AGNES TINUOLA IFATUROTI : A TRIBUTE OF THE IFATUROTI FAMILY

——-at the Service of Songs hosted by Fadeke and Rotimi on May 26 2023 in the Chapel at The University of Maryland, College Park, MD USA.



Good evening  Ladies and Gentlemen.

My name is Olufemi Ifaturoti. I am honored to have been called upon to say  a few  words about the life and times of the late Mrs Agnes Tinuola Ifaturoti from the perspective of the Ifaturoti family of Ijesaland.
Believe me or not, it is not a task I would have wished for, for fear of betraying emotions  here in public, that could be generated from reminiscences of my personal relationship with her. Yet the lot has fallen on me as the eldest Ifaturoti living here in North America.Trust me, it would have been my wish to sit down comfortably as you all, and listen to another person do justice to the subject matter.
Consequently, if you should find me going outside my brief to dwell on my personal interactions with her during her lifetime, I ask for your forgiveness .

The Chroniclers have it that MOMMI, as we all fondly  called my departed Aunt Mrs. Agnes Tinuola ifaturoti came into our noble  family formally and officially on August 23 1954  with the celebration of her holy matrimony to my my late Uncle Ezekiel Adekunle Ifaturoti , an Ijesa Prince and illustrious Nigerian.
I particularly recall  the 60s Lagos, Nigeria, and both our nuclear families frequently exchanged visits and boat picnics. As a matter of fact, my own most memorable moments with her and her children my cousins Gbola, Debisi, and Fadeke, (the ‘first three’ Kike, Toun and Sinmi were late arrivals),  when I had to be dropped every Friday morning at their home so DADDI would coach Debisi and I in preparation for the Common Entrance examinations into Government secondary schools. Needless to say, beyond the academics, I so much relished the company, fun and games I shared with my cousins. Mommy  pampered me so profoundly that I sometimes felt a slight reluctance whenever I heard the sound of my father’s car outside in the driveway on Sunday afternoon arriving to pick me up back home.  
More importantly was my discovery that their home was where I met several previously unknown distant relatives  who had journeyed all the way from our hometown Ilesa to visit and to  seek some form of help, favor, solution or the other. Some of them I was delighted to get to know and cherish from then on, and others I never saw again till this day. The point here is that at all times, DADDI  as the family patriarch, ( and by extension, MOMMI ) threw the doors of their home open so wide to all shades of persons, whether related to us or not.
When in mid 1968 it had become imminent that DADDI was going to retire  from public service and settle in the hometown, not a few of us pondered upon how MOMMI and, indeed the family were going to cope with the transition from the comfort of 38 Queens Drive Ikoyi, Lagos to the then rural Ilesa!. However, those who entertained concerns over this impending move, predicated upon MOMMI’s Elba ancestry were in for a shock! For indeed, she quickly settled down to life amongst the ‘locales’ by immediately enrolling as a schoolteacher at Methodist High School Ilesa on the first working day in January 1969 where she would later remain in diligent teaching service for the next TEN years until her retirement in 1979. Quite  remarkably, in those ten years she had become fully entrenched in life as not just an Ijesa wife, but actually an IJESA WOMAN!  I am not sure whether she eventually got to speak the language with the proficiency and fluency one would expect of an indigene, but she certainly understood the Ijesa fully well and I had seen her express it, even if jocularly, a number of times., ( with her trade mark Egba intonation of course) .
MOMMI later became a reference point on integration. So deep was she into our(her) people that she was:
-Member, YWCA Ilesa Branch
-Member, Ilesa Marriage Council
-Member, Juvenile Court Panel for 6 years ( 1977-1983)
-Matron of 3 Associations at Otapete Methodist Church  ,
-and so on…
MOMMI loved her late husband unconditionally and with profound fervor, and at the same time enjoyed excellent relationships with members of the Ifaturoti family far and near . It is a notorious fact that the expression; “extended family “ did not exist in the dictionary of my late Uncle who treated all our relations if they were all one single nuclear family. He was a notable unifying factor. MOMMI imbibed this attribute so tremendously that 14 years after her husband ’s departure she  continued in those acts of caring and compassion which in turn have not only endeared them to her, but also invoked their sense of gratitude.

Dear MOMMI, I have the mandate of the entire Ifaturotis , “n’ile ati l’oko”, to thank you for allowing us to know you and love you during your sojourn on this earth. You were indeed a blessing thus, even as we hope that we had been a blessing to you also .
Now as you embark upon this final journey, may your path be smooth and your journey seamless. May the Angels welcome you with garlands at the pearly gateway of Heaven.

Bye for now!

Olufemi A. Ifaturoti Sr
Gaithersburg,MD.
USA

Mommi's passing caught us all completely unawares. Here we were on March 25 celebrating my own Mum's 91st birth anniversary virtually on ZOOM. Nothing prepared us for that phone call morning of the next day intimating me that Mommi had left us.
Having now recovered from the initial shock, I can now boldly say that hers indeed was a very fulfilling life, and that rather than fall into a despair, we all should actually be grateful to God and celebrate her life and times. For after all said and done, God graciously granted her longevity.
Mommi was a unique individual in so many ways. She had many personal attributes; she was very kind and compassionate. So full of wit also . She was also an incurable optimist who accepted no limits to her goals and went all out to achieve them, always seeking knowledge and even going back to school at a mature age to pick up new professional and intellectual acuity Perhaps the most critical attribute of hers was COURAGE. At notable moments in her life when she encountered trials and adversities, she faced them with uncommon courage and emerged stronger and victorious. It takes courage for any individual in their sixties to fall into a deep well and never give up on the possibility of survival. Even when in later years when health issues showed up ( as indeed they must for all living mortals), she faced hers with uncanny positivity and calmness till she eventually overcome them. Thus Mommi has left us with profound life's lessons that we all need to emulate as we advance in years.
Now it is time for us to bid her farewell. May memories of her life and times be a blessing to us and may the Angels receive her at Heaven's gateway with garlands.
AMEN!

