ForeverMissed

 

 

 

To live in the hearts, we leave behind...

is not to die .

 

This memorial website was created in the memory of our dearest loved one, Abhijeet Singh, 19, born on March 7, 1992 and passed away on August 10, 2011. We  miss you from  our life and the big vaccumm you have created can be filled by none.I wish you knew how much you were loved.

Abhijeet  was persuing Mechanical Enginneering  from Manipal University. He was a strapping young man, 6 feet in height and an endearing smiling face. He was gregarious, fun and outdoors loving person who just loved to be in company of his friends.He was fond of trekking,  mountain climbing, Squash, and football. He was also very fond of clicking photographs and getting clicked.He was very fond of gadgets and new gizmos like any other teenager.He was fond of all things manly like motor bikes, guns, tanks  submarines,  fighter lanes, and other military paraphrenalia.

 His passion was ' Flying.'.. fighter aircrafts... so much so that I assume that in his last incarnation he must have been a fighter pilot. His passion was to soar in heavens. His only aim in life was to join Indian Air Force after his enginnering degree.He would have flown Sukhois and that would have been the happiest times in his life. If only God willed...

Abhijeet was a caring  loving son and a great elder brother to Abhishek. He was a role model and an ideal for his younger brother. He is greatly missed as a grand son and nephew and  as a great buddy to his numerous friends.  Abhijeet had moved frequently with his family and had learned to make friends fast. Naturally humble, and blessed with a jovial personality and wonderful sense of humor, people were quickly drawn to him.Wherever he went, he spread good cheer and sprinkled life and zest with his great sense of hiumour.How polite, compassionate and incredibly funny he was. He oozed maturity way beyond his years.Never did he ever utter a disparaging remark or critical word for anybody. He was the most compassionate and nonjudgemental person I have ever known.


   As a tale,  so is life ; not how long it is , but how good it is , what matters. 

We lost Abhijeet on 10 August 2011. He had gone for a swim in the Arabian sea with his friend Jana Kish. Both of them entered the sea around 3.o clock in the afternoon, never to come out again. And we were left with this deep stabbing pain in the heart and a with a  big question in the mind for the Almighty to answer-WHY?

Why was life snuffed out of a person so full of life and love for life? Why one of us is taken while the rest of us remain to endure the pain? For there are just so many things that no one can explain. The most painful goodbye was bid to him on 13th August and up  went in flames our hope, dreams and future imagined for him.

Abhijeet,we have you in our hearts while God has you in his arms. You have left your footprints on our hearts , and we will never be the same again. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

WHERE LOVE IS , DEATH CAN NEVER BE THE END OF THE STORY.  YOU are MY forever CHILD.

 Life is eternal, and love is immortal,and death is only a horizon;
and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.

My son is not my PAST.HE IS MY FUTURE. We do not stop carrying those we love in our hearts and minds because we can't see or touch them. Their memories remain alive as an active part of our lives. Honoring memories is about preserving the gifts of love God allowed to grace our lives with on this earth. It's a holy love that dwells in the places carved inside our  hearts by love itself. It's part of the reason we are Who we are.

This  site is  still in the process of construction. Please visit  it  again soon. And please do write something to let me know you were here to celebrate the  living spirit of my Son.

Posted by Vanda Bubear on March 8, 2020
Happy Birthday in Heaven precious Abhijeet. Always in my thoughts. I hope you have a wonderful time with my son and your friends xxx
Posted by Manisha Joshi on March 7, 2020
Happy birthday Abhijeet! It's hard to forget a person who gave us so much to remember...
You will always stay forever in our hearts
Posted by Banu Mouli on March 7, 2020
Abhijeet
Happy birthday in heaven dearest
Posted by ENU SINGH on March 7, 2020
Happy birthday dear son wherever you are . Your time here with me was too short . But it will forever in heaven with you . I am gonna find you I promise.
Posted by ENU SINGH on February 14, 2020
Aakhir kya Phool detee ma tumko
Tum juda hee tab hue jab drakhto ke haath bhi khali the

Happy Valentine’s Day
May you always find real love wherever you are
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 25, 2020
2010-2019
This decade is over . You were there in this decade till Aug 2011 . Now I don’t know any other decade left for me , but what I know for sure is that you will never be in that. This finality is fills me with despair and fresh awareness of your absence
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 23, 2020
I never truly understood the meaning of ‘I miss you’ earlier .* I miss you* . Each and every cell of my body knows that I will never be able to see you ever again. That despair that sets in gives a whole different meaning to the simple “ I miss you”.
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 14, 2020
I miss the future I was supposed to have with you
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 11, 2020
You are loved . May beauty love and more love surround you wherever you are. Fly high, Fly strong . You are there in every beat of my heart.
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 4, 2020
We begin to remember not just that you died but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 1, 2020
My son ,
My love for you will never die. I shall always keep you alive in my heart . I shall never stop missing you . Wish you a very happy new year . One more year without you here is finally over . You were and always live in my heart
Posted by Banu Mouli on December 31, 2019
Abhijeet... Celebrate the new year with all the angels... Send sm signs.. Stay with your mom, dad and Abhishek...
Love you baby.. Hugs
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 30, 2019
Another year gone by .2019 is over and done . There is festive cheer all around but in my heart is the melancholy of loss. Another year without you. What would you have been today ?
Posted by Nanci Neilsen-Young on November 7, 2019
I was visiting my sister, Dar and I wanted to stop in and say Hi and to let you know I am thinking of you and your family. I continue to keep you in my thoughts and I send much love and hope for peace to each heart that is missing you!!! Hugs to all who come visit you here and are missing you!!
Posted by ENU SINGH on October 22, 2019
Split Wide Open

