TRIBUTE TO MENTOR,FRIEND,SISTER & WIFE:MRS VICTORIA UCHENNA EDEBEATU(MUMMY M)
“All I know of tomorrow is that God will rise before the sun. Blessed assurance ,so conforting.i trust God, my life ,so I know that come what may, He is with me always” Victoria Edebeatu
I knew VICTORIA around April 2012 but before then she was my course-mate (a year ahead of me) @ University of Nigeria ,Enugu Campus.
By God’s providence we met after our graduation. As a working class man, the only thing on my mind was MARRIAGE. Something miraculous happen, I do not know the qualities I need in a wife but I remembered that my dad & mum always tells me to read “MY BIBLE” for life’s solutions.
I opened to PROVERBS CHAPTER 31 :10 - END ,I heard a voice “THESE WILL BE A YARD-STICK TO MEASURE” that was when God HIMSELF brought us TOGETHER.
To outsiders, she was my wife but to me she was my husband. She was a sister, best friend, my confidant, my planner, my secretary and my wife.
She was my GLORY, MY STRENGTH and BEAUTY.
I have not seen any lady who WORSHIP HER HUSBAND AS SHE DOES, she worship the ground I walked on, even due she was a CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT.
AFTER our wedding last January, she applied for change of Name and handed ALL HER CERTIFIATE TO ME SAYING “DADDY M,OBI-M NOW AM YOUR WIFE ALL THESE THESE CERTIFIATE ARE NOW YOURS AND I MUST TAKE PERMISSION FROM YOU BEFORE USING THEM “any time people called her “MRS EDEBEATU”she will be so happy. What a virtuous Lady.
She took me closer to God; she made me a PARYER WARRIOR.
Anytime we had misunderstanding, she will say “obim,you are my lord,my beauty and my hubby why cnt I say AM SORRY”she must make sure we went to bed without any misunderstanding.
Her LOVE for GOD was OUTSTANDING, she belong to various Christian organization simply for “ENVANGLISM”she came back from work one day and she was so happy I asked her mummy,why are you happy?she replied,I met a Muslim and I shared the WORD OF GOD with him.
On 24th,Dec I met the nurse she was with before her death. I asked her what was her last word?she said that my wife mentioned “BLOOD OF JESUS -2 TIMES,IN JESUS NAME-2 TIMES.
Eleven months of blissful relationship has end on a sad note but I thank God on what the PSALMIST said in chapter 116 vs 15 “precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of HIS saints”
VICKY,UCHEY M,MUMMY?
What will happen to our plans?
How can I cope without you by my side?
You always promised that you will be here for me,
who will take ZULUM TO SCHOOL?
Who will drive the car I promise to buy for you?
Who will cook for me?
Who will dress me for work?
Who will tell me the TRUTH AS YOU DO?
SO,YOU CANNOT ANSWER ME?
MUMMY M ,YOU HAVE LEFT ME IN THE DARK?
I MUST MISS YOU BUT GOD KNOWS WHY, ENJOY YOURSELF IN HEAVEN!