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   Sue Howton Buckner was the 3rd of 6 children born to Willie Wright Howton and Rosa Nicholson. 

   A lifelong resident of the Birmingham, Alabama area, she graduated from Jones Valley High School and retired from General Motors with thirty years of service.   She was an avid Alabama Crimson Tide fan, loved the beach, and traveled the world with her devoted husband, Roy Ray Buckner.  
   She was constantly surrounded by her surviving family throughout her life; her daughter, Kitty S. Coats; her siblings, William Howton, Nell (and Gordon) Apperson, Donald (and Bea) Howton, and Michael Howton; her grandchildren, Tisha, Somer, and Adam; her great grandchildren, London and Lucy, Lily and Lola; and nephews, nieces, step children and step grandchildren.  She was preceeded in death by her husband, parents, and brother(Robert Howton).
    Please take time to visit the pages and submit a story and/or photograph of our wonderful grandmother, mother, and friend, Nettie Sue.  We miss her very much and she will always be in our thoughts and hearts.

   In lieu of flowers, you can make a donation in her name
to the American Cancer Society by following the link below:

http://main.acsevents.org/goto/SueHBuckner


This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Sue Buckner, 84, born on January 21, 1931 and passed away on July 23, 2015. We will remember her forever.

January 21
January 21
Heavenly birthday wishes are the hardest to send. But I'm hoping you receive them with all the love in our hearts. My mind fills with memories of all the birthdays past, as I wish you a Happy Birthday in heaven. I am hoping you receive our Birthday wishes and know you are missed, with all the love in my heart.
I love you, mom!
December 26, 2023
December 26, 2023
Merry Christmas Mom!
Well, Thanksgiving was shared with all the family and was fun and exhausting as always. The grandkids are all getting so big and sassy. We only have the two, Lucas and Porter, still little and a funny mess.
We spent Christmas Eve and Day together opening gifts and watching the same movie (A Christmas Story) all day! Everyone was there except Adam, Regina and Porter, they went to Ohio to visit Regina's family. All in all, everyone seemed happy and glad to share some time.
We miss you but see you often in things we do and say to each other.
I love you Mom!
May 14, 2023
May 14, 2023
I may not be able to give you flowers or gifts, but I offer my heartfelt gratitude on this Mother's Day. You were an extraordinary mother, any your memory brings me comfort. I miss you Mom and love you always, Kitty
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Happy birthday Mom, there is not one day that I am not thinking about you. While you may not be with us, I hope you know that you are always in my heart and I will never forget all that you have taught us. Have a very happy birthday in Heaven Mom, I love you.
We miss you Mom!
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
We love and miss you!
December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday.
Unheard but always near still loved, still missed and very dear.

We miss you Mom and love you!
July 24, 2022
July 24, 2022
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”
Yesterday makes seven years when you left but we still think of you every day.

We miss and love you forever, mom
May 10, 2022
May 10, 2022
Happy Mother's Day Mom!
I was born on Mother's day so my birthday is my mother's day celebration.
I miss you and think of you every day!

I love you!
January 21, 2022
January 21, 2022
Happy Birthday Mom!
My Mom always made our birthdays so special. My family will celebrate this great woman by gathering together and sharing memories at the Bright Star on Sunday!
I love you!
January 21, 2022
January 21, 2022
“You can keep your willpower, Frog. I am going home to bake a cake.” -A.Lobel; Frog and Toad Are Friends
December 27, 2021
December 27, 2021
“Four Candles”
The first candle, reminds us of the depth of our love for you.
This second candle represents our courage, To change our lives.
This third candle we light in your memory, For the times we laughed,
The caring and joy you gave to us.
This fourth candle we light for our love. that your light will always shine.
This holiday season we shared a remembrance, We thank you for the gift your living brought to each of us.
We love you!
November 25, 2021
November 25, 2021
There’s not a day in all the year
  But holds some hidden pleasure,
And looking back, joys oft appear
  To brim the past’s wide measure.
But blessings are like friends, I hold,
  Who love and labor near us.
We ought to raise our notes of praise
  While living hearts can hear us.
(Ella Wheeler Wilcox )
You were missed this Thanksgiving and will always be in out hearts.
I love you mom!
July 23, 2021
July 23, 2021
To Mom,
Though her smile is gone forever
and her hand I cannot touch
I still have so many memories
Of the one I loved so much.
Her memory is now my keepsake
Which with I’ll never part.
God has her in her keeping
I have her in my heart.
I love you mom!
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
As Helen Keller said, "What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us."
Happy Mother's Day Mom! I love you and miss you!
Always!
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
If we could bring you back again, for one more hour or day. We’d express all out unspoken love, we would have countless things to say. If we could bring you back again, we’d say we treasured you and that your presence in out lives meant more than we ever knew. If we could bring you back again, to tell you what we should, you’d know how much we miss you now, and if we could, we would. We love you Mom! Happy Birthday!
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine always upon your face,
the rain fall soft on your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
December 25, 2020
December 25, 2020
Although it’s sad to reminisce on Christmases we knew,
this year I shall celebrate in memory of you.

