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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, THOMAS HOWARD PINKNEY, 60, born on May 11, 1953 and was called Home on February 15, 2014. We will remember his gentle smile and miss him forever.

May 11, 2022
May 11, 2022
I am sending a Forever missed because we have lost Thomas and Peggy . Always remember her as a kind and loving lady and him as a very kind and loved man . Hope they got to meet again.
May 1, 2018
May 1, 2018
You celebrated your birthday with the Angels this month, but I was with you in spirit. You were on my mind Love. I know I am supposed to keep living in celebration of the life we shared together. I try Thomas, but you were a big part of my life and I will always miss you. Fly high my love and sing loud and rejoice in the Lord. Please take my hand when it is time.
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017, Happy Birthday my love, I know you are celebrating your 64th birthday with the Angels. May you dance through the sky and laugh with your friends whom you met at the Gates. I will always love you and miss you Thomas and I know that one day you will meet me at the Gates of Heaven and led me Home.
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
It has been 4 years,Thomas, since you went to your heavenly Home. Today you will be celebrating your 64th birthday with the Angels. My mind tells me you are happy and free of pain.... But my heart still misses you. Fly high my love and Dance with the Angels.
February 15, 2017
February 15, 2017
Today marks the 3rd year that my Thomas left this earth for his heavenly home. I am learning to go on with life without him. But my love for him will never die. He was a quiet, wonderful man and I know he is waiting for me with open arms. I love you with all my heart Thomas.
September 16, 2016
September 16, 2016
Today marks the anniversary of one of the happiest days of my life. Thomas and my wedding anniversary. How I wish I was spending it with him, but I know that he is with me in spirit and that one day we will be smiling again. Happy Anniversary my love.
May 14, 2016
May 14, 2016
On May 11, 2016 Thomas celebrated his 63rd Birthday in Heaven in the arms of God. I know he is happy and he is singing with the Angels. I am so thankful God sent Thomas to share my life for 42 years. Although I miss him so much I know God had a plan for Thomas and He called him home. I will always love you Thomas. Happy Birthday my love.
May 14, 2016
May 14, 2016
You and I feel the same way about our husbands, truly sorry for your loss my heart cries for you. lovely tribute and enjoyed your stories. may God bless and keep you until you meet again. a bingo friend.
February 15, 2016
February 15, 2016
Today is the anniversary of Thomas's passing away. Although it has been two years it seems like yesterday. I will always miss and love him. He was my heart and my soulmate. Thomas was the backbone of this family. Although a quiet and gentle man, he made sure his family and home was taken care of. Dance with the angels my love.
October 19, 2015
October 19, 2015
Thomas was a caring, trustworthy person. He had a heart of gold and gave of himself whenever and wherever needed. Thomas made my life worth living. I looked forward to each day with him. He made me laugh, He made me feel loved. He gave me a reason to get up each morning. I will miss him until the day God calls me and Thomas comes to take my hand and lead the way. We will be together again.

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May 11, 2022
May 11, 2022
I am sending a Forever missed because we have lost Thomas and Peggy . Always remember her as a kind and loving lady and him as a very kind and loved man . Hope they got to meet again.
May 1, 2018
May 1, 2018
You celebrated your birthday with the Angels this month, but I was with you in spirit. You were on my mind Love. I know I am supposed to keep living in celebration of the life we shared together. I try Thomas, but you were a big part of my life and I will always miss you. Fly high my love and sing loud and rejoice in the Lord. Please take my hand when it is time.
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017, Happy Birthday my love, I know you are celebrating your 64th birthday with the Angels. May you dance through the sky and laugh with your friends whom you met at the Gates. I will always love you and miss you Thomas and I know that one day you will meet me at the Gates of Heaven and led me Home.
Recent stories

Time is Growing Short My Love

May 14, 2018

Thomas for the last 5 months I have resided at Middletown Manor Park Rehab in Middletown NY. It is a very nice place and I know you are watching over me. The Doctor gave me 2-4 months to live because my lungs were dying and I only had 5% of both lungs left alive, the rest of my lungs had died. He said there was a possibility I could live a year, but he didn't really think so. Well I am in my 5th month, but the last few days my lungs are failing more and more. I am not afraid because I know you and God will be there to bring me home. Part of me died when you did. I have talked with God and in prayer I give thanks for our 42 years together. I try to walk the path He chose for me and I can only hope I am fulfilling my promise.

I love you honey.

Thomas & Children

October 29, 2015

Thomas loved children.  He always made sure each child visiting recevied a dollar out of his pocket.  It didn't matter is if it was one child or ten, they all got their dollar.

One memory that sticks in my mind was on a weekend when we were at a cookout down at Eagle Harbor on the river bank.  Many of the children wanted to go into the water so Thomas cut his jeans off and went into the water with them so he could make sure they would all be alright. He spent all afternoon looking after the kids.

Another instance I remember is the occasion when we took our godchild home with us for the weekend.  We called our godchild "Boo" , lol I don't know how he got that name.....  But anyway it was around 8pm and Boo kept asking to go to McDonalds for a Happy Meal, so Thomas finally took him.  I began to get worried when they had not returned by 10pm.  But finally they came home and I found out that Boo was playing on the McDonalds slide and toys they had in the play room and Thomas sat there and let him play.

Thomas was always happy when he was around children.
 

Money, Money, Money

October 19, 2015

Thomas used to love to play the numbers.  He would always play his numbers on the way to work.  One day he came home with a big smile on his face and proceeded to pull out money and put it on the table.  This was back in the 80's and things were tight for us then.  Anyway he put $5,000 dollars on the table.  We were both so excited because it would pay off some of our bills.  But that evening when the numbers came on tv, Thomas started shouting  that he had won again.  This time he had won $2,500. The next morning was Saturday, so he ran out to play his numbers and came back home. I ran to the bank to deposit the money and pay bills. I got home about 1:15pm and Thomas met me at the back door, he had won another $2,500.  He knew where there was a van for sale and he wanted to use that money to see if he could get the van.  So away we went and I don't know how but Thomas talked the man into selling us the van for $2500.  So that was one lucky week for Thomas.  He was a happy man......

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