After her return from South Africa in 2010, I asked Tedra to describe her experiences there. The following is her report.I think it tells us as much about Tedra, as it does about South Africa, a country I have visited numerous times.
“I know I didn't explain my South African adventures. It was/is all so beyond words and wonderful, heart-breaking, shocking, joyous, made me ashamed to be white! (Apartheid is NOT, by any means, dead in SA!!) and so many other experiences and feelings I cannot describe here. I had infants die in my arms, I contracted a terrible case of pneumonia, 105 deg. temp....possibly SCARS, they said, and was VERY sick, went on safari-saw the "big 5" and many more!, was exposed everyday to TB, HIV/AIDS, hepatitis, SARS, polio, malaria, etc., etc. (was bitten and drew blood by an AIDS baby--he was hungry), watched people die in the streets, was accosted by drunk/drugged men, walked barefoot for over 2 miles in rocks and broken glass after I gave my shoes to a woman who had none (I had 3 more pairs back at home-base), walked in the rain after I gave my raincoat to an old lady who was soaked through with only a thin, white blouse on.......and that's only the tip of the iceberg of my experiences there. I worked mainly in the government hospitals...and I use the term "hospitals" and "clinics", lightly. They had no medicines. I literally gave a baby an IV that I had made over a propane burner with river water and packets of salt! He had dysentery and severe vomiting and diarrhea. He later died, too.
I helped to try to revive a 50 something woman who had a stroke while I was working with her. She also died and I had to tell the family.....I worked with 4, 5, and 6yr olds, with infants on their hips, going through garbage dumps trying to find food for themselves and the infants while fighting off the feral dogs who were also hungry! They call them "pavement dogs" there. I could go on and on, but you get the picture, I'm sure. AND....it took me 2 1/2 days to get home from Cape Town due to the volcanic ash from Iceland and flight problems! I had 5 flights total, the last one to Denver from Frankfurt was over 19 hours long, and some of my delays were over 13 hours!! I was exhausted when I arrived home and slept for days.
I LOVED South Africa and the people there. I was treated so warmly and friendly and they called me "Big Mama" because I was the oldest one around and I was a mother and a grandmother, and if Ashley has a baby soon, I’ll be a great-grandmother! How strange for a woman who was only supposed to live to be 30 or so! They don't know me very well!! :-) I'd go back to SA in a minute and live there and work the rest of my life there...if it weren't for Bo and the family here. I miss it and the people there very much. I will return there someday, I know. “ (e-mail messaged dated July 20, 2010)
Most regretably, Tedra was never able to realize her dream of returning to her beloved South Africa but that doesn't alter the fact that she was a great woman.
John Palmroth
Milford, PA