I’ll put aside my sorrow with every unshed tear,
and concentrate on all the joy we shared when you were here.

Our time together taught me what Christmas time is for,
and that’s what I’ll remember until we meet once more.

This poem is from an unknown author but I felt It would acknowledge our thoughts and feelings. We do miss you all year, please know we still think and cherish you and always will. I love you!
July 23, 2020
July 23, 2020
The roses I’m sending today are for my beautiful mother in heaven. I am missing you always but, forgetting you never. My mind still talks to you, my heart still sees you. You were my best critic, yet my strongest supporter.
Today is the day I dread out of the whole year. I think of you in silence and will forever keep your memory in my heart.  I love you mom!
I miss you
January 22, 2020
January 22, 2020

Happy Birthday in Heaven, Mom! Not a day goes by when I don’t think of you, miss you, love you! May Angels hold you closely and sing you a birthday song!
I love you Mom!
December 25, 2019
December 25, 2019
"At Christmas, all roads lead home." - Marjorie Holmes
No matter where we are in the world on this special day, there's only one place we truly want to be.
"The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree: the presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other." - Burton Hillis
As amazing as the presents inside all the wrapped boxes and stuffed bags can be, it is truly the people that make the place on this special day.
We were all together this year for the first time in six years. It felt good and I felt happy knowing I'm blessed with a very close and loving family. These lessons are learned from past years and you were always a huge part of our lives. We miss and love you very much! Merry Christmas Mom! I love you!
July 25, 2019
July 25, 2019
Next to love, sympathy is the divinest passion of the human heart.
Edmund Burke
One person caring about another represents life's greatest value.
Jim Rohn
We miss you Mom every day and keep you in our hearts!
Wish Granddaddy Happy Birthday!
I love you Mom!
May 16, 2019
May 16, 2019
Be kind and tender to the Frog,
And do not call him names,
As 'Slimy skin,' or 'Polly-wog,'
Or likewise 'Ugly James,'
Or 'Gap-a-grin,' or 'Toad-gone-wrong,'
Or 'Bill Bandy-knees':
The Frog is justly sensitive
To epithets like these.
No animal will more repay
A treatment kind and fair;
At least so lonely people say
Who keep a frog (and, by the way,
They are extremely rare).
May 13, 2019
May 13, 2019
A mother gives her children
Stepping stones to the stars
Her love is unconditional
Her heart has no bars
A mother teaches her children
To be confident and bold
Her special love for her children
More valuable than silver or gold!
This morning we had biscuits and fig jam just like most Sundays with you and felt you as we know you are always watching. Remember we love you!
Happy Mother's day mom, I love you and miss you and think about you always!
April 21, 2019
April 21, 2019
If flowers grow in heaven Lord, then pick a bunch for me then place them in my mother’s arms and tell her they’re from me. Tell her that I love and miss her and when she turns to smile, place a kiss upon her cheek and hold her for awhile. Happy Easter mom, I love you!
January 21, 2019
January 21, 2019
Dear Mom,
Today is your birthday. I want to thank you for always being there for us.
I have been blessed to have such a strong and loving example for a mother.
On this day, my hope is that you will feel the love of all who adore you. I hope you have peace in your soul, laughter in your heart, a smile on your face & enough chocolate cake to share.
I Love You Mom! Happy Birthday!
December 25, 2018
December 25, 2018
There’s a very special place
beyond the skies above
somewhere very peaceful
that is full of light and love
That special place is Heaven
where you’re free to laugh and roam
it was your time to go there
so the angels took you home
And though you’re in our thoughts
each single day throughout the year
at special times like Christmas
we all wish you could be here
Now you’re in a better place
your soul is laid to rest
safe with all the angels
for they only take the best
Merry Christmas Mom! We miss you and wish you could be apart of the madness here.....great grand children growing too fast but all very special and beautiful. You would be very proud! I Love You and Miss You!
July 25, 2018
July 25, 2018
Corvettes, Clinique, Bradford Pear tree, Alabama football, Opery Land, Gulf Shores, world traveling, banana pudding, and frogs
July 23, 2018
July 23, 2018
You can shed tears that she is gone
or you can smile because she has lived
You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back
Or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that she’s gone
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
or you can do what she’d want:
smile,
open your eyes,
love
and go on.
Please remember we love you and miss you dearly. i wish you were here and I will love you always! I love you, Kitty
May 13, 2018
May 13, 2018
I'll Celebrate Instead of Cry
Another Mother's Day is here,
And I still miss having you near.
You were the best mom you could be,
And I never once doubted your love for me.

