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孙毅哲 Yizhe Sun
  • 49 years old
  • Date of birth: Oct 30, 1964
  • Place of birth:
    Hebi 鹤壁, Henan 河南, China
  • Date of passing: Jan 26, 2014
  • Place of passing:
    Cleveland, Ohio, United States
你带走的何止是一缕阳光 What you took away is not only a ray of sunshine

 献给我们所爱的人---  Sunny 毅哲! 

     
  生如夏花之灿烂,死如秋叶之静美!

 

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by daliang cai on 21st November 2016

"胖弟:在国内因为网络,一直登录不上.我又来美国啦......"

This tribute was added by 大庆 王 on 7th November 2016

"毅哲老弟,又来看看你。无尽的思念不知如何表达。参加完咱们医学院毕业30年聚会后在国内停留了一个月,老同学们碰面不免又想到你。老弟,你走得早了点,也不给老同学们打声招呼。"

This tribute was added by Jimin Wang on 30th October 2016

"Yizhe's birthday. He is still joy full in heaven, and his family and friends  love him even more."

This tribute was added by daliang Cai on 25th January 2016

"哀我胖弟!你走了两年啦!... ..."

This tribute was added by Yi Li on 25th January 2016

"毅哲走了整整两年了。弟兄们还时不常在念叨着:.… 20160125"

This tribute was added by Yi Li on 25th January 2015

"时间似乎带走了太多的一切,但却永远無法带走弟兄们对老胖的怀念……从33年开始,直到今天,直到明天,… [流泪][拥抱]"

This tribute was added by Shigang Xu on 9th April 2014

"清明节给毅哲妹妹去了电话,问候了伯父伯母。怕勾起老人的伤心,没有直接给老人去电话。老人很快给我回了电话,嘱我保重身体。祝愿老人平安健康!"

This tribute was added by 大庆 王 on 27th February 2014

"前两天和孙伯伯通话, 他老人家很坚强。 孙伯伯一再表示非常感谢老同学们为毅哲所做的一切。顺便提示一下,悼词的英文翻译 "In Memory of Our Dearest Friend, Yizhe ( Sunny)“ 由瑞军完成。英译本在追悼会上发给了老外。"

This tribute was added by Juan Du on 27th February 2014

"Come to this web two days in row, 好人你走的太早。"

This tribute was added by 河医81 校友 on 27th February 2014

"胖弟:今天梦到你了!说是你又复活了,除了腿有些问题,一如既往,栩栩如生。唉!梦也非也?!——愚兄大梁"

This tribute was added by Jimin Wang on 16th February 2014

"毅哲走了。到天国哪里。毅哲是幸福的。因为神的国度没有悲伤, 没有病痛, 没有忧愁, 更没有寒冷,没有积雪"

This tribute was added by Shigang Xu on 10th February 2014

"Daqing:
Excellent,thanks.I visit the web everyday.take care."

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 10th February 2014

"In Memory of Our Dearest Friend, Yizhe ( Sunny)
                                                                 ----David Daqing Wang

Hello Everyone and thank you for coming.  

(My name is David Wang.  I have known Sunny for 33 years and it has been an honor to call him my friend.  We are both from the same hometown in China and we both attended Henan Medical University as classmates.  Even our parents were family friends, so my relationship with Sunny is very deep.  For the next portion of my speech, I will be speaking in Chinese.  I apologize in advance to all the non Mandarin speakers.  A translation of my speech will be provided for your convenience. )

Today, we gather here in memory of our dearest friend, Yizhe (Sunny). Upon hearing of Yizhe's sudden departure, we were all shocked and in disbelief. Our grief over his passing is beyond description. On behalf of the Class of 1986 of Henan Medical University, I would like to express our sincere condolences to Yizhe's family, as well as send our gratitude to the Cleveland Evangelical Chinese Church (CECC), Renovo Neural Inc., and everyone sitting in this room today. Thank you all for coming.

Just like his name, Sunny, he was bright, kind, and humorous gentleman, a loving husband, and a caring father. He will be tremendously missed by all of us. Our hearts and prayers go out to your dear family.

