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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Aize Obayan, 58 years old, born on March 4, 1960, and passed away on January 29, 2019. We will remember her forever.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Tribute to Professor Aize Obayan
You were a source of inspiration to us all; me in particular. I remember in one of our TTG classes where you told us of how you combined your career alongside motherhood: irrespective of your young age. I was greatly inspired by that and I am confident that I can be an all round woman. You were a five star woman indeed. You talked, walked, and composed yourself in a unique way.
Rest on mother eagle, you will be greatly missed.
Aghogho Abigail Olomukoro
2014 set
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Mother eagle
If tears could build a stairway and memories could build a lane will walk up to heaven and bring u back because u died to soon
Your smile, subtle voice and humility will always be rembered
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Ma Aize Obayan
Just some few years ago i met you in landmark Uni for the first time as a pathfinder ...You spoke to me like we have met for a very long time, like a son..that very day, you said "you will be a great man"..your word of encouragement still rings in my head ..You were a woman of virtue...the Many Lifes you have impacted will never forget what a wonderful woman, teacher, lecturer and Mother you were...
Rest On Maa
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
I didn't think much of myself let alone think I have the potential to be a leader, all I wanted was to do an assignment in my TMC class 2003. You saw beyond the assignment, You saw a book; Life as a living investment.
I may not have finished the book but I am living the dream of being the leader I am meant to be. I am living the unfinished book and investing in lives at every opportunity.
You lived a life of investment. You lived a victorious life....as you always say. I want to live my name in the sands of time. You have done that and it can never be washed away.
You have not died, because you live in through the lives of the 1,000,000 individuals you invested in. Adios Mama. My 2,000,000 lives are waiting to see you through what you deposited in me.
Arc. Osahon Pius Aghedo
House of Representatives candidate FCT.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Dear Mummy Eagle,
I can't believe you gone, I met you only ones personally and it was for a picture, I will forever treasure that picture. All I remember one's I think of you is you saying 'you may please be seated'. I studied you and feel in love with you, just want you to know that your words and encouragement really had a quality impact in me. You were the major gift covenant university gave me. You will always be in my heart.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
My dear Mummy,
Shortly after I started that some occurrences began happening to my disfavour, you got knowledge of it and put things straight and back to order despite the fact that you knew little of me. All things worked together for my good, you drew me closer and I found a mother and mentor in you. You believed in me openly and this awoken the giant in me. I began doing the things I never thought I could do and a new me was birthed. Though you have moved to glory beyond, you live-on here on earth cos of your footprints are still everywhere. May the grace and wisdom of God guide those you left behind to cope with your absence and ultimately fulfill their God given destinies. Adieu Mama.
Opeyemi Joshua
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
‘Mother Eagle’ truely befits. You had a heart set on purpose, one given to sacrifice. Through the glimpse of life stories you shared on campus, we could see you had done the work, fought your battles and prevailed. It was evident you were given to you assignment, to raise a new generation of leaders, a new breed of eagles, to take charge and reform. I’m sure you smile now to see that again, you prevailed. With your eagles soaring the highest heights and creating disruptions, this legacy lives. I will always remember you as my first admirable leader in the CU cadre, the one that taught us that disruptions are possible, a female Vice-Chancellor, in a top private university, in Africa, now top 800 worldwide, with great leaders to show. Mother Eagle, your legacy lives.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
My dunkwa and gist partner my 1 day ride Mamita! From CU to LU on that bus you worked like oh Lord! & I was wondering why so much a commitment when it's not like Dr. David Oyedepo would know if you didn't that day I learnt the core values of Responsibility mentality & Integrity by example! Walk your path with pride coz you left 1 more soul blessed & striving! In a society where girls don't dream beyond the husband's name, you Mamita left a trail & I intend to trail it with you!
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
My dearest Mom and mentor
