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To live in the hearts, we leave behind...

is not to die .

 

This memorial website was created in the memory of our dearest loved one, Abhijeet Singh, 19, born on March 7, 1992 and passed away on August 10, 2011. We  miss you from  our life and the big vaccumm you have created can be filled by none.I wish you knew how much you were loved.

Abhijeet  was persuing Mechanical Enginneering  from Manipal University. He was a strapping young man, 6 feet in height and an endearing smiling face. He was gregarious, fun and outdoors loving person who just loved to be in company of his friends.He was fond of trekking,  mountain climbing, Squash, and football. He was also very fond of clicking photographs and getting clicked.He was very fond of gadgets and new gizmos like any other teenager.He was fond of all things manly like motor bikes, guns, tanks  submarines,  fighter lanes, and other military paraphrenalia.

 His passion was ' Flying.'.. fighter aircrafts... so much so that I assume that in his last incarnation he must have been a fighter pilot. His passion was to soar in heavens. His only aim in life was to join Indian Air Force after his enginnering degree.He would have flown Sukhois and that would have been the happiest times in his life. If only God willed...

Abhijeet was a caring  loving son and a great elder brother to Abhishek. He was a role model and an ideal for his younger brother. He is greatly missed as a grand son and nephew and  as a great buddy to his numerous friends.  Abhijeet had moved frequently with his family and had learned to make friends fast. Naturally humble, and blessed with a jovial personality and wonderful sense of humor, people were quickly drawn to him.Wherever he went, he spread good cheer and sprinkled life and zest with his great sense of hiumour.How polite, compassionate and incredibly funny he was. He oozed maturity way beyond his years.Never did he ever utter a disparaging remark or critical word for anybody. He was the most compassionate and nonjudgemental person I have ever known.


   As a tale,  so is life ; not how long it is , but how good it is , what matters. 

We lost Abhijeet on 10 August 2011. He had gone for a swim in the Arabian sea with his friend Jana Kish. Both of them entered the sea around 3.o clock in the afternoon, never to come out again. And we were left with this deep stabbing pain in the heart and a with a  big question in the mind for the Almighty to answer-WHY?

Why was life snuffed out of a person so full of life and love for life? Why one of us is taken while the rest of us remain to endure the pain? For there are just so many things that no one can explain. The most painful goodbye was bid to him on 13th August and up  went in flames our hope, dreams and future imagined for him.

Abhijeet,we have you in our hearts while God has you in his arms. You have left your footprints on our hearts , and we will never be the same again. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

WHERE LOVE IS , DEATH CAN NEVER BE THE END OF THE STORY.  YOU are MY forever CHILD.

 Life is eternal, and love is immortal,and death is only a horizon;
and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.

My son is not my PAST.HE IS MY FUTURE. We do not stop carrying those we love in our hearts and minds because we can't see or touch them. Their memories remain alive as an active part of our lives. Honoring memories is about preserving the gifts of love God allowed to grace our lives with on this earth. It's a holy love that dwells in the places carved inside our  hearts by love itself. It's part of the reason we are Who we are.

This  site is  still in the process of construction. Please visit  it  again soon. And please do write something to let me know you were here to celebrate the  living spirit of my Son.