My first memories of Aunty Tinu were when my parents visited with Aunty and Uncle Kunle at their Rockhaven home during our trips to Ilesha in the mid 1970s.

I got to know Aunty better when they opened their home to me in the summer of 1979 when I did a summer internship in Ilesha. It was then I truly discovered what a wonderful couple the Ifaturotis were.  They were very hospitable, humble, down to earth, and transparent. 

Aunty Tinu was especially very kind, gentle, and generous, and I felt completely at home during my stay. I also admired the mutual love and respect Aunty and her children had for each other, and how she interacted with them, at their different stages in life.

Aunty, we are thankful for your life and the wonderful legacy you left behind. May God comfort the Family at this time, and may your sweet gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Tributes by some Methodist High School old students:


When we interact with children and teenagers, we actually leave unforgettable impressions on them and impact them either positively or negatively.We the members of Old Students Association Methodist High School Ilesa were privileged to be taught English Language, English Literature and Geography by our beloved Mama Ifaturoti. It was a great privilege because Mama left good impression on us all and impacted us with her hardwork, sense of commitment, disciplined life, gentleness that never overlooked bad habits, maturity as well as her lovely dress sense.
It was always nice to hear her beautiful voice when we called to make her happy on her birthday. We would have loved to celebrate her, especially at our next school's anniversary, but alas, our lovely Mama has passed unto glory.

In the past few days, our classmates have written great texts eulogising Mama, and it is worthy of note that everyone has remembered her influence on all with nostalgia and deep appreciation.
On behalf of all old students, Methodist High school Ilesa.
Dr Elizabeth Olaniyan.


Those of us in school business know that teachers that are selfless,loving and hardworking like mama are very scarce these days.
The name,Mama Faturoti will always be in our hearts forever.
Rest on in the bossom of your Lord sweet Mama - Rebecca Ajewole


Mama ifaturoti l could remember very calm and gentle mum during her teaching time. Adieu mama. May ur gentle soul rest ln peace. Amen- Iyabo Odunewu

Mama Ifaturoti was an epitome of tenderness, care and wisdom. She dealt with us not only as a seasoned teacher but also as a mother. Even the most troublesome ones in Class 1B saw it as a taboo to misbehave during her English lessons. My late father as Principal of Ilesa Grammar School in the late 80s went to see baba Ifaturoti who was Chairman Board of Governors but baba was not home and he decided to wait for him. Whilst waiting for baba he was chatting with mama Ifaturoti and she asked him if he had a son called Taiwo. Of course my father answered in the affirmative and he told me later. I was so shocked that mama Ifaturoti could remember me after almost 10 years of leaving MHSI which must have been at least 12 or 13 years of her retirement. What an amazing woman. I doubt very much if anyone would have a bad word to say about mama Ifaturoti. What a legacy she left behind not only for her biological children but every student that passed through her at MHSI. May her gentle soul continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Taiwo Oni

I can recall vividly that I first learnt of Daylight saving time in Europe and particularly UK from her, especially how it would be dark as early as four or five p.m. in the day as well the seasons, spring, summer, autumn (refered to as fall in the US) and winter. 
Olaitan Akinola

Mama Ifaturoti as we used to call you.You were a teacher of teachers. A Great leader that built leaders.

Our hearts are broken, we will miss your kindness, your words of inspiration, your way of disciplining students but without the use of cane.

For many of us, set '80' of OSAMETHSI you will forever hold a special place in our hearts. You were a candle that lit a lot of candles. You are one of those Great Tutors that made us who we are today. We shall forever be grateful.

Mama Ifaturoti, you may no longer be here with us, but we will never forget you as our Great mentor.

May the Almighty God, the Great Comforter console and comfort the entire family you left behind.

Rest on mama.
- Temowo Oladapo

Mama Faturoti, the teacher of teachers, whose techniques and the rudiments of imparting knowledge were on her finger- tips and unequaled.
Mama achieved a lot without the use of cane or cohesion as a teacher, Mama, was always punctual in school and she never missed her classes.
With Mama Faturoti as the Literature in English teacher, even science based students without doubt adopted the literary studies, and were encouraged to read literature books which would eventually increase their English vocabulary.

Her subtle way and style of teaching was second to none, she laid a solid foundation for many of us who had the privilege of passing through her classes in Methodist High School, Ilesa. That was at a time we never knew we could be what we are today.
Mama used to be calm, composed and always had words of encouragement for her students stating no one was born to fail.
Mama had left her foot-marks on the sand of history and will always be remembered by all OSAMETHSI members who were taught by her..
Good night Mama.
May her soul be admitted into eternity.
God will uphold the Family she left behind.
Adieu Mama Faturoti.
Rotimi Agunlejika

So conscious of good look. She was well groomed even at her advanced age.
Fadeke Babalola

Eni rere lo!
The Lord comfort her family and preserve all that she left behind. Adieu Mama

Can’t forget the good impression and godly discipline she instilled in her children - the way she openly rebuked her son for coming to see her in school dressed in a way she didn’t like! - Segun Awodiya

Waooo. Good woman
.- Taiwo Olutimilehin

Oh
May her soul rest in peace
A life well spent 
- Biodun Famakinwa

5 Tributes by each of us in Bayo and Toun Fadugba family:

1.Tribute by Toun Fadugba
Phenomenal Mom
This is a tribute to my phenomenal mother. Mommie, since your passing on I haven’t been the same. The feelings and emotions can’t be easily explained. I feel so sad that you are now absent from us and at the same time feel much gratitude to God for the great, long and inspirational life He gave you. I feel an obligation to push aside my mourning so I can showcase your beautiful life to the world, and let your light shine unto many hearts and lives.