Professor Aize Obayan your role and impact on my life at C U..centre for entrepreneurial development studies..I can never forget, you taught,counselled and encouraged me to work hard,focus and succeed in my creativity assignment.. u loved my children,gave and supported us like a mother eagle...I will forever miss you mum..Rest on in Peace... Babarinde
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
My first experience with her was in landmark university. After one of our mid week services i went to the old college building to get something at the book shop coming out the first person i saw was her. I was scared thinking she would complain about something on my body then she said u look beautiful, i love ur makeup,ur colour and what you are wearing i smiled and said thank u this would definitely feel normal to others but that thing she said made me look at my self differently and i appreciated my self more. Ma, i am forever grateful thanks for sacrifice made. you are forever in our hearts.....
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Prof. Aize O. Obayan
My first contact with you, you guided me on how to be a well disciplined child in every endeavour and now a disciplinarian has gone........Indeed you are an epitome of discipline. Continue to rest on Prof..........forever in our hearts.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Mom was my Angel. I met her voice way before I met and even with just that voice, the Spirit whispered, "that's the light I'm dropping on your path, look to her". This was 2006. I finally met mom 2011 and shared my 2006 experience with her. She embraced me, took me in and birthed me. Thank you Mom for the impartation every time we had a sit down. Thank you emptying yourself in our world. You left your footprint, and that, I'll continue to walk on. Kachifo NNE OMA.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
I'll tell a short story.
I had the privilege of having a private meeting with Professor Obayan back in school and it's one of my life defining moments.
I had sent a mail to the VC protesting the ill-treatment of students by some University staff and she saw the mail and requested I come in.
We had a conversation for over an hour where she asked me questions about student treatment and I could see the care on her face for the institution and most of all her thousands of children. It was genuine, it was love, it was pure.
As you go forth to rest with the Lord, I pray you find eternal peace and rest ma'am. You are loved and dearly missed.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
You have always been like a second mother to me and I thank God for how much you have contributed to my life during your lifetime... To God be the Glory.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
I really did not meet you, but I read about your good works through the comments here and other social media platforms. All I can say is that: God must be smiling at you now, saying 'my good daughter go and take a rest, you have fought the good fight and kept the faith, your rewards are here'.
Though this is actually a trying time for your dear daughter and son, other family members and those your good radiance had touched. I receive wisdom and strength for them to see it the way you would see it, so their hearts are gladdened seeing through this God's perspective!
We'll meet when mortality gives way to immortality and corruptible gives way to incorruptible praising God forever more....
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Mummy, during your lifetime, you inspired everyone around you through your abundance wit and originality. You love helping others and did so with a joyful heart. You will forever be remembered as a lover of God and demanding leader with a strong feeling of high responsibility.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
1. "How was your journey back home. It was so awesome seeing you. We give God all the Glory. Be forever blessed in Jesus Name."
2. "Amen dear son. How was your week. Great time in His presence tomorrow. God bless you."
These were Mummy's last SMS to me. We still communicated via email. But she was my treasure.
A beautiful name; woman; accent; great heart.
By God's Grace, the name Aize Olohigbe will be my daughter's.
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Our Mother Eagle
Words fail me but I still have to put some down, your life and times will not be forgotten in a hurry... Rest on Prof, we love you but God loves you more... Keep resting in the bossom of the Almighty... The CU community will forever miss you...
February 7, 2019
February 7, 2019
Dear mama Pathfinder,
The news of your passage sent shock waves through me and destabilised me, I never met you personally, but I have followed and admired you. I had a mother figure you. Even though I am sad now about you leaving us all behind, I am much more excited that you are in heaven resting, as your legacy lives on and the lives you have moulded become great. You are a true mother and you are loved by me. Goodnight ma till we meet again!