Thirty three years ago, Yizhe began his journey into the medical profession with the rest of the Class of 1986 at Henan Medical University. He was an outstanding student who impressed everyone with his hard work and positive attitude. He earned scholarships every year during medical school and was actively involved in all aspects of school activities. He was not only a skilled debater, but also an excellent musician. After graduating from medical school, Sunny pursued a Master's degree at Beijing Medical University, and later practiced as an otolaryngologist at the First Affiliated Hospital of Beijing Medical University. He treated all of his patients with love and respect, and was remembered by all as a kind, caring, and dedicated physician.

In 1993, he came to Medical College of Ohio for his Ph.D. study. He demonstrated outstanding leadership as well as excellent academic achievement. He was elected as the President of the Chinese Students and Scholars Association (CSSA) for his exceptional communication and organizational skills.

Although he was raised as an atheist, Yizhe turned himself to God seven years ago. His son, Nathan, injured his cornea as a baby in an accident and was told that a full recovery was impossible. Desperately, Yizhe turned to God and prayed for miracle. God showed him his grace and healed Nathan. Yizhe along with his wife, Fengying, became Baptists since then, because “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Yizhe decided to share with the world all God had given to him.

Besides his family here in Cleveland, his 80 year-old parents are still living in his home town in northern China. Every Sunday evening at 10 pm, he would call his parents and chat with them. Every two years, he would bring his entire family to visit his parents.  At work, Sunny worked in a lab that often required regular monitoring over a long period time. Voluntary overtime on the weekends and long working hours was normal for Yizhe, but you would never hear him complain. For many years, Yizhe had also supported a Chinese child who lost his father. He was a popular man with a big, warm heart and had many friends whom he had helped. Unfortunately, he has parted from us to go to the next life.  “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, …”

Yizhe, you have left this world, but you will never ever leave our hearts.   “Let life be beautiful like summer flowers and death like autumn leaves” as written in Tagore's poem.

As I walk  through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, For you are with me; Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever."

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 10th February 2014

"悼词

                               追忆老同学-毅哲---王大庆

在这悲痛欲绝,令人心碎的时刻,请允许我代表河南医科大学81级全体同学深切悼念和送别我们亲爱的同学和好朋友孙毅哲弟兄。老同学们也向毅哲的父母和太太及亲属们表示最诚挚的慰问。我们也对大力协助毅哲善后的克里夫兰中华福音教会, 毅哲生前的公司,校友以及前来送别毅哲的各界朋友表达我们最深深的感谢。

当噩耗传来,同学们无不为之震惊,无不深感惋惜和悲痛。一向活泼开朗、豁达知性的你,如何瞬间便抛亲弃故,与我们天人两隔。毅哲,你给我们所有人留下了永远的遗憾和无尽的悲哀。你连句告别的话都没有留下就一个人匆匆地走了,睁开眼再看我们一眼吧,我们带着所有同学深深的哀思和眷恋来与你告别。

三十三年前,毅哲从鹤壁来到郑州求学。入读于河南医科大学医学系81级6小班。同窗五年,同学们对毅哲印象最深的莫过于他刻苦学习的精神。在大课教室,学校图书馆,在金水河畔和校园的路灯下,我们都曾见过他刻苦读书的身影。毅哲学习成绩优异,曾任班里的学习委员,也是年级历届奖学金的获得者。毅哲也是我们大学各项活动的积极参与者。他在乐队拉二胡, 帮年级办黑板报,演讲台上讲述改革开放的远景。

1986年7月,在我们行将迈出大学校门之际,毅哲在毕业纪念册上这样介绍自己“生若夏花之灿烂,死如秋叶之静美“。泰戈尔这句名言也正是毅哲一生的真实写照。正如大家所言,毅哲心地善良,性格开朗,热心助人,富于爱心,工作勤恳,任劳任怨。89年得到硕士学位后,毅哲便在北京大学第一附属医院任耳鼻喉科医师一直至93年5月赴美。这7年间, 毅哲的家便成了在京同学的聚会场所及外地赴京同学的中转站。以至于同学们把他封为81级驻京联络处处长。