As Proverbs 4:18 says “But the path of the just is like the shining sun,
That shines ever brighter unto the perfect day”, March 25 was Mummy’s perfect day. She had fought a good fight, she had left an indelible positive mark on earth, her light was at the brightest and God took her away peacefully while seated on her favorite couch.
Mommie had a great life, she served the Lord how best she knew, had a loving husband for 54 years, had wonderful children who she raised exceptionally well and who took care of her in old age. She kept loyal longtime friends that surrounded her till the end. Mommie had the opportunity to impact lives through her many years of career as a teacher and proprietress of her nursery and primary school.
She travelled to all continents of the earth with her darling husband! However she also faced many challenges and had near-death experiences severally. She was soft and gentle on the outside but highly intelligent, strong and mighty on the inside. By the grace of God which was obvious in her life, she overcame all challenges! With each victory, her light kept shining brighter and farther until her final home call.
Because of the limited space here, I am unable to write all I would have loved to about Mommie. I thank God for the opportunity we had to celebrate her life in our church in Houston. Please click the link below to watch the service and get to know a little more about how phenomenal my Mom was!
https://www.youtube.com/live/55TFbYRr61A?feature=share
Thank you and all glory to God!

2.Tribute By Bayo Fadugba
GOD’S ANGEL….MUMMEE!!
Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 GNT
“Everything that happens in this world happens at the time God chooses. He sets the time for birth and the time for death…”
MUMMEE was Gods angel …
Her season was set by God and only God determined her sunset on earth to join the chorus of saints triumphant in heaven
MUMMEE was Gods angel …
Everything life threw at her, that crushed others, she overcame. The good , the bad and the ugly experiences were all turned to stepping stones for greatness
MUMMEE was Gods angel …
Gentle and impactful
Calm and firm
Quiet and strong
Simple and beautiful
Organized and structured
Soft spoken and focused
Determined and resolute
Classy but never condescending
MUMMEE was truly Gods angel …
Outlaws and Inlaw’s dined like family at the famous Rock Haven “Resort” dining table where the high and mighty were treated alike with love and received with care
Mummee, we thank God for giving us a priceless treasure in you
May God help us all to keep alive your memories forever
May your memories continue to propel people to greatness and restrain from all forms of evil

Faith is what is hoped for, things we cannot see, 
Heaven is promised to all of us if we believe In Jesus Christ , we believe, so for us it’s not good bye mummee, it’s goodnight our Angel.
Selah!!!”

3.Tribute by Tolu Fadugba
Grandma
Your love and wisdom shows every day through my mom.
For the apple doesn’t fall far from the Tree.
Your love and wisdom will live forever.
Rest in Peace.

4.Tribute by Tomi Fadugba
Grandma,
Your smile and loving energy always filled every room you were present. I loved every moment we spent together. Thank you for your constant support despite often being so many miles apart. May your legacy live on. Rest in peace Grandma

5.Tribute by Timi Fadugba
Grandma, I’m so thankful and proud to be descended from someone so full of knowledge, love, strength, openness and care. Though I’ve spent much of my life miles away, I always felt love and connection to rock haven and the joy I would feel being there with you and Grandpa. The great conversations over tea and a treating myself to the cookie jar far too many times. I admire your ability to change with the world around you but still hold tight to your values and the things that were most important you. I admire your care for your family and your community at large. I’ve never had a birthday go by without a loving message from you and I sure will miss that going forward. Thank you so much for the joy, wisdom, comfort, laughs and knowledge you brought to this world that has touched multiple generations and will continue to live on.

From the Onyedim’s family in Jos

Adieu ‘Mommie’ Ifaturoti! You have run a good race on earth and you have gone to take your place in the eternal home, in the company of all the saints who have gone before. A multitude of voices have testified to your love of God and neighbour, exemplified in your service to God and in your kindness, your love and goodwill, towards the lives you touched. We join them all in honouring you. The memory of the relationship between our families which goes back many decades is irreplaceable. You are gone but your legacy will live on. Rest in perfect peace 'Mommie' until the trumpet sounds and all the saints raised, incorruptible, forever, Amen.

Dearest Momii.
God touched you and you slept. You were an angel on earth.. Your smile and warmth was next to none. You were extremely accommodating. I remember when you asked me to be your friend on Facebook, I asked who was Tinuola Ifaturoti and you asked me to guess. I chuckled and said “Momiii”. 

You were so calm and did not want too much fuss around you. You would call Nike and I “shunt” and we would say no o. But you insisted on that pet name.

We will all miss you. Rock Haven will miss you. But you are now with Daddi. To Have and Too Hold.  Rest in Peace

Eulogy to Mrs. Agnes Tinuola Ifaturoti
(nee Majekodunmi)

It is with gratitude to God for a life well spent that we eulogize our Sister and Mother, Mrs. Agnes Tinuola Ifaturoti (nee Majekodunmi) on her transition.
In my early years I saw my sister as a peace loving and gentle soul. And in my adulthood I came to understand the quietness as a forte of strength and character in accomplishing great goals. She would stand her ground, in the seemingly passive defence of her children, friends and neighbors. She was fearless, bold, courageous and undaunted by whatever storms were roaring around her.
She was enterprising, inventive and inspirational, and was able to guide her children to great accomplishments.
Mama was a great family woman and a loyal and supportive wife.
She was a true Christian believer and devoted to the things of God. Her life was inspirational to many and her resilience a worthy and exemplary character to emulate.
We bid you farewell great mother as you rest after a well spent and victorious life. We also thank God for the legacy you have left in your children.
May your gentle soul rest in peace.
Chief Dr. & Dr. Mrs. Femi Majekodunmi

Dearest Mommy will be forever missed. A big sister to my late mother (Moni Omole). She was a great pillar of love and support from my childhood to adulthood. It’s in her home I saw public display of affection as a 5 year old girl. She came to visit my mum and I in Abuja. I appreciate the visit. Mommy was very kind. When I had issues in school mommy and daddy organized a private tutor for me. This kindness I don’t take for granted.
I pray that God grants mommy eternal red.

Rest in peace mama, I didn't know that you would fly away just like that. May the Almighty God grant you eternal rest.

