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Vernell Oliver, 90, born on July 18, 1922 passed away on October 16, 2012. We will remember her forever.

Verne McCarroll Oliver had dedicated her life to education, beginning with an undergraduate degree from New Jersey State University, completion of her doctoral studies at Columbia University and further work at Johns Hopkins School of International Studies, the New School for Social Research, and Bank Street College.

Ms. Oliver spent more than a dozen years as a college instructor and an Assistant Professor at Morgan State College, Central State College of Ohio and Howard University, among others. Academic publications led to high school teaching, History Department Chair, and Chair of College Guidance, all topped off as Head of the New Lincoln School (now part of Trevor Day School).

Visit www.vernelloliver.com for more about our beloved Verne.


There are no words that seem adequate enough to say thank you to everyone who expressed their sympathy for the loss of our beloved Verne Oliver. She was a wonderful person and through the memories that she gave each of us, she will live on forever in out hearts.

- The Family of Vernell McCarroll Oliver

July 18, 2023
July 18, 2023
I hear your voice often, encouraging, supporting, and pushing us to be our best selves. Cheers to you, and your legacy, your kind heart, your contagious laugh, and your eternal light that shines on through so many. Your stories are still told, and your ideology will be passed on to the generations ahead. I certainly used "Now how can I take you to a nice restaurant eating like that?" yesterday. Love ya!
October 16, 2022
October 16, 2022
I am a Black woman
The music of my song
Some sweet arpeggio of tears
Is written in a minor key
And I
Can be heard humming in the night
Can be heard
Humming
In the night.
              Mari Evans
A poem for you on the 10th anniversary of your Transition.
I remember your lesson on poetry and describing it as the most difficult of literary genres. I fell in love and still am some 50 + years later.
Rest in Power Auntie
October 16, 2022
October 16, 2022
Oh the stories we could tell you, the memories we’d laugh chuckle at and the accomplishments you’d shine over. Love and miss you everyday. Forever the burning fire and beauty within us.
October 16, 2017
October 16, 2017
Mrs. Oliver was a born teacher. When she met my daughter, then of high school age, at a reunion she instantly engaged her in conversation about her goals and interests. I miss her and appreciate these reminders of her warmth and influence.
August 2, 2016
August 2, 2016
Thinking of you my dear on this hot summer evening, enjoying a cool vodka Gimlet, reading the Sunday New York Times. and listening to Chopin.  Enough Said!
Love Darrolyn
July 18, 2015
July 18, 2015
Mrs. Oliver, My friend,mentor and Coworker. Everything I know, I learned from Mrs. Oliver. I worked with her putting libraries together for Catholic Schools around the city. Helping people was her passion. She was a great human being. I miss you so much. I love you, Jessica
July 18, 2015
July 18, 2015
Verne,