Missing you Mom on Mothers Day the girls and I celebrated together and wishing you could be here!
I love you Mom!
April 2, 2018
April 2, 2018
"There is this wound; it hurts so bad.
It always appears when I am sad.
No matter what I do, it won't go away.
It's in my heart where it will always stay".
Thinking of you Mom on Easter! I love and miss you!
January 21, 2018
January 21, 2018
We miss you, Grandmother. Hope you are celebrating your birthday surrounded by family.
January 21, 2018
January 21, 2018
Today Is Your Birthday Mom
In Heaven Above ..
My Blessings I Send
On The Wings Of A Dove.
Not Just For Today
But Everyday Hereof ..
I Think Of You Always
With All Of My Love.
Always Loved, Forever Missed!
You are always in our hearts and minds, I love you Mom!
December 25, 2017
December 25, 2017
Merry Christmas Mom - We miss you very much! We remember all the Christmas times we shared and all of the joyful things that make "Family Love". I wish you were here. The great grand children are growing fast and little Lucas will be 1 year old in April 2018! You would have loved him so! I love you Mom!
July 31, 2017
July 31, 2017
Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon;
and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. ~ Rossiter Worthington Raymond. We miss you Mom and think of you every day! July is a hard month to endure! I love you!
May 14, 2017
May 14, 2017
Happy Mothers Day I miss you mom! Your mother is always with you...
She's the whisper of the leaves
as you walk down the street.
She's the smell of bleach in
your freshly laundered socks.
She's the cool hand on your
brow when you're not well.
Your mother lives inside
your laughter. She's crystallized
in every tear drop...
She's the place you came from,
your first home.. She's the map you
follow with every step that you take.
She's your first love and your first heart
break....and nothing on earth can separate you.
Not time, Not space...
Not even death....
will ever separate you
from your mother....
You carry her inside of you....
I love you mom!
January 21, 2017
January 21, 2017
A limb has fallen from the family tree.
I keep hearing a voice that says, "Grieve not for me.
Remember the best times, the laughter, the song.
The good life I lived while I was strong.
Continue my heritage, I'm counting on you.
Keep smiling and surely the sun will shine through.
My mind is at ease, my soul is at rest.
Remembering all, how I truly was blessed.
Continue traditions, no matter how small.
Go on with your life, don't worry about falls
I miss you all dearly, so keep up your chin.
Until the day comes we're together again.
January 21, 2017
January 21, 2017
"Happy Birthday Mom", today is your Birthday in Heaven Above, My Blessings I send on the wings of a Dove, not just for today but everyday Hereof...I think of you Always - With All of My Love! I Love You Mom!
December 25, 2016
December 25, 2016
Christmastime is full of Joy, but now without you Mom the memories surround us and its easy to be sad. Knowing you will be watching we will celebrate those memories with pride! Your love is here to guide us in every thing we do and we give thanks at Christmastime in memory of you! I love you and Miss you Mom!
July 23, 2016
July 23, 2016
Our thoughts are ever with you, though you have passed away. And those who loved you dearly are thinking of you today.
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day, Unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed and forever here!
I love you mom!
May 7, 2016
May 7, 2016
Your mother is always with you...
She's the whisper of the leaves
as you walk down the street.
She's the smell of bleach in
your freshly laundered socks.
She's the cool hand on your
brow when you're not well.
Your mother lives inside
your laughter. She's crystallized
in every tear drop...
She's the place you came from,
your first home.. She's the map you
follow with every step that you take.
She's your first love and your first heart
break....and nothing on earth can separate you.
Not time, Not space...
Not even death....
will ever separate you
from your mother....
You carry her inside of you....