Dearest Momi, not too long ago I wrote a congratulatory message on the occasion of your Diamond Emerald Birthday (90th). We bless God for your life well lived. Parts of this message will remain the same as it really rings true of all I feel. God has been good. I give ALL the glory to God for your life. I find myself pondering on your life while moving through my regular daily tasks. I ponder on the pedigree yourself and Daddy carved for your family. I ponder on your teachings, advise and guidance which molded us all. I ponder on how much I miss you. You were traditional in all ramifications yet changing and adapting to each decade and season of your life. I keep trying to imagine how life was in 1932-1942 and how you viewed the world in 2023. Still being so involved and in touch with us all. Wow! Thank you for being an awesome Grandma to me, and giving me the best mother in the world. Your presence is always full of strength, love, hospitality, and laughter. Growing up... we used to cry, so our mum could bring us over to Ilesa. Knowing fully well that the love and hospitality would be over 100%. Momi would ensure we lacked nothing; stocking the house with all the things she knew we liked (mine was bread and cereal lolll). From childhood, I knew and learned discipline from you. You taught us routine... wake up early...chores...boil water... bath... show up dressed at the table...set the dining table for breakfast....eat...clear up... do the dishes...All of this while having fun. You showed us from very young the meaning of being enterprising. Taking us along to feed the chickens you had at the back. Touring your school, and showing us the work being done. Reiterating to us the importance of education, reading, and excelling, while answering the myriad of questions we had. We frequently picked guava and oranges. You also taught me to make cashew nuts; how to make the dogs meals, and how to feed them. You taught me the order in which to wash plates (glasses first, cutleries after, then plates, and pots last). During my holidays at Rockhaven you also taught me how to make fish sauce; how to set up the snacks and tea tray for tea time; and so much more! I still remember the look on my face when you asked me to kill and pluck my first chicken...I almost collapsed. Even after telling you I had never cut a chicken before.. you said 'well, there is always a first time' Lol. I repeated the exact statement to my daughter when she was going to cut her first chicken too. She had the exact horrified look I had on her face; it was so funny. I also remember evening strolls and playing in your beautiful garden... I am sure most of us have a love for nature because of you. Playing games in the evening with you was always been a delight (although I see some of us grandchildren didn't take as much to scrabble as others) but the influence is still there. I also saw your relationship with Daddie as admirable. You both took care of each other; and watching you care for him was admirable. You cheered me on through the years. You were such a great cheerleader. Cheering me on when you hear about the work I do. How about your kindness to all those around you? Momi you were a Woman of Substance, a Diamond in the rough, a Virtuous Woman, Kind and Noble, a Queen in all ramifications, Hospitality Extraordinaire, An Educator and Teacher Par Excellence. I can go on and on... Thank you Momi dearest for being such an inspiration to me. Rest well in the bosom arms of our Lord and Saviour. We love you, now and forever. Rest in perfect peace from Yinka, Lore, Tobi, Tomiwa, Loni, and Lase too - Buki Ogunsakin (Nee Bright).

I was in Nigeria for the first time in a few years when Mummie passed on. I was planning to spend the Easter holidays with her in Ilesha but she transitioned to glory a few days before that could happen.
Oh how I would love to see her, talk with her, and hear her laugh again.
I’m taken aback by how reality turns to precious memories. How fondly I hold on to every precious memory, every photo of her, and old birthday cards she wrote me.
I’m full of gratitude to have known her, to have grown up with fond memories of her and Daddie in Ilesha, to have run around her garden, to have marvelled at her blooming plants that she tended to so carefully, to have eaten her food, to have played Scrabble with her and my aunts, uncle and cousins (she was the reigning Scrabble champion), to have enjoyed the African apple she grew in her backyard (I will now always crave it), to have read books in her library, to have experienced her loving kindness, to have read the book her and my Daddie wrote together (To Have and To Hold) and be amazed at the depth of their love.

I’m grateful that I could have a relationship with her in my adulthood. That, asides fun memories mostly formed in my childhood, I could talk with her about life as an adult woman. That she could share her stories with me when I asked, and opened up about happy and sad experiences. That she told me about her mother, and her mother’s mother, her family history.
I’m grateful that whenever she would call she would ask about my art career and encourage me, even though I was thousands of miles away, ever-supportive and understanding that it’s my life’s passion. That she was alive to see me have my first solo show, and title it after Rockhaven (the name of her home). That she was overjoyed to know the show was about her legacy and that of my great grandmother. That she was proud of me using this show to share her stories.

I’ve always felt her love, I still do, and always will.

I miss you so much grandma, this doesn’t fell real. Your beautiful smile and sweet voice, your jokes and your kindness will be missed. I love you so much grandma.

I commiserate with you Debisi and the entire family on this irreparable loss of our dear mummy. As Christians, we take solace in the fact that mama is not dead but translated to eternity reigning with the Lord in heaven- a much better place devoid of pain, sorrow and tears. She lived a fulfilled life here on earth. Her legacy of humility and accomplishment left behind will continue to be a success story for the family in Jesus Mighty Name. May her gentle soul rest in peace.

I met mummy a few years ago in her house in lagos and I will never forget how homely, loving and selfless she was to me.
Mummy we had never met before then but we hit it off immediately because you made me feel like a long time standing friend and daughter.The wisdom you had could only have come from above! I thank God I met you and would always remember the "little gifts " you always gave me when I it was time I leave . In that" little gifts" ,was wrapped all the love I never had from a grandmother .
Sleep well ma
Olivia okaro

MY DEAR MOMI

Words alone cannot express how much I have missed my dear Momi these past weeks of her home going. I miss the infectious smiles, I miss the calls. I miss everything about her.
Dadi and Momi were love personified- to each other, to the children, extended family and people at large. They were there for me, then for us to the end. I cannot forget Momi's concern and encouragement each day during my traumatic experience few years back. She was a mother indeed!

Momi was beautiful and stylish. She was orderly, calculative, and an encourager to the core. She was a record keeper per excellence(all files labeled and neatly kept)
She was a lover of education and an ardent reader of Newspapers, biographies, fictions e.t.c. I was always cautious of finishing the books
collected from her on time and ready to answer some related questions. She loved watching T.V programs (English majorly) then sports, especially Grand Slam Tournaments, which I later
became interested in through her. 
She was fun to be with, no dull moment. Her memory was sharp till the end.

