Stacey Krok Grace, (1972 - 2016) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
- Abraham Lincoln

43 years old
Born on April 18, 1972
Passed away on January 7, 2016

After a brave battle with cancer, Stacey Krok Grace passed away on January 7, 2016 in Oakland, CA at the age of 43. She leaves behind her loving husband, Peter Grace, her sons, Alex and Robbie Grace.

Stacey was born on April 18, 1972 in York, Pennsylvania to her parents Bob & Peggy Krok with her two sisters, Amy (Cordero) and Shannon (Romine). She received her BS from Northwestern Univ. and her MBA from UC Berkeley Haas.

Stacey married her best friend, Peter Grace, on October 4, 1997. They took their beloved labs, Sierra & Nevada, and moved across the country settling in Rockridge, Oakland, CA, and raised their two boys in a home of love and laughter, where family and friends were always welcome.

Stacey was passionate about her career, playing a key role in the success of many biotech companies, most recently Dermira, as Sr. Director of Corporate Development and Commercial Strategy.

Stacey & Peter had an insatiable thirst for adventure, travelling around the world - after travels to South America, Europe, Africa, and Australia, her last trip with her family was to the Wizarding World of Harry Potter in Orlando, FL in October.

She lived every day to the fullest.

Stacey is survived by her husband and children, as well as her parents and sisters, and numerous nieces and nephews. A celebration of her life will be held at St. Theresa’s Church on Mandalay Rd in Oakland at 10:00 am on Friday, January 15, 2016; all are welcome. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to either the Breast Cancer Research Foundation (www.bcrfcure.org) or the ASPCA (www.aspca.org).

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Happy Birthday, dear daughter. Think of you every day.

January 7

I celebrated my 50th birthday yesterday and I so wish that you could have been there for it. Love you always.

January 8, 2023

Thinking of you yesterday as we drove back from Tahoe. Thank you for all the years that we were ski housemates together. I loved teaching our kids to ski together, the sled hill runs, the hikes in the snow, and even the shoveling! I miss the late nights talking, laughing, and of course, karaoke.

January 7, 2023

Missing your smile, your laugh, your positive energy, your passion, your dedication - but most of all, your love. Not just today but each and every day...

January 7, 2022

Missing you today... Listening to some of your favorite songs and remembering your smile. Wish you could be here.

January 7, 2022

missing you today as always----love mom

January 7, 2022

It’s hard to believe that another year has gone by. We miss you every day Stace. I wish you were here so much.

January 7, 2022

Thinking of Stacey and her smile today...

August 23, 2021

Dear Robert Stacey’s loss was devastating. I wish she had more time to spend with us & all those who cared about her. Thank you for sharing your memories.. we love to hear about her. She’s always in our thoughts

August 23, 2021

Was just looking through my Penn high school yearbook from our senior year and came across Stacey… She used to live behind me in Granger Indiana. We attended high school together and I graduated in 1989 and I think she was in the same class as me. I am very sorry to hear about this devastating loss for you and your family. She was a shining star of a student and fun to be around the few times I got to hang out with her.

April 19, 2021

Joe, though your tribute to our daughter made us cry, we appreciate knowing that others recognize how special Stacey was. Thank you

April 18, 2021

Happy Birthday Stacey! This is one of those early Summer Bay Area days where the sun is shining and the birds are singing... Wish we we could see your smile and hear you laugh, but we know you are here with us.

April 18, 2021

I was bragging about you just this week, Stacey. In a job interview, I was asked about people I had worked with in various past jobs; the best, the most difficult, that sort of thing. I said that you were the person I most wished I could work with again. Your skill, your attitude and your indomitable spirit made you a wonderful teammate and a wonderful person. I think about you often and miss you terribly. This place just isn’t the same without you.

April 19, 2020

Happy Birthday, sweet daughter. Miss you terribly.

April 18, 2020

Stacey should have turned 48 today. She was taken from us far too young. Stacey, the boys and I think about you every day. You would be so proud of your boys they are absolutely thriving!

Love you Forever,
The Grace Boys

January 7, 2020

Another year filled with thousands of moments of missing you. But more memories with smiles than tears. Love you Stacey!

