- 39 years old
- Date of birth: Jun 11, 1973
- Place of birth:
lansdale, Pennsylvania, United States
- Date of passing: Jun 15, 2012
- Place of passing:
florence, Alabama, United States
|Let the memory of thomas be with us forever|
"I Loved You Too Much To Be Just Your Friend...
So God Made Me Your Sister Instead.
(Thank You, Lord, For The 39 Years You Shared Him With Me)"
"My dearest Tommy...your baby brother got married in Hawaii on Aug 31st. And it was always a wish of yours to see Hawaii.nick took u with him because there was no one else he wanted more by his side.im so proud that u two had such a close n loving relationship.n that u were with him on his special day.i miss u n the talks n closeness we shared n I'm grateful Nick had someone to look up to.please watch over him on his journey through life for me n I thank u for this.i know God n your grand parents are taking care of u I'm thankful for that.ill keep talking to u my angel n hope u hear me.untill I see u again I'll remember u and be forever grateful for the memories!!!all my love mom RIP"
(Evanescence: My Immortal with Lyrics Youtube Video)
(I find myself reflecting back to childhood on this day of rememberence of my brother, Tom. We were closest in age, he and I, only 2 years apart, and in so many ways and for so many years we were more than a brother and a sister. We were also best friends, confidants, and allies, and I know that I am alive today because of his love and friendship. In so many ways, he saved me, and we were devoted to each other. We endured so much together, he and I, and through that endurance, a strong as steel bond was formed that was never broken, not even by those who tried to break it through deception, lies, and manipulation. And the words to this song say for me what I can't seem to verbalize today. So when he needed someone when he was sad or scared, or lonely...It was me who wiped away his tears, fought away his fears, and held his hand through all of his years. My dearest brother, I only hope it was enough.)"
"What Would You Have Done If You Had Known,
This Was Your Last Walk Under The Sun?
Would You Have Raised Your Eyes To The One Above?
Or Lay Down In The Arms Of Someone You Love?
Would You Have Fought Like Hell For One More Day?
Or Smile That Smile, Then Calmly Walk Away?
Would You Have Rocked Out On Your Favorite Songs?
Oh, God, I Can't Believe You're Gone!
Would You Have Taken A Trip To Someplace New?
You'll Never Know How Much I Miss You!!
Would You Have Sat And Watched A New Sunrise,
As The Tears Slowly Fell From Your Eyes?
What Would You Have Done If Only You Had Known,
This Was Your Last Walk Under The Sun?
That There Would Be No More Tomorrows
And All That'd Be Left Were The Sorrows
Of The Empty Space In This Life
That Was Filled Up With Your Light.
I Am So Glad I Did Not Know
Because I Couldn't Have Let You Go,
I Still Don't Know What I'm Going To Do
I'd Have Given Anything To Have Been With You
On Your Last Walk Under The Sun."
"Tommy, It's been 4 years since God took you home. You are still missed and loved. R. I. P. My dear Nephew..."
"Tommy its been 4yrs. Since u went to heaven and I still think of u every morning n nite.I know my mom n dad and brother n god are taking care of u,n that gives me comfort. I came to the cemetary on Sat to pay my respects i I hope u heard me. I'll never know a more loving forgiving n careing human being as u son. My heart is so heavy today tommy I just miss u !!!god be with u forever... Until we meet again RIP I'll remember you.all my love mom"
"Tommy another yr. Has gone by its your birthday today . so many feelings within my heart I miss u more each day . they say it gets easier but not for me. As I am growing old I look back n cherish every memory god has u in his hands n I have u in my heart forever... Until we meet again I'll be loving n missing u. Happy birthday my angel rip mom!!!"
"Happy Birthday Tommy. You are missed and loved by so many family and friends, some day we all will be united and what a celebration that will be. Love you.."
