Sis Benny
Benedicta Martins Udoesu
  • 32 years old
  • Date of birth: Mar 21, 1980
  • Place of birth:
    Lagos, Lagos/Obalende, Nigeria
  • Date of passing: Dec 13, 2012
  • Place of passing:
    Lagos, Lagos/Ifako, Nigeria
Let the memory of Benedicta be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Benedicta Udoesu, 32, born on March 21, 1980 and passed away on December 13, 2012. We will remember her forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Chibuzor Elum Eronini on 15th December 2015

"Sweet Benny,time cannot take away the pain.I think of you all the time,I see you sitting beside me at Creek road,calling my name,I miss our long phone calls.I still ask God why.You lived a good life of faith.Continue to rest in the blossom of the Lord."

This tribute was added by Chibuzor Elum Eronini on 15th December 2015

"Sweet Benny,time cannot take away the pain.I think of you all the time,I see you sitting beside me at Creek road,calling my name,I miss our long phone calls.I still ask God why.You lived a good life of faith.Continue to rest in the blossom of the Lord."

This tribute was added by Imeh Udoesu on 14th December 2015

"Benny love, 3 years. It's been painful but I have kept my promise. Sharon is doing excellent. I know you know this already. You will always be in my heart. You went too soon Benny....."

This tribute was added by Adedayo Durojaiye on 14th December 2015

"TREASURED IN MY HEART; FOREVER IN MY HEART


It's been 3 years, Dearie. You’re still on my mind, especially during this festive period... Yes, that bond will always remain, Bennie.


No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good-bye. You were gone before I knew it and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow, what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know.


I know that you have just departed to another life, I will remember you at every moment, as you were an exceptional person, however I say farewell, knowing we'll meet again some day.


Now that you are in the glory of the Lord, I know that you are very peaceful, because here on earth the Word of God was ALWAYS your Anchor, no matter what.


A thousand words won't bring you back, I know because I've tried ( I always self-talk, remembering ALL our "GIST"); neither will a thousand tears, I know because I've cried.


Everything we shared yesterday is now a memory for tomorrow. I will always treasure those memories. It is very deep Dear...


I will wrap this up with this anonymous saying:


"Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard, but always near; still loved, still missed and very dear.""

This tribute was added by Michelle Imasuen on 13th December 2015

"It's very difficult to believe that u have gone so soon, indeed u were a very active member in the house of God, but God knows best and my greatest Joy is that you died in christ Jesus! And u are also resting in the blossom of our Lord Jesus, we really missed you dearly and u are forever in our hearts! I Love u dearly continue to rest in his perfect peace amen."

This tribute was added by Dupe Fijabi on 13th December 2015

"Bennie,

It's just yesterday that you left this world. Miss you daily dear. Am comforted because i know you are in a better place. Rest on dear.xxxx"

This tribute was added by toni borngreat on 13th December 2015

"Just like yesterday, its already three years since you went speechless. You are forever in our hearts. Rest on Benny. You are forever missed."

This tribute was added by omolara martins on 13th December 2015

"Dearest Benedupopopo......it's another year again today. We continue to take succuor in God. You lived an impactful life and I envy you. You ran the race well. Continue to reign in Christ. Till we meet to part no more."

This tribute was added by Titilayo Fabonmi on 23rd March 2015

"Happy Birthday Dearie, enjoy with the host of heaven cause you are more than an angel on earth and i know you are in the bosom presence of God singing joyful song in a glorious place full of peace and glamour. sleep on dear one till we meet to part no more. The heavenly host celebrates you now and forever. RIP sister."

This tribute was added by Chika Ilonwa on 21st March 2015

"So much has been written
These past three years
Tears had been shed
Through various stages

It was meant to be memories
Thoughts I have shared
On tear stained paper
I poured out a broken heart

The feeling of despair
Not even words can explain
Mixing tears and ink
Pages release the pain

A crumpled notebook
On pages I would write
More paper was torn
Shedding tears tonight

Sleep on Sr. Benedicta"

This tribute was added by Pastor Christina Jack on 25th December 2014

"Forever in my thoughts. Miss you so much."

This tribute was added by amara igwenagu on 20th December 2014

"Benny my dearest, its still like yesterday and am yet to come to terms with your exit. I still called somebody Benedicta two days ago in the office. So many things remind me  about you and I so thank God for the short but great life that you lived. Continue to rest in the bossom of our Lord and merry Xmas to you dear Benny."

This tribute was added by Chibuzor Elum Eronini on 20th December 2014

"My dear friend, I miss and think of you everyday. Rest in the bossom of the Lord. I pray for grace for your family.I Will always love you."

This tribute was added by moyo Akib on 19th December 2014

"My dear Benny,
Words cannot express how much i miss you...
Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord."

