- 22 years old
- Date of birth: Sep 13, 1984
- Place of birth:
Concord, New Hampshire, United States
- Date of passing: Mar 30, 2007
- Place of passing:
Concord, New Hampshire, United States
|Let the memory of Tabitha be with us forever|
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Tabitha (Thibeault) Merchant who was born on September 13, 1984 and passed away on March 30, 2007. We will remember her forever.
"It's hard to enjoy the Holidays without you Tabitha (My O-P-Lay-Lee). As I scroll through your picture's today, I get a sense of emptiness within. Some picture's make me happy and some make me sad. I will always remember and cherish the times we had. I see a lot of you in Jazmyn and Jayden. Its like watching you grow over again. I think of you a lot. I Love and miss you beyond words or thoughts. You will never be forgotten. Love your Daddy"
I love and miss you so very much"
"Happy birthday little sis. I love you and miss you everyday."
"So many memories, so many tears, I would give anything to have you here. As long as your in our memories and in our Hearts, we will always Love you and never be far apart. Jazmyn and Jayden helps keep your memories from fading, for we see you in everything they do. May God bless and keep you until the day we can reunite. Happy 32nd Birthday my Angel Love Daddy"
Tear drops, slow and steady, the pain so real and true,
God took another angel, and that angel, dear, was you.
Angel wings, upon the clouds, your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little princess, no more tears you have to weep.
Memories and little prayers, we all are mourning you,
But we will all celebrate the short life you led; we will never forget you.
I know God will look after you, now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon, your legacy will survive.
You are beautiful, you are endless, now stretch your wings and fly,
We love you so, I love you so, but now we say goodbye.
Close your pretty eyes, no more tears, just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully, we know you did your best.
It was your time, so as we cry, go forward that extra mile,
You did what you were sent to do, you made everybody smile.
By: Christelle Dardagos"
"9 YEARS! :/ It is unbelievable that it has been so long since I have seen your face! :( I miss you so much today and everyday! I wish you were here to see your nieces and nephew! :( I have the pictures of you and Tabitha Dawsen and I often look at them and even tho they didn't meet you they will always know who Auntie Tabitha was! I love you big sister always and forever."
I can't believe it's been 9 years since I've last seen you... Time goes by too quickly . I wish I spent more time with you... Sometimes I wish I didn't move so far away, but you were always my friend and I'm grateful I got to know you and meet your babies! Jaz looks so much like you! I've seen recent pics and I can't believe how big they are . I just wanted to let you know you'll never be forgotten and you're always missed! I miss your face! I love you tab-a-ma-tha ❤️"
"Missing my O-P-Lay-Lee"
"Tears instead of wishes, Flowers instead of cards, You left us precious memories that will stay within our hearts. Thinking of you on your
birthday we speak of you still, We haven't forgotten you and we never will. There's a place in our hearts no one can fill, We love and miss you Tabitha and we always will. Love our O-P-Lay-Lee Mom and dad"
"Happy birthday big sister I love you forever and always. Miss you everyday <3"
"Happy birthday my sweet angel"
"In Loving memory of our precious Daughter Tabitha,
Sept 13th, 1984 thru March 30th, 2007
We have tried so many times to describe the feeling of loss and despair that followed Tabitha's death. We don't think we will ever manage to completely convey our true feelings.
There is nothing worse than caring for a child, loving it and dreaming of its future only to have it ripped away from you. The Pain of losing your child is so incomprehensible to those who have not experienced it.
Tomorrow Tabitha would have turned 31 years old and how we wish we could have seen what a beautiful woman and mother she would have become. We can only imagine where she would be at this point in her life.
The emptiness we will always have in our hearts, she used to fill with her smiles, laughter, kisses, kindness and her love. As time goes on we miss her more and more and look forward to the day when we will be together again.
