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 献给我们所爱的人---  Sunny 毅哲! 

     
  生如夏花之灿烂,死如秋叶之静美!

 

January 26
January 26
胖弟:

仿佛一眨眼,悠乎已十年!
我去年12月中旬又来美国了,这次回去了两年,这次看来是至少要在美国待上两年。哦,愚兄已耳顺之年了,也已退休了。这十年世事变幻太多,人生感叹不少。惜哉,痛哉!已无胖弟可交流、诉说,已是十年……

愚兄于胖弟十年祭日
January 26, 2023
January 26, 2023
胖弟:已是第9个年头了!
      前些日子,疫情解封后,同学聚会,仍在忆起你……
January 26, 2023
January 26, 2023
You have left 9 years. A lot of happened. Our son married and got a new job moved from New York to NC last year in November. Our daughter is in high school now. Wish you can see them grow in person! Take care! Miss you and love you!
January 26, 2022
January 26, 2022
没想到时间真是如箭!
似乎刚过了你第7个忌日,这又是第8个了吗?!
天堂安息!胖弟。
January 26, 2022
January 26, 2022
You left 8 years now. Sister Yangyang sent her greeting to you! Hope you received what Hope and I sent to you yesterday. Hope, Nathan, Judy and I are all fine. Your parents is okay. Don't worry about us! We will visit them in China after the Pandemic is over. You take care of yourself in Heaven! We all miss you! See you in my dream!

Love
January 26, 2021
January 26, 2021
胖弟:

时光匆匆,今天已是你第7个忌日了……
兄弟们还都没有忘记你,还都在念着你……
天堂安息!胖弟!

愚兄 大梁
January 25, 2021
January 25, 2021
It’s seven years since your passing! You’re missed very much by us, always!
This year Nathan and Judy join Hope and I in Cleveland due to the Covid-19 (we are all working from home since mid-March 2020). Qingwen and Zihan, and four of us, totaling 6 of us spent Christmas together. We had great time! We will celebrate Chinese New Year together this year! Your parents are doing well and just hope this pandemic is over soon, then we can visit them during summer time. Hope is in seventh grade now. she has hybrid schedule now: one week home, one week in school. We are all doing well, don’t worry about us! hope you keep peace mind and happy in the heaven!

Love
January 26, 2020
January 26, 2020
Six years ago you left suddenly and unexpectedly. That’s the worst time I had gone through. No matter how hard I prayed and how hard I tried, I could not keep you. It took 4 and half years for me to accept that you left forever! Now we recovered from losing you. Nathan graduated from college, then graduate school. Nathan and Judy got married almost three years. Judy is his schoolmate of Vanderbilt. Now both Nathan and Judy are working in New York. Hope is in sixth grade, she plays violin and ice-skating. She is a straight A student. Your parents survived and their health is okay (we talk over the phone every Saturday). I survived losing you, the love of my life. Now I have good health and a stable job. Don’t worry about us! Hope you have peace mind and happy life in heaven!
Lin Wang, Qingwen and Zihan (Qingwen’s newly married wife) drove from Pittsburg to spend Chinese New Year with Hope and me. Yongming and Xin Liu, Wenqing (Sangen’s daughter is a student of Case Western), total eight of us get together in Chinese New Year Day. We all had great time together (you brought us all together)! Sister Yangyang called and sent her greeting to you!
Miss you always!
Love
January 26, 2020
January 26, 2020
今天是6周年的日子,更想你了!胖弟!
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
又是一年!胖弟,你走了五年啦!送你走的那天是农历大年初八(哦,是公历2月8号)吧?又快到了。
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
Five year later, still remember the your smile.
Heaven has no snow.
January 25, 2019
January 25, 2019
你离开五年了!
今天晚上在家中,我和盼盼,秋萍和照功一起给你送了些东西。希望你已经收到了。你在天堂也要保重身体!愿耶稣赐你平安喜乐!
父母身体还可以;酉杰和太太朱宁和睦美满;盼盼已经上五年级了,langurage art 和 math 都在 advanced class; 我的身体工作都不错。你放心吧!不要记挂我们!一定要平安喜乐!
Love
January 25, 2018
January 25, 2018
胖弟,4年前的今天太冷了......
November 21, 2016
November 21, 2016
胖弟:在国内因为网络,一直登录不上.我又来美国啦......
November 7, 2016
November 7, 2016
毅哲老弟,又来看看你。无尽的思念不知如何表达。参加完咱们医学院毕业30年聚会后在国内停留了一个月,老同学们碰面不免又想到你。老弟,你走得早了点,也不给老同学们打声招呼。
October 30, 2016
October 30, 2016
Yizhe's birthday. He is still joy full in heaven, and his family and friends love him even more.
January 25, 2016
January 25, 2016
哀我胖弟!你走了两年啦!... ...
January 25, 2016
January 25, 2016
毅哲走了整整两年了。弟兄们还时不常在念叨着:.… 20160125
January 25, 2015
January 25, 2015
时间似乎带走了太多的一切,但却永远無法带走弟兄们对老胖的怀念……从33年开始,直到今天,直到明天,… [流泪][拥抱]
April 9, 2014
April 9, 2014
清明节给毅哲妹妹去了电话,问候了伯父伯母。怕勾起老人的伤心,没有直接给老人去电话。老人很快给我回了电话,嘱我保重身体。祝愿老人平安健康!
February 27, 2014
February 27, 2014
前两天和孙伯伯通话, 他老人家很坚强。 孙伯伯一再表示非常感谢老同学们为毅哲所做的一切。顺便提示一下,悼词的英文翻译 "In Memory of Our Dearest Friend, Yizhe ( Sunny)“ 由瑞军完成。英译本在追悼会上发给了老外。
February 27, 2014
February 27, 2014
Come to this web two days in row, 好人你走的太早。
February 27, 2014
February 27, 2014
胖弟:今天梦到你了!说是你又复活了,除了腿有些问题,一如既往,栩栩如生。唉!梦也非也?!——愚兄大梁
February 16, 2014
February 16, 2014
毅哲走了。到天国哪里。毅哲是幸福的。因为神的国度没有悲伤, 没有病痛, 没有忧愁, 更没有寒冷,没有积雪
February 10, 2014
February 10, 2014
Daqing:
Excellent,thanks.I visit the web everyday.take care.
February 10, 2014
February 10, 2014
In Memory of Our Dearest Friend, Yizhe ( Sunny)
                                 ----David Daqing Wang