This tribute was added by omolara martins on 13th December 2014

"I lay a flower for you today.........je t'aime....."

This tribute was added by omolara martins on 13th December 2014

"You are forever in my hearts....Sharon us growing up fast...when she throws her tantrum, i can not but laugh...because she reminds me of you at this time. Gods spirit abd his angels will watch over her countinuously. We will engrave your memory in her heart as she grows up and she see snd know she had a beautiful mum. We will meet sgain at the lords feet. Adios for now"

This tribute was added by Oyinda Osiyale on 20th December 2013

"Benny mi, I can't believe you're gone. We so miss you my dear and we love you dearly. RIP..."

This tribute was added by omolara martins on 14th December 2013

"Ojo re bi  a na......it hasnt sink or is it that i refuse to believe you are no more? That could be it. But when i feel like gisting; or to discuss Edward or Papa and i am about to dial that no. and it sinks that you wont be there to pick..then reality sets in. Miss you so much...but i know we will meet again and we will talk....bless u bene."

This tribute was added by amara igwenagu on 13th December 2013

"Adorable Benny, it still feels like yesterday and yet its one year already. Your memory is evergreen and our Solace is still in the fact that you went to meet with the Almighty.  Sleep on sweet heart. Ur loved most dearly."

This tribute was added by Chibuzor Elum Eronini on 13th December 2013

"Everyday,I think of you.Its still very painful.I have asked God why.I'm still waiting for answers.When I remember the songs you always sang and how much you loved God I feel at peace knowing you're with your master Jesus.I love you.keep resting in the bosom of the Lord."

This tribute was added by toni borngreat on 13th December 2013

"Just like yesterday, it's one year already. Your memories will forever live in our heart Bennie. Continue to rest till we meet again."

This tribute was added by nkiru onunkwo on 13th December 2013

"Sweet Bennie, hmmmmm, the friend amongst many, still miss you dearly, but am certain you radiate much more where you are. Rest in peace and you are forever loved and cherished; though I miss your sweetness so greatly!"

This tribute was added by Otubusin Funmi on 24th March 2013

"Bennie, Happy Birthday!(21st march)
I still miss u very much but I know u r celebrating now in heaven with God.

I still look at our Vie Scolaire pictures and i still av ur wedding bouquet. Bennie, keep celebrating till we meet again. HBD.Bisous..Funmi Otubusin"

This tribute was added by amara igwenagu on 22nd March 2013

"Sweet Benny, I can't still believe ur gone. Cos u still look so beautiful & eva radiant. I more dan miss u dear but I still glorify God 4 d times we shared. Continue 2 rest in his bossom till we meet agn. Happy Birthday dearie and may God continue 2 comfort ur loved ones.                         It is well!"

This tribute was added by omolara martins on 21st March 2013

"Am yet to come to terms with this event. I know you are alive in christ.......I rest my case in Lord to stop this quest....every one of Gods words contradits that which has happened........but i say to my self....O ye oluwa....the Lord knows perfectly why........i look forward to seeing you again......words cant fully express my feeling......it is well...."

This tribute was added by Toni Borngreat on 21st March 2013

"So many questions with little or no answers.  We are again reminded of your sudden demise from this planet. If birthdays are celebrated in that part of the world, I wish you a happy birthday.  Continue to rest till we meet at the feet of Jesus.  we love you but God loves you more."

This tribute was added by Chibuzor Elum Eronini on 21st March 2013

"I still don't believe you're not here with us cos I hear ur voice all the time.I hear u tell me its okay,i see ur face.Happy birthday angel.I miss you.I miss your gists and laughs.Have a nice one in heaven."

This tribute was added by Tunde Liasu on 21st March 2013

"Bene, you were kind and loving. A compassionate woman you were. Continue to rejoice in the bosom of the Lord till we meet at THE GREAT WHITE THROWN. Happy Birthday to you!"

This tribute was added by Brenda Johnson-Olanrewaju on 21st March 2013

"Forever u will be missed"

This tribute was added by Ron Adel on 23rd December 2012

"Bennie, its like i am dreaming. But i believe u r in a better place. May God strenghten every1 u left behind. Till be meet again, rest in peace faithful one."

This tribute was added by omolara martins on 21st December 2012

"Benema; Benedictus;Benedupa.....dats how i call  you when am  in my jovial mood or Madam....then am serious now. Its still a mirage. Or i have it at the back of my mind that you are still alive. Ofcourse; you live in Christ forever. All ur lifetime we av shared our thoughts  and life. All of a sudden i cant believe you ar not there again. You...not you bene...but God knows best. Je t'aime."

