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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Admiral Joe Aikhomu, 65 years old, born on July 31, 1955, and passed away on February 25, 2021. We will remember, love and miss him forever.

March 5, 2021
March 5, 2021
 The Admiral! My jovial way of calling him. His death not only alarmed but saddened me. Whatever the Admiral lacked in personality, the Lord compensated him with it in liveliness and generosity. In all the years I knew him in the NN, I couldn't remember not smiling or laughing away whenever we talked.
 The last time I saw him was at a lavish wedding in Landmark V/Island where he introduced a daughter of his to me. I distinctly remembered, he said, he looks forward to her marriage. I couldn't imagine that he wouldn't be there whenever that happens.
 I pray that his desire would be granted by God whenever the weddings of his children would be.
 May the Lord continue to bless and console all the family members he left behind. May He raise for them a better version of the Admiral as well. Amen.
 Adieu, the Admiral!
    
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
Our Beloved Uncle J1 was truly a gift to all those he encountered. He cared deeply about everyone, young and old irrespective of status. He always gave a gift and just wanted everyone to feel special. Our entire family is still lost for words. Moyin says "Mum is this what grief feels like? you mean I wont see him again?" Yes our 11 year old son had a relationship with him, he had an uncanny ability to relate across all spheres. 

Michael and I are still shocked that we will not have him around again saying "come out here when last did you see me?" . His Memory is blessed and we know that Omo, Mama and Ehis will find favour all their days because their Dad -Uncle J1 sowed seeds of love to all that he came across. He will be sorely missed.

Love Adetola & Michael Owolabi
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
Good night Uncle Joe...the only man that calls me "J1" or "Jim of the universe".

I can testify that Uncle Joe was a man with a hurrying feet in grace, a loving heart in sympathy, a listening ear in attention, a graceful lips in gratitude and a watchful eye in outlook. He usually finds wisdom to turn his personal pains into learning experiences. He was love; personified, laughter; excited and humility; manifested. I was more impacted by his behaviour than his beliefs.

The passing unto glory of Uncle Joe is a quiet reminder to the rest of us that we are on earth to work towards achieving eternal life and not to seek to become the Eternity.

I am however consoled that Uncle Joe slept in the Lord. We shall see him again on the resurrection morning at the bosom of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.

May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace and may his memory continually be a blessing.
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
With gratitude to God Almighty for a life well spent, I write to express the shock I felt upon hearing the news of your demise.

Director REAR ADMIRAL JOE AIKHOMU (RTD), your transition reminds us of the timeless injunction of the Holy Bible that “….A good name is better than precious ointment, and the day of death than the day of birth….” What remains after our departure from this mortal world, are the impacts we made in our communities and the lives we touched.

REAR ADMIRAL JOE AIKHOMU was humble, God fearing, humane and a peace maker to the core. He was a father indeed and an inspiration to many in Nigeria and the World at Large.

To your family and relatives, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family at this time and may your beautiful memories provide some comfort and the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable loss.

I commiserate with your entire family and pray the good lord grant you eternal rest.
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
Indeed, a great human being has bowed out of the scene. He will be greatly missed. I will miss him very much. He was a leader I accepted consciously. He called me ENC 1 and when I refused to share that appalage with him because he was too much of a giant for me to rob shoulders with him, he humorously agreed to designate me ENC 1A! And so I remained till date. Adios! Great Soul. You lived the life of a giant because you were a giant.
Rear Admiral OC Medani (rtd) (ENC 1A)
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Am still in shock and disbelief that my bro (JA-1) is gone. Gone too soon because of the Covid19 virus that’s looming around. This is too unreal. But again that is reality everyone will have to deal with if the inevitable calls. Rear Admiral Joe Aikhomu was a key participant in a recently celebrated birthday of our mutual partner and brother on a “ZOOM” call party back in Jan of 2021. I didn’t know that would be my last visual of my brother Joe. He didn’t ask to be infected. The Joe I know loved life and people to the fullest. He would have wished to live over 100 yrs sharing his love, fun and laughters with all.

