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Bon anniversaire au ciel
Je t'aime à jamais
Je t'aime à jamais
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Benedicta Udoesu, 32 years old, born on March 21, 1980, and passed away on December 13, 2012. We will remember her forever.
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December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
In Christ alone, my hope is found
He is my light, my strength, my song
This Cornerstone, this solid ground
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm
What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
Rest on Bene till we meet at the Lords feet...
He is my light, my strength, my song
This Cornerstone, this solid ground
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm
What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
Rest on Bene till we meet at the Lords feet...
December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
Yesterday, I went to Adebola Street after such a loooooooooong time and I was so overwhelmed with emotions .
I miss you girlfriend and I can only imagine what life would have been like if you were still here.
I pray God continues to comfort your family till we meet again...
I miss you girlfriend and I can only imagine what life would have been like if you were still here.
I pray God continues to comfort your family till we meet again...
December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
11 years gone by just like a couple of days, yet your memory is still so fresh. Benny we will never forget you. Rest on in the bossom of the Lord till we meet again
December 14, 2022
December 14, 2022
Dearest Benny, 10 years in one fell swoop just like that. Its still seems just like yesterday and the pain is still fresh. Trusting that you have been in a better place all this while free from this sinful world, yet we still miss you and often fondly recall the good times we shared together. Rest on beloved till we meet to part no more.
December 13, 2022
December 13, 2022
It's Exactly 10years today...I thought I would be able to post something online but couldn't. Most of the time to get me yo do stuffs...I get my ginger from you. All I know is that you are in a better place..all is well...even going to your grave side won't make sense as you are not there...We shall meet again definitely at the Lords feet...You have the best already...being with the Lord...Hun....we shall meet again....Sharon is doing well...and of course you know...we could have been gisting or planning on the future as I said,..you have the best...we shall meet again....love you Benedupopopo
December 13, 2022
December 13, 2022
Sleep on dear sister, enjoy the feet of the master as we prepare for the rapture here. You are not forgotten. Keep smiling down beloved Sis Benie. .
December 13, 2022
December 13, 2022
My dear friend... it's been 10 years already that you left us. We thank God for the impact you made in the body of Christ while you were alive. I saw Pastor Lara during IPPC 2O22. I'm sure you're smiling down on us from heaven as you see the exploits we are achieving for the gospel. Keep resting until we meet at Jesus' feet on that great day
December 19, 2021
December 19, 2021
My dear Benny, it's been 9 long years since you left us. How time flies. Can't believe its gonna be a whole decade soon, yet the pain is still so fresh.
I miss you Benny and wish you were still here. Continue to rest in peace beloved.
I miss you Benny and wish you were still here. Continue to rest in peace beloved.
December 20, 2020
December 20, 2020
You're sorely missed...I love you..
December 13, 2020
December 13, 2020
Benny today makes it 8 years in the bossom of the one you loved so much and served with your all. I remember your lovely soul today as always.
Life has happened to us all while you have been gone. It's been a long day without you my friend, but I'll tell you all about it when I see you again. Keep resting on.
Life has happened to us all while you have been gone. It's been a long day without you my friend, but I'll tell you all about it when I see you again. Keep resting on.
March 29, 2020
March 29, 2020
Benny, you would have been 40years old last week. We would have welcomed you to the 4th floor. But God already called you to Heavens floor and that's where our consolation lies.
I miss you and still remember you fondly very very often. Continue to rest in His bossom till the ressurection.
I miss you and still remember you fondly very very often. Continue to rest in His bossom till the ressurection.
March 21, 2020
March 21, 2020
You would have been 40 today...there would have been plans....but maybe not....this is to say you live on. I love you... I never had opportunity to say it. Till we meet again Bene....rest on
March 21, 2020
March 21, 2020
Happy 40th birthday in heaven Angel Bene, keep resting in God's bossom till we meet to part no more. Love you always
March 21, 2018
March 21, 2018
We miss you my darling Bene.... You would have been 38 years today. God knows best, rest on my dear.
