we deployed  in january 2004 that  year and we talked on the phone atleast once a week and in march a i made the most horrible mistake that night on the phone I was kidding with her I told her i got an Iraq girlfreind and she got mad i tld her i was kidding playing around she stayed mad and hung up on me i called her back several times and she never answered  the next morning i went to work And 1sgt  informed me she lost the baby Danny Wayne Leevey JR So I called her back at the company and asked me if i was coming homg home. I told her yes so i went home to take care of her That flight i heard every baby cry. After i got there my om and dad brothers already flew there already first time on a plane, When I I got there i could not greive I had to take care of her we had them do an autupsy which took longer than expected which lasted longer than my leave my family was already gone at this time so i forgot my ticket on purpose cause i was scares i was giong to lose her too if i left before the funeral  she was really having a rough time. there was no way i was going to leave her alone. A  few weeks later i came back after i knew she was going to be ok I was lucky i didnt get to any trouble but they didny know i did it on purpose.  She got through it cause she was a tough cookie Most couples fight alot we never did we had a few mostly most were my fault we nevrer were mad at each other by morning  We realy never fought that muchashe understood what military life was all about late nights feild missions ndl the rest comes with the territory,

I met USo back in Labar day weekend  2003 I fist dates lasted about two days we went to a night club then to we went back to the barracks but i cared so much for her and respected her so much we just slept and went out the next day and ended up sp sleeping on the beach, At this point a already  knew i loved her She did the sweetest thing she asked me to hear her pace maker didnt know that at the time so i did and she was surprised I didnt run away she told me every guy before  me did, But running never crossed my mind because she was the the sweetest most beautufuk=l woman i ever knew, At that point i didnt know the half of how special she really was and already knew i was going to marry her and really didnt know how great she really was at that time. A dayor maybe a few more at this we already falling in love and both knew we were going to be together just wasnt discussed  yet  later i explained i was about to deploy the following Jan and i explained it wasnt going to be easy i wound be gone awhile and the whole army thing. About a 4 or so weeks later we find out we was expecting  she told me at that time im not getting an abortion i told her i dont want you and too and was never an option uless her life was in danger. About a week later i took her to north shore and asked her to marry me and she said yes and it was the beginning of the best 8 years of my life.