Only God knows best. We cannot question God. I pray blessings and favors for the children and family he left behind and may God grant them the fortitude to bear this very irreparable loss. Rest In Peace ☮️ with the Lord Rear Admiral Joe (JA-1).
From P-1
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
I'm lost for words. I have do much to write but don't know how I can write my tribute. One thing I am grateful for was having met you in life through your adorable sister Tessy, 32 years ago.
You were a very considerate human being, open-minded and very jovial and even accepted me as one of your own younger sibling because of my relationship with Tessy for which I was grateful.
Rest in peace Uncle Joe.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
AN EXQUISITE ADMIRABLE AND FINEST OFFICER OF THE FLAG RANK JUST SET SAIL FOR HEAVENLY ABODE

Your demise is a great lost to humanity. You are one of the most exquisite officer of Flag rank I came across in the Nigerian Navy. An admirable socialite and one of the finest Catholic faithful. A champion of peace in and out of uniform that made friends across tribes and colours. The OMS, Nigerian Navy, Nigeria and the world will miss you. Good night the Admiral. May your gentle soul find a resting place in the bosom of our LORD JESUS CHRIST. Rest on sir, until we meet on the resurrection day.

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March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021

Am deeply shocked to hear of the death of our highly respected, chief, The Aigbokalo of Esan, Rear Admiral Joseph Aikhomu ( Retired). My own brother I so admire and respect is gone. A great son, father and Chief of Esanland. An approachable and problem solving brother. He loved all human being that came across him in life. Indeed Esan people and the nation has lost a great man. Adieu my brother and may your soul rest in peace, till we meet again at the resurrection day.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Oyeka my landlord for two years introduced me to Admiral Joe in street 8, and Admiral received me smiling and was and always a good host I always enjoy his company and we do meet often at the airport always willing to help and I was rudely shocked when I saw the news of Admiral transition. Life is a vapor it only stay for awhile. Rest In Peace Admiral.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Uncle Joe,
We are deeply heartbroken but consoled that you are now resting with the Lord.
You were a father to many of us and your mark indelible in our lives. You were truly a fine gentleman, full of knowledge and laughter as you always found humor in most things. Your kindness, generosity of spirit and humility will live in my memory forever.
May our Lord comfort and sustain your family now and always. May God Almighty grant you eternal rest in perfect peace till resurrection day, Amen.!!!
ADIEU UNCLE JOE!!
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Dear Joe, you cannot even imagine the pain I felt when I knew you passed away. We were used to call each other "brother", and I know that this is a common expression used among friends, but we were brothers for real. You met my big family in Italy and immediately you became one of us. I will never forget you. May your soul rest in peace. Ciao Joe. A big kiss.
Paolo Marco Felli
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
God is the answer to everything and He is for ever with you Sir. The family and the entire nation is morning the great man and onld will answering our heavy heart. We love you and we will continue to love you. Our prayers are with the family during this trying time. May his soul rest in peace. Tsamaya sentle. Tsela tshweu .from South Africa
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
May the soul of Admiral Joe Aikhomu and the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace, Amen.
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him, Amen.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
Only "Goodnight", Uncle Joe not "Farewell!"
A little while, and all His saints shall dwell
In hallowed union, indivisible -
Goodnight! Goodnight!!

You made everyone around you very comfortable by your very accommodative disposition.

We may be pained by your transition but are comforted by the great and wonderful memories of your kindness.

Good night Uncle Joe


March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
The world has lost a great man, Nigeria has a lost great son, Nigerians have lost a great father, and I have lost my dearest friend. Being friends with Joe Aikhomu was one of the happiest things in my life, We all thank him for the joy he brought to the lives of everyone he met, and I must thank him for the friendship and love he showed to my family and I. It will be a source of encouragement each and everyday of our lives.

Joe was the ultimate older brother, even to those of us who were older than him, age was of no consequence. He was always kind, generous, joyful and supportive to everyone he met. Time spent with him was always full of happiness and laughter, it saddens me that this time has come to an end, but I will be forever grateful for the good times we had together. Rest in peace my dear friend, till we meet again.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
Uncle Joe ,
I was opportune to meet you for the first and last time in January 2021 in your house.
You left a huge impression on me as the perfect host who had no qualms about age nor class but was deliberate about details .
Our God is sovereign.
Sail on into the sunset Admiral
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
UNCLE JOE!!
How did this happen! Somethings we take for granted, Uncle J will always be around abi! Not so, The mightier one than thee will always keep his appointment.
Uncle Joe , you had a happy mien that translated to all. You made us feel amongst and included to be you and yours. You were the jolly good Brother Joe!!