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
Bene,...you came, you saw and you conquered. You have played your path...you touched lives and they are better off. The Kingdom of God recognises your works as they still here with us to review. Sharon is growing fast and she will cone to know you. Till we meet again at the lords feet...see you
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
Benny! Its been 5 years already. You are greatly missed! Your beautiful good heart is so missed. I think of you many times over but God knows best why you had to leave when you did. You are forever in my heart. I still love you like you are still here. Rest on dear!
December 12, 2017
December 12, 2017
Benny its 5 years since you have been gone. Its just like a twinkle of an eye since that black thursday you left without saying goodbye. The pain is still so fresh and the memories linger on. It all seems just like yesterday.
You lived a good life, you ran the race, you gave of your best. You went too soon my friend but you are unforgettable. Continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord till we meet again. Adieu
You lived a good life, you ran the race, you gave of your best. You went too soon my friend but you are unforgettable. Continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord till we meet again. Adieu
December 14, 2016
December 14, 2016
forever missed. Just like yesterday you slept and left this part of heaven, see you in the morning sis. Love love you very very much.
December 13, 2016
December 13, 2016
My Dear Friend. Four Years seems just like yesterday. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord.
December 15, 2015
December 15, 2015
Sweet Benny,time cannot take away the pain.I think of you all the time,I see you sitting beside me at Creek road,calling my name,I miss our long phone calls.I still ask God why.You lived a good life of faith.Continue to rest in the blossom of the Lord.
December 15, 2015
December 15, 2015
Sweet Benny,time cannot take away the pain.I think of you all the time,I see you sitting beside me at Creek road,calling my name,I miss our long phone calls.I still ask God why.You lived a good life of faith.Continue to rest in the blossom of the Lord.
December 14, 2015
December 14, 2015
Benny love, 3 years. It's been painful but I have kept my promise. Sharon is doing excellent. I know you know this already. You will always be in my heart. You went too soon Benny.....
December 14, 2015
December 14, 2015
TREASURED IN MY HEART; FOREVER IN MY HEART
It's been 3 years, Dearie. You’re still on my mind, especially during this festive period... Yes, that bond will always remain, Bennie.
No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good-bye. You were gone before I knew it and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow, what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know.
I know that you have just departed to another life, I will remember you at every moment, as you were an exceptional person, however I say farewell, knowing we'll meet again some day.
Now that you are in the glory of the Lord, I know that you are very peaceful, because here on earth the Word of God was ALWAYS your Anchor, no matter what.
A thousand words won't bring you back, I know because I've tried ( I always self-talk, remembering ALL our "GIST"); neither will a thousand tears, I know because I've cried.
Everything we shared yesterday is now a memory for tomorrow. I will always treasure those memories. It is very deep Dear...
I will wrap this up with this anonymous saying:
"Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard, but always near; still loved, still missed and very dear."
It's been 3 years, Dearie. You’re still on my mind, especially during this festive period... Yes, that bond will always remain, Bennie.
No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good-bye. You were gone before I knew it and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow, what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know.
I know that you have just departed to another life, I will remember you at every moment, as you were an exceptional person, however I say farewell, knowing we'll meet again some day.
Now that you are in the glory of the Lord, I know that you are very peaceful, because here on earth the Word of God was ALWAYS your Anchor, no matter what.
A thousand words won't bring you back, I know because I've tried ( I always self-talk, remembering ALL our "GIST"); neither will a thousand tears, I know because I've cried.
Everything we shared yesterday is now a memory for tomorrow. I will always treasure those memories. It is very deep Dear...
I will wrap this up with this anonymous saying:
"Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard, but always near; still loved, still missed and very dear."
December 13, 2015
December 13, 2015
It's very difficult to believe that u have gone so soon, indeed u were a very active member in the house of God, but God knows best and my greatest Joy is that you died in christ Jesus! And u are also resting in the blossom of our Lord Jesus, we really missed you dearly and u are forever in our hearts! I Love u dearly continue to rest in his perfect peace amen.
December 13, 2015
December 13, 2015
Bennie,
It's just yesterday that you left this world. Miss you daily dear. Am comforted because i know you are in a better place. Rest on dear.xxxx
It's just yesterday that you left this world. Miss you daily dear. Am comforted because i know you are in a better place. Rest on dear.xxxx
December 13, 2015
December 13, 2015
Just like yesterday, its already three years since you went speechless. You are forever in our hearts. Rest on Benny. You are forever missed.