March 7, 2012
March 7, 2012
Happy B'Day dear
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
March 7, 2012
March 7, 2012
If tears could build a stairway
and heartaches make a lane,
we'd walk the path to Heaven
and bring you back again.
A heart of gold stopped beating
A shining smile at rest
God broke our hearts to prove
he only takes the best.
Our family chain is broken again
and nothing seems the same,
But God will call us one by one
and the chain will link again
March 7, 2012
March 7, 2012
Happy B'day Abhijeeet! It was a great day when you were born giving happiness to each one of us!Today we all remember you wih tears in our heart ....
March 7, 2012
March 7, 2012
We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
And the days before that, too.
We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part.
God has you in His Keeping.
We have you in our Heart
March 7, 2012
March 7, 2012
Today is a celebration of your birth. A day of memories and of love..
God bless you .xx
Lynne carnaby
March 6, 2012
March 6, 2012
the hurt that is worst for me,
that your life will never be.
If only I cud change the past,
I shud be gone and you would last
For that was how it was meant to be
i should have been gone and you shuld have benn missing me.
March 6, 2012
March 6, 2012
Rest in Peace Abhijeet...may your Angel Wings allow you to fly high and while you are up there drop in on Mom and show her your love.
March 6, 2012
March 6, 2012
Happy B'day Abhijeet. God bless your soul. We all miss you. May your soul Rest In Peace.
March 6, 2012
March 6, 2012
How much I used to enjoy this day.. and how much have I been dreading it this time. You would have completed 20 today and what an amazingly good person you were . How much rejoicing happened today 20 yrs ago..and what a gloomy day is today.
Happy heavenly birthday My son.
March 6, 2012
March 6, 2012
May you be truly blessed
to always glitter
with a radiance that shines
from deep within you."
March 5, 2012
March 5, 2012
Ahijeet ,no-one can ever saperate you from any of us as you r always in our thoughts...Wish we could hug you
March 5, 2012
March 5, 2012
God is watching over you. I know for sure becoz I asked HIM to.
March 5, 2012
March 5, 2012
"Memories live forever,
               They grow richer through the years,
               They are nurtured by our laughter,
               They are watered by our tears.
               Memories live forever,
               Sent from heaven up above
               To eternally connect us
March 5, 2012
March 5, 2012
There are many things in life we cannot understand,
But we must trust God's judgment and be guided by His hand...
And all who have God's blessing can rest safely in His care,
For He promises safe passage on the wings of faith and prayer.
March 5, 2012
March 5, 2012
Grey water all around me
From a wave with a tumbling sound
I listened beneath the ocean water
My heart not a swimmer drowned
March 4, 2012
March 4, 2012
Abhijeet,
I met you very briefly, but I remember you as a happy soul.
I am certain you must be spreading happiness now, wherever you are.
March 3, 2012
March 3, 2012
To all Abhijeet' s friends..
 He loved you all sooooo much.
He will always watch over you.
March 3, 2012
March 3, 2012
I hope some day it will be revealed to me Why you died. and I will be shown the plan behind your senseless death.
And till then I pray that you may find peace and may you make people in heaven happy and yes.... do discuss and understand the true meaning of life with Ascended masters and plse look after ur lil bro and keep him safe.
March 3, 2012
March 3, 2012
I wish everyday that it is a bad dream and you will wake me up with your- mumma mumma ..suno na...
But now I know it is real and it is soooo wrong.
I hope you feel my love and understand how much u r missed.
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
thinking of you with love
and prayers
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
HI Abhijeet!We all miss you and will always will.I miss u like hell but Iam sure u are happy and smiling as always.Although you are out of sight but you r always remembered even in my morning and evening prayers!Wishing you eternal love always...take care and FLY HIGH!
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
I miss ur voice calling for me in the house. I miss your wisdom, and humour. I miss your stories about your pet Oscar. I miss your tolerance for me, I miss listening to podcasts with you. I miss u.no words can describe it
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
life without you... is a burden on my soul.
life without you means very little to me
March 1, 2012
March 1, 2012
You had a smile and personality that was magnetic. nd u kept me engaged in conversation for hours.
Miss you soooo much..
 I keep thinking..what was... what could have been and what is....  :((((
February 29, 2012
February 29, 2012
All the beautiful dreams about you..... went up in smoke
February 28, 2012
February 28, 2012
I want to see his thick dark hair and I yearn to walk up behind him like I'd done so many times before and ruffle his hair. To run my hands through his thick hair and announce to him that he is in need of a haircut. And to watch in amazement as his hair would grow back nearly as fast as it was cut off!
February 28, 2012
February 28, 2012
I now know.. you were an old soul. You were older than me. That is why you went earlier than me.. maybe your purpose of learning yur lessons here was over and done. and I must be a weak student..still struggling.
February 27, 2012
February 27, 2012
My heart misses who I used to be ... when you were here.
February 26, 2012
February 26, 2012
your memories let me hold on to things I love, The things that I am made of, and them I never want to lose.
February 26, 2012
February 26, 2012
It hurts that I can forever have you in my heart, But never in my arms.
February 25, 2012
February 25, 2012
Thinking of you always.
God bless you
As long as I live I will look at this world for both of us,
I will pray to the stars for both of us.
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
No more words required now my dear...
Got to listen to the voice within :(
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
..udaas jaate huye dekha maine parindo ko tere shehar se aaj..... shaayad unko bhi teri judai ka gam tha .... meri hee tarah…..
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
Intezaar karti rahi meri aankhen uss ke aane ka___
Ab naa aayega woh,,,,,,,, koi toh samjhao mujhe___
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
वो दिल में हैं..
धड़कन में हैं..
रूह में हैं.....
सिर्फ किस्मत में नहीं हैं तो..
खुदा से गिला कैसा...!!!!
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
You live on through us,
For we remember the smile on your face,
The twinkle in your eyes
Never to be forgotten
always to be cherished
February 23, 2012
February 23, 2012
Abhijeet. beautiful soul...many waters cannot quench love.
              Nor can the floods drown it..
              Because love is stronger
              Than death...
February 22, 2012
February 22, 2012
If tears could build a stairway.... and memories a lane... i would walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.
February 22, 2012
February 22, 2012
I'm angry that God took you from me. I'm angry that my life goes on without you here. I'm angry that I had no chance to tell you how much I love you and beable to say good-bye to you.
February 22, 2012
February 22, 2012
You are my angel,
 My angel watching over me
you will dry my tears
and hold me in tight embrace
and my heart will remember that
You are only a breath away.
February 21, 2012
February 21, 2012
Everything that is beautiful reminds me of you
February 21, 2012
February 21, 2012
you lived, you loved and you are remembered and
missed with every breath
February 21, 2012
February 21, 2012
Death is not the end.
Death can never be the end.
Death is the road.
Life is the traveler.
The Soul is the Guide.
- Sri Chinmoy
February 20, 2012
February 20, 2012
This is darkest of darkness I have ever known. Please be with me tonite my son.
February 20, 2012
February 20, 2012
You're the first thing I think of,
each morning when I rise.
you're the last thing I think of
each night when I close my eyes.

