I mhttps://www.forevermissed.com/spencer-james-victor-shanley/gallery/photos#|add_photos_mobile_dialog I miss you so much Daddy it never gets easier

I love you and miss you so much your going to be a Great Grandpa again. Thinking of you always and forever

My heart aches. I know you put your feet behind Cody and pushed him out of the ️ bed to find me. I was going but you saved my life. Tommy staying with me when I was in critical ICU, I felt him sit next to me. The Lord Jesus Christ my savior let him come spend 72 hours with me it was time for him to go back up to the Lord I bless you and thank you and our blessed mother

Daddy not the day goes by that I don't love you I miss you it's been 14 long years it feels just like yesterday and never gets any easier as you know you have two great grandchildren and another one on the way I love you Daddy so much tell Tommy I send my love and your mom and stinky I love you kid I love you Daddy telling me again

I know you are in heaven with your Mom Dad and Tommy. Negative references are untrue and I know we all make mistakes and God forgives. I love you Daddy

Happy birthday to you my Father. I love you and miss you so very much!! Rest in Peace till we meet again

I love you my father! It doesn't get any easier. You will always be apart of me!!! TILL we meet again. It plays over and over again in my mind every year!!!!

Happy birthday to you Daddy. I love you and miss you so very much I still can't believe you are gone.

Dearest Father, It's been 10 long years and my heart is still heavy. It replays in my mind always from March 8-11. 2011. I love you dearly and till we meet again. Tell Grandma Mae, grandpa, Tommyand Grandpa and grandma Allen, Uncle Jerry, till we meet again. Love you all. Love Renee. I dont hear that name either since youve been gone. I cant part with your belongings. Still hard.

Happy Veterans Day Daddy. Remembering and honoring you on this special day. Thank you for your sacrifice to our country to ensure that we stay "The land of the free and the home of the brave. " Rest easy soldier. Salute to you! Love you forever and always

Happy birthday daddy. Today is a day to celebrate your life. Without you there would be none of us. I can feel your arm's around me when the wind blows, hear your voice in the still of the night. I think about you every day. Your love, kindness and wisdom resonates within me. Our separation is only temporary. Until my work is done here on earth I'll hold you close in my heart. I love you so much daddy. XOXO

Happy birthday in heaven Daddy. I love you and miss you dearly. You would've been 76 today. We all love you and think of you everyday. Ronnie still to this day sleeps with the Navy pillow. I'm sure you're with all our loved ones and just remember you're loved ones still here think of you often and are sadden that you were taken from us so sudden due to the neglect of Westchester Medical Center. But I know your at peace with your parents. Till we meet again my father.

Today is a day to celebrate your life. To give gratitude, love and thankfulness for playing your role in giving me life. To remind you the huge influence you continue to be in my life. Your wisdom resonates within me daily. Your insight was so profound. You understood life on life's terms. You accepted and taught me that everything happens for the right reason and the only constant is change. These life lessons have and will continue to guide me the rest of the day's of my life. I have passed down these positive affirmations to your granddaughter Savannah. She knows you very well. I speak of you daily and always make sure to let everyone know that crosses my path that you are my inspiration and hero. I love you daddy now and forever. Fly high Angel. Watch over us. Walk beside us. I feel you when the wind gently blows against my face. Until we are reunited I hold you close in my heart. One day when my work is done here on earth; we will hold each other with an embrace that will last for eternity. Hugs and kisses XOXO XOXO

Just thinking about you daddy. They say one grieves because there is still so much love to give and no way to express it. How true. Love never dies. You live on in my heart, mind and soul. Kim says I'm just like you. What an honor. Sometimes the pain is unbearable. I just cry and cry. I know we'll be together one day. That is when I'll stop missing you. Until then, my heart yearns for you. Love you so much xoxo

Merry Christmas my dear father. I love you and miss you very much. Rest in peace daddy. 3/11/09 God received an Angel.