December 13, 2015
December 13, 2015
Dearest Benedupopopo......it's another year again today. We continue to take succuor in God. You lived an impactful life and I envy you. You ran the race well. Continue to reign in Christ. Till we meet to part no more.
March 23, 2015
March 23, 2015
Happy Birthday Dearie, enjoy with the host of heaven cause you are more than an angel on earth and i know you are in the bosom presence of God singing joyful song in a glorious place full of peace and glamour. sleep on dear one till we meet to part no more. The heavenly host celebrates you now and forever. RIP sister.
March 21, 2015
March 21, 2015
So much has been written
These past three years
Tears had been shed
Through various stages
It was meant to be memories
Thoughts I have shared
On tear stained paper
I poured out a broken heart
The feeling of despair
Not even words can explain
Mixing tears and ink
Pages release the pain
A crumpled notebook
On pages I would write
More paper was torn
Shedding tears tonight
Sleep on Sr. Benedicta
These past three years
Tears had been shed
Through various stages
It was meant to be memories
Thoughts I have shared
On tear stained paper
I poured out a broken heart
The feeling of despair
Not even words can explain
Mixing tears and ink
Pages release the pain
A crumpled notebook
On pages I would write
More paper was torn
Shedding tears tonight
Sleep on Sr. Benedicta
December 25, 2014
December 25, 2014
Forever in my thoughts. Miss you so much.
December 20, 2014
December 20, 2014
Benny my dearest, its still like yesterday and am yet to come to terms with your exit. I still called somebody Benedicta two days ago in the office. So many things remind me about you and I so thank God for the short but great life that you lived. Continue to rest in the bossom of our Lord and merry Xmas to you dear Benny.
December 20, 2014
December 20, 2014
My dear friend, I miss and think of you everyday. Rest in the bossom of the Lord. I pray for grace for your family.I Will always love you.
December 19, 2014
December 19, 2014
My dear Benny,
Words cannot express how much i miss you...
Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord.
Words cannot express how much i miss you...
Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord.
December 13, 2014
December 13, 2014
I lay a flower for you today.........je t'aime.....
December 13, 2014
December 13, 2014
You are forever in my hearts....Sharon us growing up fast...when she throws her tantrum, i can not but laugh...because she reminds me of you at this time. Gods spirit abd his angels will watch over her countinuously. We will engrave your memory in her heart as she grows up and she see snd know she had a beautiful mum. We will meet sgain at the lords feet. Adios for now
December 20, 2013
December 20, 2013
Benny mi, I can't believe you're gone. We so miss you my dear and we love you dearly. RIP...
December 14, 2013
December 14, 2013
Ojo re bi a na......it hasnt sink or is it that i refuse to believe you are no more? That could be it. But when i feel like gisting; or to discuss Edward or Papa and i am about to dial that no. and it sinks that you wont be there to pick..then reality sets in. Miss you so much...but i know we will meet again and we will talk....bless u bene.
December 13, 2013
December 13, 2013
Everyday,I think of you.Its still very painful.I have asked God why.I'm still waiting for answers.When I remember the songs you always sang and how much you loved God I feel at peace knowing you're with your master Jesus.I love you.keep resting in the bosom of the Lord.
December 13, 2013
December 13, 2013
Adorable Benny, it still feels like yesterday and yet its one year already. Your memory is evergreen and our Solace is still in the fact that you went to meet with the Almighty. Sleep on sweet heart. Ur loved most dearly.
December 13, 2013
December 13, 2013
Just like yesterday, it's one year already. Your memories will forever live in our heart Bennie. Continue to rest till we meet again.
December 13, 2013
December 13, 2013
Sweet Bennie, hmmmmm, the friend amongst many, still miss you dearly, but am certain you radiate much more where you are. Rest in peace and you are forever loved and cherished; though I miss your sweetness so greatly!
March 24, 2013
March 24, 2013
Bennie, Happy Birthday!(21st march)
I still miss u very much but I know u r celebrating now in heaven with God.
