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Baseball Fetish

January 3, 2016

I was talking with Donna a couple weeks ago and she told me a story... Tj was working this framing job which was located next to a ball park. Seems that alot of balls came over the fence each evening. Now tj always liked getting to work bright and early, apparently he began collecting balls each morning. So donna and tj get in his truck to go out for dinner and theres balls every where on the seat under donnas feet donna asks tj whats up with all these balls where did they come from theres so many. Tj replies that they come over the fence at work so he picked up a few. Donna laughs a few. Then she says honey did you ever think to throw them back over the fence? Tj says thats a great idea he hadnt thought of... So tj cleans his truck tells donna he threw the balls back. Now they ger in the truck to go somewhere and donnas like i dont know it was awful uncomfortable last time with all the balls. Tj says momma (he always called her momma) i threw them back. Their driving and some jerk cuts them off so tj hit the breaks suddenly and donna said if you only could of seen tjs expression when all the balls come rolling out like a dam breaking. Lol ive never laughed so hard in my life. Im like yep that sounds like my Bub. 

TJ's Birthday September 3, 1967

October 9, 2018

Well another year and its your birthday again. Happy Birthday Bub i miss you so much. It's so hard to believe that in five days on September 8th, 2018 it will be three years that you've been gone. I still think about you every day and its not gotten much easier. I cry every time i think of you and i wonder why you had to leave us. I know its the way God had planned for you and i know your up there in heaven watching over all of us. And i know that someday we will see each other again. Until then keep watching over me and keep me safe. Your one of gods angels now. I love you BUB.

Who was TJ?

December 31, 2015

Terrence Lee Hamner Jr. Born in Nelsonville, Ohio on September 3, 1967 at Mount Saint Marys Hospital. Parents:Terrence Lee Hamner Sr.& Dixie Lee Keplar. Tj was a hansome and sweet boy. Played little league baseball and he was a great player, he got that from our Dad who was quite the ball player himself. Tj was a straight a and b student throughout school never brought home his books but aced all his classes. Tj graduated from logan high school class of 1986. After high school Tj went to work with Wynn Houpt he was Aunt Peaches "Cheryl Ann Keplar Houpt"'s husband. Wynn was self employed , he did linoleum, carpet and hard wood flooring. They worked together for about twelve years. After tj stopped working with wynn. He got a job framing. I think Rancho Framing. He loved this kind of work and he was a hard worker. He stayed overtime most every day. He met Bobbi Steinfeldt out in Hesperia and fell in love with her and her kids Jr, Christopher, justin, johnaten, sabrina and joshua. And the extra bonus she was pregnate also. Little tj. They spent many years together i cant recall how many and or specific dates. It didnt last forever i believe it was around 2003??? When Tj met Donna jean jackett. And they fell in love pretty quick and they were very happy together. Twelve years together and i can honestly say that my brother was a happy guy. He loved his job framing and pettybonin. He was happy and very content with the life he had made with donna. On september 8th 2015 tj went to work as he did each and every day he finished his day and headed on home. He only made it one exit down Ortega Hwyhe pulled in first parking spot he was avle to. And he got out of his toyota tacoma and didnt quite make it to the front of truck and he fell out he had one arm raised up to his forhead. It doesnt appear that he suffered to much. Tj died at SENDERO FIELD IN MISSION VIEJO CALIFORNIA. ITS AN ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL PLACE.