ForeverMissed
Large image

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Steven Hayes, 47, born on December 2, 1965 and passed away on March 11, 2013. We will remember him forever.

Steven Mark Hayes Memorial Service
Place: Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses
Address: 7040 San Jose Blvd., Jacksonville, FL 32217
Date/Time: Sunday, March 17, 2012 at 3:30PM

March 11, 2021
March 11, 2021
Thinking of you cousin and how we all fumbled through the tough times together and somehow had quite a few really fun and great memories!

Your passing so young was so unfair.
March 11, 2019
March 11, 2019
Never a day goes by that your not in my thoughts,I miss you so very much, hopefully there's motor cycles in heaven
March 11, 2019
March 11, 2019
Do you remember when we all five of us cleaned out that ditch so we could swim in it? Do you remember the Crawfish? Do you remember the big wheels going around Villa Armada apartments.
Do you remember how hard we all worked at laughing so we wouldn't be crying? How we stuck together when everyone and everything else was breaking apart?
I remember.
I miss you and your sister and brother and   as wierd as it seems the struggle for love, acceptance and security that we all endured together.
We all did the best we could do and I believe we managed well considering the circumstances. I know now things did not get better after Villa Armada and Brookview and I'm sorry we we're torn apart once again.
We we're all so brave and so little at the same time we had so very much love for whomever would return same.
I am proud of you.
I am proud of us all for being there for each other and sharing our burning desire to be strong and worthy of love, security and honor.
You are a good man.
You are loved and respected and honored.
Well done my cousin, well done.
Until we meet again, I love you and will do my best to be available for Christopher and Dani.
I hope you are on another great adventure.
March 11, 2018
March 11, 2018
Hallo Mark, ich denke immer noch an Dich und was für ein feiner Mensch Du warst... In ewiger Erinnerung Natalie
March 11, 2017
March 11, 2017
I can't believe it's been 4 years. We miss you!!!
November 6, 2015
November 6, 2015
Memory lane is a treasured road and you helped to build it exploring our world together. Love lives on Mark and will forever.
November 3, 2015
November 3, 2015
I was sadden to hear of the loss of a man, that I had a 'crush' on about 12 years ago .. I Moved to Ocala FL from Jax, and have lived here for the past few years. I recently was googling something and ran across this tragic accident, of Steven Hayes.. It truly breaks my heart, as you left this world way too soon. Life just isn't fair sometimes .. In your memory - come your 50th birthday, I will place flowers near the scene of your accident. You will always be remembered- and God bless your family and friends .. R.I.P
January 9, 2014
January 9, 2014
Dear Mark, ich werde dich auch niemals vergessen und immer wieder an deinen Besuch in kl denken, dir alles Liebe, wo immer du deinen weg gefunden hast, herzlichst natalie
December 2, 2013
December 2, 2013
Today was the day a little sunshine boy was born, Happy Go Lucky and Rosie Cheeked and not afraid of anything. I see him climbing up the banana tree in our back yard and I here his little feet going pitterpat
across the roof of our house. My brother was so full of life and always
smiling, never afraid of anything, the little Indian he always wanted to be he had become.I love and miss him terribly, it's hard to imagine that
he has been gone almost a year. My heart will never get over the lose
of him.
I love you and give you a big hug.
Your big sister Dani
April 29, 2013
April 29, 2013
I had a dream I was inside a small home and I could here a calamity from outside Then bam, the front door flys open and you burst through, about 8 or 9 years old, must have been summertime because you had no shoes, no shirt, and a tan, you zigzag by me, then bam..Matt, zigzag by then bam..Chris, but he freezes and looks at me, shrugs, smiles and zigzags by! I will treasure the kid times!
April 2, 2013
April 2, 2013
My dearest Mark,
I will never be able to thank you for all your guidance and love through out a very difficult time of my life. Every day you amazed me with your love of life and people. You taught me so much about me. I will always hold you in a very special place in my heart. Until we meet again...
March 24, 2013
March 24, 2013
To my little brother, who was supposed to visit his big sister in Germany
again in May,the lose of you in my and Chris's life is devistating after spending time at your house it made me feel so sad that I could not spend it their with you.I take comfort in knowing you were doing something you loved.I will love you forever in a day.Goodbye Boydoll.
March 23, 2013
March 23, 2013
My dear cousin and friend Mark. It is just now sinking in that you're gone and my heart aches. I will miss the many long conversations we had and all the laughs we shared. I could always talk to you about anything and i'm grateful for the wisdom you shared with me. We supported each other through emotional lows in our lives and I will always feel a special bond with you.
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
Mark, a fine and brave scout, hunter of citrus, fish and fowl, renegade of all things boring, achitect of great forts, comrad on many fearless expeditions, viewed the world from the tops of trees, high cliff diver into burro pits, swinger of ropes into aligator creeks, at one with the wind, the sun, and the rain, all at ten years old. Mark, Dani, Chris, Matt and Cyndi, 5Musketeers forever!
March 17, 2013
March 17, 2013
my dear brother, I am so shocked that you left us so early. I hope you come to a good place. Rest in peace my brother.
March 17, 2013
March 17, 2013
My dear second cousin. Your name will always be emotionally connected with my life. Thank you for your friendship.
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
Our thoughts from the entire L3 team in the UK. It was a pleasure working with you Steven and you will be missed by us, that's for sure.
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
Mark, in the short time that I knew you, I knew you to be a good man, a great friend, and truly a blessing to my dear friend Dianne. You will be forever missed. May you rest in peace.
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
My old friend,