Your pathfinder son
Bankole Olajide Martins.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
The VC and psychologist like no other. You lived a life of value...helping people as much as you could. Quite caring and a lover of God.
You'll be greatly missed.
Rest on Prof. Aize Obayan
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Dear Mama Eagle,
I learned so much from you that I'll always be grateful for. I miss you, but also and more importantly, I celebrate you and the life that you lived. You did well.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
What can I say... The news of your sudden demise didn't go well with me. I recall 200l, 500l interacting with you, memorable moments for me. Thank you for a life well served.
The history of cu cannot be complete without your great story in it. Rest on ma
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
THE GLORIOUS EXIT OF A GEM

Your life taught me never to be high minded nor look down on anyone my position notwithstanding. Your life was a total epitome of humility, godliness and grace personified.
You called me into your office on the 22nd of October 2018, you spent close to one hour encouraging and inspiring me, you counselled me , shared your personal experiences with me and made me feel the true passion of a loving mother in you.
You taught me that leadership is about influence, taking responsibilities and taking onwership of their outcomes. You spoke with us over the phone on the 4th of January 2018 that you were going to be on leave but never told us you were actually leaving us and this sinful world.
We , your children at ALDC whom you called "The Gideon's Army" miss you as you have been a mother, mentor, teacher, instructor, motivator, pathfinder and romodel to us all . You've raised giants and impacted lives, you were ever ready to put smiles on people's faces the cost notwithstanding.
You remain a gem whose generation and those to come will surely miss. We love you mummy but God loves you best and I am convinced that you are resting in the bossom of Father Abraham.
Adieu mummy. Your son, Felix Uzoma Okereafor.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Mummy I still remember how you helped me get off an F that was given to me unjustly to an A while in landmark university. Your kind and encouraging words never left me. We live you but God loves you more.
Eternal rest grant unto her oh Lord and let your perpetual light shine on her.
Good night mum
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
When someone you love dies, it feels like the melody within you from their sweet presence in your life died with them. So the next part of your life’s journey is rekindling that inner melody simply because of the sweet way they touched you. Mummy Aize Obayan, “the bond handmaiden of the Lord”, have touched many lives, she was truly “a friend who sticks closer than a brother”. You were a lover indeed, you made 1Corinthians 13 come alive.
Since the day I heard of your departure, I often lie awake at night, when everyone is fast asleep , and take a walk down memory lane, with tears upon my cheeks. You will ever be in my heart, until the joyous day, when we will meet again. I believe then we will understand.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
R.I.P My Role Model and Confidant
It's a great honour to have you as my Role model and confidant. You were a rare germ, I love you but God loves you best. I am happy that you have gone to be with the Lord, your legacies would not be forgotten, you live in my heart always. I will never forget your kindness and Love toward's me. May God give you eternal rest and the family the strength to bear the great pain.
Love you greatly!!!
Adieu Prof. Aize Obayan
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
The news of your death was mind blowing. Still can't get over it. I celebrate you for been an amazing, selfless and outstanding Mother Eagle. Down to earth, cheerful, a great listener and a Mother to so many. You remain a Legend, never to be forgotten.
Thank you for impacting my life. Thank you for always been there when needed. I can't forget the first day I led a song in the University Choir, you were the first person who stood up and you cheered me up and danced to the song.
You will be greatly missed. You'll forever remain in your hearts.
It's sad to say Good bye. ADIEU PROFESSOR AIZE OBAYAN. Love you dearly
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Prof. Ibadan. I remember your last words to me before I left Covenant University so clearly.. Your poise, your composure, your humility, your intelligence and several other emulatable qualities makes you stand out. MA, you will be greatly missed but I know you are in a better place. So I rejoice MA that you are with the Father. I celebrate you MA
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Prof. Obayan's favorite quote:
" While walking on this earth, we are nothing in ourselves. Yet God has chosen us in His mighty hands; for the master plan requires human instruments, however they must not glorify themselves"
All the glory must be to the Lord, only He is worth of all our praise. No one on earth should give glory to himself, for all the glory must be to the Lord.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Death where is your sting? Grave where is your victory? It's taken the past few weeks to come to terms with your sudden departure. It's real. You're gone, you are no more. You promised to be at my wedding, you were always there to tutor me on life, career, relationship and spirituality. We had a lot of plans together. You were a mother, a role model, mentor, spiritual advisor. Life is cruel but I'm consoled knowing you are in a better place because when saints of God sleep, there is the assurance of eternity with our heavenly father. God bless your good soul, your beautiful heart. Thanks for the love you had for me and my family. We'll meet again at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ. Your memories will last forever. Good night Professor Aize Obayan.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
I walked into the Interview room...and when she saw me, with a smile, she remarked "Finally, we meet...away from Love/Honour Entrance Duties". That just made me relax.
A rare gem, one-of-a-kind, AMAZING woman of viture, Honour, dignity, elegance, grace...one who pays attention to details. Her quest for perfection always kept me on my toes.
Earth lost a mother, friend, mentor, role-model, repairer of the breach...Heaven welcomes an Angel.
Adieu Ma!
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Thank you for been an inspirational leader and Mentor, It is contagious. Rest on great Hero.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
While Aize Olohigbe Obayan’s passing on is great gain for her; it’s a huge loss for us who knew her.
Sister, your sudden death came as a shock to me and to all of our other friends and will leave a gaping hole in our hearts for some time. But God will use the instrument of time to heal those holes in Jesus name.
There are so many things that we don’t know on this side of the veil. We are finite creatures, tied to space and time, captured to a little speck of human history and experience. God is infinite, He is eternal, He sees the beginning from the end and the end from the beginning. He knows all things that can be known. He sees the big picture. That which we can’t possibly know or see.
