even though that was a short gathering, I knew he would be my good friend because of his nice personality.
Peter enjoyed nature. Last summer, Peter, Monica, Edith and I spent time in Banff, Lake Louise and Jasper in Canada. We walked a lot and enjoyed the sound of the falls in the wild. We spent evenings singing, chatting, watching TV and talking about the four corners of the world. That was such a relaxing and unforgettable vacation.
Peter was a very honest, sincere and helpful person. He not only cared for his brothers and sisters, he had a big heart for everyone.
Peter, I love you. As a friend and as a brother-in-law, I could not ask for more.
We all miss you but we trust God will lead you into a brighter and more beautiful adventure.
Cortland, New York and come to the sunshine of Southern California. Peter's decision to come to work for the Los Angeles Customs Labortory was one of the more memorable parts of my career. It was certainly one the the best things for the Customs Service. Peter was one of the most calming influences in our Lab. He was a great man, dedicated to his job, hisd friends and especially his family. Yet he had a humours side. At a trade fair in front of at least 100 people many of them textile importers he picked up a pair of scissors and cut off half of his neck tie to demonstrate a point about textiles. Monica and Alex you have our deepest sympathy. I am so fortunate to have known Peter.
When I took the college entrance exam in Taiwan, I had to fill out a list of schools and departments I wanted to attend. My parents reviewed the list five times with me. During the last review, we added Textile Department in. Guess what, my score put me into that department.
I got accepted by Georgia Tech, Clemson, & Philadelphia College of Textiles and Science. I chose NCSU and got to know Peter.
When Yau Lan left, Peter invited me to be his roommate in the fall of 1973. So, I inherited the legacy of “2713B” and met all other 港仔. He taught me 廣東話. But I was never good at language. 我还唔識講廣東話. We took turns to cook. I got used to 飲頭啖湯. Peter found me the Fiat convertible. I thoroughly enjoyed the car. It is still the only convertible in my life. After the second year, we were all doing thesis only. We had plenty of time to hang out together.
After I graduated, fate brought me back to NC. I lived in Greensboro for five years. We spent many weekends in mountains and beaches. Most of us did not have kids yet. Those were the best time of our life.
Peter, I will see you again in Heaven.
p.s. for all my NCSU friends, there is a little secret I can tell you now. We are all lucky to be alive now. In August 1973, the nuclear reactor in the Nuclear Engineering Dept in the campus malfunctioned. It was only minutes away from total meltdown. The whole Raleigh would have gone down with it. Don’t know if you heard of it or not. The school blocked all the news.
Since his move to CA, we were able to keep in touch. We were fortunate to be able to meet him and the family along with friends for lunch back on Aug 9 when my wife and I were in LA area. After lunch and afternoon tea, he led us to see some new houses in Irvine even though we all knew he was really tired because he felt like the place is tough to find. Sure enough, without his lead, we wouldn't have found that place!
His fight with cancer is courageous and inspiring.
Peter, rest in peace! You will be missed.
霍锦明
霍锦明
I cannot help but smile every time I think of Peter. He always made me laugh. I remember that I was surprised that someone "Chinese" could have such a marvelous sense of humor and get American humor. Peter was a master at humor. I remember being in California about 12 years or so ago with my son, Matthew. We met Peter for dinner. Peter spent the better part of two hours telling and retelling stories of his escapades with his Hong Kong friends. Even though Matt had heard some of these stories, he was thoroughly entertained by Peter's graphic descriptions and infectious laugh as he relived those happy memories. Thank you, Peter, for all the laughs over the years.
Peter's birthday was December 10. Mine is December 11. We usually talked on his birthday. We have kept in contact over all these years and miles. When our son, Matt, got married in California 10 years ago, Peter was our "contact" there. He suggested the restaurant at which we held the rehearsal dinner, and was instrumental in setting up the logistics. Some years ago Willie and I visited Peter and Monica in Irvine. They were very gracious. Thank you, Peter, for your friendship.
Peter, how like you to think of your family and friends, even when you were facing the end. I pray I deserve your kindness. I wish our world had 1 million Peters, but then, that's a silly thought. There will never be another you. I love you and will miss you greatly.
I had the joy of having Peter with me when we drove from Raleigh to Edmonton, Canada in the summer of 1973. We spent more than a week on the road, stopping at various places and talked a lot. I learnt from him the mentality of “work hard, play hard, don’t worry and think positive”.
Luc and I saw Peter a couple of time since we left Raleigh. He had come up to Edmonton twice. We had touched base at time by phone. When he called a couple of weeks ago and said he would like to say goodbye, he was so calm. We chat for some time and wished each other well. Suddenly, all the past memories of things we did together started to flash back. I knew then those were part of my life!
I will miss you, Peter.
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Please be patient.
That was a memorable time. Look at the sweet smiles of Peter and Monica. We made a couple of great trips to Banff, Jasper and Drumhellar to see the dinosaur museum. His best friend Fok Kam Ming and his wife Rose came down from Edmonton to join us. We went to the Calgary Zoo. I think a very small section was just opened after the great 2013 Calgary Big Flood in June. But those were the most interesting and unique sections in the whole zoo, the Penguin Plunge and the Prehistoric Park with many life size dinosaurs.
A loving couple
Peter was such as a good hushand. During his treatment, he worried more about Monica than himself...
13 But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. 14 For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep. 15 For this we declare to youby a word from the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16 For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord. 18 Therefore encourage one another with these words.