Merry Christmas Daddy. Thinking of you today and everyday like always. Celebrating Christmas and remembering the wonderful man you were and are. I thank God for the opportunity to spend time with you after you retired. It was then that I got to know the brilliant, selflessness, compassionate, loyal man I had the privilege to call father. Just as Jesus did you sacrificed your time and energy to provide for your children and children that weren't even your own. That in itself speaks volumes. I love you everyday until my last day

Dear Spencer,

Just wanted to let you know that you and your family will always be in my thoughts and heart. Happy belated birthday!

With much love,

Janice

I just want to wish you my loving father, Happy birthday in heaven. You would be 75 today. I love you till eternity and beyond. Missing you with my son's that are now growing up to men. You would be so proud. Justin redid his his Honda 1996 civic and won yesterday at a car show..He would have your mustang souped up!!!! We love you and miss you more and more each day. Bless you my fathet. Sending love to all Mae, Grandpa, Tommy and family

Dear daddy, I love and miss you so much. I hope you and grandpa enjoyed your day yesterday together. Time will never heal the pain within my heart. I love you always and forever. Till eternity and beyond. Happy Father's day my daddy....

Hey my dear father, wanting to wish you a special father's day!! Oh how I wish you were here spending it with all of your girls! I have peace  you are in HEAVEN, I just feel that I didn't have enough time with you. You were an example of a true Father! You always had your kids best interest at heart. You are spending Father's Day with your daddy! I was looking at a picture of you and me when I was young and I became a little upset and Caleb said to me mom what's wrong and I said that I miss grandpa and he said me too but we will see him soon! Lord Jesus come quickly! I love you always and forever daddy! Love teetle

Dear daddy and grandpa, Thank you for your service for making America the home of the brave and land of the free. I miss you so much daddy. I think of you every day, and always will till I take my last breathe. Tell the family i
send my love. Tommy, Mae, grandpa and all who is laid to rest. I love you my father.... love your daughter, Doreen

Happy Memorial day Daddy.. Thank you for your sacrifice to ensure America stays the land of the free. I love you and think about you everyday.We will be together forever one day until then be here with me in spirit.You are my guardian angel.

Dear Spencer,

Another year has gone by and you are still so missed by everyone. The fact that your children still feel your presence is a testament as to how close you all were. For that, you have been and were all truly blessed.

Keep watching over everyone.

I will never ever forget you and your family.

Janice

Hey, my precious daddy!! I know after your last breath here on earth, you took your first breath in HEAVEN, I can't even fathom the beauty and joy are experiencing!! Like my sister Doreen said, even with time it does not get any easier on the heart! You are missed beyond words! These are times I wish you and all of us could be sitting around sharing stories from the past and making new memories! There is no substitute for pain, except for your presence! Your grand boy Caleb mentions you on the things that he remembers most. The horn that you had put on your mustang he can imitate! And it makes him laugh every time! He loves TRAINS and BUSES! I always tell him about how you drove a bus in New York City! I have even pulled up pictures of what they look like! I do believe you are in complete peace!! I feel your presence often! You are loved beyond measure! LOVE YOU DADDY

Dearest Daddy, Well I'm sure you know your grandsons wedding was so beautiful, the day after Thanksgiving. You and Tommy had your pictures on the mantel in frames for the loved ones who could not be there. It still feels like yesterday when at this time I was laying beside you till your last breathe. I miss you dearly.. My heart still aches. It's something I will never get over. I felt you in my dream the other night. It felt so real. Woke me up crying...I love you Daddy so so very much. I miss you so so very much. I hope your at peace and having great times once again with your mother, grandpa and Tommy, and all our relatives. Till next time. I always have you in my heart till eternity. Miss you and love you my father... Your daughter Doreen. Also I'm sure you know Ronnie woke up crying for you 2 nights ago. We all love and miss you. He also still sleeps every night with your pillow and carries it when he's home through out the house. Rest in Peace....