It is for this reason that so much of life is a mystery. Our God has chosen to not fully disclose His every plan. He instead beckons us to trust Him. To rest confidently in the fact that He can see further than we can. And what He does is always right and just.
While our God is sovereign and sees and knows all things. We can be assured of this. He suffers with us in our pain. He grieves with us in our loss. He hurts with us in our suffering. So we can cling to Him in our time of grief and mourning.
While the wisest among us do not have any answers as to the question, “why” … and such answers really wouldn’t remove the pain anyway even if we knew them … as children of the most high God, we can weep with those who weep and suffer with those who suffer. And therein, we can find some comfort.
To my beloved Joshua and Toluwani always reflect on the above and submit to His WILL. Always tell Him just as I sang to you Joshua on the 6th of February 2019 “we have no power of our own, We submit to your Will Holy Spirit of God, We have no power of our own” The moment you say this to Him He will always cover you with His unfailing Power that will energize you to forge ahead to fulfilling destiny.
Beloved Professor Obayan, you will always be remembered for your large heart anytime you come across those you need to minister to. Sister sleep on till we meet to part no more.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
I'm not close to you but your humility humbled me, your closeness to your husband made me love my wife the more and above all your passion for the house of God changed my mind set and help helped me in reshaping my life with God and passion for his house I was shocked to read about your demise but my joy is that you are resting with God presently may God protect your aged mother and your kids
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
With life we know now with death we meet the great beyond.. your soft spoken words attracted me to you, I was blown away so I came close that day to hear you speak then I realised you had so much peace so much joy so much hope so much light to share with the world it's not the degrees or the certificates that made you but the Almighty has designed you to impact your world..
Adieu Prof Aize Obayan you will forever be in our hearts and world.. thank you for leaving footprint in the sand of our time ..
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
If I stood by you at the point of departure, your request would be to look out for Toluwani and Joshua and that, I'll do. Rest on Mother. See you on that day.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Aize Obayan. Your passing is a shock. Was a shock, is still a shock. You were hardworking, intelligent and resourceful. You were my sister and friend. I still remember those days in Ilorin and your blue Volkswagen. Only God understands why you have to go so soon after Toks. In all we thank God for the life you lived, serving God and humanity. May God Himself comfort Toluwani & Joshua and hold them safe in the hollow of His hand. Ah! but this is a bitter pill to swallow. Rest in peace Aize.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Prof.Aize OBAYAN
You were an Amazon Titan of our time. You had bethroded this time like a Colossus and that what you were.
You ran through the world as if you were in a hurry. Your achievements in less than 60 years were unprecedented. You served your God to the last. Your unalloyed love for your late husband was unimaginable and to your beautiful and wonderful children unparalleled.
You will continue to remain in our hearts.
We wish you a happy reunion with your better half and your maker who had received you with welcoming hands.
Adieu Prof Aize OBAYAN. We love you but Jesus Christ loves you more.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
I still remember the sound of your voice and your smile. I had little experience with you because you became a VC just after i left LU. I wish you came in earlier, so i could have experienced what it felt like to have a gem like you. Your death came as a shock to me, but God knows best. We all miss you, but heaven gained an angel. Rest well ❤
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
A rare gem has gone to the great beyond!
During my days in Landmark University (as the Chair, Student Council), your words of wisdoms, model and style of living impacted my life in no small ways.
You're a passionate mother.
You're indeed God's handmaiden.
Do rest peaceful in the eternal abode of Mighty God.
You'll forever remain great in my heart.
Adieu Prof. Aize Obayan
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Mummy knowing u has been a great blessing to myself and my family. Your words of encouragement are the bomb. I know you are sitteth with the most High enjoying the best of glory.
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A mother, leader and role model for many and a life well spent. Without doubt I am a beneficiary of your values,love and teachings...you always called my name with excitement and a smile. Forever in our heart. Rest with the lord Professor Aize Obayan.
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You gave me very pleasant and warm memories, you inspired a lot of us, you instilled the spirit of leadership, and I’m personally grateful for the key role you played in my final days in CU. You truly are a legend!!!
February 6, 2019
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Although we never really met in person, you were someone I thought very highly of.
I know you've gone to a much better place where there's no sickness or pain, and as strange as this may seem, I'm grateful for this.
You hold a very special place in my heart and you always will.
I love you and miss you.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Hmmmmmm. Sad your gone. I always enjoyed how eloquent and gentle you spoke. You impacted lives ma, May your soul Rest In Peace. Amen
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You were a beacon of hope to the young generation, especially women. You were selfless and full of motivation to do the most you can for society. May you sail to a better place beyond these murky waters. Rest in Power, Professor Aize Obayan
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Professor Obayan,
Thank you for your legacy. The life I live today rests on a foundation you helped build. I am grateful to have been influenced by you. Rest well...
February 6, 2019
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It is really sad and painful ...I know you are resting in the Lord's arms. You indeed had a positive impact on a lot of us. God knows best and I pray he will keep Toluwani , Joshua and all those you left behind. Till we all meet on the last day by his grace. May your beautiful soul rest in peace. Amen
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Professor Aize,an absolute definition of an amazing woman.
Your eloquence,sweet but yet assertive tone makes me see confidence in another dimension.
Thank you for supporting me even when I didn't know that what I have was a big deal.
Thank you.
February 6, 2019
February 6, 2019
Prof Aize Obayan as you were fondly called, the entire CU community will miss you. You invested a lot of your time and energy in making sure the institution was setting the standard.
I pray that God will grant your children the strength to carry on. Adieu Prof, you will be missed tremendously.
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Her Life