You will never be forgotten. Your light continues to shine in all of us for whom you mentored, shaped, and inspired. I love you, my friend. Rest in peace.
Milton
October 16, 2014
October 16, 2014
I live and work now in a "gateway city", and almost daily I meet and interact with immigrants from West Africa and their children. It helps tremendously for connecting and building relationships that I know something of each of their countries, enough to be an informed and caring listener, and that for over 50 years I have been following their histories as they unfold. I absolutely owe that connection to Mrs. Oliver, to the unit we did in her Core class on Africa, and the many other times she shared stories of her work and research in Africa. So thank you Verne, wherever you are.
July 18, 2014
July 18, 2014
"Verne, thank you for all you did for our children. Everything in our school library reminds us of your dedication, generosity and love. We shall never forget you. The students at Blessed Sacrament School are praying for you.
July 18, 2014
July 18, 2014
Always glad to be reminded of Mrs. Oliver and how much we love and miss her.
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
Our school library was non-existent until Verne came along. Book by book, shelf by shelf, she helped us transform a dingy book room into a state-of-the-art library that is conducive to teaching and learning. Verne, thank you for your generosity of spirit, dedication and hard work. We shall never forget you! You will always be in our prayers.
November 3, 2012
November 3, 2012
A truly inspiring teacher and human being. We will all miss her spirit, wit and positive approach to life!
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Thank you to my principal, Verne Oliver, who took me under her wing and urged me to strive. She was a great educator and mentor. She touched the lives of many and left her mark. She will be missed. NLS '80.
October 27, 2012
October 27, 2012
Mrs. Oliver was an educator of educators. She challenged the intellect, inspired the heart, and upheld the spirit even in the most challenging of times. Her grace and warmth were and remain an inspiration. May she rest in peace, (NLS class of '67).
October 24, 2012
October 24, 2012
Verne connected with her students in a way that only someone with a heart full of love could. She was awesome in some many ways. We were so lucky to have had her as our educator, friend and to have had her in our lives.
October 24, 2012
October 24, 2012
Verne touched us and tought us in a way that can only be be done by some one who loved us. I know we all loved her also.
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
I was blessed to have worked with Verne at Holy Spirit School. She was a wonderful and caring person. She spent many hours in our little library fixing and organizing. I though that she was remarkable- that at the age of 85 - she was still working to help students to experience the wonderful world of books. May God's light shine upon you, dear Verne. You will be missed
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
The Headmaster, Trustees and entire Saint David's community mourn the passing of a dear friend and former Trustee, Verne Oliver.
Verne's tremendous support and dedication to the School for many years is truly appreciated. Our prayers are with her family.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
"Verne Oliver has given the gift of reading to so many children
by opening school libraries,her passion for reading and helping
children will be missed. I remember many conversatiions that will
stay with me forever she was truly a champion."
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
I have been blessed to know Verne in my life. She was a mentor to me in developing St. Ray's H.S. for Boys library. It is better today because of her input and advice in making us a 21st C library. She is a LaSallian Awardee and will be remembered in our FAMILY prayers. She will be missed and we are thankful for her generosity to our school.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Verne made an immeasurable difference in this world. You can't ask for more from anyone--to leave the world changed because of his/her presence. This is what is meant by the word "indelible." Her devotion to others, powerful intellect, huge heart, and inspirational presence are models for us all. I hope she always felt our love come back to her as she gave hers freely to us. (NLS'68)
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Verne was such an inspiration to me! She had so much energy and traveled to so many places to sit and transform libraries from dusty rooms with books to places of adventure and beauty! I will always remember her!
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Thank you so much for your love of children and your vision that reading will open all of the doors to their future. God Bless You!
All of our gratitude from St. Helena School.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Verne- You were patient and caring. You listened when others didnt during a special time in my life at New Lincoln. You helped give me the confidence I needed in High School and prepared me for college. You are already missed and will be missed in my heart forever. Thank you!
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
All of us at Corpus Christi School in Manhattan are grateful to Verne Oliver for renewing our school library. Her wisdom and thoughtfulness will be long remembered. We shall miss our good friend very much!
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
The fact that I can so clearly hear her voice today, see her smile, remember the way she made me feel cared about, while at the same time slightly scared of, 40 years later is testament to the huge impression she made on my life. She was both the Guide of my education and the caring mother of a dear friend lost way too soon.
NLS '75 Kakie
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
The Board and Staff of InterSchool Orchestras of New York sends their sincere condolences on the loss of Verne Oliver, former Board member and wonderful supporter of education for New York City's children.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
She was my teacher, guidance counselor, and mentor. But most of all she was an inspiration. You always wanted to do your best for her because she cared so much. That lesson, to be the best that you could be, has followed me forever. Her loss is a loss to all who were touched by her. Nancy Lambert (NLS '64).