You're in each thought I have
and every breath I take.
my feelings are growing stronger
with every move I make.

I want to prove I love you
but that's the hardest part.
so, I'm giving all I have to give
to you... I give my heart.
February 19, 2012
February 19, 2012
Another day without you,
I wipe away a tear,
It is too much that I can bear.
Have understood the meaning of loneliness,
I pray for strength
 To get me through without you.
February 18, 2012
February 18, 2012
Future seems so strange and scary now. You were always part of what I thought my future would be.. big or small things . All of it seems strange, pointless and meaningless absolutely.
February 18, 2012
February 18, 2012
God please take care of my child, and give my broken heart some peace.
February 17, 2012
February 17, 2012
IS QADAR RANJ TERI JUDAI DEGI
CHAND TAARON MAIN TERI SHAKL DIKHAI DEGI
TU NA HOGA MAGAR, IN RAAHON MAIN, IN GALION MAIN
Ae MUSAFIR TERI AWAAZ SUNAI DEGI!!!
February 17, 2012
February 17, 2012
The only reason why people
hold on to memories is because
memories are the only thing that don't
change when everything else does.
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March 7
March 7
Happy birthday dear Sonny boy . I raise my life energies to salute your joyful spirit. May you be surrounded by love and laughter always
March 6
March 6
Another birthday that we will not share . You live in me and qll your loved ones . 
I have decided to see you as a source of joy for 19 years rather than source of grief . I will always remember you witg a smile on my lips and even if a lump rises in my throat , i will let it pass with no resistance .
God bless you my child , wherever you are .
January 17
January 17
I'll Meet you
On the days I miss you most
I'll close my eyes and sleep.
I'll meet you in my dreams
in a moment we can keep.

I'll meet you with a hug
and with things I want to say.
I'll meet you under the sun
or a different place each day.

I'll meet you by the river
or back at our old home.
And at the times I cannot find you
In my dreams i shall still roam.

I'll meet you in the coffee shop
or at your favourite place.
I don't care just where it is
as long as I see your face.

I'll meet you at a park
so you can watch the children play.
You can take their laughter
back to heaven every day.

I'll meet you on each birthday
we no longer get to share.
I don't care just where it is
but I'll meet you there.

I'll meet you in the sunshine
or in the pouring rain.
I will walk through any storm
just to see you again.