Jesutosin, Jesugbogo Jesufunmilorin miss you too.
Rest on Momi. Till ressurection.

Peacekenny Jokosenumi

Hum! I have never met mama, but met pastor Toun.Then I said to myself this woman is so humble.Then I met mama during the service of song proper and listened to so many tributes then I said what a beautiful life for a beautiful soul.Then I agreed she must have left her footprints on all her kids because I see her through the Pastor Toun that I know.By the grace of God I will learn to cultivate some of your habit and lifestyle that I heard of and am so pleased with.

Even while you sleep your life is still beautiful and graceful.May your soul rest in peace mama.

❤️

I never met grandma but I wish I did because of Aunt Toun. I wanted to meet the woman who trained such a graceful woman like Aunt Toun. Thinking of it now, I did meet grandma through Aunt Toun. You haven’t left because we have you in the persons of all your children and grandchildren. Thank you for all you did and thank you for raising such beautiful children making the world a better place. We will see you again ma.

May Grandma rest in peace. She has left a wonderful legacy in you her children.
Eying Mama ti da.
Pastor Toun, you are blessed. Continue shining in Jesus name

We will miss you forever mummy. We love you but God loves you more.

This is a Note on who Mummy was.....
Mommié is what we called her...
My mother is a Fellow of the Nigerian Mining and Geosciences Society FNMGS, and a Justice of the Peace JP.
She is a retired English Teacher, a writer and Author, and she wrote articles for the Daily Times Newspapers many years ago.
She authored the secondary school curriculum literature book titled "Akin Goes to School".
Along with our Dad the late Dr Ezekiel Adekunle Ifaturoti, she co- Authored a book titled *"To Have and To Hold"* ....a book which told the story of their love life and marriage.
Mummy had Green Fingers....she loved gardening and was attached to her plants especially roses....
Mummy spoke Hausa and her best friends when she was a student at Queen's College Lagos, were the Miller Twins (Aunty Jumai and Aunty Maude). Mummy was a very good Swimmer. She swam for Queen's College Lagos and she swam into old age as it was a recreational activity which she enjoyed tremendously.
Mummy loved to cook, bake, and she was a lover of people.
She also loved her iPad and she was Always on the social media... quietly exploring and updating herself without being seen by anyone..
She never made posts and that preserved her Anonymity.⭐
Kind, Gentle and unassuming, she led a Happy life which was quite contented.
She enjoyed a good marital life, as her doting husband always displayed Love at every opportunity.
She was well travelled, to all continents of the world.
She had 27 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren, as well as her late twin Sister 's children Late Mrs Tunde Kehinde Thompson mother if Kabiyesi Adedokun Thompson and her late elder Sister's children late Mrs Victoria Olabisi Edun mother of Adebayo Olawale Edun, and so Mum had up to 50 grandchildren and nearly 20 great-grandchildren.
For many
years she was an active member of the Girl Guides Association, as a Guide.
She was also a member of the Historical Association of Nigeria. She was
member and at a time, Assistant Secretary of the YWCA Ilesa branch.
She
was a member of the Ilesa Marriage Council, a member of the Juvenile Court
Panel for two terms of six years, from 1977 to 1983 . She also belonged to
some professional associations like the ANSPROT (Association of Nursery
School Proprietors & Teachers) and the Christian Literature Association of
Nigeria (CLAN).
She attended conferences within and outside Nigeria. In 1970, she was called
upon to represent the Masa Chapter of the NUT at the International
Teachers Conference in Accra, Ghana. She was the one person from Ilesa to
be chosen for this task. In 1979, she attended the YWCA World Council
Meeting held in Athens. Greece, as one of two delegates from llesa. She also
attended the Dialoque or Education of Kindergarten organized by the
University of Wisconsin, USA. Tinuola authored a book for children. "Akin's
Holiday', published in 1981. She also co-authored with her husband, their
marriage memoir, "To Have & To Hold which was launched in 1994, to celebrate their 40th Wedding Anniversary. In 2004, the book was updated
and relaunched to reflect additional events in their lives together.
She loved to travel and undertook notable trips, sometimes with her husband,
and sometimes alone or with others. In 1982, she spent the summer travelling
with her husband to London, Paris and Hamburg She subsequently took
many trips to the USA to visit her children and grandchildren as the families
grew.
Tinuola enjoyed a good and blessed life filled with loving family and friends.
Her efforts and service have been recognized by many people, associations
and organizations, some of which have resulted in awards. In 1999. she was
given an award in Oshogbo, by the Home Economics Teachers' Association
of Nigeria. In 2001, she was appointed as Matron of the Wesley Group of the
Otapete Methodist Cathedral, llesa, in 2011, she was awarded an Honorary
Fellowship of the Nigerian Mining & Geosciences Society (NMGS), an
organization co-founded by her late husband. In 2017, the 1977 set of old
students at the Methodist High School, Ilesa (The Collectives) recognized her
at their anniversary for her positive contribution in changing their lives' while
at the school . Between 2018 and 2019, she was appointed Matron of three
associations at the Otapete Methodist Cathedral, llesa: Matron, Men's
Fellowship; Matron, Christian Ladies Union; Matron, Ladies Helper's
League. Another set of awards came from the 1974-1979 set of the Methodist
High School Old Students at their 40th anniversary celebrations in 2019.
Tinuola enjoyed reading books, newspapers (both old and current) and
tending flowers. In her younger years, she actively engaged in gardening, and
enjoyed admiring flowers in her old age. She read a lot, particularly enjoying
biographies. She also loved to keep in touch with what was happening in the
world and did this by listening to news, both local and foreign, reading social
media posts, and keeping in touch with her children grandchildren, and great
grandchildren sending wishes on their birthdays and generally updating
herself with events in their lives. She was on Facebook, Instagram and played
some word games (like Scrabble) with her grandchildren online when she
could. In her own words when she turned 90 in 2022 - "I feel particularly
lucky and blessed to have had a good life, a good husband and a happy
marriage of 54 years, loving and caring children who are all renowned in their
fields; I feel blessed by God. I still enjoy reading and indulge as much as I
can. I love flowers even though I can't do gardening anymore. Paradise would
be having books to enjoy and flowers to admire".
Missing you sooooo much.....Bye, Mum!