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
She was an inspired teacher and person. She continues to inspire me in my work.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
As the founder of the InterSchool Orchestras of New York, I was stricken to hear the sad news about our wonderful former Board member, Verne. Only short notice keeps me from being with you today to extend sympathy to her family and share memories with all those who loved and respected her. Her understanding of the needs of children and their schools was unparalleled.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
I would like to one day be able to say that I too reached as many lives as Vernell Oliver. Her accomplishments are vast, and her love for education spread far and wide. I wish I had the chance to sit and speak with her. I will look up her books and learn more about her vision. It is educators like her that demonstrate that her talent was priceless.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Sorry I had to leave before saying goodbye to my friends and teachers from NLS. I loved seeing you. It was a beautiful memorial service. We will all miss Mrs. O!
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Verne Oliver was a remarkable woman. I enjoyed our conversations, she captured my attention with her stories and her knowledge. She transformed our empty storage room into a beautiful library, a room filled with mystery, adventure,and knowledge. The students and I are most grateful to her for this gift...she will always be remembered.
October 22, 2012
October 22, 2012
Bob and I attended Verne's memorial service today, sharing heartfelt memories of what a remarkable teacher she was. Talking with many of our former New Lincoln students, we were struck by how many have pursued lives of service to others or in creative fields. We both feel lucky to have worked with inspiring leaders like Verne Oliver and Arthur Swan, who made New Lincoln so special.
October 21, 2012
October 21, 2012
Verne was a strong influence on my life. She was one of my most inspiring teachers, introduced me to the college I attended, and hired me as a teacher at NLS after my graduation. Verne brought out the best in people. She set high standards and motivated all around her to aspire to those standards. We will all miss her. NLS '73
October 21, 2012
October 21, 2012
Verne Oliver was the continuity of New Lincoln long after New Lincoln ceased to exist. She cared about each of us and kept in touch. As the class of '69 worked to put together a 40th class reunion, Mrs. Oliver contributed her knowledge of our classmates, where they were and how to contact them. We could always count on her to be present at reunions. She will be missed.
October 21, 2012
October 21, 2012
I am from the class of '61. We were lucky enough to have Verne, "Mrs. Oliver" for both 10th and 12th grades. Since then I have gone on to do extensive graduate and post graduate studies and Verne remains the most dynamic, talented, the quintessential teacher in my experience. All others are measured, and fall short of her talent for infusing excitement into our learning.
October 21, 2012
October 21, 2012
I have such clear memories of Mrs. Oliver: her laugh, her penetrating look with glasses perched on her nose. She set an example of intelligence, strength and compassion and let us know that it was possible to embody all of those qualities together. As an educator, I often think of what a gift it was to go to New Lincoln. I hope her family knows how much she meant to us. Julie L. NLS 1974
October 21, 2012
October 21, 2012
Verne was an inspiration to all of us. Her life has been a shining example of love in action. Thanks to her family for including her students in this page and letting us feel part of her extended family, and to everyone for sharing precious memories and gorgeous photos. I'm sure we will all be there in spirit at her Memorial on October 22.
Carol Gordon Wood, NLS 63
October 21, 2012
October 21, 2012
I was wee when Verne enthralled me with Black elegance. Smart she was, trendy she was, confident she was, and busy, she was. She was, for this wee one, something to steal glances at and take note of. I never knew her but having such grandeur to gaze upon, for wee ones, wee Black ones, was serendipitously valuable to a life. Moira Boyd NLS
October 20, 2012
October 20, 2012
Part 3
Mrs Oliver really was our Gramms, (Cynthia, Darius and Phyllis).
She was a true angel in disguise with her cane marching through Harlem, USA.
You'll be dearly missed by many.
I already do.
October 20, 2012
October 20, 2012
I was her decidedly high on the list of the decidedly less than overly academic students, in Vern's, NLS the class of 1962, but we had wonderful dialogs, she was tolerant of my more "creative" bent, and I enormous respect for her, and of what she gave to me. It was a thrill to keep in touch with her, now and then for the past 50yrs-- face to face, here and there, and by e-mail;
October 20, 2012
October 20, 2012
Part2//..the last time around Thanksgiving last year, then this year, I sadly stopped hearing back. And albeit she long ago insisted that it was time to start calling her Verne--rather than Mrs. Oliver,and I did-- it really never felt quite right. What a giant she was, in this world and gave so much, and I am greatly saddened to learn, that she is no longer with us. My condolences to all.
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July 18, 2023
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I hear your voice often, encouraging, supporting, and pushing us to be our best selves. Cheers to you, and your legacy, your kind heart, your contagious laugh, and your eternal light that shines on through so many. Your stories are still told, and your ideology will be passed on to the generations ahead. I certainly used "Now how can I take you to a nice restaurant eating like that?" yesterday. Love ya!
October 16, 2022
October 16, 2022
I am a Black woman
The music of my song
Some sweet arpeggio of tears
Is written in a minor key
And I
Can be heard humming in the night
Can be heard
Humming
In the night.
              Mari Evans
A poem for you on the 10th anniversary of your Transition.
I remember your lesson on poetry and describing it as the most difficult of literary genres. I fell in love and still am some 50 + years later.
Rest in Power Auntie
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Verne at Work