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY FROM A SIS TO HER BROTHER
Today Is Your Birthday In Heaven Above
My Blessings I Send On The Wings Of A Dove
Not Just For Today But Everyday Hereof
I Think Of You Always With All Of My Love
ALWAYS LOVED, FOREVER MISSED"
"Happy Birthday Dude....mine is next week. Still just shaking my head that your elsewhere. But hey-I'm sure we will all see each other soon One Day. I miss your laugh Dear Friend☆"
"Another easter without u tommy u are with Jesus on this special day oh how heaven and all u angels must be rejoicing I miss n love u so much such a caring heart n soul my son. Happy easter in heaven tommy god be with u. I'll remember u forever.until we meet again rip...forever your mom"
"Oh Tom....this breaks my heart. I just found this memorial. Tonite. I'm so shocked and lost. I had been looking for you randomly for a decade. I figured you had gotten outta Florence for good like we always talked about. I stayed on that stupid mountain for all that time...you would be so mad! Crying as I type this....you were my best Friend & Confidant and really and truly listened like no one else. Hate to put "personal stuff here but I know no one in your family to ask where you lay...I'm so sorry Dear One. I should have listened to you. You should have yelled at me instead of lectured sweetly. I was so naive. You should have never let me out of your car. Funny-every time i saw a black 2-Door--i thought it was you coming back to say" I told you so"..Only you know. I need My Friend right now. You always "got me"...and now with a pretty serious diagnosis-things just seem so different. I'm back in Florence now. Came back in April of 2012 and sifted thru Facebook just wondering if you had created a "snarky" profile....why didn't I look harder. I'm so sorry my Dear One. I found my beautiful Farm and have a beautiful Daughter. I named her Adia (remember how we would jam some Sarah M?) At least I get to enjoy these last days with her and my 5 acre corner! You would have loved it....and yes I'm surrounded by critters. Tom--I must tell you in this sadness, it just dawned on me: I kept Toast all those years and the strangest part is I had to put her down : get this: on June 18th 2012. Are you two hanging out? You were the only guy whose lap she would stay in...probably because you kittysat her reluctantly while I was in class. Well...you and I always hoped that our critters meet us the other side....if you two are....just know-I will be there soon. Leukemia man...go figure. My One and Only Dude Friend--I love and miss you. I will continue to write here randomly until I can no longer. Hugs tightly to Major Tom☆"
"Tommy, It has been 2 years since you passed and you are still missed and loved so much. R.I.P. Dear Tommy. Until we all meet again. Go with God..Love you..."
"my dearest tommy this is ur mom thinking of u honey as I do everyday but tobe happy i love and miss u always until we meet again RIP my special angel.we all miss u. xoxoxoxoxoday is the 4th of july and I want to say happy independence day to u in heaven I know the fireworks are the brightest in heaven kiss ur grandpop and grandmom and uncle Frankie for me and RIP"
"Tommy, Today marks one year since you were taken from your family to live with God, and you are missed as much today as you were a year ago. I can only hope that you are at peace and watching over your family. Always in our hearts."
"my dear son today is one yr since u went to heaven my heart is heavy today I hope u like the flowers we got for u I miss and love u forever RIP and always know u are respected and cherished so until we meet again rest easy tommy ur brothers and sister love u and ur mom holds u in her heart forever. god speed honey and tommy ur friends miss u also.I LOVE U your mom HUGS xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo"
"Today is your 40th Birthday Tommy, and you are so missed and certainly still loved. Rest in gods loving arms.
"tommy its ur 40th birthday today and I miss u sooo much my heart still aches to see u again nick and I bought u some pretty sun flowers and some dolphins and some pretty purple flowers for sat which will be the sadest day of my life when u will be gone to heaven 1 yr rip my son happy birthday and god be with u until we meet again RIP always loved and never forgotten love mom xoxoxoxoxo"
"tommy this is mom again I know its a bit early but I want to say thank u for ur service to our country the marines were blessed to have u. so happy memorial day son ill be thinking of u and on june 11th that very special day when u came into my life and heart and will never leave. a happy birthday.and then the sadest day of my life june 15th when went to heaven oh how I miss u god bless xo"
"hello tommy its ur mom again and my heart is heavy as these next few weeks approach Monday is memorial day and than ur birthday and the one yr since we lost u. its all to overwhelming for me and I cant say goodbye and never woll I know u can hear me tommy so I will tell u how proud I am of u and how very much I appreciated ur loving caring and forgiving soul god bless u I love and miss u"
"I wanted to give an encouraging word to you and your family. I know at times it can be hard to find comfort, but the Bible is a big help. At Acts 24:15 it promises that there will be a resurrection. A chance to see our loved ones again. I look forward to that day and I hope that this scripture helps you look to the future for hope."
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