Dearest Friends and Family:
Thank you to those who were able to join us for Dad's Celebration, it was beautiful. Seven months have passed now and it is still so hard to believe he is gone. He really was a dynamic character whose presence is so greatly missed.
We do love to read your stories, please share with us when you are able to. If you want to send personal correspondense to the family, please send it to: tanyamarsh@sbcglobal.net.
Much love to you and yours in this healing process.
Tanya
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Leave a tributeThank you for being my long ago love and my forever friend!
Everyone should have a Terry Marsh in they're lives
We are thankful to have known you, Terry, even for a short time...
My friend, my nieghbor, my co-worker, hunting partner, travel partner, schoolmate and there was more much more....there was genuine and there was real, uncommon and ever present with him. Adventure.... yes he loved them flying, building, creating, discovering and if you were with him you weren't in it to watch..... It was going to be thrilling and you were going to have one hand on the throttle and the other on your pulse! When it was done you would count your limbs and say, " Wow! That was fun let's do it again!" Then you did...or as was also common with Terry he would show that uncanny restraint and say, "Nah...I think once is enough". Then we would both laugh knowing he was right. See, if you had the courage, Terry knew how to take it to the edge and then also get you safely back to firm ground. We did and he did, respectfully so. You didn't so much join Terry in an adventure, (and I say with kindness and fondness) you lived it!...with him. We lived many together, tough...? yep...some, but most by far were thrilling, exciting, and spirited. Terry made it so...,he could squeeze the juice out of life and hand it to you with that grin of his...,as if it were a cool glass of lemonade on a hot afternoon. ThanksTerry, for sharing a positive, thrilling and spirited outlook on life. I always liked shaking your hand, you could feel the life pulsing in it and you always came away feeling like you had a hold of that spirit of yours for just a moment. Good memories....just the thing a man needs in later years, but that handshake...., I'll miss that.
With Love my friend,
and Fond wishes of comfort to you Betty, Tanya, Chris, and Jim.
Don Fairbanks
Terry built houses, cars, airplanes, motorcycles, engines. He would loosen bolts with a twist and a wiggle of the fingers that left me amazed and wondering that anybody else would have wasted time looking for a wrench. A common compliment was that he could fix anything.
When his house burned down, he rebuilt it again, in the same spot. When it burned again, he built it again, in the same spot. When faced with adversity, he would hitch up his belt and wade right in. Life threw him some tough curve balls, granted, but he never stopped swinging.
It must be ten or more years since we last met up, but there would be occasional telephone calls to catch up and someone in our web of friends always seemed to know what and where he was doing. It is shocking and disheartening to hear that this wonderful soul is no longer living with us, but at the same time I believe that his spirit will be with us always.
And!,....up there in above the clouds, where it is always warm, the air is perfect for flying and the engines never drip oil, St. Peter just had his hand shaken like never before to the sound of a wonderful baritone "How the heck are you, any how?....I'll miss you good sir. Rest well and with peace.
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Special words
As you all know, Dad has a special vocabulary for many different things, and people. I wanted to share a few of those that have stuck with me.
~Short (or long) legged what does it~term of endearment
~Bohemian Leaflicker~another term of endearment
~Pinhead~deffinitely not a term of endearment, quite the opposite actually
~What does it~the tool/part needed to get the job done
~Nice jeans~a lady worth taking a second look at
We would love to be reminded of more, I know there are many!
~Tanya