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Her Life

After Japan

February 23, 2014

After they got married in February of 1951 in Japan, they went back to Fall River Massachusetts where they birthed my brother Scott. The hospital one week stay in 1951 cost a whopping $116.00! We still have the original bill! They relocated to Los Angeles where they had me in 1954. My Mom's relatives all lived there so we had a great time spending a lot of time with her family, sisters, and all of my cousins. Though Mom's family initially disapproved of her marrying a non Japanese, my Dad, always made them laugh and eventually won them over! Dad passed away in December 2008 and we still miss him dearly. We then moved up to San Francisco/Daly City in 1963 as Dad took a job up here. Mom kept in touch with her LA family through the years and also made many friends up here in SF. Mom and Dad leave behind a son, my brother Scott, and their daughter, me! They are also survived by 4 grandsons who love them very much, Bryce and Connor Rankin and Tyler and Kobe Alves. They are forever in our hearts, with both feelings of smiles and gratitude for the love and times we shared and sadness and tears knowing that our journey together with them on earth has ended. They are also survived by many nieces, nephews, and friends who love them and will miss them.

Mom's Amazing Life....

February 23, 2014
Mom was one of many children of a family who immigrated from Japan. Her siblings were all born in Japan, she was the last and youngest child and was born in Oxnard, CA. Her father died when she was 3 and her mother died when she was 6. She was raised by her older sisters. They had a family restaurant, Mom would hang out there as a child. She loved her older brother who was isolated in the attic due to TB or another contagious disease. She would often get in trouble for sneaking up to visit him. When she was a young teen, she and her family lost all their hard earned possessions and were sent to an internment camp in Gila Bend Arizona where they spent several years. When she was released, she chose to go to Chicago and then eventually took a job with the government in Japan where she managed an office staff who investigated war crimes. It was there that she met my Dad, Robert Louis Alves, a mere 21 year old who joined the Air Force and was stationed in Japan from a small town, Fall River in Massachusetts. They fell in love and got married in Japan and braved the hostility from both sides of the family about their interracial marriage which was unheard of at that time. They were brave pioneers.