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Loving someone and losing them, not a moment past, is never easy. However, life is not about regrets and missed opportunities – it is about living it to the fullest and touching the lives of those you love and care for.

Sue Ann, your spirit and love endures in us all. There are so many stories of your life, which you shared so selflessly with those around you, and it would be careless if we did not share those moments with the countless people whose lives you have made brighter. For each one of us has a story, a quote, a happy if not painfully, sidesplitting, laughter induced, hands on our knees, hysterical memory of you. You were always only a phone call away, even at four in the morning, if we needed someone to talk to and feel loved when we thought it impossible. In our darkest moments, you were our light and though you are no longer with us in body, your spirit and memory lives on through us all.

Sinatra sang it best in My Way and the last thing Sue Ann would want is to have a room full of people sobbing for the wrong reason, or in her case, a football stadium filled to the brim! It is never goodbye, it’s see you later, though it may 'bring a tear to me glass eye'.

Please share a memory, photo, quote, anything to help keep Sue Ann's life and love alive and with us always.

 

-HOEFLER FAMILY

December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Well, I can't believe it -- It seems like yesterday when you would come home for the holidays.  We always spent time talking and you telling your funnies to make everyone laugh. I know you and mom are watching over all of us.

oh yea -- over 30,000 visited your site - for real. you really left your make in everyone's heart.

love and miss you very much.
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
If this didn't just happened 20 minutes ago I don't think I would have posted this but I think I must. I was going through a memory box looking for a poem my son wrote to me when he was very young. Instead I came upon the poem I wrote for Sue Ann's Memorial. Here it goes.     Sue Ann you were soooo funny
One of the greatest nurse's I ever met
Our OB Bethel family, the best kept secret you can bet.
Everyone thought I was the midwife
But little did they know
There was a powerhouse on the late shift
She was really running the show.
Sue Ann could deliver any woman
Turn her body left and right
"Come on rotate that baby. I don't have all night"
I know you can hear her say that
With her honest, humorous tone
She was loved by the Native women
Never leaving anyone alone.
Her colleagues and peers adored her
Knowing she had a strong back bone.
If you ever needed someone to talk to
You could call her on the phone.
Sue Ann was so considerate, so generous and kind
Her inspiration to me is to live fully
And absolutely keep a humorous mind!
Blessings always to Sue Ann's family and friends who loved her.
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Memories of you help to make me a better nurse and person - I miss you even though I talk to you like you are right here.
December 1, 2023
December 1, 2023
SueAnn, Thinking of you on your birthday, hoping there are celebrations in heaven. You are missed and we talk about you when our nursing school buddies get together. Happy 68th friend, miss you
December 1, 2023
December 1, 2023
SueAnn,I think of you so often and all the fun we had at St. Joes. The different jokes we played on 11-7. I loved the training you gave me. You were always standing with your hands on your hips and telling some people just how it was. You know who they were! I couldn’t believe when you were connected with my daughter at the phone company and you called me at home! I loved talking with you! You are missed so very much! Heaven sure gained a beautiful angel! Love and miss you my dear friend and thank you for all the beautiful memories! I’m in California taking care of a man but someday I might retire! Happy Birthday and I know you know how very much you are missed and loved! Gayle Kelly (Brewster)
December 1, 2023
December 1, 2023
Today is your 68th Birthday sister Susie - love & miss you every day!
Hope you and mom are having a birthday celebration today.
December 11, 2022
December 11, 2022
When I am down I think of you and how I wanted to be like you! Where have the years gone? I see you- I hear you- I will never forget you -I love you
December 5, 2022
December 5, 2022
I think about you & miss you every day sister!
Keep the lights blinking - I KNOW IT IS YOU!
Thanks for watching over all of us.
December 5, 2022
December 5, 2022
Well Susie,

Been a while, think of you often especially when lights start to flicker.
I see that there are a few that still have not forgotten you - which brings joy to my heart. We also miss you being our 2nd Mom in command - LOL ! I know you hated that but, it was true. Thank you for also looking out for mom.

