Tomorrow is April 1, one ofyour most favorite days of the year, Al's birthday. So Happy Birthday to my brother, who my mother was so proud of, in all that he did. Both my brother and his entire family were a source of joy and pride throughout her life. And Happy Birthday to her other favorite April Birthday boy, my dad.
Although you and dad were not here for Ian's teen years there is something to be said about living on through family. Ian attended college for a year but it just wasn't what he wanted, even though his grades were great, everyday he had to attend was a real challenge. But I insisted that he try.
So the next question was what are you going to do for the rest of your life. I was surprised by the answer, " I really want to be a mechanic." I got him an opportunity to spend some time in an auto shop figuring he could see what was involved before he made that decision and I paid for the schooling. It only made him more positive that he wanted that to be his career. So this year he spent in automotive training school, not once did he miss, in fact he looked forward to going to class!! He passed his final test easily and got his first level certificate. He has one more year which he is truly looking forward too! I plainly see dad when he talks about mechanics and wanting to help people.
I am reliving a very big part of my childhood, being told, "Don't (Ian he says please don't, dad did not bother with the please) take tools without asking, and be sure to return them to there spot when you're done!" How could two men who never worked together have the exact same "rule"? Oh, and it is mind boggling how organized the garage is, a mirror image of the garage at 112 Arlington, South Plainfield. We put up a shed so everyday yard tools aren't mixed with the mechanic tools. Just like my dad his friends stop over and he helps them if he can. He has more to learn but he is just as comfortable and focused about fixing cars as his great grandfather was. Go figure, there is something to be said for living on through our kids and their kids.
Happy Birthday---Love, Ann