Unfortunately, we have not seen each other long and I will miss you very much.
Since our 12th Years we know each other and had a great time in Germany.
You're getting along with your brother are my best friends.

Your friend from Germany

frank
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
I go away for a few days and come back to find out about this... surely a bright light has been extinguished. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends who have truly suffered a great loss. Rest in peace, my friend.
March 13, 2013
March 13, 2013
Our thanks to all Mark's friends for your thoughts and prayers. We loved our brother very much and miss him dearly. We are devasted by our loss and know all of you are grieving too.
March 13, 2013
March 13, 2013
My dear brother I am so sad that you left me and will miss you so much. My life will never be the same again. Mom left us when she was 47 and now you have left us age 47. I am heart broken.
March 13, 2013
March 13, 2013
I can't belive we were sharing candies from Mexico and talking about bikes last week.
My heart and prayers goes out to you.
March 12, 2013
March 12, 2013
Dear Steven,

We are still in shock and cannot believe this just happen to you. We really miss you as a colleague and a friend. May God Bless your soul and rest in peace.
March 12, 2013
March 12, 2013
You will truely be forever missed my friend. My heart goes out to your family during this difficult time - my prayers are with them. I'll certainly miss seeing you at work every day and hanging out during lunch. You can bet we'll raise a glass to you when we are in Germany.
March 12, 2013
March 12, 2013
Dear Steven,

I'm really shocked and words cannot even begin to express my sorrow

Leave a Tribute

Light a Candle
Lay a Flower
Leave a Note
 
Recent Tributes
March 11, 2021
March 11, 2021
Thinking of you cousin and how we all fumbled through the tough times together and somehow had quite a few really fun and great memories!

Your passing so young was so unfair.
March 11, 2019
March 11, 2019
Never a day goes by that your not in my thoughts,I miss you so very much, hopefully there's motor cycles in heaven
March 11, 2019
March 11, 2019
Do you remember when we all five of us cleaned out that ditch so we could swim in it? Do you remember the Crawfish? Do you remember the big wheels going around Villa Armada apartments.
Do you remember how hard we all worked at laughing so we wouldn't be crying? How we stuck together when everyone and everything else was breaking apart?
I remember.
I miss you and your sister and brother and   as wierd as it seems the struggle for love, acceptance and security that we all endured together.
We all did the best we could do and I believe we managed well considering the circumstances. I know now things did not get better after Villa Armada and Brookview and I'm sorry we we're torn apart once again.
We we're all so brave and so little at the same time we had so very much love for whomever would return same.
I am proud of you.
I am proud of us all for being there for each other and sharing our burning desire to be strong and worthy of love, security and honor.
You are a good man.
You are loved and respected and honored.
Well done my cousin, well done.
Until we meet again, I love you and will do my best to be available for Christopher and Dani.
I hope you are on another great adventure.
Recent stories

Kaiserslautern

December 2, 2014

Hi Mark wir vermissen dich immer noch so sehr , glg aus Kaiserslautern

ich hoffe du hast deinen weg gefunden 

Landslide

April 2, 2013

Music has always been a special part of my life, as it was for Mark's too.  We spent many nights sitting on the front porch, him playing his guitar and me singing the best I could.  He never complained about my horrible singing.  I only sing in choirs, so solo is very difficult.  There were a few songs that we did over and over, but this is my favorite. 

Landslide - Fleetwood Mac
I took my love and I took it down
I climbed a mountain and I turned around
And I saw my reflection in the snow covered hills 
'Till the landslide brought me down
Oh, mirror in the sky What is love?
Can the child within my heart rise above?
Can I sail thru the changing ocean tides?
Can I handle the seasons of my life?
Mmm Mmm... 
Well, I've been afraid of changing
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder 
Children get older  I'm getting older too

Well, I've been afraid of changing
'Cause I, I built my life around you
But time makes you bolder 
Children get older I'm getting older too 
I'm getting older too
So, take my love, take it down
Oh climb a mountain and turn around
If you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well the landslide will bring you down, down
And If you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well maybe the landslide will bring it down
Oh oh, the landslide will bring it down


I climbed that mountain for you... 
 

Invite others to Steven's website:

Invite by email

Post to your timeline