The little I know of Mama showed her as a strong, supportive, accommodating and loving woman. I was in the house on several occasions to have some discussion with Daddy and get advice and guide, Mama will always be ready to entertain in one way or the other despite my being a relatively young man at the time. Her peaceful nature is a beauty to behold.
May the flood the hearts of those Mama left behind with peace.
Rest on Mama.

Sending deeply heartfelt sympathies and love to all the families of our dear cousins: Brother Gbola, Sisters Debisi, Fadeke, Kike, Toun, and Sinmi on the transition of their beloved "Mummy", Mrs. Agnes Tinuola Ifaturoti on behalf of our dear mother, Mrs. O.F. Ifaturoti, my siblings: Sade, Fela, Yemi, Tolu, and myself and indeed our entire individual families. Auntie was such a gentle, kind and loving soul we will all greatly miss her. May God in his infinite mercy grant her precious Soul Repose and comfort all members of the extended family at home and abroad over the great loss. Amen

A Tribute to Mummy Agnes Tinuola Ifaturoti

My journey with Daddy & Mummy Ifaturoti started in Jos in 1965 before commencing my early Career as a Geoscientist and Exploration Geophysicist.
Mummy Agnes Tinuola and Daddy Dr. Ezekiel Adekunle Ifaturoti with Pa Dr. Raphael A. O Shonekan, the Founder Chairman of the Institute of Medical Laboratory Technology, and Rowland Oluwole Coker former Director and acting Director of Federal Surveys respectfully encouraged me immensely at that time.

Daddy Ifaturoti as a Pioneer foundation Member of Nigerian Mining & Geosciences Society (NMGS) with registration no 001 and Mummy (001A), played a pivotal role in the establishment and development of NMGS. Daddy with other like-minded geoscientists, including Dr Rilwanu Lukman, Alhaji Inua Gombe, Mr. C.N. Okezie, Prof. M.O. Oyawoye, Mr. M.O. Feyide, encouraged me to join them in building the NMGS Society in Nigeria.

The roles played by Mrs. A.T. Ifaturoti in encouraging NMGS Spouses cannot be over- emphasized. Her continued pivotal role led the Council of NMGS to award her the first woman Honorary Fellowship Award at the Minna International Conference in March 2010.

During her lifetime, she constantly demonstrated an amiable, kind, caring, loving, pleasant and peaceful lifestyle for others to emulate. Thus, my heart is filled with sadness, yet with joy and gratitude to Almighty God for a life well lived, as well as the opportunity and privilege of enjoying for so long, our dear big sister, (Tinu). My dear big sister Tinu, where do I start from? A part of me is still in denial about the shocking and most unexpected news of your transition to glory! Everyone who knew you was shocked to hear of your death. You were not just a big sister or aunt but our big mummy, very loving and kind.
When we got to know each other more closely, you exhibited exemplary character, treated everyone equally and fairly, and were generous even to those you barely knew. Everyone felt warm and cared for in your home, and your heart, and arms, were always open to everyone. It was a pleasure to be close to her because she was always smiling, undoubtedly faithful, and a devoted wife and mother to her children. I have lots of fun memories way too many to list.
You may be gone now but you will not be forgotten. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ, where we shall meet to part no more.
Sun re o my dear big sister Tinu.
Professor Deborah E. AJAKAIYE, FNMGS PP, FAS, OON, mni.

Grandma,
Your smile and loving energy always filled every room you were present. I loved every moment we spent together. Thank you for your constant support despite often being so many miles apart. May your legacy live on. Rest in peace Grandma

Grandma, I’m so thankful and proud to be descended from someone so full of knowledge, love, strength, openness and care. Though I’ve spent much of my life miles away, I always felt love and connection to rock haven and the joy I would feel being there with you and Grandpa. The great conversations over tea and a treating myself to the cookie jar far too many times. I admire your ability to change with the world around you but still hold tight to your values and the things that were most important you. I admire your care for your family and your community at large. I’ve never had a birthday go by without a loving message from you and I sure will miss that going forward. Thank you so much for the joy, wisdom, comfort, laughs and knowledge you brought to this world that has touched multiple generations and will continue to live on.

Dear Aunty,

Remarkable, Incredible, Amazing, Caring, Loving, Knowledgeable…. I could go on and on. That’s what you were. There was always something to learn from you. Your perspective generally was, never say ‘I can’t’ or ‘it’s impossible’ or ‘I don’t like‘ as these terms invariably impose obstacles when trying to achieve goals. This profoundly impacted my thinking and till this day, guides my decision making. Nevertheless, I was the most was surprised person when I asked how you were coping during the ‘no cash’ syndrome in Nigeria and you said you had leant how to make on-line payments to meet immediate requirements. At 90! (but what did I expect from my highly proficient aunt!) I will miss chatting with you. You were conversant with affairs in the country, you loved the British monarchy just like mummy (your sister). Thank you for memorable fun times in Ilesa. I certainly will miss you but I take solace in the fact that you are in heaven, resting peacefully in the Lord. Your legacy lives on as you will forever live in our hearts. Sun re o Momi!