I still look at our Vie Scolaire pictures and i still av ur wedding bouquet. Bennie, keep celebrating till we meet again. HBD.Bisous..Funmi Otubusin
I still miss u very much but I know u r celebrating now in heaven with God.
I still look at our Vie Scolaire pictures and i still av ur wedding bouquet. Bennie, keep celebrating till we meet again. HBD.Bisous..Funmi Otubusin
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
Sweet Benny, I can't still believe ur gone. Cos u still look so beautiful & eva radiant. I more dan miss u dear but I still glorify God 4 d times we shared. Continue 2 rest in his bossom till we meet agn. Happy Birthday dearie and may God continue 2 comfort ur loved ones. It is well!
March 21, 2013
March 21, 2013
Am yet to come to terms with this event. I know you are alive in christ.......I rest my case in Lord to stop this quest....every one of Gods words contradits that which has happened........but i say to my self....O ye oluwa....the Lord knows perfectly why........i look forward to seeing you again......words cant fully express my feeling......it is well....
March 21, 2013
March 21, 2013
So many questions with little or no answers. We are again reminded of your sudden demise from this planet. If birthdays are celebrated in that part of the world, I wish you a happy birthday. Continue to rest till we meet at the feet of Jesus. we love you but God loves you more.
March 21, 2013
March 21, 2013
I still don't believe you're not here with us cos I hear ur voice all the time.I hear u tell me its okay,i see ur face.Happy birthday angel.I miss you.I miss your gists and laughs.Have a nice one in heaven.
March 21, 2013
March 21, 2013
Bene, you were kind and loving. A compassionate woman you were. Continue to rejoice in the bosom of the Lord till we meet at THE GREAT WHITE THROWN. Happy Birthday to you!
March 21, 2013
March 21, 2013
Forever u will be missed
December 23, 2012
December 23, 2012
Bennie, its like i am dreaming. But i believe u r in a better place. May God strenghten every1 u left behind. Till be meet again, rest in peace faithful one.
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December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
In Christ alone, my hope is found
He is my light, my strength, my song
This Cornerstone, this solid ground
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm
What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
Rest on Bene till we meet at the Lords feet...
He is my light, my strength, my song
This Cornerstone, this solid ground
Firm through the fiercest drought and storm
What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand.
Rest on Bene till we meet at the Lords feet...
December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
Yesterday, I went to Adebola Street after such a loooooooooong time and I was so overwhelmed with emotions .
I miss you girlfriend and I can only imagine what life would have been like if you were still here.
I pray God continues to comfort your family till we meet again...
I miss you girlfriend and I can only imagine what life would have been like if you were still here.
I pray God continues to comfort your family till we meet again...
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September 4, 2013
. Can I ever forget her, the days we spent together during our service year..it took me long to know benny. I miss you, sure your family misses you more...I remember d day u prayed so hard 4 me, I remember d fellowships u took me 2, I remember d freak accident on a bike in lagos, so many things. Benny may your spirit live on...you were d best friend, benny till we meet again heaven...you are d still person I ever came across. Solace to your family, solace to friends. ..be sure we would live our lives to make you proud....
I miss you, we miss u...
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What a rare gem you are
December 29, 2012
Dear Sis Benny,
Though i knew you just about a year ago, you are a gem very calm and sound.
The grace at which you address issues is unparallel (i used present tense because you are alive to God but absent here in this part of heaven we belong) i realy missed your smiles, the last time we shared was in your car when you took me to Barracks while on your way home after a group meeting early this year.
I remember your counsel to always take life easy, not to allow any stressor take charge of my life as a woman. You counselled me just like an experienced teacher, mother and sister would.
Rest on beloveth, till we meet to part no more.
Love you forever sister.
December 21, 2012
by Emo Nwaefuna
My dear friend Benny.
You were a great inspiration to me in church. You served God relentlessly and never complained about responsibilities in the house of God rather you looked to take on more.
I am grateful to God that I was able to be a part of your life even though it was short. We partnered together a few times on particular projects and it was indeed an interesting experience. Your demise came as a huge shock to everyone. But just as the bible says, I do not weep as one who has no hope. All I can do now is pick up the torch from where you left off and ensure we finish the race that has been set before us.
Rest well my dear friend till we meet at the Master’s feet.