Hello Everyone and thank you for coming. 

(My name is David Wang. I have known Sunny for 33 years and it has been an honor to call him my friend. We are both from the same hometown in China and we both attended Henan Medical University as classmates. Even our parents were family friends, so my relationship with Sunny is very deep. For the next portion of my speech, I will be speaking in Chinese. I apologize in advance to all the non Mandarin speakers. A translation of my speech will be provided for your convenience. )

Today, we gather here in memory of our dearest friend, Yizhe (Sunny). Upon hearing of Yizhe's sudden departure, we were all shocked and in disbelief. Our grief over his passing is beyond description. On behalf of the Class of 1986 of Henan Medical University, I would like to express our sincere condolences to Yizhe's family, as well as send our gratitude to the Cleveland Evangelical Chinese Church (CECC), Renovo Neural Inc., and everyone sitting in this room today. Thank you all for coming.

Just like his name, Sunny, he was bright, kind, and humorous gentleman, a loving husband, and a caring father. He will be tremendously missed by all of us. Our hearts and prayers go out to your dear family.

Thirty three years ago, Yizhe began his journey into the medical profession with the rest of the Class of 1986 at Henan Medical University. He was an outstanding student who impressed everyone with his hard work and positive attitude. He earned scholarships every year during medical school and was actively involved in all aspects of school activities. He was not only a skilled debater, but also an excellent musician. After graduating from medical school, Sunny pursued a Master's degree at Beijing Medical University, and later practiced as an otolaryngologist at the First Affiliated Hospital of Beijing Medical University. He treated all of his patients with love and respect, and was remembered by all as a kind, caring, and dedicated physician.

In 1993, he came to Medical College of Ohio for his Ph.D. study. He demonstrated outstanding leadership as well as excellent academic achievement. He was elected as the President of the Chinese Students and Scholars Association (CSSA) for his exceptional communication and organizational skills.

Although he was raised as an atheist, Yizhe turned himself to God seven years ago. His son, Nathan, injured his cornea as a baby in an accident and was told that a full recovery was impossible. Desperately, Yizhe turned to God and prayed for miracle. God showed him his grace and healed Nathan. Yizhe along with his wife, Fengying, became Baptists since then, because “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Yizhe decided to share with the world all God had given to him.