January 7, 2020

Stacey, Miss you terribly each & every day. There’s just a hole that can never be filled.
We know you are proud of the development of Peter & your boys. They are special.
Mom & Dad

April 18, 2019

Three years ago the world lost a Beautiful & Wonderful person. You will always be remembered!
Anne & Ken

January 8, 2019

Dear Stacey, thanks for letting us see your beautiful face every time we look at your handsome kids. We miss you so much. Take good care of your sister now, please.
Mom & Dad

April 19, 2018

we your smiley face every time we see a photo Peter and the boys, we miss you say hi to grama Bresko Uncle Nick and aunt Diane

April 18, 2018

Forever beautiful(inside &out), forever young, and forever in our hearts..........mom & dad

April 18, 2018

Still thinking of you, Stacey. Wishing we could meet up for lunch one more time...

January 9, 2018

Cousins by birth, Friends by choice.
Love you and miss you.

January 8, 2018

Still with us Stacey. Your friends at Dermira.

January 8, 2018

Miss you so much Stacey. Your boys are growing to be amazing young men and Peter is such a wonderful dad. xoxo

January 7, 2018

Always in our hearts.

January 8, 2017

To our lovely Stacey. Thank you for watching over us this past year and visiting in our dreams - such wonderful dreams. They don't replace you, but renew our faith that you are at peace and never forgotten. our prayers and love to your family. You are in our hearts always.

January 7, 2017

I always knew what a special person Stacey was and my heart is warmed by the many tributes from her family and friends. Thank you. I am saddened that her children's time with her kind heart was cut so short. Her death is still sinking in and sometimes doesn't seem possible. We have memories ( many) but I wish we had her. I hear her voice I see her smile. I miss you, Stacey............mom

December 26, 2016

Merry Christmas Stacey. We love you!

November 13, 2016

Stacey comes to mind often and it is a testament to how much of an impact she has had on my life and I am sure many others. She is one of my oldest friends that our paths stayed connected for almost 20 years. We studied engineering together and just last week as I organized support of one of the senior classes as an alum - all of the memories of going to class and working in study groups click together. I felt profound loss. I remember hiring with the same company and starting the same week in S.Carolina. A party in our apartment where she was introduced to Peter, the engagement party we gave them, trip to the Citrus Bowl over New Years, early morning runs in Dunbar WV, Alt’s and Grace’s trips to wine country, skiing in Squaw Valley, bike rides across Golden Gate...... Every time I visited SFO for work I would visit and stay at the house. The last visit Stacey and Peter told me of the diagnosis. I can not forget that moment at their table.

I miss Stacey’s zest for life. Always looking to learn, debate, challenge and engage. She was humble and practical and always caring for others around her. A great friend, wife to Peter and mom to the boys.

Sometimes I wish I could pick up the phone and just say Hi. I will settle for one of the memories sneaking up and reminding me out of the blue and cherish that moment; instead of feeling loss, realize she is still here as a friend.

January 23, 2016

To Stacey's family and friends. I am sorry to hear Stacey is no longer with us in this world. My prayers are with Stacey and her family and friends. It was an honor to work with a spirited and positive person when I worked with her at Chiron at both the Vacaville and Emeryville site. Honestly, I just received the news and I am in both shock and denial. Forever in my thoughts Stacey. Robert Catolos

January 18, 2016

Bob and Peggy, know that you have our deepest condolences on the passing of your beautiful daughter Stacey. May the comfort of family and friends be your strength now and in the days ahead.
Paul and Mary Jo Krizman

January 16, 2016

To Bob, Peggy and family: Our hearts are with you at this time of irreparable loss.

January 15, 2016

To Peter, the boys, and Stacey's family and friends,
Here is to Stacey's contagious laugh, resilience and strength. May you find all of these as you go through these difficult times. We miss her so much already.

January 15, 2016

Bob, Peggy,
I am so sorry to learn of your family's loss. I hope that you take comfort in knowing that your daughter lived a rich and full life and that she now rests with our Lord in heaven.