This tribute was added by Emo Nwaefuna on 21st December 2012

"I'm still in shock but greatly consoled that I got to know you while you were still with us. You inspired me in many ways in the ministry. Thank you for everything.  

RIP my dear friend till we meet to part no more at Jesus' feet."

This tribute was added by Olusola Abiola on 19th December 2012

"May her soul rest in perfect peace and may our Lord God be with the families and friends she left behind especially her husband and children.  Thank God Lord for a life well spent."

This tribute was added by Chika Ilonwa on 19th December 2012

"Sitting here all alone, looking at your photos
Because it’s all I have of you right now
I can feel the pain inside as it still grows
And I wish that I could bring you back somehow....

Adieu! sweetest Benny!!"

This tribute was added by Ololade Onyeche on 18th December 2012

"Dagan! U were wonderful, intelligent, funny, strict, mischievous, devoted. We had our not too pleasant moments but dat's ok cos it shows u were human. We always made up but then we didn't make up when it was important n now u r gone. It's ok dear, GOD sees our hearts n knows that we love(d) each other irrespective. Sleep well my darling cousin. Adieu!"

This tribute was added by Chibuzor Elum Eronini on 18th December 2012

"Darling Benedicta how do I begin.This is about the most painful thing I have ever written.You infected us all with ur bubbling personality and ur love for christ.you were so smart,so intelligent,so kind and u sometimes gave me a hard time,but u wanted to make me a better person.I miss u so much but I know u're wit Jesus and we will meet on the last day.I just wished u never left.rest well"

This tribute was added by Ama Igwilo on 18th December 2012

"Sis Benny, I knew you for a short while, but admired you from a distance. You were such a calm and lovable person. I was shocked when I heard you passed on, but is consoled by the fact that I know you are in a better place. We will all miss you!"

This tribute was added by Chika Ilonwa on 18th December 2012

"It was meant to be poems
Pages I have torn apart
On tear stained paper
I poured a broken heart

The feeling of despair
Not even words explain
Mixing tears and ink
Pages release the pain

A crumpled notebook
On pages I would write
More paper was torn
Shedding tears tonight
Accept my heartfelt condolences dear."

This tribute was added by Titilayo Aliu on 18th December 2012

"Benedicta!!! Its so sad that you left us too soon,we all don't know why but,God knows and he loves you so much.........you will forever be remembered......continue to Rest in the bossom of the Lord Almighty."

This tribute was added by Brenda Johnson-Olanrewaju on 18th December 2012

"IS NOT HOW LONG BUT HOW WELL
Sis Benedicta, your death came as a big shock to me but in all things i give praise to God because you are in a better place, the bossom of the Lord. you will be greatly missed by all. You affected alot of lives, so your memory lives on. May God comfort and heal everyone you left behind. RIP"

This tribute was added by Uche Ihensekhien on 18th December 2012

"My dear sis Bene, it’s hard to believe you have gone so soon but the joy of it all is that u die in the Lord. You won many soul to Christ. I will  miss u so dearly"

This tribute was added by Florentino Sanya on 18th December 2012

"Hummmmm! Benedicta you were such an upright, trustworthy, smart and straightforward lady that would be missed by all who knew you. Benedicta truly you have gone to be with The Lord, but we shall always remember you for all your wonderful deeds. Sleep on beloved Benedicta!!!!!!! Adieu Friend!"

This tribute was added by amara igwenagu on 18th December 2012

"My Lovely and angelic Benny, am yet to Come to terms with the fact that your no more. I can still hear your lively and resounding chuckles that lights up every soul. You wil be greatly missed my dear. You were upright, very friendly and a solution provider. You exhibited the Christian virtues, and you have gone to rest at The Lords feet. Adieu my dear friend."

This tribute was added by Pastor Christina Jack on 18th December 2012

"My dear Sis.Benedicta, I look to see you as I enter church sitted  at back with Sharon. I still can't believe it. I miss you so much,no one to talk about the french brethren to,only you knew them so well. Remember you promised to help me out Sis.Benedicata,Bro.Alex won best cell no.8 position at the zonal level on Sunday, but we will make no.1 next year just for you. Rest my Sister."

This tribute was added by Olubusola Oyebanji on 18th December 2012

"Benedicta Martins! I still can't believe that you are gone. I know you are in a better place. It is a big loss, God will give your family the strength to bear this big loss. We will all miss you. My heart bleed. Rest in peace! till we meet at the feet of christ. Good Nite Bene! We love you but God loves you more. Gone too soon."