May you rest well in the bosom of the Lord that has demanded your presence.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
They say, death is a necessary end, which will come when it will come. For Joe, my brother of inestimable value, it came much too soon and in this instance, it was most unnecessary.
In Shakespeare's thinking, we are all actors, who strut and fret while on life's stage, take our exit and be heard no more. However, Joe's legacy as a builder of men, great father, trusted friend, a provider of leadership with a human face, will make forgetting him impossible. He'll be in the hearts and lips of Nigerians for generations to come, especially those who were fortunate to have experienced his goodness. He was open hearted, humane and giving.
For a man who has had to deal with the deaths of very close, loved ones, Joe's passing has wounded my heart. Healing will take a while.
To his children and family, may God grant you the courage and fortitude to bear his irreparable loss.
To my dear brother Joe, who gave without expecting anything in return, rest well until we meet again on the resurrection morning. Okinbue omhoe. Osenobula rhi egbe nho fure nhien bhi agba okhun . Ise.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
Rear Admiral Joe Aikhomu was an accomplished sailor, a brother and a profound humanist. You cannot encounter Joe without going away with positive and amazing impressions; His love and care for humanity was infectious.
He was a proud Esan man, an avowed philanthropist, and the Aigbokalo of Esan land.
As a socialite, Joe was an exemplar and treated all that came his way with love and empathy. Indeed, he was an inspiration to many.
Now that he has gone the way of all mortars, it is my fervent prayer that God should grant him merciful judgment and let perpetual light shine upon him,
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
An officer and gentleman. You are greatly missed. St Columbas/Gbenoba Grammar School lost a rare germ.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
Our very own Uncle Joe it’s so difficult to believe your gone it’s like a dream to a lot of us you showed us so much love taught us how boys turned to men . Always happy and accommodating . May your soul Rest In Peace
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
My own very dear Admiral, words fail me. But I am consoled by the simplicity of the exemplary life that you lived. You taught us, younger ones, to love everyone we meet irrespective of tribe, tongue or faith. I never heard you speak ill of anyone. God's speed to an eternal rest. May God give your family and all the loved ones you have left behind the fortitude to bear your departure. Rest in glorious peace, Uncle Joe....
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
Jay 1, I am still in a state of shock & hoping the news will turn out to be untrue. I saw a father who doted over his children like a mother hen. I observed a friend who sticks closer than a brother. I saw a colleague who took up your challenges as his own. O God how does one explain the death of such a good man? How? How?? How??? My dear friend you lived for all & died a fulfilled man. May God repose his soul & grant the countless loved ones he left behind the fortitude to bear this painful & irreparable loss. Amen
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
A great man, A true Father and a mentor to a lot of people. He was the true definition of ‘Love’. He loved everyone regardless of who you were or where you're from. ‘A father to All’ !

From afar you could see and feel that the love he had for his children was pure and genuine. It reminded me so many times of what the bible expects from parents which is ‘Love the children God has placed in your care.

He was a very happy soul, he wanted everyone around him to share out of that happiness. He was a great man not just to his family and friends but his country which he served.

This alone is enough comfort that God has accepted him into his kingdom and that gives everyone of us rest. It hurts that such an amazing man with a positive and welcoming aura is no more, but I pray his family takes comfort knowing how too good he was that his Maker needed him home.

May God comfort his beautiful family and give them the strength to go on living on all the memories they shared with him and knowing that he’s at peace with his Maker.