Besides his family here in Cleveland, his 80 year-old parents are still living in his home town in northern China. Every Sunday evening at 10 pm, he would call his parents and chat with them. Every two years, he would bring his entire family to visit his parents. At work, Sunny worked in a lab that often required regular monitoring over a long period time. Voluntary overtime on the weekends and long working hours was normal for Yizhe, but you would never hear him complain. For many years, Yizhe had also supported a Chinese child who lost his father. He was a popular man with a big, warm heart and had many friends whom he had helped. Unfortunately, he has parted from us to go to the next life. “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, …”

Yizhe, you have left this world, but you will never ever leave our hearts.  “Let life be beautiful like summer flowers and death like autumn leaves” as written in Tagore's poem.

As I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, For you are with me; Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
February 10, 2014
February 10, 2014
悼词

                追忆老同学-毅哲---王大庆

在这悲痛欲绝,令人心碎的时刻,请允许我代表河南医科大学81级全体同学深切悼念和送别我们亲爱的同学和好朋友孙毅哲弟兄。老同学们也向毅哲的父母和太太及亲属们表示最诚挚的慰问。我们也对大力协助毅哲善后的克里夫兰中华福音教会, 毅哲生前的公司,校友以及前来送别毅哲的各界朋友表达我们最深深的感谢。

当噩耗传来,同学们无不为之震惊,无不深感惋惜和悲痛。一向活泼开朗、豁达知性的你,如何瞬间便抛亲弃故,与我们天人两隔。毅哲,你给我们所有人留下了永远的遗憾和无尽的悲哀。你连句告别的话都没有留下就一个人匆匆地走了,睁开眼再看我们一眼吧,我们带着所有同学深深的哀思和眷恋来与你告别。

三十三年前,毅哲从鹤壁来到郑州求学。入读于河南医科大学医学系81级6小班。同窗五年,同学们对毅哲印象最深的莫过于他刻苦学习的精神。在大课教室,学校图书馆,在金水河畔和校园的路灯下,我们都曾见过他刻苦读书的身影。毅哲学习成绩优异,曾任班里的学习委员,也是年级历届奖学金的获得者。毅哲也是我们大学各项活动的积极参与者。他在乐队拉二胡, 帮年级办黑板报,演讲台上讲述改革开放的远景。

1986年7月,在我们行将迈出大学校门之际,毅哲在毕业纪念册上这样介绍自己“生若夏花之灿烂,死如秋叶之静美“。泰戈尔这句名言也正是毅哲一生的真实写照。正如大家所言,毅哲心地善良,性格开朗,热心助人,富于爱心,工作勤恳,任劳任怨。89年得到硕士学位后,毅哲便在北京大学第一附属医院任耳鼻喉科医师一直至93年5月赴美。这7年间, 毅哲的家便成了在京同学的聚会场所及外地赴京同学的中转站。以至于同学们把他封为81级驻京联络处处长。

在Ohio医学院(Medical College of Ohio)读博士时,他积极帮助中国学生谋取福利并参与有关的各项事宜。 新生报到, 他主动去接机。新生选课,他帮忙参考意见。同学租公寓, 他载着去看房子。为了排除同学们远离家乡的孤寂,他驾车到Michigan去借中文录像带。甚至有同学夫妻半夜吵架, 他也第一个出现在调解的现场。他就是这么热心公益,乐于助人。他曾任Ohio医学院的学生代表,录取委员会成员, 也因其卓越的表现被大家推选为中国学生学者联谊会主席。

我们叹生命之脆弱,感人生之无常。可幸的是,毅哲七年前已经成为一名虔诚的基督徒。毅哲从小在国内接受的是无神论教育,他认识神的过程也颇具戏剧性。毅哲的儿子小的时候被纸飞机伤到了眼睛。医院检查 眼睛复视,角膜划伤。万般无奈之下,毅哲来到了教会。人的尽头乃是神的开始。毅哲虔诚地向神祷告, 孩子的眼睛竟得到神奇恢复。之后毅哲定期参加教会活动,对神的认识也越来越深。终于在2007年的感恩节受浸归入主耶稣名下。在他的影响下,太太凤英也于2011年受浸归主。几天前凤英还在电话里向我见证神的恩典。2012年,毅哲全家启程由克里夫兰机场归国探亲。因堵车到机场就晚。可安检排队的人竟比平日多了数倍。排队安检是不可能赶上飞机了。虔诚的毅哲跑到了候机厅外向神祷告,求神保守全家的行程。 奇妙的是他回到队中时,安检人员竟然重新开放一条通道,而且用手指着他们全家去排第一个。使他们顺利登机。神奇妙的安排还不止一处。因凤英与鹤壁的同学聚会,必须提前一天离开北京,这一天之差使他们躲过了北京百年一遇的豪雨。回程时原因上海台风警报,机场关闭。但却在全家到达上海时台风警报正好解除。