Happy Mothers Day! I miss you and love you forever!
January 21, 2016
January 21, 2016
With an ache in my heart I whisper low, Happy Birthday Mom I miss you so, I love you!
Put your arms around her Lord for today is my mom's birthday, her first away from home, we love you......
September 26, 2015
September 26, 2015
Dear Kitty, Tisha, Somer, Adam, London, Lucy, Lilly & Lola...Knowing and Loving you all these many years there was one constant that was always evident. The Love and Pride you all share within your family. Sue was the Matriarch of this loving family and led with Love and Class. She was the true definition of a lady and her presence is evident in each and every one of you. She helped shape each of you into the very special people you are and for that I know she is very proud. She Loves you with all of her heart and watches over you every day and in every way. Of that you can be sure. My heart hurts for your loss...keep each other close and continue what she started. All My Love Marlene
July 29, 2015
July 29, 2015
Kitty,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family in the loss of your mother. May her love live as precious memories always in your heart and help you find peace and comfort.
I pray God provide you guidance and strength during this difficult time.
My deepest sympathy, Rachelle
July 28, 2015
July 28, 2015
Kitty and Family, I did not have the opportunity to meet Kitty’s mother but I know Kitty and based on Kitty…I know Sue Howton Buckner was a graceful lady and a loving and caring person. There is no greater gift you can give someone that is to show them love and I believe Sue Howton Buckner showed that every day to her family…because I know what kind of person Kitty is and “the apple does not fall far from the tree”. Keep caring and loving one another…God Bless You!! Curtis
July 27, 2015
July 27, 2015
Kitty,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm very sorry to hear about the passing of your dear mother.

Neva
July 27, 2015
July 27, 2015
know you will miss her......she was a wonderful mother and grandmother to yall.....May God be with all of you.....love you....Aunt Tricia
July 27, 2015
July 27, 2015
My prayers are with you and your family. May God comfort and strengthen you as you celebrate your mom's remarkable life and the memories you shared!!
Dedra
July 27, 2015
July 27, 2015
Kitty,

We are deeply saddened by the loss of your mother. "Those we love don't go away. They walk beside us every day. Death leaves heartaches that no one can heel. Love leaves memories that no one can steal." May you find comfort in the loving memories of your mother. May the passage of time heel your grief. Our thoughts are with you. 

With deepest sympathy,
Angie
July 26, 2015
July 26, 2015
Don and I are saddened by the loss of our sister. She was such a pretty lady and a joy to be around. We loved her vey much although we didn't get to see her often. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Rest in peace!
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January 21
January 21
Heavenly birthday wishes are the hardest to send. But I'm hoping you receive them with all the love in our hearts. My mind fills with memories of all the birthdays past, as I wish you a Happy Birthday in heaven. I am hoping you receive our Birthday wishes and know you are missed, with all the love in my heart.
I love you, mom!
December 26, 2023
December 26, 2023
Merry Christmas Mom!
Well, Thanksgiving was shared with all the family and was fun and exhausting as always. The grandkids are all getting so big and sassy. We only have the two, Lucas and Porter, still little and a funny mess.
We spent Christmas Eve and Day together opening gifts and watching the same movie (A Christmas Story) all day! Everyone was there except Adam, Regina and Porter, they went to Ohio to visit Regina's family. All in all, everyone seemed happy and glad to share some time.
We miss you but see you often in things we do and say to each other.
I love you Mom!
May 14, 2023
May 14, 2023
I may not be able to give you flowers or gifts, but I offer my heartfelt gratitude on this Mother's Day. You were an extraordinary mother, any your memory brings me comfort. I miss you Mom and love you always, Kitty
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July 26, 2015

My grandmother was a one of a kind woman, and as my mother so perfectly put, she was a true southern woman. She was never one to shy away from speaking her mind, and while she may not have always understood the trends of the generations she witnessed come and go out of her doors, she would usually listen with a smile regardless and entertain the idea. Her smile was infectious. She was a little blonde woman from a small place in Alabama who was fortunate enough to make something of herself through a dedicated work ethic, and it paid off down the road as she got to experience all sorts of different worlds and cultures through her traveling with grandaddy. It was an unexpected yet enlightening suprise to hear of the experiences she gained whenever a foreign country she had visited was brought up in just casual conversation. What I truly enjoyed the most, and miss more than anything, were those Sunday breakfasts at her house. There was never a shortage in the biscuits and gravy, and we never left that table hungry. I cherished sitting there, as the grandchildren ran amock through the house in their latest sugar induced frenzy, and we would all just talk among one another until the weather was right for a dip in the pool. Those days were always a favorite of mine, and it held as something to look forward to at the end of the week. No matter what your plans may be, on Sunday morning you were at that table. There can never be another Sue Buckner, because how could there be? She was a gem of her generation. A loss like this is never easy, but she taught us so much about not only who she was, but of where I was born, and where most of our families roots come from. She leaves us with great memories that will have us smiling and laughing for years to come. 

I love you Grandmother.

-Adam 

July 26, 2015

I was saddened to hear of grandmothers passing. She was always there to listen to me.  The funny one story is she wanted me to fix her hair and I got the curling iron stuck in her hair. She just laughed and said you crazy girl I thought you knew what you were doing   I had many good times and will treasure the good times we had.  Rest in peace until we meet again.  Give Bradley a hug and kiss and grandaddy. 

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