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Anniversary #13

February 10, 2023
As tears are cleansing...  I should be nice and clean now.  I just read through the messages that were posted 13 years ago and feel all the love from so many different friendship sources.
Many things have changed... but some things remain constant. I am blessed to have shared life with Tom for 35 1/2 years.. and to have so many delightful memories!

The Jasmine house

February 10, 2023
Within the past year that block wall has been removed, which makes the front yard look much larger.  And then about a year ago (after the wall was down) the Saguaro cactus fell. It hit the house and damaged the roof.  So, suffice it to say the front yard looks significantly different today,  (2023)

Messages received on Tom's Obituary page (Legacy.com)

February 10, 2020

As i read your posts today i just had to come back here to light a candle in Tom's memory & for you, as you press on without him! I can't begin to fathom the loss & emptiness that He filled in your heart. I very often pray for you & the other widows we both know. I'm sure only Jesus comforts the place he left! It makes my heart sad for you! You are an amazing Woman & honor him well! Love you dear Friend, marla

March 19, 2012


may the memories of Tom keep a smile on your face

Cheryl Z

May 04, 2010

Dear Ruth,
Thank you for sending Tom's "Memories". What a great guy! And you made him very happy -- some consolation, I hope. You have my deepest sympathy and my love.
Lee

May 02, 2010

Dear Ruth and Family,
You were blessed to have Tom in your life, he was so kind and forever positive, filling your life with happiness. I remember his chuckles! He is relieved of all earthly ills so free now to be with you in spirit in his normally bright light. Happy that you are settled in your new life and that Midget his beloved friend is adjusting.

Barbara Preskorn

March 28, 2010 | Centennial, CO

Such a beautiful Guest Book - we love you Ruth - Tom put up a good fight, we will miss him, but look forward to brighter days.

Brenda Offerman

March 14, 2010 | Murrieta, CA

I DONT KNOW YOU BUT I KNOW YOUR UP IN HEAVEN WITH MY MOM AND DAD, MY DAD SERVED IN THE ARMY FOR YEARS , I LOVE ARE FLAG I APPRECIATE WHAT ARE SOIDIERS HAVE DONE I PRAY EVERYDAY FOR ARE SOIDIERS I LOVE AMERICA AND I LOVE ARE SOIDIERS , HE SEEMED LIKE HE WAS A NICE PERSON I SEND MY BLESSINGS TO THE FAMILY MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL , MAY YOUR MEMORIES BRANG YOU COMFORT, GOD BLESS.

MICHAEL GLEN ALLRUTZ                                                                                                          March 11, 2010 | LOUISVILLE, KY

Die Bande der Liebe werden mit dem Tod nicht durchschnitten.                                                  Annelie & Christian Schreier

March 07, 2010

For my friend, Tom...

THE FINAL INSPECTION

The Marine stood and faced God, Which must always come to pass.
He hoped his shoes were shining, Just as brightly as his brass.
‘Step forward now, Marine, How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek? To My Church have you been true?’
The soldier squared his shoulders and said, ‘No, Lord, I guess I ain’t.
Because those of us who carry guns, Can’t always be a...

Michael M

March 06, 2010 | Valley Center, CA

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He...

Judy & Randy Harmon

March 04, 2010 | Valley Center, CA

Dear Ruth & Family,
We would like to extend our condolences.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Love,
Gil & Sharon Rollins

Gil & Sharon Rollins

February 17, 2010 | Apache Junction, AZ

Dear Family of Tom Allen Abbott,

Please keep in mind the words of Philipians 4:7 "The peace of God. which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."

February 16, 2010

Messages received this date 10 years ago via Face Book

February 8, 2020


Ruth Norris Abbott

February 8, 2010 at 6:49 AM

is waking up to a "new" world this morning, too. We put Tom on hospice on Saturday as he needed oxygen to help breathe. Taking medications to slow down his respiration, he's been glassy-eyed or asleep ever since. He's no longer ambulating so last night we moved his bed into the family room. My partner for 36 years is getting ready to leave me.

Ruth Norris Abbott Thanks SO MUCH guys from VBC for coming last night to move furniture. Appreciate each of you!! ...as well as the ones who WANTED to come help.

MaryCiel Miller Ruth, I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you and Tom. The two of you have been blessed with. a beautiful life

Judy Jenkins Abbott Love and prayers from someone who cares.

Anna Hanson Praying for you both!

Rick Houston my prayers are with you both!

Ronda Jenkins Bridges Oh dear Ruth...I'm so sorry...I have a lump in my throat just feeling your sorrow and am praying for abundant comfort as only comes from our Heavenly Father.

Sandy Grimes Walls Rest in the Lord and may His peace surround you all.

Christina Coffman Fredricks I'm so sorry. Praying for peace and comfort in this difficult time.

Gunnar Hanson Our hearts and prayers are with you....

Jack Edwin Saffell Sr. your second grade teacher wants you to know you are in our thoghts and prayers

Judye Ressler Hartzler You are in my thoughts and prayers. This cannot be an easy time for either of you.

Lynn Miller We will continue to pray for you...

Jim-Joyce von Ehrenkrook We are praying for you, Ruth.

Teresa Thomas-Wilson I am so sorry, I too will keep you in my thoughts and prays. God bless you both.

Judy Kooyers We are praying for you and Tom and Mary Lou. I am so sorry...

Jennifer Norris I'm so sorry, my heart is with you right now

Sylvia Strom (((Hugs))) and prayers at this difficult time.

Gloria Ann Cota really sorry to hear this. Glad you are reading about the 23rd Psalm. Praying for you and Tom!

Alejandra de la Lama-Noriega Wish I could give you both a hug. Blessings. With love. Sandra

Karen Hascall Norris (((Ruth))) Praying for you both

Alisa Miller Sending you strength and peace, Ruth.

Kristi Tan Asking for peace for you both.

Samantha Howman we will miss him very much and you are in our prayers

Nancy Hawkins Hollway Oh Ruth..I am so sorry...I am praying for you both during this time.

Patricia Babington Ruthi...You are in my prayers...Tom is in my prayers...Mary Lou is in my prayers...Life has ups and downs...wish most of my friends weren't experiencing so many downs though. Hugs.

DeLinda Dee Norris Brown Oh Lord... you know Ruth's heart. I pray that you will surround her with your presence, peace and strength. Up hold her God! Lord I pray that you comfort those who will miss Tom so much here on earth, and Lord give them your loving mercies in the days and months to come.~Amen

Candice Dice Ruth, I am so sorry to hear about Tom. I pray that God will bring peace and comfort to both of you during this time.

Linda Powell Barrow Ruth, just got back on fb and I am so sorry to hear about Tom. My prayers are with both you and Tom's family.

Elaine Janz Bodner Been away and did not know that Tom was so bad, I am very sorry...my prayers are with you and Tom.







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