I will meet you in my thoughts
a million times a day,
along with every memory
I am lucky to replay.
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July 28, 2023
There’s an order that life is supposed to follow.

An order of breaths we are supposed to take,
as if we are passing a torch from one generation to the next.

And our torch is supposed to go out before our child’s flame is extinguished.

We are supposed to watch them take their first breath.
But not their last.

We are supposed to hear the thud-thud of their heart when it starts beating.
But never the silence when it stops.

That heart that we once carried inside of us. That breath that we gave them. That life that we kept safe, protected.

So when the order of life is disrupted,
when their torch goes out before yours,
it is as if you too have been robbed of your breath
and as if your heart has stopped beating as well.

There is nothing that can make it less painful.
You would happily blow out your flame if it meant theirs could burn. 

But you can’t. Even though that’s how it should be.

So all you can do is carry them inside you - 
like you did once before. 
Except now they have to stay in your heart forever.

And though it hurts,
just know that they are safe there. 
They are protected.

Because a mother’s love is unending.
Because it burns forever with every breath you take and 
with every beat your heart makes.

Because a mother’s love
is a flame that can 
never
be extinguished.

Beautifully written by Becky Hemsley
September 24, 2021
— You Don’t Just Lose Someone Once —
You lose them over and over, 
sometimes many times a day.
When the loss, momentarily forgotten,
creeps up, 
and attacks you from behind.
Fresh waves of grief as the realisation hits home,
they are gone.
Again.

You don’t just lose someone once, 
you lose them every time you open your eyes to a new dawn,
and as you awaken, 
so does your memory, 
so does the jolting bolt of lightning that rips into your heart,
they are gone.
Again.

Losing someone is a journey,
not a one-off.
There is no end to the loss,
there is only a learned skill on how to stay afloat,
when it washes over.

Be kind to those who are sailing this stormy sea, 
they have a journey ahead of them,
and a daily shock to the system each time they realise,
they are gone,
Again.

You don’t just lose someone once, 
you lose them every day, 

for a lifetime.

August 10, 2021
 I  miss my son today. That goes without saying, I suppose, since I miss him every day. But on this day the pain is particularly sharp, the ache especially deep. I miss my friend, I miss my brother, I miss my protégé. I miss the son of my youth, the delight of my heart. I miss seeing him and hugging him, I miss teaching him and learning from him, I miss the sound of his voice and the cackle of his laugh. I miss having a son at all. I just plain miss my son . 

The time between now and when he went to heaven has passed so quickly, yet so slowly. It often feels like it was just yesterday that we received the phone call, just yesterday that we endured the cremation , just yesterday that we watched your body being claimed by orange yellow flames and the  pervasive smell of death.
 But at the same time it feels like it was a lifetime ago. We were different people back then, a different family with different desires, different assumptions, a different understanding of life and death and the God .
And just as the time between now and when my Son went to heaven has passed both quickly and slowly, I expect that the time between now and when I go to heaven will pass both quickly and slowly. This life is a dash, a blip, a vapor, yet just as truly a slog, a marathon, a long and wearying pilgrimage. I have often observed that while the brevity of life is best seen in retrospect, it’s the slowness of life that tends to be felt in the moment. It may be brief as we look back on it, but it’s long as we live it.
And it feels long today. It looks long today. It looks long as I gaze into the future and see a road laid out before me that may well lead through months, years, decades. It looks longer still as I consider the heavy burden of grief God has called me to bear. I am confident I can carry a great weight for a short distance, but far less confident that I can carry it for many miles or many years. I just don’t know how I will bear up under this sorrow if I have to carry it all the way to the end.
And just so, while God has called me to bear my grief for a lifetime, and to do so faithfully, he has not called me to bear the entire weight of it all at once. The burden of a whole lifetime’s grief would be far too heavy to bear and the challenge far too daunting to consider. But the God who knows my frailty has broken that assignment into little parts, little days, and has promised grace sufficient for each one of them. My challenge for today is not to bear the grief of a lifetime but only to carry today’s grief  that he has spread out before me.My  God-given task began this morning and extends only until tonight. Then, when I awaken with the dawning of a new day, I will awaken to new blessings, new strength, and new grace that will allow me to be strong  through that day as well. 

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