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Toby Starkman
  • 73 years old
  • Date of birth: Feb 8, 1930
  • Date of passing: Sep 3, 2003
Let the memory of Toby be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Toby Starkman, 73, born on February 8, 1930 and passed away on September 3, 2003. We will remember her forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by donna star on 31st December 2016

"Mom it is new years eve and I miss you terribly.  Zak is moving to San Diego with his girlfriend. I feel so alone.  I love you and hope I see you again in heaven.  Love, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 20th September 2016

"Hi mom, I can't stand being on this earth any longer.  I lost everyone I love including Zak, who is now is South America and will be moving to San Diego.  I am so alone and miss you and Michael and sometimes dad.  I talked with Annie who really loved you.  I miss you mom.  Love, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 23rd July 2016

"Hi mom, it is July 23 and raining and my tears are flowing for you, Michael and dad.  I feel so very alone now that Zak is in South America living his life, and so there goes another chapter in my life.   I love you, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 31st March 2016

"Hi my beautiful mother, I hope the rain is not hard on you as it is March 31 and Michael's 71st birthday, but he cannot celebrate as  he is 15 feet from you.  I wanted to go to Michael's grave and yours and dad's who ended up next to you in his original plot.  So in essence you are now together again; he said you were the love of his life even after d.  I miss you terribly and I got my plot back although it cost me.  Now I feel free knowing that when I go I will be next to the man who made me whole and near you my beautiful mother who joked about how you would be not far from my feat [sic], feet.  Zak is going to South America June 1, 2016 for at  least six months or whenever he begins to miss me which I do not will happen in this life.  I think he will only miss me a while and being so resilient he will move on with his own life.  So my job is done and I am ready to visit all of you so I can get some rest.  I have been up all night and it is raining so hard I hope I can make it to the cemetery.  All my love, your daughter, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 30th December 2015

"Mom I turned 64 and I don't want to be here anymore.  I miss you so much I am so alone, I love you, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 25th December 2015

"Mom it is Christmas and I miss you dearly, I love Zak so much; he is just like Michael, what a wonderful soul I created with Michael; he is happy and he is kind and very handsome.  He misses and loves you too.  Much love, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 6th November 2015

"Mom, dad actually came through and I do not have to tell you more.  You are one grave away from each other with an open plot for the both of you which no one will ever fill.  I still do not have my plot next to Michael and I will fight until I no longer breathe to be next to the man I love, miss and created a life with....I miss you mom, mommy, and Zak says to say hi, but you know that..  Rest sweet mommy who never had the golden years."

This tribute was added by donna star on 2nd October 2015

"Mom, I miss you and I love you and I am crying over you, and Michael, and even my dad.  I want to leave this place I am so unhappy here, I have no one except Zak who wants to go to Peru for over a month.  I miss you terribly.  Steve called because he turned 65 and I sent him a check for $100.  He never invited me to Andy's wedding.  Life is the strangest thing I ever went through.. Love, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 9th August 2015

"Mom it is August 9, 2015 and now I realize I am 63 and you stopped gracing this earth at 73.   I am only ten years younger than you.  I have lost almost my whole family.  I have Zak to keep me going but I am crying over you now.  I love you mom, I miss you, donna"

This tribute was added by donna star on 26th April 2015

"I brought you flowers on March 31.  I am now 63 which hit me hard as I am now seven years older than Michael.  Life goes by so very fast and I am alone still a widow.  Zak is now 22 and he is what keeps me going on.  I can't believe my dad took my plot away from me mom but I guess you knew him better than me.  But he said you were the love of his life.  He died at 84."

This tribute was added by donna star on 26th April 2015

"I miss you mom every day that goes by.  I cry for you in a way, because when you left you left too soon, but you went out laughing and suffered no doom.  Dad died recently, and I felt so strange that your headstone was under the chairs, you were all alone like your parents were but  I hope you met them in heaven.  Your sister died and it hit me hard that your family was completely wiped out.  I pray that I will meet you again in heaven when I go away.  I love and miss you mom, donna"

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