​A BRIEF PROFILE OF LATE PROFESSOR AIZE OLOHIGBE IMOUOKHOME OBAYAN

February 7, 2019

The year 1960 is certainly not an ordinary year for many Nigerians; it was the year our dear motherland Nigeria got her political liberation from the colonial masters. But seven months earlier to that exact date when Nigeria’s political history took a different trajectory, God Himself gave the world a pre-independence gift with the birth of an Amazon, excellence, forthrightness, diligence, resourcefulness, and God’s handmaiden and daughter: Aize Olohigbe Imouokhome Obayan.

Born to the family of grateful parents, Sir Frank and Lady Marian Imouokhome in Edo state, Nigeria; the late Aize Olohigbe Imouokhome Obayan was a child of destiny who continued to walk predestined paths and letting herself loose in the service of God and humanity. As a young girl with keen eyes and a feverish penchant for contributions, achievement and intellectual adventure, the late Professor Aize Obayan never failed to leave a golden ribbon in all she did or touched. She knew the value of work, service and contribution as primary determinants to anyone’s claim to success. Her legacy is partly in her investment in others and the desire to see perfection as something within the realm of human existence and imagination.

The late Professor Aize Obayan’s life, education, work, and personality were never products of fate but faith and certainly not by chance or luck. She walked the path and did the talk by choice and took predestined steps that defined her personality and the remaining steps she ever took. It is often and correctly said you are a product of your earlier exposures and education and that the child shows the woman! Late Professor Aize Obayan was therefore a product of a good home training and good education. She attended (among other schools) the famous St. Maria Goreti Girls’ Secondary School, Benin City, Saint Leonards School for Girls, and for her “A” Levels, she attended St. Andrews, Fife, Scotland – a school which has nurtured many women of international repute and remarkable abilities.

On her return from the United Kingdom, late Professor Aize Obayan gained admission to the University of Benin, Benin City for her Bachelor of Education (B.Ed, English) degree from 1979 to 1982. Her English background was part of that divine preparation for a future at the global stage. Everyone that ever met late Aize Obayan or heard her speak knew her English was impeccable. Listening to her was like watching an opus with a Nightingale on the stage!

After her mandatory National Youth Service Corps deployment in Kano was over in 1983, late Professor Aize Obayan took a dramatic step that defined her personality and the remaining changes that we celebrate today. She got admission into the University of Ilorin, not to study English as expected, but to study Guidance and Counselling. And to prove the validity of God’s leading and walking predestined paths, she earned her Master’s and Doctorate degrees in Guidance and Counselling in record time in 1984 and 1987 respectively; a feat uncommon in such academic climes and era.

Late Professor Aize Obayan did not just become a Professor and a leading voice in the discipline overnight; she played her part and most importantly, paid her dues. Her career in academics began as an Assistant Lecturer at the University of Ilorin, Kwara State in 1986. She rose through the ranks, becoming a Reader at the same University in 1995. As at the time of her transition to glory, late Aize Olohigbe Imouokhome Obayan was a renowned and remarkable Professor of Counselling with specialization in Multicultural aspects of Human Behavioural Disposition and later on in career, she carved a niche in leadership, which became one of her notable areas of strength and inquiry.

The late Professor Aize Obayan often told her mentees that whenever the students are ready the teacher will appear, signposting the fact that everything works according to design and order. For the global role she played in redefining higher education and leadership in Africa, late Professor Aize Obayan was prepared by God internationally to assume any role at any time. Her famous departure to the United Kingdom on sabbatical from the University of Ilorin was therefore a divine order. During her United Kingdom experience, late Aize Obayan taught at the University of Roehampton, United Kingdom as a Senior Lecturer in Counselling Psychology between 1996 and 1999 before returning home with her family, again, by divine direction. The follow up from this move led to her appointment as a Professor of Counselling at Covenant University in 2002. That appointment changed her life and testimony as she went on to serve at the highest level of university administration at Covenant University.