对父母而言,毅哲是个非常懂事又非常孝顺的孩子。毅哲年迈的双亲住在家乡鹤壁。他数年如一日每个星期天晚上10点固定给父母打长途电话问候。毅哲过世后的第三天,我们国内的同学代表带着81级全体同学的深情厚谊驱车鹤壁探望了毅哲年迈的双亲。

本月初的一个周末我与毅哲通话。 他那天竟然工作了12 个小时, 而且没有任何加班费。我不可理解地问他又没有人强迫你干,为什么要事必亲躬经常这么长时间加班呢。他回答说他放心不下公司的工作,尤其怕照顾不好实验室的动物。他就是这么一个任劳任怨,无私奉献的人。

毅哲的事迹实在不是三言两语可以道尽的。但我还是想让大家知道几年前有个中国孩子的父亲过世。他主动照顾这个孩子,以减轻孩子的丧父之痛。他尽可能带着孩子参加聚会,邀请到家里吃饭。孩子母亲生病了,他和太太去看望。连老同学在美国求学的孩子假期都曾到他家里小住。他实在是一个热心助人的好朋友。毅哲,你的遽然离世,让老同学们失去了一个重情义的好朋友,这个世界少了一个慈爱的父亲,一个多情的丈夫,一个优秀的科学家。但正如保罗所说:“那美好的仗我已经打过了,当跑的路我已经跑尽了,所信的道我已经守住了。从此以后,有公义的冠冕为我存留。”毅哲已经歇了自己在地上的劳苦,我们深信,靠着爱我们的主,他已经在一切的事上得胜有余。主啊!你的爱是如此地长阔高深。愿你保守毅哲的双亲和妻小,刚强他们,使他们继续在地上为你做那美好的见证 。

毅哲,我们相信你的生命不是偶然而出现,也不会以死亡而告终。主耶稣以他在十字架上的死和三天后的复活成全了神的意愿。“神爱世人,甚至将他的独生子赐给他们,叫一切信他的,不至灭亡,反得永生”。安息吧,亲爱的毅哲同学。你不离不弃的妻子,一定会用她的坚强来完成你的夙愿;你聪明睿智的儿女,一定会用他们的卓越来告慰你。爱你的我们将永远牵挂着你,实现你没能实现的梦想。

言有尽而哀思无尽,言有终而情不可终。请让我以诗篇第二十三篇大卫的诗最后告慰毅哲:“我虽然行过死荫的幽谷,也不怕遭害;因为 你与我 同在;我 一生一世 必有恩惠慈爱随着我,我且要住在 耶和华 的殿中,直到永远。”阿们!
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
Sunny,

Words cannot express how much I will miss you. You touched my life along with so many others with your unprecedented generosity, love, and compassion. I will hold you in my heart each and every day. I will do my part to ensure that your legacy lives on. The world lost a great man, friend, and father. Thank you Sunny for giving me the gift of you!
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
毅哲, 在这冰冷的冬季,默默地为你送行。 你的善良,仁慈,和宽容,永远留在我们的记忆中。你让我们感觉到生命的真正意义。 我为能与你同行这一段短短的旅途而感激。白茫茫的雪地中,目送你远去。好人,一路平安!
-- 张颖
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
毅哲,我们会永远怀念你的,愿你在天堂听得到我的祝愿,我们在上海给你送行了,一路走好!
--- 范慧敏
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
毅哲,我们的好兄弟,天堂的路很好,愿你在那边开心,不管多远,我们的心永远和你在一起,一路走好!
--- 李书印
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
毅哲一路走好!天堂里我们还会听到你爽朗笑声
--- 杨捷
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
毅哲兄安息       2010年11月初,我到美国考察医院,与他联系,他热情邀我们到克里夫兰医学中心参观,但因 日程安排问题,未能如愿,甚为遗憾,我回国后他又打电话聊了很长时间, 表示以后美国有什么事,只要他能帮得上,会全力以赴,至今他那热情,豪爽的声音仍留在我记忆中,毅哲兄是一个真诚、友善、乐于助人 的人,他的早逝使我们失去了一位好同学,愿毅哲兄一路走好!              
--- 陈向东
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
一位优秀的81级同学,生若夏花灿烂,死如秋叶静美!愿逝者安息,望生者保重!
--- 阮国瑞
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
愿毅哲一路走好!上帝保佑你一切!
--- 李宝兴
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
毅哲兄,

愿你在天堂听得到我的祝愿,我在北京给你送行了,一路走好!