January 15, 2016

Peggy and Family,

What an overwhelming loss to lose your young, beautiful daughter. I cannot imagine the grief you must be feeling. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

January 15, 2016

Bob & Peggy -- Becky and I are so saddened to hear about your daughter's death. The sorrow you feel must be overwhelming. Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family. Jerry & Becky Lutkus

January 15, 2016

Stacey, you were such a beautiful light in our lives. Like the Business Plan team used to say, you were "truly Grace under pressure". Whatever the challenge, you came through. And with a smile and that lovely laugh which cheered everyone up. I fondly remember the board games with you and Peter at Mo's home. Thank you for making my Haas experience so much more fun and pleasant. You and Peter made a great couple. We miss you.

Peter, Robbie, Alex and the Krok/Grace family, our prayers are with you. Deepest condolences.

- Prasad

January 15, 2016

I met Stacey in business school and was immediately drawn to her warmth and positive energy. She was authentic and smart, with a ready laugh, which like others, I can still hear in my head. When we reconnected recently, she loved to talk about her boys and it was clear that she absolutely adored them both. Her spark lives on in them and Peter and in each of us who were fortunate to know her. I will miss you, Stacey.

January 15, 2016

Dear Stacey,
I will always remember your gentleness and friendly smile. Thank you for the good times.

January 14, 2016

I had the privilege of being Stacey's manager at Chiron and, later, her friend. Stacey was a gift - I am so lucky to have known her, even if for too brief a time. She taught me what dedication really is - dedication to her work, to her family, to her friends - and, with that dedication and lots of hard work, how to build a rich and joyful life. Through her wit, her wits and her charm, Stacey made the hard parts look easy.

My heart goes out to Peter, to Stacey's two boys and to all of her family and other friends. We will miss her terribly.

January 14, 2016

Dear Bob, Peg and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. The outpouring of love is a tribute to Stacey and your family. May God Bless and comfort you. Love Sheen and Elaine

January 14, 2016

Dear Peggy,
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Laurette DeToro

January 13, 2016

To the Family and Friends of Stacey,

Please except my deepest condolences. It is unnatural to lose one so young in death. Although I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Stacey, I wanted to share some peaceful thoughts that helped me when I lost my mom to the enemy, death. I've found comfort in knowing that "there is going to be a resurrection" (Acts 24:15) I hope that you'll find comfort in knowing that you can see your loved one again during a time when "death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." (Revelation 21:4)

January 13, 2016

Our hearts are broken for you Peggy & Bob and all of Stacey's family. What a beautiful tribute this web site is. So loved seeing all the wonderful photos of your beautiful Stacey. We know you will cherish all these wonderful memories forever and pray that they will help you through these most difficult times. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. May she now RIP and know that she will forever be in our hearts. Sending sympathy, love & big hugs to you all.
Kathy & Steve

January 13, 2016

Peter, Alex, Robbie, Peg, Bob and family, I am so sorry for your loss, the Straffon clan is sending you our love! I will always remember the twinkle in her eyes and the great big smile. You all our in our thoughts and prayers, much love, Jon, Rochelle, Stephen, Sarah and Jane

January 13, 2016

I know there are not perfect words to convey our sympathy but the best to offer you Peggy and your family are prayers for God to bless you all with strength, peace and love. May God walk beside you or carry you when need be. Know that your friends are here for you to do what we can. Love, Pat and Gary

January 13, 2016

Our heart is breaking for your whole family. What an awesome website to pay tribute to Stacey. Remember that those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us every day, unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed, and very dear. Margie and Ralph Sullivan

January 13, 2016

Stacey was my "pledge mom" in our sorority at Northwestern. She was kind, thoughtful, and full of life. I am praying for her husband and children... I posted several pictures on this site so her children will have memories of their mom during her college years!! I loved uncovering them and reliving my time with Stacey. She will always be in my heart.

January 13, 2016

Dear Peter, Robbie, Alex, Uncle Bob and Aunt Peg,
Christmas with the cousins at Grandma Krok's (then cousins & extended family and the Rosian's) were always extra special when you made the trek from South Bend and Nor Cal. So glad we've been able to spend time with the Grace's in Oakland, SF, & Napa.

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