在Ohio医学院(Medical College of Ohio)读博士时,他积极帮助中国学生谋取福利并参与有关的各项事宜。 新生报到, 他主动去接机。新生选课,他帮忙参考意见。同学租公寓, 他载着去看房子。为了排除同学们远离家乡的孤寂,他驾车到Michigan去借中文录像带。甚至有同学夫妻半夜吵架, 他也第一个出现在调解的现场。他就是这么热心公益,乐于助人。他曾任Ohio医学院的学生代表,录取委员会成员, 也因其卓越的表现被大家推选为中国学生学者联谊会主席。

我们叹生命之脆弱,感人生之无常。可幸的是,毅哲七年前已经成为一名虔诚的基督徒。毅哲从小在国内接受的是无神论教育,他认识神的过程也颇具戏剧性。毅哲的儿子小的时候被纸飞机伤到了眼睛。医院检查 眼睛复视,角膜划伤。万般无奈之下,毅哲来到了教会。人的尽头乃是神的开始。毅哲虔诚地向神祷告, 孩子的眼睛竟得到神奇恢复。之后毅哲定期参加教会活动,对神的认识也越来越深。终于在2007年的感恩节受浸归入主耶稣名下。在他的影响下,太太凤英也于2011年受浸归主。几天前凤英还在电话里向我见证神的恩典。2012年,毅哲全家启程由克里夫兰机场归国探亲。因堵车到机场就晚。可安检排队的人竟比平日多了数倍。排队安检是不可能赶上飞机了。虔诚的毅哲跑到了候机厅外向神祷告,求神保守全家的行程。 奇妙的是他回到队中时,安检人员竟然重新开放一条通道,而且用手指着他们全家去排第一个。使他们顺利登机。神奇妙的安排还不止一处。因凤英与鹤壁的同学聚会,必须提前一天离开北京,这一天之差使他们躲过了北京百年一遇的豪雨。回程时原因上海台风警报,机场关闭。但却在全家到达上海时台风警报正好解除。

对父母而言,毅哲是个非常懂事又非常孝顺的孩子。毅哲年迈的双亲住在家乡鹤壁。他数年如一日每个星期天晚上10点固定给父母打长途电话问候。毅哲过世后的第三天,我们国内的同学代表带着81级全体同学的深情厚谊驱车鹤壁探望了毅哲年迈的双亲。

本月初的一个周末我与毅哲通话。 他那天竟然工作了12 个小时, 而且没有任何加班费。我不可理解地问他又没有人强迫你干,为什么要事必亲躬经常这么长时间加班呢。他回答说他放心不下公司的工作,尤其怕照顾不好实验室的动物。他就是这么一个任劳任怨,无私奉献的人。

毅哲的事迹实在不是三言两语可以道尽的。但我还是想让大家知道几年前有个中国孩子的父亲过世。他主动照顾这个孩子,以减轻孩子的丧父之痛。他尽可能带着孩子参加聚会,邀请到家里吃饭。孩子母亲生病了,他和太太去看望。连老同学在美国求学的孩子假期都曾到他家里小住。他实在是一个热心助人的好朋友。毅哲,你的遽然离世,让老同学们失去了一个重情义的好朋友,这个世界少了一个慈爱的父亲,一个多情的丈夫,一个优秀的科学家。但正如保罗所说:“那美好的仗我已经打过了,当跑的路我已经跑尽了,所信的道我已经守住了。从此以后,有公义的冠冕为我存留。”毅哲已经歇了自己在地上的劳苦,我们深信,靠着爱我们的主,他已经在一切的事上得胜有余。主啊!你的爱是如此地长阔高深。愿你保守毅哲的双亲和妻小,刚强他们,使他们继续在地上为你做那美好的见证 。

毅哲,我们相信你的生命不是偶然而出现,也不会以死亡而告终。主耶稣以他在十字架上的死和三天后的复活成全了神的意愿。“神爱世人,甚至将他的独生子赐给他们,叫一切信他的,不至灭亡,反得永生”。安息吧,亲爱的毅哲同学。你不离不弃的妻子,一定会用她的坚强来完成你的夙愿;你聪明睿智的儿女,一定会用他们的卓越来告慰你。爱你的我们将永远牵挂着你,实现你没能实现的梦想。

