Tributes
Leave a tributeRegarding Granby, after looking at all the rental options to be able to afford to keep the cabin, she did have to sell it but it has stayed within the family. Bret and Bonnie, whom I had the great pleasure to spend a bit of time with, now own the family cabin. I know that Bret has many fond memories of summers with his Gramps and Gran at the cabin, fishing in the lake and working at the marina. I know they will take great care of it and keep it open to the family.
I hope you will find a moment to post a tribute or story about Bill, or perhaps about your life in the past year. Or maybe now that the edge of losing our friend has dulled a bit, you might contribute a chapter to Bill’s life story for his great grandchildren to read once they grow up. Or perhaps you have photos or video that can be uploaded for all to enjoy. Rest assured that I’ll continue to maintain this site.
I'm not sure if his favorite song was, God bless the USA, Boston Pops Orchestra, or North to Alaska, which I had to hear every day on our motorhome trip through Alaska and many times since.
Bill and I caught more fish, killed more scotch, and enjoyed unusual seafood feasts more than any two men I know. We parted ways at apertifs however, each having an affair with the other's wife's taste for Grand Marnier (Barbara), and Baileys (Patricia).
Bill was a superb cook. We enjoyed swapping recipes, notably, Billy's (Gramps) famous ribs, and my rendition of Drago's barbequed oysters. Hope the Todd clan keeps the rib recipe going.I could go on and on, but now I'm drooling.
Our first real meeting was at Lake Powell for a weeks houseboat outing. Bill was very cool at first, and I thought, "This is going to be a long week". But, once he saw I was competent at boat handling/seamanship, he warmed up a bit. With his excellence at handling and maintaining the houseboat, and keeping the crew in line, I figgured I ought to call him Cap'n. That brought a big grin, and coupled with catching more huge striper than he'd ever seen, fireworks mischief,
catching holy hell for stealing some of Trish's chili to put in our scrambled eggs and cheese, we cemented our BBF for good.
Bill's probably catching more kolanee, walleyes, and stripers than ever before. I hope there is plenty of scotch, ice, and Coors Lite where he's at. Dammit, we miss him and will forevermore.
Hugs, Gerie
I loved Bill’s whole family. Bill Sr. and Mary Jane unofficially adopted me as one of their boys. As Bill’s best friend I was often included in family trips, dinners, events and summers with the family at their lake house. These opportunities I would not have had, except for our close friendship. These are just a few of my fond memories of my dear friend, Bill.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Pat and the family. We have all known a great man and will hold him in our hearts.
Bless you Bill for your kindness ,
Paul Blaze
Bill was my step-grandfather…technically. But he seamlessly filled the role of grandfather. He taught me how to fish. He taught me about sports. He cared about me so incredibly much. And it was so very mutual.
I wish I’d known him in the crescendo of his life. Perhaps I did, without even knowing it. The man was the sharpest ‘old guy’ I’ve ever met. Even in his last days I received word that he was, when lucid, just as sharp as ever. No doubt pissed at being babied. It’s amazing to me that it even came to that. I’ve never known a man over 80 to be so…self-sufficient.
I don’t worry about him now…there’s no more improving the conditions of the dead.
But I wish I could. He was a great human being, above all else. He deserves, without hesitation, the best of whatever afterlife there is has to offer.
Death is all about timing. It blows my mind that he left this earth first. Of my four grandparents, he might very well have been the most adept at adapting.
I don’t think any of us saw this coming a few years ago. He was an igneous rock in a sea atop otherwise sedimentary forms. He was the fighter, the one I knew would make it.
I wasn’t surprised when I got the call, simply because I knew of his most recent ailments. But the permanence of it can’t yet set in.
I’ll cry. I’ve cried for him already. I’ll certainly cry more still. Despite the months that we spent without a word to one another he was…a fixture. A solid piece of granite that withstood all force, or so it seemed. I am, in fact, shocked that any force could overcome him.
Damn.
I miss him already, my American-beer-drinking, wife-complacent (in a wise way), Cubs-cheering grandfather.