Last night Hephaistus came to me in a dream
And said, Give me your heart
Since you suffer so, I will make it stronger
In the foundry of the gods
Melted, beaten, welded just so
Hardened to perfection
So that you feel no more
The things that torment you so.

I sat for awhile, heeding Hephaistus's advice
Who was I to let it go
Words of the mighty
Those in the know.

And then I saw a mother weeping
For her child forever gone, forever sleeping
And I turned my back on the blacksmith's prowess
To relieve me of all stress and duress

I would rather be split wide open
Torn asunder and broken
To feel a mother's pain
To know that a life gone, was not in vain
To hold a hand and be a comfort
Than be a stone, in a human cast
All feelings gone, an outer shell
Just a cast.

I would rather be light, and love and joy
And all that was in you, my boy
While you were living, and my heart was singing
I would rather be that song, the lyrics
Which I carried in my heart, the day you were born.
Posted by ENU SINGH on October 13, 2019

I See the moon .and the moon sees me,
And the moon sees the one I long to see,
God bless the moon and God bless me
And God bless the person I long to see ...
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 31, 2019
. In French, you don’t really say “I miss you”, you say “Tu me manques” which means “You are missing from me”.
I miss our conversations so much my baby . I miss your sparkling smile . I miss you in every way that I cannot express.
Posted by Cindy Baumann on August 18, 2019
Thinking of you Enu and sending my love. What a beautiful post. I think this is my favorite line.......
I choose to hold you in my dreams...
For in my dreams, you have no end...
Hugs
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 18, 2019
I choose to Love you in silence...
For in silence I find no rejection,

    I choose to Love you in loneliness...
For in loneliness no one owns you but me,

    I choose to adore you from a distance...
For distance will shield me from pain,

   I choose to kiss you in the wind...
For the wind is gentler than my lips,

  I choose to hold you in my dreams...
For in my dreams, you have no end...

_*RUMI*_
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 16, 2019
You never leave my mind . Not even when I have million things to think about.
Posted by Vanda Bubear on August 14, 2019
Thinking of you and your family, Abhijeet ❤ Please leave many signs for us who are lost down here below. It gets harder as the years pass by. This world makes no sense without you all xxxx
Posted by Manisha Joshi on August 13, 2019
A beautiful soul is never forgotten. You live in our hearts and forever missed. Lots of love
Posted by Banu Mouli on August 9, 2019
Abhijeet dear
Stay safe wherever you are...
RIP.. Return if Possible
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 9, 2019
Death changes everything
Time changes nothing . I miss your presence in my life today as much as I missed you on the first moment of your going.
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 9, 2019
Har Khushi ho vahan , tu jaha bhi rahe
Zindagi ho vaha, tu jaha bhi rahe