言有尽而哀思无尽,言有终而情不可终。请让我以诗篇第二十三篇大卫的诗最后告慰毅哲:“我虽然行过死荫的幽谷,也不怕遭害;因为 你与我 同在;我 一生一世 必有恩惠慈爱随着我,我且要住在 耶和华 的殿中,直到永远。”阿们!"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"愿毅哲一路走好!上帝保佑你一切!
--- 李宝兴"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲一路走好!
--- 刘智"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲一路走好!
--- 王跃军"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"一位优秀的81级同学,生若夏花灿烂,死如秋叶静美!愿逝者安息,望生者保重!
--- 阮国瑞"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲兄安息             2010年11月初,我到美国考察医院,与他联系,他热情邀我们到克里夫兰医学中心参观,但因 日程安排问题,未能如愿,甚为遗憾,我回国后他又打电话聊了很长时间, 表示以后美国有什么事,只要他能帮得上,会全力以赴,至今他那热情,豪爽的声音仍留在我记忆中,毅哲兄是一个真诚、友善、乐于助人 的人,他的早逝使我们失去了一位好同学,愿毅哲兄一路走好!                            
--- 陈向东"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲一路走好!天堂里我们还会听到你爽朗笑声
--- 杨捷"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲,我们的好兄弟,天堂的路很好,愿你在那边开心,不管多远,我们的心永远和你在一起,一路走好!
--- 李书印"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲,我们会永远怀念你的,愿你在天堂听得到我的祝愿,我们在上海给你送行了,一路走好!
--- 范慧敏"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲弟一路走好!
--- 黄壮士"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 8th February 2014

"我在郑州送毅哲一路走好!
--- 周斌"

This tribute was added by Caroline Polgar on 8th February 2014

"Sunny,

Words cannot express how much I will miss you. You touched my life along with so many others with your unprecedented generosity, love, and compassion. I will hold you in my heart each and every day.  I will do my part to ensure that your legacy lives on. The world lost a great man, friend, and father. Thank you Sunny for giving me the gift of you!"

This tribute was added by 张颖 . on 8th February 2014

"毅哲, 在这冰冷的冬季,默默地为你送行。 你的善良,仁慈,和宽容,永远留在我们的记忆中。你让我们感觉到生命的真正意义。 我为能与你同行这一段短短的旅途而感激。白茫茫的雪地中,目送你远去。好人,一路平安!
-- 张颖"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲兄,

愿你在天堂听得到我的祝愿,我在北京给你送行了,一路走好!

---周东学"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"愿上帝保佑毅哲,让同学们的关心温暖他的亲人,减轻他们的哀痛。
毅哲走好。
---汪雁明"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"毅哲和我们大家同学五年。

认识他,使我们非常有幸地认识到生活中有这样一个人,他充满了阳光,又是那么的豪爽,正气,勤奋,努力,担当责任,充满爱心。

而他的英年早逝,不仅仅是带走了一缕那么灿烂的阳光,同时也使我们对生命的理解和认识有了更加深刻的思考并升华。

愿毅哲兄弟安息在主耶稣温暖的怀抱里。

---李毅"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"初六毅哲老父亲打来电话,感到心里很亲,很近。
毅哲:国内的父母有同学们照顾,你放心吧!
---刘慧"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"胖弟一路走好,迟早有一天在那边再相聚~
---田宝均"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"再道一声,毅哲一路走好!
---王天昌"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"胖弟,

你安心的离去吧!你带走了我们熟悉的那一缕温暖的阳光!

凤英一定会很坚强,她会照顾好两个孩子和老人。

Nathan和Hope,爸爸是个正直、豁达、善良的人。他的慈爱将伴随着你们,他会在天国保佑和祝福你们,直至永远!

---雷博"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"大庆,

请带去我遥远的遥远的怀念,请毅哲放心走好。

他的儿女们会健康成长,会成为像父亲一样的好人。

---韩晓燕"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"美国的同学们为毅哲和家人,也为81级的同学们,还有所有爱戴孙毅哲的人们做了大量的工作,你们辛苦了!

在赶往克利夫兰路上的同学们一定注意安全!感谢李毅及时的消息,国内的同学们也时刻关注着,也怀着同样的心情。

刚才周斌和陈永忠都打电话委托我代表国内孙毅哲治丧小组再表达一下大家的心情。我的水平有限肯定不能让大家满意。我也知道,用什么样的语言也难以表达我们对胖弟的爱戴,怀念,留恋,惋惜,心痛……之情啊!