---周东学
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
愿上帝保佑毅哲,让同学们的关心温暖他的亲人,减轻他们的哀痛。
毅哲走好。
---汪雁明
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
毅哲和我们大家同学五年。

认识他,使我们非常有幸地认识到生活中有这样一个人,他充满了阳光,又是那么的豪爽,正气,勤奋,努力,担当责任,充满爱心。

而他的英年早逝,不仅仅是带走了一缕那么灿烂的阳光,同时也使我们对生命的理解和认识有了更加深刻的思考并升华。

愿毅哲兄弟安息在主耶稣温暖的怀抱里。

---李毅
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
初六毅哲老父亲打来电话,感到心里很亲,很近。
毅哲:国内的父母有同学们照顾,你放心吧!
---刘慧
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
胖弟一路走好,迟早有一天在那边再相聚~
---田宝均
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
胖弟,

你安心的离去吧!你带走了我们熟悉的那一缕温暖的阳光!

凤英一定会很坚强,她会照顾好两个孩子和老人。

Nathan和Hope,爸爸是个正直、豁达、善良的人。他的慈爱将伴随着你们,他会在天国保佑和祝福你们,直至永远!

---雷博
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
大庆,

请带去我遥远的遥远的怀念,请毅哲放心走好。

他的儿女们会健康成长,会成为像父亲一样的好人。

---韩晓燕
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
美国的同学们为毅哲和家人,也为81级的同学们,还有所有爱戴孙毅哲的人们做了大量的工作,你们辛苦了!

在赶往克利夫兰路上的同学们一定注意安全!感谢李毅及时的消息,国内的同学们也时刻关注着,也怀着同样的心情。

刚才周斌和陈永忠都打电话委托我代表国内孙毅哲治丧小组再表达一下大家的心情。我的水平有限肯定不能让大家满意。我也知道,用什么样的语言也难以表达我们对胖弟的爱戴,怀念,留恋,惋惜,心痛……之情啊!

我们和美国的同学,欧洲的同学一起为毅哲送行: 我们的好同学,父母的好儿子,妻子的好丈夫,孩子的好父亲,大家的好朋友,也是上帝的好儿子-孙毅哲,完成了灿烂的一生,回到了上帝的怀抱。

我坚信你只是换了一种存在的方式,你永远是我们亲爱的同学,可爱的胖弟!

走好!毅哲弟!

爱你的同学们。

---姜丽华
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
大庆你好!

这么多天了什么时候静下来就会想起他,也知道已是事实,但还是不能相信。

非常想念他,真遗憾今天不能再看看他。请你,大庆,替我看看他,告诉他我真的好想他啊!

---姜丽华
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仿佛一眨眼,悠乎已十年!
我去年12月中旬又来美国了,这次回去了两年,这次看来是至少要在美国待上两年。哦,愚兄已耳顺之年了,也已退休了。这十年世事变幻太多,人生感叹不少。惜哉,痛哉!已无胖弟可交流、诉说,已是十年……

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January 25
You left 10 years now. I miss you so much especially when I have some bad or good things happened in my life. You don't know how much I want you could be my side to share with me! It's painful without you because I am so used to rely on you! Tears come to my eyes now...
Take care of yourself, miss you!!!

Thank You!!!

January 25, 2017

Thank you everyone who remembered today! Thank you everyone who have been so supportive to me and my family! Thank you for your prayers, help, care, and love! Without it, I don't think that I could go through it! Even though it has been 3 years, it is still so hurt when I think about Yizhe (Sunny)!


I also feel so lucky to fall in love with him and have him in my life for almost 30 years before his passing!

I feel so lucky that we have so many friends, classmates, schoolmates, neighbors, and coworkers to love, care and support us!

We had a little ceremony to memorize Yizhe (Sunny) this morning before Hope went to school. He physically left, but he will always live in our hearts! Hope all of us learn from this, take good care of ourselves to live a long, healthy lives!

I believe that being with God, Yizhe (Sunny) will have a peaceful, and happy life in heaven!

Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart!

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