Dear Daddy, I just want to share with you my son Richard is having his bachelor's party tonight. Please watch over all my boys. I know you will be there in spirit. Also the wedding is Nov.27, and at the ceremony Richard and Chrissy will be paying tribute to there loved ones who can't be there. They have pictures of you and Tommy with your names engraved in the plaque. Also your pictures will be set up in the reception. This is a very important and special day for us, and I know you would be there. "Spiritually" I Love You Daddy.. My love to grandpa grandma and Tommy. Till we meet again. Missing you always!!! Love your daughter, Doreen xoxox.

Happy Veterans Day Daddy! Thank you for serving our country!!!<3.They don't make MEN like you anymore!!! *God Bless America* by Lee Greenwood..."My Angel "

Dear Spencer,

Happy Birthday! 

You will be forever loved and have been truly blessed. 

Keep watching over everyone.

Love,

Janice

Happy Birthday my dear Father, I miss you so much and love you dearly. I just want you to know Ronnie made the paper community news. His team was undefeated for summer traveling league. They won first place N.E.B.A.S. 2015 . You would be so proud of the boys. Cody doing his 2nd year of honors but now more classes. His average is a 4.0  and he also made the Principal list all year. I'm so proud of them. Cory started a job working for the Department of Public Works. He got his first pay check yesterday. I know you are proud of all your grandkids. I just wish you were here. Just to see the boys play a game. I hope you're watching and are proud. Enjoy your day with grandpa, grandma Mae and Tommy and all the family. I Love You Daddy. Happy 74th birthday in heaven. Till we meet again. 3/11/09 Forever in my heart and soul..xoxoxo

Happy Heavenly Birthday Daddy. This is a day to rejoice! Without you nothing or noone would have any meaning to me. It all starts with you. Love you so much

Happy Father's Day in heaven my Father. I love you and miss you so much.It never gets any easier. I still remember the hours minutes and seconds we last had together. I will forever hold them in my heavy heart. Till we meet again. I love you Daddy. xoxoxoxoxo

Happy father's daddy. I'll see you soon

Hi Daddy! I know this is a day late. I hope it will let me leave a message because I've had trouble with this sight. GOD only knows the hollow feeling I feel inside. All of us grieve for YOU! Wow the joy you must have. The pain is very real no matter how much time goes past. It would have been wonderful all of us going to HEAVEN at the same time, but that is not GOD's plan. Death is only a temporary separation. I'm glad you are not suffering anymore. I thank GOD that you had Doreen there with you. I wish I could have been there to hold you to the end. I feel half way complete now that you are gone. It does not get any easier as time goes by. I just hold on to the memories I have. You will never be far from my heart and soul. Caleb just said he feels sad you are gone. Caleb wants to tell you he will be celebrating his 13th birthday in four days. He wishes you were here to take him for a ride in your mustang. He loves mustangs. Well I will close for now. Love you more than life! WE miss you bunches!!!!!!  Love, Teetle

MY DEAREST FATHER,WORDS CAN'T EVEN BEGIN TO EXPLAIN THE LOSE AND EMPTINESS I FEEL EVERYDAY WITHOUT YOU HERE PHYSICALLY. TODAY IS SIX LONG YEARS. THE ONLY COMFORT I HAVE IS KNOWING ONE DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER FOREVER AND FOR ETERNITY.I LOVE YOU FOR ALL ETERNITY SWEET DADDY OF MINE. ANGEL KISSES TO YOU!!!!!!!!