Miss and love you always
December 2, 2022
December 2, 2022
I remember all the times all of us had at St Joe’s! I think of you so often and laugh at all the things we did. The novel we wrote on Sister Dorothy‘s typewriter, stealing Dr Rothberg’s underwear, and all your teaching! I loved the jokes we played especially the ones with the fruit. I keep picturing you out here in California, with your hands on your hips, telling me to let them have it. I do. I'm not quite and shy anymore. Boy, would you have a ball in California with the medical community! You wouldn't believe it! I love and miss you! One day we will meet again. I know you are around because I think of you so very much! Thanks for the good times and the memories! You were and are very special to me! Until we meet again, keep them laughing! Happy Birthday in Heaven! The same as Dr Schiavone‘s and Kelly Hamula’s! You are all special. I still write a lot! I'm still taking care of people in my old age! You taught us all well! You are loved and missed so very much!♥️☦️❤️
December 1, 2022
December 1, 2022
Fondly remembering our time together at Sitka Community Hospital❤️ Always felt more secure knowing you were on duty!The laughing was good medicine too!!
December 1, 2022
December 1, 2022
Been thinking about all our escapades recently, and how much fun we always had! Miss your smiling face. Wishing you a heavenly happy birthday friend!
           Love ya
December 11, 2021
December 11, 2021
Hey Sister 11 years ago we lost you ....seems like yesterday! I think of you every day and miss you so much! Love you sister
December 6, 2021
December 6, 2021
Sister your most favorite time of the year is fast approaching. I know you must be giving Uncle Richie, Jack and dad some shit up there. Well at least you will keep them laughing and on their toes. Thanks for still hanging around I know you are always here.

PS - left this in between your Birthday and the day you decided to leave us.

LOVE and MISS you !!!!!!!!!!!
December 1, 2021
December 1, 2021
Happy 66th Birthday sister - forever young!
special alway think of you - love and miss lot amazing  Hug
December 1, 2021
December 1, 2021
Happy 66th Birthday sister - forever young!

Miss you dearly
December 1, 2021
December 1, 2021
SueAnn,
Forever missed my friend! Happy Heavenly Birthday! Love ya
October 7, 2021
October 7, 2021
Sue it has been a while since I have left you a note. So I could not sleep and thought of you and decided to say Hi. Hope with so many that have pasted down here that you are being a kick...ass up there.

Anyhow, love and miss ya
December 11, 2020
December 11, 2020
My Dear Sister Susie

Today marks 10 years since you left planet earth. I think of you every day. Burning your AK candle today with a glass tear in my eye ... missing you dearly my sister. Give me a sign you are getting this message;)
Love you sister..... JoAnne
December 11, 2020
December 11, 2020
Good morning Sister - 10 years !! -- MISS YOU

Rest, while I think of you every day and the times we shared good and bad (LOL) & I am always looking at the AK weather and Earthquakes too for you. 

With Love always - Sister
December 10, 2020
December 10, 2020
I can hardly believe it has been ten years. Ten years of missing our wonderful friendship, sharing funny stories and great belly laughs, late-night conversations, your wisdom, your beautiful smile, and big, giant bear hugs. Sue Ann, you are loved tremendously and always remembered.

With much love to the Hoefler Family-
Nancy Blake
xo
December 2, 2020
December 2, 2020
Hey Sister Susie - Happy 65th Birthday !

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you , Happy Birthday dear sister Happy Birthday to you !!!

Miss you dearly & think of you every single day!

Love you forever and always
Sister JoAnne
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
Greetings my Sister
That was a quick 365 days ....here we are at your 65th birthday

I missed the time we would spend together

Love you & miss you
Joey
\m/,
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
Well - well my sister. I know you have been around checking up on everyone, I hope you are also keeping everyone up there in line too - I am more than certain they all need to keep towing the line - LOL.

Miss you / Love you and most of all love the conversations and the humor. 
Again Happy Birthday, HUGS & KISSES
Your SIS
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
As soon as I woke up this morning I was remembering you Sue Ann. What a light you were in this world and continue to shine. I am keeping my candle lit for you today and for all the family and friends who miss you so! You still make me smile.
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
Happy Birthday Sue Ann, You still live in the hearts of all who knew and loved you!
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
HAPPY BIRHTHDAY SUE ANN! YOU ARE GONE 10 YRS BUT REMEMBERED EVERY SINGLE DAY SINCE  --- LOVE YOU ALWAYS MOM
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
Happy Heavenly Birthday Sue. I remember your smile that lit up a room. 
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
I still remember the smile that Sue Ann would always bring to my face as I made rounds at Sitka Community Hospital. A much -needed smile at the end of a long day!
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
Kaitie got married!!!!
Your picture was on the table in loving memory!!!
We miss you!!

Margie
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
SueAnn, been thinking about you alot recently. Miss talking with you. Wishing you a very Happy Birthday friend. Love ya
December 11, 2019
December 11, 2019
Sister Susie - today marks 9 years that you have left us... it seems like yesterday. Your spirit is live on. Every time a light bulb burns or something strange happens with the electricity ... I know it is you communicating with me. The Last two days my toaster has been acting up .... must be you ! I think about you every day , I love, I miss you ... love sister JoAnne
December 11, 2019
December 11, 2019
ANOTHER YEAR GONE BY BUT REMEMBERED AND LOVED EVERY DAY

LOVE YOU
MOM
December 5, 2019
December 5, 2019
HELLO SUE ANN JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW YOU ARE LOVED AND REMEMBERED EVERY SINGLE DAY.