我们和美国的同学,欧洲的同学一起为毅哲送行: 我们的好同学,父母的好儿子,妻子的好丈夫,孩子的好父亲,大家的好朋友,也是上帝的好儿子-孙毅哲,完成了灿烂的一生,回到了上帝的怀抱。

我坚信你只是换了一种存在的方式,你永远是我们亲爱的同学,可爱的胖弟!

走好!毅哲弟!

爱你的同学们。

---姜丽华"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"大庆你好!

这么多天了什么时候静下来就会想起他,也知道已是事实,但还是不能相信。

非常想念他,真遗憾今天不能再看看他。请你,大庆,替我看看他,告诉他我真的好想他啊!

---姜丽华"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"胖弟你走得太突然,生命不在乎长短,你留下的是的灿烂,我们永远怀念,走好!
---冯国富"

This tribute was added by 河医816 同学 on 8th February 2014

"丽娜和赶往克利夫兰的同学们,您们好!

今天可能有雪,路上小心。同学们精心的努力让我有机会从微信上了解了毅哲同学的平凡又闪光的生平,尽管与他素昧平生,我也深受感动和激励,他的离去留给了家人、同学及朋友许多痛苦,但同时也留下了许多幸福的回忆。

人生苦短,我们在将来的一天也会与他走到一起,愿那时我与他能有缘相识,也愿我们的思念能伴他走好。

--王志"

This tribute was added by Shigang Xu on 8th February 2014

"北京午后,亦庄河畔。冬日阳光,蓝天白云。该是和大洋彼岸的毅哲兄道别的时候了。选择一条40分钟的快速散步路线,踩着厚厚的积雪,纪念驾鹤西去的孙毅哲先生。坚持下去。毅哲兄一路走好!许世刚"

This tribute was added by Shigang Xu on 6th February 2014

"很多年了,每到除夕的晚上总能接到毅哲兄的越洋电话,嘘寒问暖,家长里短,很朴实,很感人。今年的除夕给伯父伯母去了电话问安,独自一人给毅哲兄敬了酒。毅哲兄一路走好!许世刚"

This tribute was added by Shigang Xu on 6th February 2014

"1986年我们到北京读研后他在北大医院耳鼻喉科,他那时经常以科室为家,周末同学们经常去那里聚会。那里也成为同学们的一个家。许世刚"

This tribute was added by Shigang Xu on 6th February 2014

"初五携妻儿到鹤壁拜访毅哲兄父母,伯父伯母很坚强,再三嘱咐我转达对所有关心毅哲的同学和友人的真挚感谢,特别是美国同学的辛勤奉献!许世刚"

This tribute was added by Kun Si on 6th February 2014

"主仆孙毅哲弟兄生平

主仆孙毅哲弟兄,1964年10月30日生于中国河南鹤壁,2014年1月25日于美国克利夫兰家中溘然去世,享年49岁。

1981年9月他进入河南医科大学医疗系学习。1986年本科毕业后之后考入北京医科大学耳鼻喉科,开始硕士阶段的学习和研究。1989年硕士毕业后留在北京医科大学第一附属人民医院工作。工作两年后,凭借精湛的业务能力和良好的医德品格,他被提升为主治医师。他在该院工作四年后,于1993年出国留学,在俄亥俄医学院(Medical College of Ohio)攻读耳鼻喉科医学博士。在读期间,担任该校华人学生学者联谊会主席。通过组织各种活动和联谊,进一步丰富了华人学生社区的学习和生活。他豪爽仗义的性格和乐于助人的热心使他结交了各位新、老朋友,并由此而留下了彼此永远难忘的美好瞬间。2000年博士毕业后,留在托莱多大学(University of Toledo)从事博士后研究工作。2010年8月,他进入Renovo 公司从事生物医学特别是多发硬化症科研工作。由于他兢兢业业、踏踏实实而卓越奉献的工作,连续三年被公司授予年度最佳员工荣誉。生前的好友故交与同事闻悉毅哲故去的消息,纷纷表达对他的惋惜之情与思念之意。

