i was sent to clean his plant one day i knew the moment he was gona be the one i shared my life with and he had his mom living with him and oh such a man he was and he ask me if i like to go out and eat from that moment on i never  left his side oh the love he gave me so real and true the year 1999 we move from his apt to a house on brenda dr then 2001 moved to new jersey he asked me in aug 2002 to become his wife so in aug 16 2002 he brought me a home in whiting ashley dr sept 27 2002 i became mrs thomas pogue most wonderful ddecay of my life then2006 he came down withcancer and dec 2006 i had open heart and he took care of me we made it tru the first round of cancer only a year later it hit him again this time in the throat chemo radittion and 1 month from a year 2009 once again cancer that took his life  15 2009 my beloved tom took his last breath at 7;00 am that was my fairy book story of not enough time with some one you loved whole hearted till we meet again my love i will run to you to share our life we were cheated out of your loving wife brenda

he was a good father and the best husband and a man of few words but you knew what he meant when he spoke beleave me family was his life never needed many friends but the ones he had where good ones his loved of his faithful dog was shilo and he loved him very much miss he will always be miss and loved forever and ever you know he was a good man i knew he loved me more than anything was so happy for our life together close to heart he will remain till im in his loving arms again my beloved tom thank you darling for the love you gave me