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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Victorino Alegado, 91 years old, born on February 26, 1922, and passed away on September 20, 2013. We will remember him forever.
February 27, 2019
February 27, 2019
It was your birthday yesterday, Feb 26, 2019. So how old are you now? 
97, WOW ! I hope you had a great birthday yesterday. Of course with the whole family --- Lolo Pedro, Nanay, Daddy Payat, and your other siblings I never met. And of course, Lola who I did not meet either. And of course, Mommy. I know you must be happy with the whole lot. Yes, come to think of it..... We fear death a lot but I wonder if we should welcome it. Obviously, it must be a lot more peaceful than living. Living is a constant challenge. Sometimes, I do not know if I can get up again after each hurdle. Please try and guide us to the right path. You know what I mean. Some people need to be put in their rightful place and I feel it is beyond me how to do that. There are those who are hard headed and those who are simply stupid and dumb. Help !!!
Just venting. Maybe just relax and be at peace. You truly deserve it.
I always pray for you guys !
September 21, 2018
September 21, 2018
Yesterday was your death anniversary. 5 years now since you passed. I wonder if you met up with everybody there ? The volume of the radio was turned up the other night and I suspect it was you. I want to think you are happy there with mom. There are issues around here but don't worry about it. We will survive. A character like you is never forgotten so I am positive everybody remembered you and said some prayers for you.
Rest in Peace, Daddy
February 26, 2017
February 26, 2017
Feb 2, 2017

Hi Daddy,
Now I know what you felt when you had to be strong for our whole family. I have this huge responsibility upon my shoulders and sometimes I feel as if I will not be able to cope with all the challenges thrown at me from all sides. I see plenty of things which must be sorted and I wish I will have the means and the courage to be able to tackle them. Help me out and guide me to stay strong and be able to help those who need it. I realize all the things you were nagging us about and a pity I understood too late. But I don;t want to give up. The only thing I need is the time to be able to do them. I hope my health does not fail me. I don't want to leave without being able to help my siblings and their families. And I want them to realize that whatever happens, they should always stay a family.
I hope you are good where you are. I did not mean to burden you with my whining but I think you are exactly the person who will understand what is in my heart. Say hi to mommy. I know she is happy now because all she wanted was to be with you.
Happy Birthday. We have not forgotten you. I love you
February 28, 2016
February 28, 2016
Belated Happy Birthday Lolo :) fond memories of you singing while I massaged your hands :)
February 27, 2016
February 27, 2016
Miss you Dad. Hope you and mom are happy where you are.

Happy Birthday. Birthdays & Christmases not the same without you and mom. And it does not help that the family is not complete every Christmas. Maybe I should organize a big reunion for everybody to go home one Christmas. Don't worry. Am trying my best to help out when i can. Wouldn't hurt if i win the lotto. Instant reunion !

Will leave you to it. Just relax and be happy, guys!
September 23, 2013
September 23, 2013
Let's trust our God to use our hearts and hands to comfort each other and to celebrate my dear uncle Turing’s memorable life.

My dear uncle, may you now enjoy eternal rest. I’m sorry that I couldn’t be there to say goodbye. Please give my daddy Greg a big hug when you see him in heaven. We love you and you will always be in our hearts. Noel Alegado & family, Herndon, Virginia.
September 20, 2013
September 20, 2013
My Dad was a lesson in contradictions. Strict and stern one moment, then funny and joking the next. I grew up in a home with "house rules" and God help you if you don't abide. But who is complaining? He strove to give us the BEST in everything. We get it now, and We love you DADDY !!!
September 20, 2013
September 20, 2013
91 years lived fully. No regrets, I guess. From sending yourself to school to attaining your achievements in your profession, and having supported us every which way, you earned all five stars. Rest in Peace, Dad.

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February 27, 2019
February 27, 2019
It was your birthday yesterday, Feb 26, 2019. So how old are you now? 
97, WOW ! I hope you had a great birthday yesterday. Of course with the whole family --- Lolo Pedro, Nanay, Daddy Payat, and your other siblings I never met. And of course, Lola who I did not meet either. And of course, Mommy. I know you must be happy with the whole lot. Yes, come to think of it..... We fear death a lot but I wonder if we should welcome it. Obviously, it must be a lot more peaceful than living. Living is a constant challenge. Sometimes, I do not know if I can get up again after each hurdle. Please try and guide us to the right path. You know what I mean. Some people need to be put in their rightful place and I feel it is beyond me how to do that. There are those who are hard headed and those who are simply stupid and dumb. Help !!!
Just venting. Maybe just relax and be at peace. You truly deserve it.
I always pray for you guys !
September 21, 2018
September 21, 2018
Yesterday was your death anniversary. 5 years now since you passed. I wonder if you met up with everybody there ? The volume of the radio was turned up the other night and I suspect it was you. I want to think you are happy there with mom. There are issues around here but don't worry about it. We will survive. A character like you is never forgotten so I am positive everybody remembered you and said some prayers for you.
Rest in Peace, Daddy
February 26, 2017
February 26, 2017
Feb 2, 2017

Hi Daddy,
Now I know what you felt when you had to be strong for our whole family. I have this huge responsibility upon my shoulders and sometimes I feel as if I will not be able to cope with all the challenges thrown at me from all sides. I see plenty of things which must be sorted and I wish I will have the means and the courage to be able to tackle them. Help me out and guide me to stay strong and be able to help those who need it. I realize all the things you were nagging us about and a pity I understood too late. But I don;t want to give up. The only thing I need is the time to be able to do them. I hope my health does not fail me. I don't want to leave without being able to help my siblings and their families. And I want them to realize that whatever happens, they should always stay a family.
I hope you are good where you are. I did not mean to burden you with my whining but I think you are exactly the person who will understand what is in my heart. Say hi to mommy. I know she is happy now because all she wanted was to be with you.
Happy Birthday. We have not forgotten you. I love you
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One Christmas without Mommy

September 22, 2013

I remember when I was about 5 years old, I think, mom was confined in the hospital for a while and all four of us were left with my aunt, Mommy Pinang. My brothers and sister and me were feeling very sad, because we only get to see my mom when we get "smuggled" to the hospital because in those days, small children were not allowed to visit the hospitals. It was almost Christmas and we were all wondering if my mom will be home for Christmas and celebrate Christmas as a family as we always do. Then one afternoon, my Dad came and brought us our Christmas gifts. I remember I had a badminton set and Boy got a big airplane which runs on battery complete with flashing lights. I don't remember what  Myrna and Adong got. But I vividly remember the moment when my Dad tried his best to cheer us up when he told us my mom will have to get better and the hospital was the best place for her. He was always so tired shuttling between his work in Norzagaray, Bulacan and the hospital and of course coming to visit us in San Francisco del Monte. At that point in time, he wanted to be the best dad and mom and still had to work for our family. Still, he made the effort to not disappoint us for Christmas when he brought us his gifts.

Thanks Dad, for always being there for all of us.

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