Our lives have to go on with only her memories and pictures. Although it’s not easy, we do take comfort in knowing that she will be with us and until we are together again she will always live in our Hearts
Happy 31st Birthday Tabitha, We love and miss you so much
Mom and Dad"
"Tab I know tab tiff baby and we both love each
other I hope you know that me and tabby nedeau are like you and tiff my mom says hi.this is beautiful tony"
"Hey beautiful! It's been a long time! Too long.. I've been thinking about you a lot lately and hanging out with Tamara! I miss those days! I wish we could go back to that time for one day! But it wouldn't be enough. Happy birthday, Mother's Day, merry Christmas , happy thanksgiving , happy Halloween! Every holiday I've missed. I miss your kids! You were an amazing mother and I know you're watching over them! Do you remember the time you came over my house and used Nair for the first time? Lol "is this SUPPOSE to burn?!" ... "Uhhh I think we did this wrong " we had a lot of good times! Best memories of my life are with you! I miss you every day. If you could find a way to come back, please do!!! Your family. Kids and friends miss you and want you here more than anything! You were a good friend and I'll never forget the awesome times we've had! I miss you! And I love you tab -a-ma-tha! <3"
"I wanted to stop by today to say I love you so much and how big your little ones are getting so big, love them so much Jazzy looks just like you, Jayden is my angelboy and getting big as well. love you miss you every day HUGS AND BIG KISS'S
TALK AGAIN REAL SOON LOVE YA BEAUTIFUL"
"hey hun its been awhile have some health problems but you no me wont let it stop me. I miss you more and more everyday a lot of changes this passed year but not by my choise but ill get threw that too jazmyn and jayden are so big now and we talk about you often wish you could be here to see tiffanys kids and tjs littlest one Olivia and how big mary now is it is so unfair that you have to miss out on all this you should be here with us all any way I love you and I miss you so very much love mom"
"A poem written in memory of my daughter Tabitha
As the years have gone by with out you at my side, I still find it hard to find the words to describe, The feelings of despair which I can not share. Its been eight years since you’ve been gone, I think of you every day and sometimes all night long. My Heart has a very big void, Which I have try to fill with the memories of our laughter and Joy, I will always miss you this much is so We will be together soon this much I know. Until we meet again, always remember I will keep you in my heart and Love you for ever.
Love always and forever your Dad."
I miss you like crazy ! I have a beautiful little boy now , he's perfect bright blue eyes and beautiful tan skin with curly hair, you would absouletly fall in love with . It's been a rough four months with him . He has a bad heart condition and before surgery I had a fear of losing him .. Worried he would stop breathing at night. I would think of you long nights without sleep and knew you would want me to stay as strong as possible the seven hour long surgery he had I just sat there looking up hoping you would keep him strong enough to make it through it and he did ! You honestly are my guardian angel ! He's getting stronger each day and I thank you for that ! I will always be thinking of you and as preston gets older I'll have him come with me every year to your grave to wish you a Happy Birthday . You made me who I am today <3 Ill be the best mom ever for preston and also you ! Love you my Tabba wabba
Blue , purple , pink and yellow
Keep my baby safe please he's my life
Forever and always I will be thinking of you <3"
"You are so missed by so very many. Does not seem that long ago that you left to live with our Lord. The kids are so great and turning into great young children. I know that you already know that as you are watching all of us. I do miss you a lot and until we
meet again just know we think of you always. Love, hugs from. Gram"
It's been to long.. not a day goes by that I don't think of you ! I miss you so much! Im 19 now, amd am going to have my own little nugget in september ! Im hopeing her or she is gunna wanna come september 13th, everyone thinks that would be so cool. Your little nugget jazzy is getting too big! She looks just like you!! Absolutely beautiful, kills me every time I see her. She reminds us so much of you, from the Big heart to the beautiful person she is. I try to see her as much as I can so she has some one to talk to and feel comfortable with. When I talk to her I feel like I'm talking to you. You were like a big sister to me, i miss you so much tabby <3
"The emptiness we will always have in our hearts, Tabitha used to fill with her smiles, laughter, kisses, kindness and her love. As time goes on we miss her more and more and look forward to the day when we will be together again. Happy 30th Birthday, We love and miss you so much."