Always loved , always missed .
Posted by Vanda Bubear on March 10, 2019
Hope you had the most wonderful birthday, Abhijeet ❤
Here's to the day we can all meet again and greet one another as long lost friends, even though I did not have the honour of knowing you in this life.
We share a bond ... a bond of tremendous loss and sorrow, but also of a great hope that we will see each other again one day xxx
Posted by Enu Singh on March 7, 2019
Thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories, pictures in a frame and unconditional love in my heart. Your memory is a keepsake, with which I'll never part. God has you in His keeping, I have you in my heart. God Bless you wherever you are. Lotsa Love my Angel ⭐️⭐️⭐️❤️❤️❤️
Happy birthday in heaven my love
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 23, 2018
In some days , another year will be over . And I now count years as one less year to be lived with the pain of losing you . Merry Christmas too.
Posted by Enu Singh on September 30, 2018
शामिल हो तुम मेरी
हर कहानी में..
कभी होठों की मुस्कराहट में..
कभी आखों के पानी में
Posted by Enu Singh on August 17, 2018
Badi lambee guftagu karnee ha
Tum aana , ek mukammal zindagi le kar
Will surely find you my baby
Posted by Enu Singh on August 17, 2018
And I would choose you in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality, I would find you and I would choose you.
Posted by Enu Singh on August 16, 2018
So we are back . From the trek to the valley of flowers and Hemkund sahib to honor your memories. Hope you received all the love and prayers I chanted all through. You were with me , all the time . You are never separate. I am determined to keep your memories alive . May you find love and happiness and everything that you ever want wherever you are.
Posted by Deepak Sethi on August 11, 2018
The void and vacum have experienced it . Lost my mother in June 2018 . The Hurt takes time to heal . But heal we must . Abhijeet would have gone to a space created by God where he would lead a full life and a life which he desires . There is a purpose in whatever God does .
Posted by Vanda Bubear on August 10, 2018
Seven long years since your family last saw you, and heard your voice.
Yet, for those you left behind, you continue to be an important part of their day-to-day life. 
We think of our missing children every second we are on this earth. We can still see their faces, hear their voices, frozen in time at the age they left us. And we wonder who they'd be today?
Would they still be the children we lost? How would they have changed? What would they have accomplished? So many questions we ask ourselves every day, but we have to wait until we are reunited to find the answers.
All we can do is continue to send you our love, each and every second of the days that come ... ❤❤
Posted by Enu Singh on July 27, 2018
Whenever I see your picture
There’s always a memory that hits
A single memory that’s enough
To shred my heart into bits.
I don’t know if it reaches you
I don’t know if I care
But when I am happy or I am sad
I want you to be here.
I wonder if you are watching
I wonder what you think
If you are happy with the new me
Or are there tears when you blink
Every mild achievement I reach
Makes me imagine you with a proud smile
Makes me cry at how you left
When you should have stayed a while.
Posted by Bharat Haladi on March 7, 2018
Be happy, wherever you are now.
Posted by Manisha Joshi on March 7, 2018
Happy Birthday Abhijeet.
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day...
unseen, unheard, but always near.
Posted by Banu Mouli on March 7, 2018
Abhijeet
I have not met you
I have heard all abt you and Jaana from yr mom. You must be a handsm 26year old now.. We can't gv you gift now. However You can to yr mom..gv her signs.. That's all that she needs now. Happy birthday son
Posted by Vanda Bubear on March 7, 2018
Thinking of you and your family on this day Abhijeet. You and your mum are always in our thoughts. Shine on up there in Heaven with my James and your other friends. And give your mum lots of precious signs today xxxx ❤
Posted by ENU SINGH on March 7, 2018
Happy birthday , my darling son. I canot give you any material gifts but I give you all my love and I shall keep the hope alive to see you on the other side of the moon. May you find truest love and everlasting peace and joy in the loving guidance of Lord Krishna.
Posted by Banu Mouli on March 5, 2018
Abhijeet
Stay wid your mom
Show her signs
Keep her wrapped in yr love..
Stay safe wherever you are
Posted by ENU SINGH on March 4, 2018
Shine on dearest one
Please know that you are loved, you are precious and you are missed with every breath that I take. My reality of this physical world is submerged by your absence by the same sea that consumed the physical you. My soul is one with you in the other world.
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 31, 2017
Another year without you
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 31, 2017
For the rest of my life I will look for moments that were full of you .This year is gone and over and I have moved another year closer to you .
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 6, 2017
Three years in this home and you have not walked into this home . Damn final .
Posted by ENU SINGH on November 20, 2017
Today your Oscar joins you . I am sure you were there to welcome him with open arms . There are so many happy memories of you with Oscar . Please take good care of your pet. 
I miss you all the time . It is like having broken ribs . Outwardly I am fine but each and every breath hurts .
Posted by ENU SINGH on November 7, 2017
You are always on my mind . Wonder what you would be today . Where and what you would have been doing .
It has been sooooo long that I have heard your voice . I have forgotten how your voice sounded . Plse make a dream visit to let me know .
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 16, 2017
I miss you . I miss me
The young vibrant you , the happy me .
The bright you , the proud me
The wild child you , the strict parent me .
The adventurous you , the fearful me .
Now you are gone , left is sad me .
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 11, 2017
Death changes everything.Time changes nothing. I miss your voice calling me out , I miss your wisdom , I miss talking to you on phone , I miss admonishing you for studying harder. I miss everything. I miss your presence in my life .
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 11, 2017
I just hugged you tight in my thoughts. Hope you felt it .
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Posted by Vanda Bubear on March 8, 2020
Happy Birthday in Heaven precious Abhijeet. Always in my thoughts. I hope you have a wonderful time with my son and your friends xxx
Posted by Manisha Joshi on March 7, 2020
Happy birthday Abhijeet! It's hard to forget a person who gave us so much to remember...
You will always stay forever in our hearts
Posted by Banu Mouli on March 7, 2020
Abhijeet
Happy birthday in heaven dearest
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Shared by Manisha Joshi on March 7, 2019

It's hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember. Missing you forever..

Shared by ENU SINGH on March 7, 2018

You and I are together...the 'forever' kind of together.

Just because we are together, does not mean we have to constantly exchange words, touch or sight. There isn't always a purpose, an agenda behind being together. It is enough just 'being' together!

You may think I do not hear you, but I listen. You may feel I do not look at you, but I never lose sight of you. I don't touch you but I hold you every moment. It is this kind of togetherness that matters. The forever kind of togetherness.

Yes! You and I are together...the 'forever' kind of together.

Abhijeet

Shared by Vanda Bubear on January 14, 2018

Sending you a flower from Wales