Remi Banjo

My Darling Mum left us peacefully and beautifully in a seamless, casual and peaceful manner, on March 25th 2023. She left in a way that made life and death seemingly as simple as smiling....
Mommie as we fondly called her, was a gentle, well-meaning, good hearted disciplinarian. She was our Matriarch and she 'held her own in the family.
She was well respected and loved by all.
There were many sides to my Mother.
- She was a retired English Teacher who led in the language and nobody could even beat her at a game of SCRABBLE!
- She was a complete Woman; Wife Mother and Matriarch
- She was a dutiful mother and she taught her children to cook, clean, sweep, and be caring
- She was a Felow of the Nigerian Mining and Geosciences Society FNMGS, an award she was conferred with due to her unflinching support and promotion of NMGS Activities and attendance at all their conferences
- She was a Justice of the Peace and she participated in juvenile court activities at times past
- She was a Philanthropist; she supported my NGO Work with her prayers and she sometimes went to the field with us when we had Health Outreaches (pls see under stories, I will share pictures). She trained some relatives and even indigent students in her class, and sent them through School, in partnership with my late Dad, Dr Ezekiel Adekunle Ifaturoti
- Mommie was well travelled; she went to every continent in the world. She came, she saw, she conquered!
- Mommie was very organised, meticulous, and deliberate in her ways. In fact, God permitted her to be 'organised' even in her dying moments as she transited peacefully, and came in and out (possibly to tidy up , cross the t's and dot the i's) till she finally left
- This tribute is an endless one; so I will continue it in my Story.
Mommie, rest on in Peace, You were Beautiful, Loved, and Adored; and You Loved and Adored too...You brought laughter to so many faces....even the 'Abara Gbigbonas' which accompanied our cooking classes and domestic science lessons, did not dilute my love for you; instead it strengthened the Love and Admiration I had and still have for you.
Mummy, you were strong, even in the face of challenges. You were a fromidable and Mighty Woman of Valour! Indeed you were a Super Woman!
Rest in Peace in the bossom of our God. .. Until the Resurrection Day.

Words really cannot express all I have to say about Mummi.

But I shall try.

Some of my best memories as a child were had in Ilesa; I remember the first (and perhaps only time so far) I had Rabbit as part of my meal. Before that day I thought Rabbits were the cutest animals ever, pets and not to be eaten...lol

Mummi warmed me up to the idea that Rabbits were actually delicious. In fact I squirmed when I ate the innocent poor thing but it was actually delicious- a guilty pleasure. But I just felt those innocent animals are too innocent to be charged, executed and eaten.... for no crimes whatsoever.

Mummi was a charming, calm-spirited, helpless romantic! I remember developing a habit of watching game-shows from her: dating gameshows, trivia, mention them! In the days we had no DSTV she watched all those 8-hour VHS tapes our aunties would record and we enjoyed them. She loved her BBC, she loved her garden and I loved walking through, following her as she tended to the flowers.

She was certainly a lover and not a fighter. Her cooking was impeccable and her hosting was second to none. I can literally taste the ogi she prepared for us anytime we visited.

When our parents and siblings moved to Zimbabwe, Ilesa became our second home and mummi made us feel very comfortable- even when I brought this massive sound system from home/ school and was always tearing up the Chalet with my 'unique sounds' of music ...lol

As mummi got older our visits waned to Ilesa .... especially in the last few years- partially because she moved to Lagos for a bit.

Mummi gave us our lovely mum, she blessed our marriage, she gave us our twins (she was a twin and now Tope and I have our own twins).

Mummi lived a great life. Daddi lived with contentment and grace while Mummi lived as a gentle giant.

Mummi shall be forever missed but we rest assured that she will live on in and through our lives.

With love from Feso, Tope, Fim, Fey, Fio & Fii Bright

Mummie…o mummie…you were more than a mother, grandmother, and great grandmother…you were a matriarch…you were mother to all…no partiality…you loved all as your own…
You were gentle, kind, humble, considerate, outstandingly wise, and lovingly strict.
Who will fill this great vacuum? Who will fill these shoes?
We are comforted in that you have joined the league of saints cheering us to the finishing line!
I will miss you mummie…sleep well, sleep on till we meet again!

Your son,
Folarin Ogunyinka

      MRS YINKA FEYIDE OMIGBODUN
-A TRIBUTE TO MRS AGNES TINUOLA IFATUROTI-

Mummy,

I received the news of your demise with mixed reactions. Initially, it was a thunderbolt that weighed me down, because you were no longer around. Secondly, I was grateful to God, that all your descendants survived you in your ripe old age. This is the divine grace that we all desire. The goodies I enjoyed from you in your lifetime are too numerous to mention!!! However, I will recall some of the most significant impressions you made on me:

You took me under your wings from infancy to adulthood. I was a regular visitor to Rock Haven in my student days, which to me was a home away from home. Some of my holidays were spent with you in Ilesha, where I noticed your “open door” policy. During one of those holidays you commemorated my birthday. You accommodated me throughout the period of my teaching practice in Ilesha, where you gave me the time of my life.

My immediate family had unforgettable interactions with you, particularly during your visits to us in Vienna, Austria with daddy. Apart from the substantial discussions we had about the happenings in Nigeria then, we went sightseeing. We also went on other outings where we met people of diverse nationalities, including fellow Nigerians. Those were beautiful days. Those times were remarkable, and those years were heavenly.

After the death of my father you and daddy did not fail to visit my late mother whenever you came to Lagos. You have now reunited with your beloved husband in a place that is far better than this world!!!

I appreciate you.

MRS OLAYINKA FEYIDE OMIGBODUN

My dear mommie,
I thank God for your 90 years on this earth, you were the only person who would remind me of how I called my name when I was a toddler, you were the only other Mother who was very close to my family . I remember our summer holidays at ilesa was great fun because Rockheaven was our summer Resort at ilesa the only place we will spend weeks on end without missing Lagos. My sisters and I will never forget how you always welcomed us to your home . Daddie will be happy to welcome you to the other side , I am sure he has been waiting for you for over 13 years. Rest in Peace mommie till we meet to part no more.

Adieu, Our mummy Agnes Ifaturoti.
She was accommodating, loving, kind and pleasant.
She will always be remembered by the entire family of Asubiojo Ifaturoti. Sleep in the bossom of the Lord, Ejire Okin, Omo won ni Lisabi Egba olumo.
Ao pade lese Jesu, nibiti a ko ni ya ara wa.
Good Night Mummy.
RIP

- Dcns Dorcas Ademiju Oludiya
(On behalf of Abraham, Asaju Ifaturoti Family) .