Late Professor Aize Obayan was never known to be afraid to tread uncharted paths or venture in so-called areas where only men have dominated and survived. She had blazed the trail on several occasions culminating in her appointment as the first female Vice-Chancellor of Covenant University On February 1, just about one month and three days to her 45th Birthday in 2005. This divine appointment was therefore not a surprise to many who knew her and the passion that drives her contribution mentality. By that appointment, late Professor Aize Obayan became the second substantive Vice Chancellor of Covenant University, the third substantive female Vice-Chancellor in the history of Nigerian tertiary education and the first, however, on the private university platform. She also served as Vice-Chancellor of Landmark University from 2015 to 2017 thus joining the exclusive club of very few Nigerian academics who had served as Vice-Chancellor of more than one Nigerian university in their lifetime. Others in the exclusive club include Professors Ibidapo-Obe and Chinedu Nebo (the former Federal Minister of Power).

Late Aize Obayan years and service as Vice-Chancellor of Covenant University will make a seminal book on leadership that an attempt to describe her tenure and contribution in such a brief profile can only undercut such a contribution. The Chancellor of Covenant University, Dr. David Oyedepo, during the 10th Founder’s Day celebration and announcement of Professor Aize Obayan’s successor as Vice-Chancellor, observed that on her appointment as Vice-Chancellor, that instead of clearing her wardrobe for new arrivals, as many women at her level would normally do, the late Professor Aize Obayan cleared her bookshelf and ordered with open cheque, books on leadership and consumed herself in the quest for a new brand of leadership that will take Africa to the next levels.

In about eight academic sessions as Vice-Chancellor, late Professor Obayan mentored many, catered to more, and sought to be of service to all. Through those years as Vice-Chancellor, late Obayan was privileged to work with the Chancellor and Visionary of Covenant University, Dr. David O. Oyedepo, a man whose commitment to excellence, the restoration of the dignity of the ‘Black’ man, and the apotheosis of the African story, continues to serve as the main inspiration of the Covenant University Vision and Aize Obayan’s personal life story. She shared with the Chancellor the belief that Covenant University is just at the beginning of its quest for the ultimate prize – Its establishment as a World Class University producing graduates and researchers who will be leaders in their fields of endeavour. It is therefore not surprising that her remarkable performance as Vice- Chancellor earned her accolades, awards, recognitions, and many other related assignments in her brief but very impactful and fulfilled lifetime.

The price for hardwork, as often said by sages like Bishop David Oyedepo, is more work. After a successful 8-year tenure as Vice-Chancellor of Covenant University, late Professor Aize Obayan also served as the Education Secretary of the Education Commission, Living Faith Church Worldwide, where she oversaw the running of over 100 Primary Schools (Kingdom Heritage Model Schools) in Nigeria and abroad; 14 Secondary Schools (Faith Academy network of Schools) and two flagship universities of the Commission (Covenant and Landmark Universities).

Until her passing on January 29, 2019, late Professor Aize Obayan was the Director, African Leadership Development Centre, Covenant University, Ota, Nigeria where she provided leadership, strategic directions and along with her team, managed the African Leadership Development Centre as driven by the Visionary, Dr David Oyedepo, Chancellor, Covenant University.

As we celebrate the life and passing of this great daughter of Africa, a cerebral academic, mother eagle, Amazon, mentor to many and destiny helper of many others, late Professor Aize Obayan was often described by those who knew her as a faithful and lifelong student of leadership under the mentorship of Bishop David Oyedepo. She always never failed to acknowledge the privilege accorded her to learn from the teacher and mentor, Bishop David Oyedepo. Her first certificate of performance from the Chancellor came on her 50th birthday in 2010 when the Chancellor, Bishop David Oyedepo pronounced that now she has passed the elementary examination on leadership which was epitomised in her hardwork and service delivery to the University and admitted her to a higher school of leadership, when he asked her to transit from diligence to SACRIFICE. Late Professor Aize Obayan bought into this new vision of leadership and sowed her life as a seed for that noble cause. It is no wonder she died in active service in God’s own university.