Dear Father, It is so hard for me to relive the past few days. It is etched in my mind, day by day and minute by minute. This year it is even the exact day of the date you passed 6 hard sad years ago. I know you are looking down at us all and please know I Love You Daddy and I grieve deeply for you still. The pain you endured is all gone now, but I have pain for you were taken from us to soon. My boys are doing very well. Cody just got picked to go to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina at the end of this Month. I'm sure you know.:) He also made the Principal s list in school. Ronnie still sleeps everyday with your Navy pillow. From the time he comes home from school till he leaves the house. He carries it under his arm. He eats, sleeps and feels secure for he misses you dearly. Well it's almost that time you took your last breathe. Please know you live inside me forever, my dear and loving Father. I can't even see for I'm crying so much. The pain is still so raw! I told you to go see your Mom. I wish I could just hold you one more time. I also I'm sure you know talked to Janice. She shared and told me some stories of Mae and how Justin looks just like his great grandma...:) I enjoyed talking to her and will keep in touch. I love you dearly my Father. Tell grandpa I love him, stinky-I love us kid. Love to the family. Till we meet again. I love you and miss you so much daddy.....xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Dear Spencer,

Just wanted to let you know that you are thought about today and always will hold a place in my heart. The memories of you and your family will always stay with me.

Dear Janice, if you see this please call me, Doreen. So glad to hear from you. Please call Doreen 973-777-5652. Love to talk. Lorraine would like to talk to you. Ronnie was so shocked and Happy . Please send your mom her love... Talk soon I hope, ........Missing my Dad dearly. Love you Daddy xo

Dear All,

I came upon this page by accident and cried since I knew your father and family from 124 Ft. George Ave. in NY. I remember spending Christmas with all of them and that beautiful tree that adorned the living room. Your father and I had a very hard time listening to Silent Night and cried every time we heard it. I remember his parents and how he cared for his father when he had his strokes. While he had his issues as everyone does, he worked very hard to support his family and that's what I remember the most...he was always working.

I remember Loreen and Doreen (Reeny) as we called her and even that horrible day that that Doberman bit Doreen. It's etched in my memory forever. I remember well both Ronnie their mother and Lorraine, Spence's, second wife, her childeren, and her mother, too. It's like yesterday for me in flashbacks now. Time really does go by so fast.

Well, I wish you and your entire family the best; you come from strong stock.

P. S. My mother who just turned 100 is still alive but my brother, Steven, died on the top floor of the World Trade Center in 2001 in the attacks.

HAPPY VETERANS DAY DADDY . THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE SO THAT AMERICA MAY HAVE FREEDOM OF SO MANY THINGS!! TELL GRANDPA THANK YOU TOO. JUST THE SACRIFICE OF LEAVING YOUR FAMILY IN ITSELF WAS MORE THAN ENOUGH!!! SO HERE'S TO YOU DADDY "A BIG SALUTE FROM AMERICA, YOUR FAMILY AND THE NAVY" LOVE YOU MORE WITH EACH PASSING DAY.

Happy Father's day daddy! I miss you so much. Ronnie won his championship game tonight. 12-1. He also is in All Stars him and Cody. I wish you could be here for there games. But I know you're watching. I still can't believe your gone. But God knows you're never, ever forgotten. I cry out sometimes and wish I could see you and tell you I Love You!!! You're grandsons are getting so big. I love you my father!!!!!! Till next time. Xoxo

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DADDY!! THINKING OF YOU EVERY DAY BUT ESPECIALLY TODAY. HONORING THE WONDERFUL MAN I HAD THE PRIVILEGE TO CALL FATHER. IT'S SO FUNNY KIM AND I TALK ABOUT CERTAIN PHRASES YOU WOULD SAY AND CERTAIN GESTURES YOU WOULD DO. RIGHT DOWN TO HOW YOU HELD THE NAPKIN IN YOUR LEFT HAND THE ENTIRE TIME YOU ATE. WE KEEP YOUR MEMORY ALIVE DAILY. YOU MAY PHYSICALLY BE GONE BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON IN OUR HEARTS. MISSING YOU DADDY

Wow, i am speechless because of losing you. You are always on my mind. There's so many things we didn't get to share together and it hurts.

