Twice
I had the good fortune to meet Tom Kandra twice.
We both graduated from Georgetown Medical School in 1989 but during those 4 intense years we infrequently crossed paths. No doubt this was because Tom was one of the smart guys and I was camped out in the last row of every course. Tom graduated brilliantly, I believe 2nd in the class, while I muddled through fair enough.
Six years later fate gave me another opportunity. Tom and I were assigned adjacent offices in the Pulmonary Clinic in Germany at Landstuhl Regional Medical Center. Tom was in the Air Force and I in the Army. Tom noticed me, single at the time and a stray in this new setting overseas. As is his nature he adopted me into his home. Tom's passion for music and life in general was infectious. He introduced me to Puccini and John Lee Hooker, to the virtues of the German Shepherd, and to Moni's divine spaetzle. We spent our weekends skiing the alps, at museums and castles, moving his furniture from house to house, and in sorry attempts to learn the German language. Oktoberfest, the Starkbierfest, Paulaner Keller, and Kloster Andechs. The prime directive ... to taste as many Bavarian beers as physically possible. OK... on occasion, we did have more than a taste.
Then life intervened... I met my wife, Tom transferred to Texas, and I mustered out of the Army. We again had no communication, but Tom's impression on me was such that I "Googled" him often over the years. I had little to show for it until last night when a gnawing feeling had me change the wording of my search. After viewing this site, shedding of tears, and a sleepless night I find myself paying tribute to one of the kindest and most gentle souls I have yet come across. I am so much better for having met Tom twice.