There is therefore no coincidence in the Spirit or with God. Many years before the Liberation Mandate was delivered to His anointed servant, Bishop David Oyedepo, God had prepared His foot soldiers for the assignment and no doubt, especially on the education commission, late Professor Aize Obayan’s name will surely be listed as one of those that played their part as assigned by God.

On the academic platform, late Professor Aize Obayan, as a Professor of Counselling, specializing in Multicultural aspects of Counselling was involved in extensive work in developing curricula for Leadership Development Studies and Personal Development Programmes. She was also involved in many Leadership Development projects. She was involved in the development, teaching and research in the area of New Leadership Paradigms for Africa (NLPA), working to sustain contextually relevant conversations pertinent to empowering leadership praxis in Africa. Until her passing, she was the convener of the Leadership Development Studies Programme in Covenant University and was a member of the Council of the Nigerian Institute of Management (Chartered) and National Universities Commission (NUC) Strategic Advisory Committee established to drive the repositioning of University education in Nigeria. She was also involved in extensive research in the areas of Maternal Acceptance/Rejection and Children’s Behavioural Dispositions. Her research also spanned Family Systems with particular reference to the Extended/Extensive Family Systems and its impact on the Counselling Process. Her other research involvements were in the areas of Prevalence and Pattern of Substance Use/Psychosocial Correlates of Alcohol, Tobacco and Cannabis Use in Nigeria.

At the professional levels, late Professor Aize Obayan registered and was duly certified a Member of the Counselling Association of Nigeria in 1986. She also received her Grade III Certificate in Spoken English in 1978 from the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Art and by 1979; the same London Academy of Music and Dramatic Art awarded her a Grade 1 Certificate in Spoken English with Distinction. She was also a Member of the African Network for the prevention and protection of Child Abuse and Neglect (and served as the Acting Chairperson for the Kwara State Chapter while still leaving in Ilorin, Kwara State). She was also a Member, Nigerian Institute of Management (NIM) as well as a distinguished Member of Council of the Institute. And in 2016, she was meritoriously awarded the Leadership and Integrity Award by the Black Heritage Magazine.

Late Professor Aize Obayan is a firm believer in lifelong learning, capacity building and continuous relevance. This is the major reason her academic and professional career and educational trajectory have spanned higher educational and organizational contexts in Nigeria and the United Kingdom with emphasis in the areas of Human Communication Patterns, Group Dynamics, Life Skills Development, Multi-cultural Innovations, Social and Emotional Intelligence, with extensive experience in running Human Groups and Skills Development Workshops both in Nigeria and in the United Kingdom.

The late Professor Aize Obayan was an award winning scholar, leader, and administrator. She won numerous awards among which are Nigerian Association of Petroleum Explorationists (NAPE)/SHELL Distinguished Education and Mentorship Award (November, 2005); National Universities Commission, Best Vice-Chancellor Award in 2006 (Private University Category); and the National Association of Women Academics Special Award in 2006.

On the 30th of March 2007, she received an Award in recognition of her outstanding contributions to the growth and progress of the Institute of Strategic Management in Nigeria. The same year, on the 20th of November 2007 to be specific, the Nigerian Institute of Management honoured her with an award for her contributions towards the success of her 2007 National Conference. She was also honoured with a special award for her meritorious service as a member of Board of National Universities Commission (NUC) from October 2005 to November 2007.

Late Professor Aize Obayan was also a Distinguished Diamond Award recipient of the Alumni Association of University of Nigeria, Nsukka (May, 2011). She also received a Leadership Award for Enhancing ICT and Research Excellence in Higher Education in March 2011 from the Southern University A & M College USA and a Special Award from the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria (ICAN) for her contributions towards Training and Professional Support for Accountants (May, 2011). On the 13th of February 2014, the Nigerian Psychological Association honoured her with the prestigious Award of the Honorary Fellowship of the Association. This was in recognition of her outstanding scholarship in the behavioural Sciences, university administration and national legacy on transformational leadership.

Late Professor Aize Obayan was a favourite speaker at Convocations, Workshops, and professional/academic conferences in Nigeria and abroad. She presented the Keynote Addresses at the Minnesota State University international conference; the ACU supported international seminar in the year 2006 and the main speaker at Nigerian Institute of Management Second Annual National Women-in-Management Conference (11th May, 2006) where she presented a paper titled “Emotional Intelligence as a Critical Factor in Leadership Success”. She was a Special Guest Speaker at 2006/2007 Annual General Conference of the Institute of Strategic Management, Nigeria that held on 30th March, 2007. She was also one of the Resource Persons at the Nigerian Institute of Management’s International Management Conference that held from 19th-20th November 2007 where she delivered a lecture titled “Managing the Success of Yesterday for a Greater Tomorrow”.

