Abasiakara Asikpo, (1991 - 2021) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

We know Abasiakara would be with us today if Heaven wasn't so far away.

29 years old
Born on October 22, 1991 in Uyo, Akwa Ibom, Nigeria
Passed away on March 12, 2021 in Ikoyi, Lagos, Nigeria

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Abasiakara Asikpo, 29 years old, born on October 22, 1991, and passed away on March 12, 2021. We will remember her forever.

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March 20, 2021

Am still in shock, am yet to believe you're gone my friend...
On the 4th of December 2020, I sent you a video we made 2 years ago on our way to the site, we laughed and joked over it....
On the 12th of February I came to your office, and was so happy seeing you in a more blessed form, not knowing that's the last time I will get to talk, chat, play and ask you "if you wan chop slap"...
Farewell my good friend, my colleague, and a super woman, the earth and everything on it will miss you and I'll tell you all about it when I see you again!!!

“Eternal rest grant unto Abasiakara , O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon her.
May the soul of Abasiakara and souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.“
Amen!!!

March 19, 2021

I can’t ask God why.
My heart is filled with so many “I wish “ and “IF ONLYs”
But I can’t question God... you are in a safe place.
I will always remember your smile that can lighten a dark room; Ekemini made loving you without knowing you in person, possible.
Rest on Sister Abbie

March 19, 2021

Dear AbasiAkara,

It absolutely breaks my heart to type this because I still can’t believe you’re gone.

You are a light that will continually shine for the rest of us as we go through life, you are greatly missed.

I honestly wish I got to share more moments with you and for that I’m incredibly sorry.
Sleep Safe and May the light guide your way.

You’re loved in this life time and forever.

March 19, 2021

It's with a heavy heart and pain I'm writing this. Who are we to question God. this wasn't meant to be,I'm still finding it difficult to believe that you are no more with us but I'm rest assured that you are well placed in heaven.... We will meet again Abas.God be with you.

March 19, 2021

Mama Abie as I fondly call You, A Minstrel you are . How you sang and made every Sunday awesome back then at Madonna University (PFM). I knew there was something different about you ,how you will neatly handle your Engineering drawing board back then in 200L. How , we were sorting for Industrial Electronics Past questions at library during our degree exams.
Abie, your death came as a shock to us all. When the news broke last Sunday ,I wished it was never true. I called Joy Angye and she said what I heard is true. My heart bled, my wife really saw that Pain in my eyes after that call. I know you are singing in heaven and you are in a better Place , we will all Miss You Abasiakara.

March 19, 2021

Abasiakara, I really don't know what to write as I feel the deep pain of your loss. The entire AFCS Uyo 08 set will miss you. I enjoyed knowing you. I know times when we spoke and truly I wish I was more in touch. Rest in Peace and I pray God comforts your family and loved ones.

March 19, 2021

My Dear friend I still can't find the words to express how painful and unbelievable your exit has been, am I really typing this? Feels like a bad dream, it has led me to questioning the very purpose of man's existence. I have known you from our days in Uni and our friendship grew as work colleagues in IE, a smart, courageous, funny, gentle, detailed, soft spoken lady with a sarcastic way of showing affection. It has given me joy to witness you become an amazon in a male dominated industry, a wife and finally a mother. Yes, it was short, but It isn't how long we live that matters, but how well, and you did well . I pray for strength for all of us you've left behind, cos you are family. For you now, it's joy, celebration, peace and love eternal. Rest well Abie.

March 19, 2021

We served God together in church back at school with our gifts and made the entire PFM members dance almost every Sunday. We hustled together in Port Harcourt, applied for jobs together in Lagos, got the same job the same day in lagos and rejoiced when you got married. It shatters my heart you left without even enjoying the reward for your labour and I'm still in shock that I won't see you again. I miss you abie and pray God receives you to his bossom. Thanks for all you did for me and for the souls your life blessed.. Rest in peace Dearest Friend.

March 19, 2021

Even though the sun set way too early, you lived, and for that, we are grateful.

All I now have left, are the memories and the photos.

Abasiakara, even though you’re no more with us, your memory lives on in our hearts.

May your soul Rest In Perfect Peace!

Amen

March 19, 2021

We journeyed through primary and secondary school together and even though our paths haven’t crossed in recent years your death came as a very big shock. I still wish I could wake up and this would be a dream.
Your loss is really irreplaceable especially to your family.

May the lights lead you home and may your gentle soul Rest In Peace.

March 19, 2021

May God grant you eternal rest dear one, and May His perpetual light shine upon you always. One may never know why this had to happen but what we can rest assured of is that God knows and that His grace will suffice. Rest on till the resurrection day dear one.

You live on in the hearts of your loved ones.

March 18, 2021

This one really hurts. I’m deeply pained, angry, and confused. I have never known this level of hurt and pain in my life.

We were not ready for this. Rest In Peace my not-so-little sister.

Our family will never be the same. Life will never be the same again.

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March 12

I’ll never forget you. Thank you for being a friend. I miss you.

October 22, 2022

I still have videos of you I watch once in a while and everytime I do that I pray for you.

I pray that you have peace and you are in Gods kingdom because you truly deserve it.

Today is your birthday but we cannot even celebrate it.
You're always in our hearts

October 22, 2022

You are forever in our hearts. Happy Birthday :)

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Abie is dressed in the onyonyo attire on her wedding day.

Abasiakara on June 30, 2019. The day after her wedding.

Her Life

Remembering Abasiakara

March 18, 2021

Born October 22, 1991, Abasiakara Asikpo née Tom was a beautiful soul who was addicted to excellence.

A graduate of Electrical/Electronic Engineering, Madonna University Nigeria, a female in a male-dominated domain, a star, an amazon.

She scaled through many facets of life with ease. Until her death, she was an Operations and Maintenance Engineer with Ikeja Electric.

Abasiakara died on Friday, March 12, 2021, at Lagoon Hospital Ikoyi, Lagos, after birthing her daughter at Lagoon Hospital Ikeja, Lagos. She died a painful death. No one deserves to go through what Abasiakara experienced before her death.

She is survived by her daughter, husband, father, mother, sisters, brothers, friends, and loved ones. This loss is to one and all of us, and it is painful.

May the lights guide her journey home to eternity, and may her soul find rest.

Amen.

The Girl I Once Knew

March 19, 2021

I knew you for 19 years and you were definitely one of the coolest, chillest, laid back, unproblematic girls I had ever met.

Over the years, whenever I look at my dentition in the mirror, I laugh inside at how you made such a unique observation on something I myself never noticed. I remember how you joked about it, the exact words you used, the laughter that ensued, and how it became an inside joke.
I loved your wit!

I remember how much I admired your eyes and legs and would always tell you.

I remember YOU, and will always do.

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