Rest well Sir
With Love ❤️
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
A True Father and Leader. I admired him so much. From afar, I saw what it was to be a present Father. I saw a Man who would do any and everything for his Children. He extended that love to his Children’s friends, his community etc. He was a Jolly Good Fellow. He lived a good life and made sure he enjoyed his Life. It truly sucks that he is no more. I know his Name and Good deeds would linger on for a whileeeee. I pray that God grants the Family all the strength and comfort to go through this. It’s hard. But, we thank God for blessing us with someone like him. I pray the memories are comforting enough for the family. May his amazing soul Rest in Perfect Peace. We Love You, Sir ❤️
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Jay One,
I still speak of you in the present tense & I find it so difficult to believe that your ebullience is gone forever. I still hope against hope that you will somehow someday put that call through so I can hear your warm & boisterous voice. Each year since you departed I feel this emptiness towards the end of February. O my friend you are sorely missed by all who knew you. Continue to Rest in Peace my friend & brother
July 31, 2023
July 31, 2023
A foremost leader of men. Kind to a fault. He somehow found time for every one. Adios ENC 1. May the good Lord continue to grant your kind and gentle soul eternal peace because you lived a life that was full of generosity, love for you fellow human being and extreme concern for their happiness. Medani.
February 25, 2023
February 25, 2023
Jay 1,
I am still speechless. I am still confused. I am still living in denial. I am still hoping to wake up from the dream. Alas!!!
You were the most jovial & accommodating soul I ever met. Never holding a grudge; never having ill feelings towards anybody. You were an embodiment of fun, laughter, love & goodwill.
No matter what burden I brought to you, I left relieved & in laughter. I miss you my very dear buddy. I really & truly miss your rib cracking jokes. I miss your unique dance steps. I miss your happy go lucky lifestyle. I miss your incomparable generosity. I can go on & on!
You were like a shooting star who lit up the firmament & fizzled out whilst we were still enjoying the trajectory of the bright light you brought.
Sleep well my bosom friend! Adieu!!Rest in Peace!!!
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An Angel Among Us

March 15, 2021

"The worst Solitude is to be destitute of sincere friendship"
                - Sir Francis Bacon


The passing to the great beyond of this truly great man, a mentor, a friend, a teacher and confidant is beyond the capacity of ordinary humans to comprehend. Having faith that the almighty called him home for greater service, his sojourn here completed soothes the pain and void.

"My Admiral" as I fondly called him defined what true friendship ought to be. He was an angel walking among us even if we did not know it. His unfailing delivery of daily devotionals first thing in the morning followed usually by a text or a phone call, sharing his wisdom and wit will be greatly missed.

The love and devotion to his family was self-evident. He was immensely proud of his children and the wonderful, confident yet humble adults they became. He celebrated each milestone and accomplishment with such pride, I know he is at peace knowing he guided them to a place of clarity and fearlessness for what the future may bring.

I had the honor and privilege of being an advisor particularly on matters related to his well being. His humility and deference to the wisdom of others despite his deep knowledge and status is instructive. 

The near endless magnanimity to all who come in to his orbit is legendary. My fondest memories are the prayers and messages of goodwill that he and my dear departed mother sent through me to each other - even though they never met. It was especially painful that I lost both of them within days of each other, but I am uplifted by the brilliance of the joy they shared and will celebrate their memories.

I hope the Almighty assists us all in carrying forward the message, wisdom, wit, knowledge, deep faith and philanthropy as he did. His memory will live forever in the hearts of all that were fortunate to have crossed paths with him.

My Admiral...Sun 're o. 


THE GENEROUS ADMIRAL

March 5, 2021
  I had gone NNS QUORRA while the Admiral was a Captain and the CO of the Ship. He saw me through his office window walking towards the classroom block. He called me to his office and showed suprise that I would passby without stopping to see him. I excused myself that I would have done so after completing what I came for. 
  He was having photoshot in his of. He insisted that I should have a shot. I told him that I wouldn't look good since I wasn't prepared. He asked the photographer and his team if it won't be an honour for them to take such a beautiful officer. The answer was, chorus Yes.
  After the pictures were taken. The CO realised that I had no watch on, he took off his own wristwatch and put it on my wrist. He asked for the pictures to be taken again. By now everyone was laughing and I that was reluctant to take pictures was now posing. 
  By the end of the exercise, he asked me to go with his watch but I said no and had to explained to him that I took off my watch in my office to washed my hands; and didn't remember to wear it before leaving my office in NNS OLOKUN(BEECROFT).
  That's how generous the Admiral could be.


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