October 21, 2012

teaching students at The Hewitt School how to build a library. It was great fun and she will be missed. xo

Teacher/ par exccellent-1940

October 19, 2012

Rev.Bobby O.MCarroll,D.D.(youngest of the five children) 
My first trip to the "Big City" began friday-nite with a long soaking/bath in the tub,followed by an early bed time. 
Excited, saturday morning started with dressing in my short-pants and long stocking outfit, not forgetting to put vasaline on my face, elbows, knees and on my new patten leather shoes.        
The long walk from our house in Elizabeth, N.J, (a blue-working-class street- changing into a Black middle-class communiy) to the train station, up the rickied stairs and onto the wooden platform all added to the anticipation/fear of a nine year-old, following his older sister into (what my mother would say was "God only knows where".
The view of the engine spitting out smoke,the feel of rotting seats on by bare legs,the dirty windows, the deafening noise of the wheels on the tracks didn't bode well as we desended into the long black tunnel, under the Hudson River.

 Tighly cluching Vernell's hand, we made our way though the ant-hill of Grand-Cental-staition. Scurrying in all direction were more people than lined the parade-route in Elizabeth on the 4th of July.

Our first stop was Radio City Music Hall. As we waited for the elevator, I asked
"why do we have to sit in the balcony like we do at our local movie?" Her answer was " the differrence is that this is New York and were are going to sit in the mizzanine". 
The Rocketts (showing more under-clothes than was pictured in my Sears-catolog, under my bed) danced and kicked high.The movie screen seemed a block long and two stories high kept me tranfixed for hours.

Horn and Hardy was our next stop. Five nickles and the slot opened to a beef pot-pie, which was eagerly, devoured      

   Off Broadway, the marquee read... Paul Robeson in OTHELLO !!!.
I didn't ask Vernell if my mother knew that she had named my brother after a famous character, but knowing moma, I was sure she was completely aware.
 Good seat helped me to settle down.
In hushed tones came three quick tutorals:
  "Bobby, it's theater...not thee-ate-a'
 This is the story ..line and what is going to happen
 Now sit back and enjoy!!!
Who was this gaint, black man with a voice so deep that the sound made me shake..But not so much afraid that it stopped me from leaping to my feet and yelling  "Othello...Othello..she didn't do it..like that man said".        
A gentle but firm hand pulled me back into my seat, as I cried.
At His second curtin call, the lights came up and this hulk of a man leaned from the stage and said "I hope that the critics are as convinced.". 

Stepping out into the evening and looking skyward at a thousand/million points of light, my teacher/mentor directed journey of enlightment and learning began for me a life-time of  "wondering as I wandered".
As a Biblical teacher/Pastor for more than fourty years, I have hoped and constanly watched for that moment (as Vernell also did) when the lght of understanding/revelation shown in the eyes of my family, friends and students.
"We all dance to the tune we have been shown, but there is one dance we must
all dance alone"  author unknow
.
 Maranatha.....amen,,,amen REV.22:20                                               

October 19, 2012
My condolences to you on this great Loss in your family. I know that Verne would be very pleased and proud of your tribute to her.   Of course, we all know, she would be so grateful for what your mother has done not only during this recent dreadful period,  but also through the years when she has appreciated  her, even as she has always been concerned about her own personal health.   I am sure the whole family must laud Darrolyn for her caring and competance during this oh-so stressful journey.   Verne has been my "sister" for a quarter of a century.   Your mother is one more awesome McCarroll!   With appreciation, D. Marie Grieco

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