孙毅哲弟兄于2007年感恩节在克利夫兰中华福音教会受洗。受洗归主之后,他定睛于主耶稣基督,成为教会稳定而热心的同工。他积极参与教会的各项事工当中,如每周五的英文查经,主日的奉献敬拜,在兄弟姊妹家的祷告会,每年的迎新会及节日庆祝活动等。无论是对主内的兄弟姊妹或是新来的慕道朋友,他以他特有的真诚、热心和慷慨,发挥着基督徒做光、做盐的样式和温暖。毅哲弟兄的遽然离去,让主内的兄弟姊妹深感诧异。曾经交流沟通的音容笑貌,犹在耳边、眼前;曾经相携陪伴的忧伤快乐,一幕幕闪现于脑海。教会的兄弟姊妹通过各种方式表达对毅哲弟兄的嗟叹和思念。愿那颗操劳的心在天父的怀抱里释然放下,安详属天的宁静与荣光。

他与妻子吕凤英育有一子一女,儿子智浩(Nathan),女儿智嘉(Hope)。在幸福的家庭里,他是一位好丈夫、好父亲,也是一位拳拳孝心的好儿子。毅哲与妻子相识于青春年少的大学时代。恣意纯真的年代伴随着青春浪漫的潇洒,一路颉颃、携手并肩、相濡以沫,共同谱写着流年光阴的人生故事。囿于早年留学美国的艰苦条件,他曾自责未能早点把儿子Nathan带到身边养育看顾。在繁忙的学业和工作之余,他总想抽出更多的时间陪着儿子嬉戏玩耍。女儿盼盼的降临给他平添了更多对新生命的惊喜和快乐。在一天劳累的工作之后,他总喜欢享受与女儿一起天真烂漫的幸福时光。他也在祷告会上叹息不能在年事已高的双亲面前尽孝,其拳拳之心、切切之情,令人动容。可曾想象年迈的双亲听闻儿子的先去,又是一番多么别样的滋味?

短短的十来分钟,就这样分别了人世间。孙毅哲弟兄走的那样急促和突然,但是,神为爱他的人所预备的是眼睛未曾看见,耳朵未曾听见,人心也未曾想到的。轻轻地他走了,伴着漫天飞扬的晶莹雪花,充盈融化于浩瀚无穷的天地间。毅哲弟兄,在主怀里安息吧,在那超越时间的永恒荣光里,相逢的终会再相逢。"

This tribute was added by 河医81 校友 on 5th February 2014

"第一次听到孙毅哲同学的名字是在多年前上大学的时候,因为他在年级同学中学习好,所以才被其他大班的同学知道。第一次也是最后一次近距离见到他,是在12年的北京,那天上班时碰到王建六同学说他从美回国,北京同学一起吃饭。虽不太熟悉,但从同学们发的微信及照片中,已印象深刻地记住了他,一位优秀的81级同学,正如生前所用,生若夏花之灿烂,死如秋叶之静美!回想几年前我班的刘海英、李刚,还有郝志芳的先生,均是英年早逝,每每想起,潸然泪下……  在此,愿逝者安息,望生者保重!特别想给远方的盼盼说一句话,四十多年前,我遇到过的和你今天遇到的一样,无论爸爸去哪儿了,爸爸的希望还在,妈妈的希望还在,我们大家的希望还在,我们相信你,无论今后遇到什么样的艰难困阻,你都会健康快乐地长大,自然而然地开出灿烂的生命之花!
81级 同学 阮国瑞"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"好朋友,好父亲,好丈夫都不足以总结毅哲的一生。毅哲的音容笑貌在我的脑海里依然是那么的清晰。我们经常讨论政治,体育,孩子的教育。多么希望这一切都是在梦里,明天我又可以打电话说一声:胖弟,你好吗?看着他和我们同学们在一起的照片,心如刀绞。同学们和我是一样的悲伤。逝者己矣,生者如斯。我们一定要尽心尽力,把凤英和孩子们照顾好,以慰毅哲的在天之灵。
--- 詹瑞军"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"同窗五年,都是手足,惊闻噩耗,十分痛心。祝孙毅哲同学一路走好!也祝大家珍重,永远健康第一。
--- 常爱琴"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"逝者我同学,大学五年相伴,几人能记当年,您逝我心疼,垂泪滴血,无济我心!同学生者,道一声珍重,我辈不求辉煌,只求心安和家和体健,同学安康是我心愿!
--- 茶山石韵"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"惊闻噩耗,万分悲痛。祝毅哲同学一路走好!同学们,珍视健康,珍惜生命!
---李天昕"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"沉痛悼念孙毅哲老同学。孙毅哲一路走好!
--- 乔林帮"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"惊闻噩耗,我现在满脑子都是在学校时那个胖呼呼但学习非常好的模样,毅哲同学一路走好!
--- 王跃军"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"英年早逝,沉重哀悼。生命如此脆弱,让我们更加珍惜。
--- 李素芳"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"沉痛悼念81级优等生孙毅哲同学,我们都在5楼住,胖子爱打篮球,对朋友讲义气,英年早逝,可惜可叹!
--- 亚飞"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"来生再同窗
------悼念毅哲同学