HAPPY 5TH ANGELVERSARY IN HEAVEN DADDY. THEY SAY WHEN YOU LOSE A LOVED ONE YOU ARE NEVER THE SAME PERSON AGAIN.YOU LEARN TO ADAPT TO THE NEW YOU.MY LOVE FOR YOU IS NEVER ENDING. EVERY TIME CALEB SEE'S A RED MUSTANG HE SAYS THERE GOES GRANDPA WEINKER WEINKER. SAVANNAH KNOWS YOU WELL. I TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME. THE PICTURE OF YOU HOLDING HER IS MY SCREEN SAVER ON MY COMPUTER.THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE!!! TILL WE MEET AGAIN YOUR MEMORY WILL LIVE ON IN MY HEART AND DAILY THOUGHTS AND TALKS. I LOVE YOU DADDY!!!

HAPPY 5 Years in heaven Daddy. Remembering every hour tonight that I laid with you in bed till you took you're last breath. It never gets easier because you were taken from us. Ronnie to this day still sleeps with your Navy pillow. We all miss you so much. You would be so proud of your grandsons. They are getting big and are accelerating so well in life. Cody made the archives in the museum in Balimore Maryland for the Best Babe Ruth All Star Player in 2013. They are all so active in sports. Ronnie's team was 15 -0. Won All Stars too. Justin just got a job at Quality Ford dealer as a Mechanic. Your grandson Richie got engaged and will be getting married Nov. 2015. But I know you'll be there for your first grandchild s wedding. We love and miss you dearly. Till we meet again. Your daughter Doreen

HAPPY HEAVENLY "72TH" BIRTHDAY DADDY.TODAY IS A CELEBRATION OF YOUR BIRTH. I WILL LIGHT A CANDLE TONIGHT IN MEMORY OF YOU.PLEASE BLESS ME WITH YOUR PRESENCE.I WILL HAVE MY CAMERA AND TAKE SOME RANDOM PICTURES SO I CAN SEE YOU SHOW UP.LOVE YOU SO MUCH TILL I TAKE MY LAST BREATH

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DADDY. IT HAS BEEN 4 LONG YEARS SINCE YOU WENT TO HEAVEN.THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU.I MISS YOU DEARLY.SAY HELLO TO EVERYONE FOR ME.LOVING AND MISSING YOU FOREVER IN MY HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!

DADDY I LOVE YOU MORE AND MORE EACH DAY.I GOT NEW PICTURES OF YOU OF MY FACEBOOK PAGE.WENT TO FLORIDA TO GET THEM.I CHERISH EVERY LETTER YOU WROTE ME.I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MUCH YOU SAVED.MEANS SO MUCH TO ME.LOVING YOU FOREVER.DON'T FORGET THEY CALL ME SPENCER JR. HA HA

Spencer you are forever missed and loved.I know that you are watching over all your loved ones. Love you spencer <3

TOMMY'S BIRTHDAY WAS JUST THE OTHER DAY.I BET YOU GUYS HAD A BALL.WOW! 175 VISITS YOUR PRETTY POPULAR POPS.I JUST SHARED A STORY FROM ONE OF OUR VACATIONS WITH YOU IN HUNTER MOUNTAIN.MADE ME FEEL LIKE YOUR LITTLE GIRL AGAIN.I CAN STILL SMELL YOU.FEEL YOUR TOUCH.EVERYTHING YOU GAVE ME,PICTURES OF YOU,YOUR FEEDING SPOONS,YOUR NAVY PIN WILL BE KEPT IN SAFE KEEPING.I WILL TREASURE THEM FOREVER

DADDY TODAY MARKS 3 YEARS AND 6 MONTHS SINCE YOU HAVE PASSED.TIME IS NOT MAKING THIS ANY EASIER.THERE ARE DAYS THAT I FEEL SO BROKEN HEARTED .I TALK ABOUT YOU TO SAVANNAH ALL THE TIME.SHE KNOWS WHO YOU ARE AND CAN PICK YOU OUT OF PICTURES.SHE WILL GROW UP KNOWING WHAT A WONDERFUL GRANDFATHER SHE HAD.YOUR LEGACY WILL LIVE ON UNTIL I TAKE MY LAST BREATHE.I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH IT HURTS.