This tribute was added by isioma patrick Nwaefuna on 18th December 2012

"Bennie,its so hard 2 say goodbye,i still remember our days in Unilag,how excited u where that i had joined Christ Embassy,hw i used 2 call u OROBO,i never knew d last time i saw u was going to b the last time i will ever c u again Quel dommage!but  one thing is certain you lived a Glorious and a fulfilled LIFE.Au Revoir "BENNIE" mon tres Bon Amie,je vais jamais vous oubliez Repose en paix."

This tribute was added by Otubusin Funmi on 17th December 2012

"Bennie, i refused to believe this news when i heard it on Thursday. However, now , i know it's true. I know you're resting in the Lord now.
Bennie, you touched my life in a whole lot of ways and indirectly, you touched others through me.
Bennie i love you and i miss you but God loves you most. Sleep well, ma Cherie till we meet again at Jesus' feet"

This tribute was added by Ife Love on 17th December 2012

"Vous étiez en effet une pierre précieuse(une merveille) rare.Le repos dans la poitrine de Dieu avant que nous ne nous rencontrons de nouveau. Votre famille ne sera pas interrompue l'esprit à cause de votre mort du nom de Jésus. Tu me manques. avec amour,Temitope Otubusin"

This tribute was added by Ife Love on 17th December 2012

"Bennie,d principled chic;Bennie,d wonderful friend; Bennie,d passionate soulwinner.I quash all feelings of sadness @ ur passing because u lived a life of impact 4 Christ.U sowed a seed of God's word in my life which blossomed when I surrendered to Christ.Ur Christ-like conduct & boldness @ the French village & French school touched lives.I celebrate You.My sis & I miss u.Otubusin Temitope"

This tribute was added by Dupe Fijabi on 17th December 2012

"My sweet Bennie, you were a great sister, friend and confidant. its always a joy to see you when i arrive Church. oh how can i say good bye to you, still can't believe that i won't see your pleasant face in Church anymore. my only consolation now is that i know you are resting in the Lord's bossom and at your arrival last thursday 13/12/2012, there was a great celebration. Adieu Mon Ami"

This tribute was added by adetola taiwo on 17th December 2012

"Ma chère Afiavi, les mots me manquent pour bien m’exprimer! Dire que je t’aime ne suffit pas… dire que ta mort me donne une douleur c’est bien le moins qu’on puisse dire! Dieu est le Tout-Savant et c’est chez lui que nous tous retournons. Ma consolation est que tu l’as bien connu et on se verra au jugement dernier. Sun re, ore mi!"

This tribute was added by adetola taiwo on 17th December 2012

"In this & this only we take our consolation
Dat we shall see you @ the resurrection
In glowing garments and gleaming crowns
Smiling, and Dancing to Alleluia sounds"

This tribute was added by nkiru onunkwo on 17th December 2012

"'Sweet Sis Benny, how can I ask questions? You were a sweet sister and friend, your sweetness still lingers; the movies we saw together, your great smile and rich laughter, the purity of your heart in the questions you asked, or is it the phone cooking lessons.....awwww, sleep well my dear Sis Benny... The Lord knows it all. Adieu!"

This tribute was added by adetola taiwo on 17th December 2012

"I look up 2 d sky wit misty eyes
Wondering y u ad 2 die
D questions in my mind r many
As I recall memories of my Afiavi
Our friendship transcended bloodlines
Moments wit u always brought cries
Of laughter,of excitement,of joy
Can't bear 2 tink u r no more
U were a shining beacon
God's light in dis dark generation
Filled wit Christ-like passion&love
U were 2 many an angel sent 4m above"

This tribute was added by sis annabel on 17th December 2012

"Sis Benny, I still don't want to believe that you are gone. But like we all know, no one can question HIM.  My greatest  joy is that you  are in a better place.  We will miss you."

This tribute was added by Ofure Ojo-Osagie on 17th December 2012

"Your passion for the things of God. We are consoled because we know................. to die is gain (Phil 1:21).
You will be greatly missed."

This tribute was added by bro soul on 17th December 2012

"While we miss you, our succor is knowing that you are in God and you have gone to a better place. We pray that God comforts those you left behind, and all those you affected in life shall grow into a mighty harvest... bro efe atiyio"

This tribute was added by omolola okunola on 17th December 2012

"''Hmmmm! who am I to question God?*tears* I remembered how you used to console/advise me to carry on when I was going through some difficult situations. How we used to chat on BB when u want  me to teach you how to prepare ''Ofada stew''*tears*. We'll all miss you, your calm smile and your good deeds. Rest in the bossom of the Almighty."

This tribute was added by Toni Borngreat on 17th December 2012

"Sis Benny, you were such a loving and caring friend, sister and wife. You affected many lives even though you lived a short life. The church, your family, your husband, your office, sharon your daughter will miss you greatly. your memories will forever live in our hearts. Adieu Sis Benny Udoesu. We love you but God loves you more.RIP"


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