Eulogy by Will Langley
William DeSales Langley, most of you knew him as Bill, Billy, a select few as DeSales, I simply knew him as Dad.
My Dad was a hard working man who rarely complained. Most likely this was a result of a very difficult early life. My dad lost his dad, my grandfather, at the very young age of 13.
As he often told me, and my Aunt Mary will verify, my dad and his dad were inseparable. Apparently this is genetic because we too were inseparable.
Fortunately, Dad had a special man that came into his life, William “Dump” Butler. Dump was a friend and mentor and together they would squirrel hunt, work on cars, plant a garden and generally learn about life.
Despite so much adversity as a young man my Dad persevered, pushed on and together with the help of my Mom made a good life for his family.
My Mom and I depended on Dad for so much. There were always projects to complete and tasks to accomplish. Those things seem to never end.
Although by no means the most formally educated man, my Dad was intelligent and somehow always seemed to have the right answers, even when those answers weren’t always what I wanted to hear. He was a loyal, faithful man you could always depend on.
Perhaps the most difficult part of losing my Dad has been everywhere I look and in everything I do, I see him. It’s as if he was involved with or has somehow touched every part of my life.
Dad loved to tell stories about the old days, many of them I have heard dozens of times. On occasion, I would say “Dad you’ve told me that story a hundred times” and he would reply “Someday you’ll miss my stories.” Once again he was right.
Dad had a passion for automobiles. In his younger years he enjoyed drag racing his 1940 Chevrolet Coupe at Aquasco and Budds Creek dragways. After getting married he and my Mom were active in the local Antique Car Club where they made many wonderful friends. Together my Dad and I attended numerous collector car events throughout the area.
In recent years he primarily satisfied his passion for automobiles through me, but above all else it was just about us being together.
Though he never said it to me aloud, I know my Dad was proud of me and what I have become.
- How do you get over losing your Dad?
- How do you get over losing your best friend?
- How do you get over losing both?
Dad, I will always love you and I will always miss you.