He was never my step grandfather. He was my grandpa. The one who called me TD. The one who was there for everyone else, perhaps instead of for himself. One of the most selfless beings I’ve yet encountered. A toast to you, grandfather. A cheer for you, grandfather. A life to you, grandpa.
I hope I can make you proud, wherever you are.
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Please be patient.
Please be patient.
Another Houseboat Trip
In 1983 Bill and Pat along with the Smith’s, Ed, Susie, and Krista undertook a houseboat trip to Lake Powell. We had no idea what an adventure it would be.
The plan was to go in October for moderate weather. We rented a ski boat in Huntington Beach and planned to tow it to Lake Powell. We elected to use Ed’s company car for the tow. We had a hitch and those balloon shocks added to carry the load.
Half way to Barstow the shocks gave out. We made it to Barstow practically dragging the tongue of the trailer. We replaced the balloon shocks with good air rides. As we proceeded into the mountains it became obvious that our vehicle was underpowered for the trip. It overheated on any significant grade. Nursing the car and the load along, we made it to Lake Powell.
Ed and Bill got into a bit of a contest right off. Ed, the knot tying champion of his scout troop and his boot camp company, would tie a line off and Bill, the Annapolis graduate, would retie the line.
The second day on Lake Powell, Krista got sick. Ed and Susie took the ski boat and took Krista to see a doctor. We had spent the previous day cruising around the lake in the ski boat and the gas gauge was near empty. With a bit of sweat etc., we made it to the dock.
Most of the trip was great. Good weather, etc. Pat, always the top fisherman, got skunked, and 3-year old Krista caught the only fish of the trip with a piece of a hot dog.
Returning to the docks, after our week, the ski boat gear shift failed, so our last remembrance of Lake Powell was swimming the ski boat from the docks to the boat landing and onto the boat trailer. Almost froze.
On the way home, after pulling Pat out of Las Vegas, we had to tackle that long grade. About half way up the car overheated and we had to leave the boat/trailer and Ed so we could replace the coolant.
The trip was one we will always remember. Nothing boring about this trip. To this day Ed calls Bill Capt. Bly, and I am sure Bill thought Ed should have been keel hauled for insubordination.
History
The Todd/Smith relationship goes back to the days when we were building the Apollo CSM/SM spacecraft at North American Aviation Space Division. Both Bill and Ed worked in the Project Office. Their relationship was casual until both moved to the Shuttle Orbiter program. In 1979 Ed and Susie moved to Huntington Beach where Pat and Bill lived. Susie was new to California and they were both new to Huntington Beach. Bill and Pat proceeded to take us in hand and integrate us into their Huntington Beach family. We spent many evenings, with friends, in their great apartment near the beach. We will always remember Bill trying to pedal his cheap scotch, Scoresby, off as Chivas Regal. When our daughter was born, Bill and Pat became Aunt and Uncle, the “Toggs”, as she would say.
Early Christmas’s were remembered with the Todd’s at the front door at “0 dark thirty” waiting to see Krista’s face when she came down to see what Santa had brought. Later both Bill and Ed retired from Rockwell and went to work at Northrop on the B-2 program. The Todd family expanded. The Smith’s moved to the Sierra’s and the Todd’s moved to Nevada . Our get togethers were limited, but our memories of the Todd’s, our adventures, and most of all the remembrance of the warm couple who made our lives fuller, will always be cherished
God speed Capt. Bly .
Ed and Susie Smith
Pismo Beach, CA
Still Here
I was gonna go backwards with some stories, but this just happened the other day. Went for a hike. Early. On the trail before 4:00am. It's a great time to go. Dark. The trail lit by my headlamp. Quiet. No wind and the critters are sleeping. Peaceful. Not many people go hiking at 4:00am. It's a great time to be alone with your thoughts. The mind wanders. On the way down from Barney Lake, the morning starts to come alive. The sun is not yet up over the ridge, the colors of the sunrise sky remind me of rainbow sherbert. The birds are chirpping. A lone deer appears near the cutoff to Arrowhead Lake and Shayla takes off after her. I continue on down the trail. All of a sudden, it's like I'm no longer in the mountains, but on a street, walking past a building. I look up and there's Dad, leaning out the second story window, looking down on me. We both smile and nod, then he's gone. But I know, he's still here.