I LOVE YOU
MOM
December 1, 2019
December 1, 2019
Happy 64th birthday My sister ...
it’s been 3,277 days since the last time we talked..... 11 days earlier on your 55th birthday I slipped out & pick you some white chocolate to fill you’re craving and simple birthday wish :)

It seems like yesterday

I’ve been listening to Frank Sinatra sing to us all day ..... as we did in Bethel 1993 on my first Thanksgiving trip ....
we play Jon Secada “ Just another day“
as we prepared incredible meal for your friends
We played that one song from the moment we woke up until that evening when everyone showed up for dinner .... You loved, helped & touched the lives of so many people!!!
then dance to the same song that Saturday @ the community Holiday party!! What a hoot!!! We defiantly knew the words !!

All Perfect Moments in time !!

Did i mention ...... "It seems like yesterday" !!!

I love you and miss you!!!
\m/, your brother Joey
: )
December 1, 2019
December 1, 2019
Happy 64th Birthday sister... we miss you every moment of every day.
Wish you were here.
Love you!
December 1, 2019
December 1, 2019
I will always be convinced that God took Sue Ann so soon because there is a greater need for her in heaven!
December 1, 2019
December 1, 2019
Wishing you a Heavenly Happy Birthday my friend! Miss you so much! Love ya
July 16, 2019
July 16, 2019
Good afternoon my Sister,
Thinking of you today and thought I would just drop you a note and say "HI"
Miss Ya every day - love ya always.
December 11, 2018
December 11, 2018
Thinking of you, Sue Ann, and missing you always.
December 11, 2018
December 11, 2018
Sister, 
never a day goes by that I don't think and miss you. I know you still come and visit - just want to know that I know you are there.
Love and miss ya !!!!
December 1, 2018
December 1, 2018
Happy birthday SueAnn!! I still miss you my friend! Was that you shaking Alaska yesterday? :)  
Love you so much,
Renee
December 1, 2018
December 1, 2018
Happy Birthday my sister. Love and miss you.
See JoAnne told you about he Quake -- was not to far north of you maybe about1/2 mile or less. I guess roads got a little tore up too. I hope your home was not damaged to bad.
Anyhow see ya sometime.
December 1, 2018
December 1, 2018
Happy 63rd Birthday Sister ! Never a day goes by that I don't think of you SueAnn.  I burn a candle for you today
Love & miss you forever & ever............. a glass tear to my eye ...
PS - 7.0 earth quake in AK yesterday and my AK calendar fell off the refrigerator this morning ... I feel your presence.
December 11, 2017
December 11, 2017
SueAnn been 7 years today since you left us. I think of you every day my sister. Burning a candle - missing you always & forever, your little sis
December 1, 2017
December 1, 2017
Sue Ann, want to wish you a very happy birthday. Still missing you my friend. Love you,  Colleen
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December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Well, I can't believe it -- It seems like yesterday when you would come home for the holidays.  We always spent time talking and you telling your funnies to make everyone laugh. I know you and mom are watching over all of us.

oh yea -- over 30,000 visited your site - for real. you really left your make in everyone's heart.

love and miss you very much.
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
If this didn't just happened 20 minutes ago I don't think I would have posted this but I think I must. I was going through a memory box looking for a poem my son wrote to me when he was very young. Instead I came upon the poem I wrote for Sue Ann's Memorial. Here it goes.     Sue Ann you were soooo funny
One of the greatest nurse's I ever met
Our OB Bethel family, the best kept secret you can bet.
Everyone thought I was the midwife
But little did they know
There was a powerhouse on the late shift
She was really running the show.
Sue Ann could deliver any woman
Turn her body left and right
"Come on rotate that baby. I don't have all night"
I know you can hear her say that
With her honest, humorous tone
She was loved by the Native women
Never leaving anyone alone.
Her colleagues and peers adored her
Knowing she had a strong back bone.
If you ever needed someone to talk to
You could call her on the phone.
Sue Ann was so considerate, so generous and kind
Her inspiration to me is to live fully
And absolutely keep a humorous mind!
Blessings always to Sue Ann's family and friends who loved her.
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Memories of you help to make me a better nurse and person - I miss you even though I talk to you like you are right here.
Recent stories

Sunset over Sleeping Lady

December 1, 2014

I couldn't have asked for a better tour of Alaska or better company than to be with my wonderful sister and two amazing aunts and roadtrip an impressive 5,000 miles in the course of 2 weeks.

love and miss you suzy : )

-Your Nephew- 

Snow Cake

December 2, 2013

Happy Birthday Sue,

When we woke up this morning, we looked outside and saw a snow cake on top of our table, so we decorated it for you...... We love and miss you,

Arllen, Tom and Julito

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