TRIBUTES TO MAMA AGNES TINUOLA IFATUROTI

The news of mama departure came to me as a rude shock when I read it from her daughter's (Mrs. Bright) reply to my monthly prayer. Mama had never failed to reply my monthly prayer to her except the last one.
I first knew mama when I was a Cathedral Priest at Otapete Ilesa. Then, I became Mama's neighbor when I got transferred on promotion to Imo circuit.
Mama was one of our church members, though she claimed to be full member of Otapete Cathedral. She always contributed her best each time Sir Odeleye Fadahunsi Memorial Methodist Church, Imo, Ilesa was in dare need. Her presence has always been remarkable. Mama had regards for every minister of God irrespective of education and age. This, I have also found in the life of her children. They are also cheerful givers to the things of God.

Adieu "Mama TINUOLA" as you used to end your messages.

Very Rev J. A. Amoo

It came as a shock to hear that Momi passed on. I watched her 90th birthday online last year and she looked radiant with her special smile on her face. My heart goes out to sister Fadeke and the entire Ifaturoti family. May the Holy Spirit who is the ultimate comforter, comfort all those who loved and knew her. She will be dearly missed.

May the Lord grant the family the fortitude to bear Mama's loss in Jesus' name.

My dear Agnes Tinuola Ifaturoti, my Iyale. You were amiable, beautiful inside and outside. Loving, caring, hospitable and generous. You were a woman of high integrity. Always happy to have people around you. A practical Christian indeed. I will miss our telephone conversations and our physical discussions whenever we were together. I pray that God will comfort and take care of your entire family. May your gentle Soul rest in perfect peace. Good night beloved. I will surely miss you.

I met Momí about 47 years ago and I knew her to be easy, pleasant, intelligent, always happy, quietly unassumingly capable. I called her "Tech-Ky Grandma. I'll miss her happy smiles. Good night amazing woman.
Oyefunke Oyewole

I use this platform to commiserate with the entire family of Ifaturoti and pray that mama,s soul rest in the bossom of the Lord .

My dear sister, Adebisi Bright, nee Ifaturoti, called me to let me know that her Mum passed on at the golden age of 90! Adebisi’s Mum was part of the grand circle of friends and family at Jos in the late 1950’s. Her husband, our big Uncle, was the great E. A. Ifaturoti, who rose to become the first Nigerian to be named Chief Inspector of Mines & Power.

We, the kids, had such fun at Uncle E.A’s house at 23, St. Patrick’s Avenue, Jos. The Circle of family and friends was indeed close knit. I remember the visits to Rex cinema, the zoo, and the falls. What a wonderful period!

Aunty Tinuola, was a lady of grace, charm and calm. A real ebony black beauty! As I console my dear friend, Adebisi, I also console, Gbola and sisters.

May the memory of Mrs. Tinuola Ifaturoti be a blessing. May the Angels receive her in the eternal kingdom of our Almighty Father. Amen!

Olisa Agbakoba.

May Mama's soul rest in Peace, Amen.

Moomie's legacy leaves on! She was always so kind to me everytime I came to Rockhaven with Sinmi. She made sure we had stew to take back to campus. She welcomed me all the time and was always so full of peace and calm. I decided I was going to check on Moomie in October 2018 when I was in Ilesa and nothing had changed from college days as Sister Debisi called Moomie from the room reminding her that it was me..., when she saw me, she was so full of joy...oh sweet Moomie, thank you for a beautiful haven and hospitality for all those who came to your home. Sleep on Moomie!

God bless her beautiful soul. From being a staff at Metals and Minerals to a fully adopted son, I will forever be grateful to the Ifaturoti family. Mommie was very loving and treated me like the biological children Gbola, Debisi, Fadeke and the then kids Kike, Toun and Sinmisola. What a wonderful family. Rest in peace Mommie. Regards to Daddy with whom I believe you are now re-United in eternal love.

We bless God mummy’s life was well spent with great fulfillment.
She was a blessing to everyone that comes her way.
We celebrate you always ma.
May the Lord comfort everyone left behind.
Adieu mummy.

Mommie you were the only one apart from my Mum that I first agreed to call “Mommie” as you understand me like her. I was a very “curious child” and patiently; unlike most adult and like Daddie, you both will answer my questions, gently correct my wrong assumptions and give me a nugget of your wisdom. Rest on in the bosom of JESUS CHRIST; you fought the good fight and by the mercies of JESUS CHRIST; you are wearing your CROWN

Mommie will be so dearly missed! Her love, smile, and kindness will be forever missed. I reflect on all the fond memories with her while I was young. Our trips to FGGC Oyo with Toun, as we set out early in the mornings to arrive in good time to be signed into our dorms. The visiting days, with all her advice and love, as well as how she welcomed me at her home everytime I was there to spend time with my friend. We know mommie is at peace with the Lord! May her soul rest in perfect peace.

A tribute to my Dear friend, Debisi Bright's mum, Mommi.

I remember the hearty laugh and the infectious smile. A warm heart. A strong woman. An elegant lady. A florist. An accomplished woman who at 90+ will go on Facebook, Instagram etc.

I say adieu to a great Mum, grandmother, great grandmother, friend to many. Sleep on, in the bosom of the Lord.

“A devoted mother, a loving grandmother, a caring great grandmother, a benevolent and dedicated and faithful Christian, a friend of all . . .We will miss Mummie continue to Rest In Peace

Mama lived a lifestyle worthy of emulation in its entirety.
Adieu mummie

Dear Mummie, We Love you so much and we miss you, you lived a great life. I remember the book you wrote with Daddie,As a little girl then I aspired to be like you,It radiated your love for family, your dedication was unshakable, You were an amazing Mother and Grandmother, continue to rest in the bosom of Christ.. Say Hi to Daddie. We miss you ❤️