突然间
就这样聊着你
在一个叫微信的空间
倏忽间
就这样想着你
在一个叫虚拟的时间
谈指间
就这样几十年
分手后可曾梦回那天
转眼间
就这样数十载
几度想念又无暇见面
姐妹间
就这样分不开
相距再远也象在身边
兄弟间
就这样似手足
分离越久情义越长远
同学间
就这样心无隙
幻想和你相聚在老年
心好苦
痛你已成仙
谢你在我生命里出现

---田晨光
癸巳年腊月"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"毕业后一直没有见他,印象中还是大学时的样子。没有想到他也这么早就离开了我们,很难过!我们都到了知天命的年龄,希望同学们都保重身体,不希望再听到这样的噩耗!
--- 曾丽"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"天妒英才啊!心痛……愿同学珍爱身体。如果有高危因素就早吃他汀,我们这个年龄高发段,切不可大意。大家从十几岁的懵懂少年到现在知天命岁数,已经建立了深厚的同学情、手足亲情。走一个都是那样的心痛啊!
--- 刘慧"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"沉痛哀悼,一路走好;人生苦短,大家保重!
--- Doctor Lee"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"斯人己逝, 长歌当哭.
音容笑貌, 彷彿咋曰.
忆往事, 历历在目.
悼故友, 倍感伤悲.
逝者已逝, 生者何堪?
毅哲, 一路走好.
但愿天堂没有积雪。
--- 王大庆"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"毅哲胖子,我以前每年过节都会收到你的电话!你永远在我们心中栩栩如生啊!
--- 李宝兴"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"哭胖兄
--- 许世刚 2014年1月27日

一个人走了,
一个壮硕的身躯倒在北美的酷雪中走了,
一个忠厚的人走了,
一个纯粹的人走了。

一个嫉恶如仇的人走了,
一个耿直的人走了,
一个硬折不弯的人走了,
一个真正的河南人走了。

一个热心肠的人走了,
一个襟怀坦荡的人走了,
一个三教九流皆可同桌的人走了,
一个总是对朋友掏心窝子的人走了。

一个背井离乡却乡音不改的人走了,
一个时时关心兄弟的人走了,
一个让朋友总忍不住落泪的人走了,
一个燃烧自己,照亮他人的人走了。"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"沉痛哀悼毅哲同学,一路走好!你的音容笑貌,永留我们心间!
--- 顾敏"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"沉痛悼念毅哲同学!
--- 毛小明"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"沉痛哀悼毅哲英年早逝!
--- 李书印"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"沉痛悼念老胖兄弟!同学之情,兄弟之义与天地共存!
--- 程华东"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 29th January 2014

"总觉得天堂离我们很远,可它就在我们眼前。毅哲兄弟一路走好!
--- 晋志良"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 28th January 2014

"毅哲兄弟做事情,做人从来都追求最完美!事实上,他也真是一个完美的人!正如他在我们86年毕业纪念册上留给我的话 :生如夏花之灿烂,死如秋叶之静美!
--- 李毅"

This tribute was added by 河医81 同学 on 26th January 2014

"还记得上学时暑假去鹤壁玩,在他家里住了三天,挤在一张床上纵论天下大事是何等少年意气。没想到就这样阴阳两隔。哭送老胖!
--- 王旭东"


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