"Love you and miss you so much love you sis"
"7 years today, can't even believe it it still hurts like it was yesterday I don't ever what to get a phone call like that again not a good wake up call. Jazzy & Jayden are getting so big, Kris says he loves you and miss's you like crazy you were and always will be his TA-TA.
I miss you so much, miss seeing your BEAUTIFUL FACE,
miss talking to you, hearing your voice,
LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOR EVER.
"I remember the day as most of us do. I was in Colebrook at my brothers when I got the news. It was the next day when I got back that we hugged and cried. She was and still is a special gal. The kids are growing fast-as you can see!- Jazmyn looke a lot like her gorgeous Mother. Love and miss you. Gram"
"Today marks 7 years that you've been gone! I can't even believe it. It seems like only yesterday we got the news that you were gone not a day gies by that I don't think of you and wish that I could just have one more day to tell you how much I love you! Everything is just going by so fast its ridiculous I miss you so much! Until we meet again I will be thinking if you and all the great memories we share. I love you big sister forever and always <3"
"7 years ago at this moment was the hardest time in my life. Unable to breath life back into your lifeless body, I find myself feeling a sense of emptiness that could never be filled. My life changed on this day 7 years ago and I don't think I will ever be the same person again. I think of you often and wonder how things would be today if you were still here. I find some comfort in knowing that we will be together again some day. Knowing that you will be there to guide me through the gates of Heaven somehow make me feel a sense of comfort. I have kept your babies in my life all these years and they are growing so fast. I speak of you every chance I get and will never let them forget their Mother. I Love and miss you so much my O-P-Lay-Lee. May God bless and keep you until we are all reunited in the land of eternal life. Love you always Dad."
It has been a while since I last wrote. Have been thinking about you a lot the last few days! How so much has happened since you left us! My kids are so big Tabitha is 6 now and Dawsen just turned 3...I can not believe how fast it has all gone by. Mary is HUGE she is as tall as me and I am not exaggerating at all! Now we have a new beautiful niece Olivia Rose Thibeault born just 5 days before my birthday! She is so darn cute and I love her so much and I know you would too and you would love Katie she is such an awesome person & a great friend! I look up at the collage Jay & I have of you in our living room and think of all those good times we had together. How you always wanted to be pregnant with one of your friends & ended up being pregnant with your sister and you were so excited and so was I. I could not have imagined a better moment for when I told you. I think you might have been more excited than me lol. I just think of all these things and just thank god that even though our time together was short it was always amazing. You were the best big sister I could have asked for and even though we fought (ALOT) I loved you with every ounce of my heart & soul!
I love & miss you! <3"
"Hey Tabba , I miss you like crazy .. I graduated hair school , I wish you were here so I could color your hair instead of you doing your crazy box color hahaha , I live in my own apartment with my boyfriend frito , I've been with him for four years ! You would love him , probably only because he's black haahahah I miss your laugh and smile , no one will ever replace my tabby . Love you"
"I still cry myself to sleep some nights everyone loves and misses you and like tj said his little one will no you as does tabby dawsen jaz and jayden and mary we will always make sure love you always and forever"
"hey sweet heart it been awhile scene ive wrote but it isn't cause I haven't thought about you I think about you with every breath I take and I miss you every min of the day all the kids are getting big and tj and Katie will have one soon its a real shame you didn't get a chance to no them but im glad you got to meet mary she is taller than me lol jazmyn will be soon I miss you so much"
"little sister I love you and miss you every day, not a day goes by when I do not think of you. Not only did I lose my sister but I lost my best friend, Your niece or nephew will be here in a week or two I wish he or she could know his or her auntie Tabitha I know he or she would love you just like every one else dose. Even tho this baby will not get to meet you he or she will know you."
"Does not seem that you have been gone for so long. Seems like a few weeks ago you were here and having a baby shower for the birth of Jayden. I am so thankful that I got a picture of the three of you that day. Miss you a lot and until we meet again I know you are watching over the babies and Mom, Dad, Tiff and TJ. Also all the others you loved. Miss and love you-- GRAM"
"Happy Birthday Tabitha your so loved and missed every day.Kris says he misses you so much you meat so much to him, he even taking after you on the school thing not wanting to go he said he don't like having a lot of people just like you.
