- 73 years old
- Date of birth: Feb 8, 1930
- Date of passing: Sep 3, 2003
|Let the memory of Toby be with us forever|
"Mom it is new years eve and I miss you terribly. Zak is moving to San Diego with his girlfriend. I feel so alone. I love you and hope I see you again in heaven. Love, donna"
"Hi mom, I can't stand being on this earth any longer. I lost everyone I love including Zak, who is now is South America and will be moving to San Diego. I am so alone and miss you and Michael and sometimes dad. I talked with Annie who really loved you. I miss you mom. Love, donna"
"Hi mom, it is July 23 and raining and my tears are flowing for you, Michael and dad. I feel so very alone now that Zak is in South America living his life, and so there goes another chapter in my life. I love you mom...love, donna"
"Hi my beautiful mother, I hope the rain is not hard on you as it is March 31 and Michael's 71st birthday, but he cannot celebrate as he is 15 feet from you. I wanted to go to Michael's grave and yours and dad's who ended up next to you in his original plot. So in essence you are now together again; he said you were the love of his life even after d. I miss you terribly and I got my plot back although it cost me. Now I feel free knowing that when I go I will be next to the man who made me whole and near you my beautiful mother who joked about how you would be not far from my feat [sic], feet. Zak is going to South America June 1, 2016 for at least six months or whenever he begins to miss me which I do not will happen in this life. I think he will only miss me a while and being so resilient he will move on with his own life. So my job is done and I am ready to visit all of you so I can get some rest. I have been up all night and it is raining so hard I hope I can make it to the cemetery. All my love, your daughter, donna"
"Mom I turned 64 and I don't want to be here anymore. I miss you so much I am so alone, I love you, donna"
"Mom it is Christmas and I miss you dearly, I love Zak so much; he is just like Michael, what a wonderful soul I created with Michael; he is happy and he is kind and very handsome. He misses and loves you too. Much love, donna"
"Mom, dad actually came through and I do not have to tell you more. You are one grave away from each other with an open plot for the both of you which no one will ever fill. I still do not have my plot next to Michael and I will fight until I no longer breathe to be next to the man I love, miss and created a life with....I miss you mom, mommy, and Zak says to say hi, but you know that.. Rest sweet mommy who never had the golden years."
"Mom, I miss you and I love you and I am crying over you, and Michael, and even my dad. I want to leave this place I am so unhappy here, I have no one except Zak who wants to go to Peru for over a month. I miss you terribly. Steve called because he turned 65 and I sent him a check for $100. He never invited me to Andy's wedding. Life is the strangest thing I ever went through.. Love, donna"
"Mom it is August 9, 2015 and now I realize I am 63 and you stopped gracing this earth at 73. I am only ten years younger than you. I have lost almost my whole family. I have Zak to keep me going but I am crying over you now. I love you mom, I miss you, donna"
"I brought you flowers on March 31. I am now 63 which hit me hard as I am now seven years older than Michael. Life goes by so very fast and I am alone still a widow. Zak is now 22 and he is what keeps me going on. I can't believe my dad took my plot away from me mom but I guess you knew him better than me. But he said you were the love of his life. He died at 84."
"I miss you mom every day that goes by. I cry for you in a way, because when you left you left too soon, but you went out laughing and suffered no doom. Dad died recently, and I felt so strange that your headstone was under the chairs, you were all alone like your parents were but I hope you met them in heaven. Your sister died and it hit me hard that your family was completely wiped out. I pray that I will meet you again in heaven when I go away. I love and miss you mom, donna"
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