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Aunt Adele

May 7, 2012

Living across the country, my family didn't see our west coast relatives very often. But there was something about Aunt Adele... as with Alicia, whenever I think of her I smile.  I have such a vivid childhood memory of being picked up at the airport in L.A. by Uncle Jack and Aunt Adele. Who knows how old my sister and I were; I truly have no idea, and honestly, I don't even quite remember much of the trip. What I DO remember is being on an airplane for a long time, walking a lot, and then being greeted by this enthusiastic  wonderful woman carrying a full 2-liter bottle of ginger ale and plastic cups. Two whole LITERS. And cups! Not some dinky cans and a couple of straws, no sir.

Clearly, Adele's capacity for nurturing others was not a small scale affair. We camped out with her and sipped our glamorously refreshing beverages outside in the sunshine while others claimed luggage, got the car, et cetera.

Some kernel of that moment has always been with me, a little seed planted in my mind and heart. Now a mom and auntie myself, I strive to be thoughtful enough to always pack that 2-liter bottle, both literally and metaphorically- to have something ready in my purse or up my sleeve, no matter how seemingly simple, that would make another person's experience just a little sweeter.  

Funny thing, you just never know what life lessons someone else is learning from you at any given moment, when you are just being who you are...

Thank you, Aunt Adele!

Growing up with Delly

April 18, 2012
11 Precious And Few
Often when I think about my childhood, one of the key people that shaped my life is Delly. The name Delly is an endearing name.  I was the one who named her, “DELLY” almost 50 years ago. My family never used the formalily “Aunt”.  My mother was Pesh, Pearly or Peshy.  Maybe because the Ziff Aunts were more then an aunt.  They were our friend, confidant, second mother and biggest fan. As a young pisser, I will always remember our Chinese food dinners, cornbeef sandwiches, ginger ale, B movies in bed, and Catskill vacations.  I looked forward to Delly’s visits in NJ and sleepovers in Brooklyn.  She bought me my favorite doll, Peggy.  A black doll in the late sixty’s. She was progressive, a women a head of her time. As an adult, we had adventures together in California, which always kept us laughing.  The San Bernadino Mountains, Alicia’s thanksgiving and Fat burgers to name a few.  Delly was always prepared for my LA visits, lox in the frig and a warm Flannel nightgown. I will always keep her memory in my heart.  Our special relationship is very important to me.  It has made me into the Aunt and mother I am today.  I miss you and love you always.   Sheshy

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