Love and miss you so much oxoxox Love Auntie"
"Happy Birthday Tab. Wishing you were here so that I could say it in person. You're missed so much. I love you."
"Tabitha, you were taken way too soon. Thought alot about you yesterday. I love you very much."
"6 years unreal seems like yesterday you were holding jayden and jazmyn where did the time go I miss you so very much love you forever and ever love mom"
"Love and miss you lots. Not a day that goes by I don't think about you.I can't believe its been 6yrs when I got the call. I wish it was a dream. one day we will be together again. Love you tab."
"Hi my Beautiful Tabby,
I can't beleave it has been 6 years already.
I miss you so much we all do. there's not a day that goes by I don't think about you. Love and Miss You Always... love auntie"
"Hey Tab just stopping by to say hello and tell you how much I miss you. I can not believe it has been close to 6 years since you been gone. I am getting a new puppy tomorrow. I don't know what to name him and as stupid as it sounds it's times like this I miss you most because I know you would be helping me pick a name! Miss you and love you so much <3"
"Happy birthday to my big sister! I love and miss you so much. I can not believe it has been over 5 years already....wish you were here to enjoy the memories with us....Love always and forever your baby sister
"March 30th 2007 my little girl Tabitha joined the Angels in heaven. Her life on earth is over and done, but her journey to eternal life has just begun. I cannot express the pain and sorrow that I feel. I only know that these feelings are very real. As I relive the events of that horrible day, I know these feelings will never, ever go away. I Love and miss my O-P-Lay-lee with all my Heart and soul."
"Sitting here thinking about you and all the fun we used to have and how much I miss you! Thinking about how much your kids have grown and how proud you would be of them. I wish Jayden and your niece and nephew could know you the way I did they would love you so much<3 Just like I do<3 Miss you big sister always and forever xoxo"
"Hey beautiful girl!! its been such a long time since I've seen you smile! our little girls are so big now, I can't believe 7 years old! I miss seeing Jazz, and Jayden. I miss your family, and I miss you very much!! Thank you for being my friend all those years, you're so missed! <3"
"Thinking of you today and every day. I love and miss you so much. I just wanted to let you know."
"Happy Brithday hun you are missed so much.love you babe"
"Tabitha may you rest in Heaven with all of those that are waiting for us. My love to your Mom & Dad. No parent should leave this earth before their children. I love Tammy and Tony and send you my love ♥"
"Tabbbaa! I miss you so much , I really wish you could come back just for one day so i cant tell you that i love you and thank you for everything you've done for me. Sleeep well Tabby<3 Love always Pink,purple,Green
"You are deeply missed each and every day and also remembered each and every day. I hope that you are resting peacefully. Love forever: Uncle Normand"
"Tabitha, WHen i was just 14 I started to be friends again with tiffany. You were always the cool older sister. Not just Tiffanys and Tjs but mine to I always thought of you that way. I lov eand miss you""
"Hi Hun,You are so missed and loved by everyone that knows you.The kids are getting so big,when i looK at Jazzy i see you.Jayden is my angelboy I miss u like crazy.I LOVE YOU HUN SO MUCH..Till we see you angain RIP ANUTIES BEAUTIFUL NIECE WITH LOTS OF"
"Not a day goes by that I dont think of you! I love and miss you like crazy. Hope to see you again someday. R.I.P. my bff Homeslice ♥"
"I Love and miss you, my O-P-Lay-Lee so much!"
"You are missed and you will live on forever in your daughter. Some of the pics are like looking at you again. It does not seem right that you were taken first but I guess God had his reasons. I love and miss you more than anyone knows. Gram"
"Big sister. You picked on me non stop when we were little! I don't think a single day went by that you didn't at least once. I used to get so mad. Now I WISH I could have one more day to tell you just how much I love you!"
"u r so very much missed and so loved kids r getting so big i hate this life without u although tj and tiffany and the grandkids keep me going i love u more than life it self will never ever forget u love always mom"
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