As part of her commitment to national/international engagement and collaboration, she participated in the Stakeholder’s Forum of the 16th Commonwealth Ministers’ Conference, Cape Town, South Africa, December, 2006.  She was a Keynote Speaker at a National Workshop on Strengthening Advocacy for Use of Alternative Sources of Energy for Sustainable Development by Women in Leadership Positions organized by the Energy Commission, Abuja in October of 2009. She also presented a paper titled New Models of Funding Private Universities at the Plenary Session, 25th Conference of the Association of Vice-Chancellors of Nigerian Universities (AVCNU), Osogbo April 2010. Late Professor Aize Obayan served as a Panelist on the topic: “Governance and Management: Supporting Institutional Capacity for Change” at the 2010 European Union-Africa Summit Side Event on the Nyerere Programme and Higher Education Cooperation in Africa which held in Cape Town, November 2010. She was also a Convocation Lecturer at the 2nd Convocation Ceremony of Crawford University, amongst many other lead speaker engagements.

As a sitting professor of Counselling at Covenant University, the late Professor Aize Obayan delivered the 15th Inaugural Lecture of the University on April 6, 2018. She eloquently delivered a brilliant lecture entitled “Lengthening Cords and Strengthening Stakes: Leadership Praxis and Transcendence in Counselling Practice” to a very diverse and appreciative audience.

At the spiritual level, late Professor Aize Obayan was a child of God, God’s Handmaiden, as she often referred to herself. She was a courageous and overzealous soul winner, a servant of God with proven testimony of His faithfulness. Even when her health was challenged, she continued in the service of God until it pleased the Master to send for His daughter. Until her passing, late Professor Aize Obayan was an active member of the Full Gospel Businessmen Fellowship International. She was also an active member of the Hospitality Service Group of the Faith Tabernacle, Living Faith Church, Canaanland, Ota, Ogun State, Nigeria.

The late Professor Aize Obayan was a family woman that practiced an inclusive family values. She bequeathed the “Extensive Family System” to the Counselling profession in Nigeria. She was her husband’s delight, helpmate and confidant. She was married to Late Engineer Adetokunbo Uchechi Obayan, a leadership consultant and their marriage was blessed with two wonderful children who have continued to use her as a mother-mentor and role model.

Talking about leadership, family dynamics or the power to become, the late Professor Obayan had always woven an indelible story of possibilities. In many ways, she became the fabric upon which many have written their own stories of awakening, their own stories of becoming. She was also a remarkable metaphor for what could happen if people – anywhere – recognized that they are powerful beyond measure, magnificent beyond expectations, and bigger than their old fables suggest. Despite the departure of her husband of twenty-eight years, late Professor Aize Obayan’s faith in God remained indubitable until she breathed her final air on earth. She knew that the future was for those who are with God and believed that one’s spiritual well being must be backed by a life of continuous & lifelong learning, capacity building and contribution to humanity no matter where or the circumstances one finds his or herself.

Late Professor Aize Olohigbe Imouokhome Obayan is survived by aged parents, Sir Frank & Lady Marian Imouokhome; a daughter, Miss Toluwani Obayan; a son, Mr. Joshua Obayan; sisters, brothers, sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law and many other relatives and well wishers.

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4 years after

January 30, 2023
Momma,

Joshua is now married. Toluwani has become one of Nigeria's best Writer and Director. I watch from a distance. Watching God make good your intercessions along with the host of heaven. And I know, no matter how the world turns, as you always say, God takes the glory.

I miss you.
January 30, 2023
As the date approaches every year,, I remember more things that I miss about aunty Aize. Her warm hugs and ability to read a person with one look, being intentional about making time for me although her schedule was always packed, and the fact that she always encouraged me to use my gifts and talents well. 
I can't believe it's been 4 years already Je t'aime toujours !

Mother Eagle

February 10, 2019

It took me this long to put words together because I just couldn't take your departure in so quickly. I first close encounter I had with you was in 2005, when the Chancellor officially handed me over to you and since then you have been my guiding Angel. 

Last October when we saw, as your usual culture is, you still asked me pertinent questions and we agreed on some issues concerning what am suppose to achieve in 2019. I never knew that would be the very last time I would have the privilege of enjoy your motherly counsel. 

My greatest regret was not having the opportunity to tell you I Loved You. You live forever in my heart, Mother Eagle!

Rest in Peace, Mama

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