Dear Friends and Family,
A Memorial Celebration was held for Travis on Sunday September 14th 2014 at 10am.
Thank you to all who attended, as well as those who sent their blessings and kept us in their thoughts on this day. If you have photos from the memorial please upload them to the site, or e-mail them to me.
Sincerely,
Tobias Corwin
tobiascorwin@hotmail.com
Tributes
Leave a tributeI still think of you often as I go about daily life in your home state of California. I also have one nephew who reminds me of you.
Still keep in touch with your sisters and my Aunt Sara and your Aunt Angela so our family remains close.
All that is True in us is what lives on! And in our Prior Unity,
it is always fully shared.
Love,
Darcy
I feel you have moved ON and are Well!
I love you.
Darcy
he very kindly, got us in working order. We love him, a great guy, just like you. Always in my heart... Your Mom
Cousin Anne Smith
During those years I realized my childhood dream of being older than my "MAD" cousin from California, yet the realization of that childish dream is bittersweet - bitter knowing that I will never see you again on earth - and sweet in that your passing finally led me to meet to beautiful people in your life - your capable son Toby and your wife Beth when we joined together to celebrate your life. Like you, both Beth and Toby lead lives that promote what should be cherished rather than simply endured to satisfy the fleeting whims of materialist capitalism.
I also, for the first time, connected with your mother, the mysterious Donna from southern California, when your son Toby read her poignant and insightful letter at your tribute, which she was too frail to make.
I think of you often, and stay in touch with your sisters Alex and Deanna and hear occasionally about Toby.
Darcy
Claudia
I continue to celebrate the day you were born and every day of your life. Thank you for blessing me and Unity Santa Fe with your consciousness.
Love,
Brendalyn
In the past year, I have reflected a lot on what my relationship with you has shown me. Its acceptable to be brokenhearted for both of us at times. But all that stays is the Love... the Only One Who Ever Really Is.
Darcy
Gary Shapiro
Thank you for putting this website together for your Dad. It is beautiful. As was your Dad.
And today is his memorial. Feelings and images have been flowing since your Mom shared of your Dad's passing...
Here's one: Travis was living with Rob and I in an awesome solar adobe home in Santa Fe just off Canyon Road. We only had a fireplace for back-up heat. Unlike the sun, it hadn't been out for days...it was cold. Very cold. And it was night. The wind was howling...the snow was steadily coming down.
Rob was flying back from Lordsburg after dropping off a client. He was flying a single engine airplane in all that weather. I was worried then scared then anxious...and then the feeling cycle would repeat.
Travis took charge. He built a huge fire in the fireplace....lit a zillion candles...put on Keith Jarrett...and we cuddled in front of the fire under four or five blankets.
Then what did he do? He used the music and genius of Keith Jarrett as a soundtrack and started riffing...and then I entered in...and we made-up stories to each other..
By the time Rob walked in, the night had became a lovely wintery evening with lots of possibilities amidst all that creative love.
Your Dad was a precious human being, Toby...
Much love and a very deep bow to you, Toby, and to your Mom...
Much love,
Ann-Marie
Love, Aunt Joy and your cousin, Susan
Psalms111: "Thy testimonies have I taken as an heritage forever; for they are the rejoicing of my heart."
Blessings,
leslie
My heart goes out to all of you who knew Travis, but especially to my good friend who has lost a parent.
It is with sadness that I hear the news of your passing. Thank you for the laughter & fun. Thank you for your warm intentions. Thank you for your courage as you continued searching for answers right up to the end. Thank you for reaching out and connecting with me and so many other of your old friends in these last two years.
Peace and Love to you, my brother. Peace and Love, Chittak
Thank you for your generosity and good will.
Blessings follow with you,
Edie Murphy
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your clarity with the Santa Fe "A Course In Miracles" community. I and many others are richer for having had the privilege of knowing you. I'll see you down the road, Brother. Peace, Peter
He was, IS, and always shall be, a very cool dude!
I live in Albuquerque now, moved here a few years ago and would be honored to attend the celebration honoring Travis this month.
~Sage Hopkins
I'm glad our paths crossed.
Barbara
Thoughts and prayers from the Elias family.
My heart goes out to Toby and all whose lives Travis touched.
Love and blessings,
Penny Hannig Keyes Gillespie
My heart is with you during this time of loss. Travis was and is an important part of my inner family; a brother in my early days away from home, helping me to find a new sense of home in the world. He was a fellow traveler that knew that we needed one another. He helped me know that and get good with that truth with his humor with his sheer intensity with his good heart. Travis, may this next heart breaking adventure into grief and into all the joy you brought us bring us all closer to home.
Love, Love, Love,
Catherine
P.S. Toby, I imagine you know this...but your Dad was such a rockstar. My heart is especially with you as you face this time of such deep loss.
A poem for you as you: by Diane Der-Hovanessian
When your father dies, say the Irish,
you lose your umbrella against bad weather.
May his sun be your light, say the Armenians.
When your father dies, say the Welsh,
you sink a foot deeper into the earth.
May you inherit his light, say the Armenians.
When your father dies, say the Canadians,
you run out of excuses. May you inherit
his sun, say the Armenians.
When your father dies, say the French,
you become your own father.
May you stand up in his light, say the Armenians.
When your father dies, say the Indians,
he comes back as the thunder.
May you inherit his light, say the Armenians.
When your father dies, say the Russians,
he takes your childhood with him.
May you inherit his light, say the Armenians.
When your father dies, say the English,
you join his club you vowed you wouldn't.
May you inherit his sun, say the Armenians.
When your father dies, say the Armenians,
your sun shifts forever.
And you walk in his light.
I so sorry for your loss. I just found out yesterday about Travis. I am heart broken and so sad. I loved Travis so much. He always felt like the brother I never had. At Cornucopia, River & I hung out with him a lot. I just remember how much we all laughed together. Travis was always so loving, such a bright light, & so generous with himself. Over the years we kept in touch now & then and I always loved our connections. Such a deep soul with so much love. I am sure heaven is a greater place with him in it.
Toby, I recall you as a babe in arms.
Travis smiled a lot and brightened our many meetings. I'm sure he will be missed.
Anterra
Our thoughts are with you. Jan and Gary
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Lyrics - Here in the Vineyard
This is a Traditional Hymn that was sung at Travis's Memorial Celebration.
Here in the Vineyard
Here in the Vineyard of our Lord
I hope to live and labor,
And be obedient to my God
Until my dying hour.
I love to see the lilies grow,
And view them all a-standing
In their right place while here below,
Just as the Lord commanded.
We ofttimes meet both night and day,
A faithful band of pilgrims;
We read, we sing and preach and pray,
And find the Lord most precious.
But as we sing our song of love
Our hearts are deeply wounded,
Perhaps we all may meet no more
Here in a congregation.
But if on earth we meet no more,
We hope to meet in heaven,
Where congregations ne're break up,
But dwell in sweet communion.
Where all the ransomed church of God
Shall meet no more to sever,
With ne'er a sorrow, pain or tear,
Singing one sweet chord forever.
Lyrics - Holy Now
This song by Peter Mayer was played at Travis's Memorial Celebration.
Holy Now
When I was a boy, each week
On Sunday we would go to church
And pay attention to the priest
And he would read the holy word
And consecrate the holy bread
Any everyone would kneel and bow
Today the only difference is
Everything is holy now
Everything, everything
Everything is holy now
When I was in Sunday school
We would learn about the time
Moses split the sea in two
And Jesus made the water wine
And I remember feeling sad
That miracles don't happen still
But now I can't keep track
'Cause everything's a miracle
Everything, everything
Everything's a miracle
Wine from water is not so small
But an even better magic trick
Is that anything is here at all
So the challenging thing becomes
Not to look for miracles
But finding where there isn't one
When holy water was rare at best
I barely wet my fingertips
Now I have to hold my breath
Like I'm swimming in a sea of it
It used to be a world half there
Heaven's second-rate hand-me-down
But I walk it with a reverent air
'Cause everything is holy now
Read a questioning child's face
And say it's not a testament
That'd be very hard to say
See another new morning come
And say it's not a sacrament
I tell you that it can't be done
This morning outside I stood
I saw a little red-winged bird
Shining like a burning bush
Singing like a scripture verse
It made me want to bow my head
I remember when church let out
How things have changed since then
Everything is holy now
It used to be a world half there
Heaven's second-rate hand-me-down
But I walk it with a reverent air
'Cause everything is holy now