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You will always be remembered

December 26, 2018

May your soul and souls of all the faithful departed continue to rest in peace amen

December 24, 2015

Met Akin Ibilola in our Masters class in Unilag in 1995 although he later left for Leeds on scholarship. He was a gentle, humble and highly cerebral guy; always impeccably dressed. He could perhaps very well have won the price for the quietest person in class. Didn't see him again until sometime in 2006 at a shopping mall in Ikeja. 

Akin was an inspirational friend, study partner and confidant that I will forever remember and may God continue to guide the family he left behind. God knows best. Sleep tight, Akin.

Helper in time

September 10, 2013
They say "there is a reason why God placed certain people in your life or cause you to meet certain people at some point in life". I met Akin in 1993 back in the days when I was job hunting through our neighbour then. He used to come visit them at night after work and we usually exchange pleasantries; unknowing to me, he made enquiries from the guys why I was always at home and wanted to help out. Out of the blues he asked for my CV and arranged job interview in the organisation (Citibank) where he worked then. What a day that was for me. I attended the interview, did the entry level test and passed and Akin proudly came that night to announce the outcome saying; I was the only guy that passed the test of all he had introduced to the organisation. When he bought his first car, he drives to my house every morning to pick me off to work and we used to discuss our lives and what the future held in stock for us and talk about politics. And since then we became very close friends sharing almost everything together. He was very jovial, brilliant, passionate about what he believed in and above all very brilliant. His dressing was impeccable and always encouraged others to be the best in whatever chosen endeavours they so wished. He introduced to me his girlfriend (now the widow) and he stayed through with the relationship till they got married without wavering. I have to say I have never and don't think will ever meet anyone like him again. I so much miss you Akin. Without my asking, you rendered the help of God. You gave me with the help of God my real first start in life after university; how could I ever forget you or your family? I will stand by the loved ones (your wife and children) just as you stood by me starting out life. My prayer is that just as God used you to bless me and others, he will use others to bless the ones you left behind. Rest in perfect peace.

A life well lived!

May 9, 2013

Your life was truly well lived...a blessing to all that came across you in the journey of life. You indeed bore testimony to the truth that the value of life is not in the DURATION but in the DONATION. Many came and gone, yet their path cannot be traced on the sand of time BUT not you. You left a legendary mark on the sand of time and in the heart of men that cannot be erased!

Your life simply is lived adding value to others...little wonder you can smile through your last moment knowing fully well, that at last you made it home...continue to rest in the bossom of your Lord and master, Jesus Christ.  

Rest well...good night.  

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT!!!

May 9, 2013
It was in 2004, a beautify Sunday morning on Amara Olu street Ikeja Lagos. We all came for the Worship Service of HIS PURPOSE CHURCH. That was his first time in the church. He was in the company of his family, His wife and their two handsome boys. As an Usher, I helped with the little boy Agboola and that was the beginning of my relationship with Brother Akin. This was shortly after he left his job at ECOBANK. As a committed family man who was always looking for the best for his family, he wouldn't write off any business opportunity no matter how little the profit was. He always said to me, " Ah Pastor, kosowo to kere," meaning "there is no little money" We were pulling some businesses here and there and he was always faithful to share profit with all parties involved until the time for me to move Dubai. I left for Dubai but came back in 2006. i was in his office to shear with him my intension to move to United Arab Emirate as a missionary. I left his office that day with a gift of 20,000 Naira. On the 1st of January, 2007 Bro. Akin called asking where I was. We met at a petrol station on Agidingbi Road and handed me an envelop, he said, " Pastor, I believe in the vision God has given to you and am supporting your ministry with this token that was given to me in the office as part of my CHRISMAS BONUS." To my greatest surprise, it was 1000 USD. This was the money that was used to take care of my pressing family needs before I left Nigeria on the 7th of January 2007. By December of the same year, I called him again to tell him of my intension to bring my family over, as usual he gave my wife 1000USD and this was more than enough my family ticket fee. Each time our Ministry was celebration our Anniversary, I would call him to pray for him and thank God for making him such a vision helper and for some time there was a brake in communication between us until 2012 when he told me he relocated his family to the UK. September 8th 2012, Brother Akin called me to pray for him. And I followed up the next day to find out how he was fairing his reply was encouraging. We spoke for over 1hour on SKYPE. Shearing testimonies and the faithfulness of God through the years. At the end of our long conversation he said " Pastor please send me your account number I would like to send something to your church" I never knew he wanted to say a goodbye with his parting gift!! Severally I tried to call him without success until today May 9th when I called his mobile number and was glad at least some one picked.It was the wife and i asked to speak to her husband her reply was like a bomb. " Ah e gboni....Akin ti kuu!!!!!. I shouted!, I screamed, It was unbelievable! I Disconnected the line for some minutes. TO BE CONTINUED
February 3, 2013
I remember our days at Ecobank, where you worked so hard to ensure that committed service levels for our institutional clients were met and exceeded. There after I left Ecobank we would meet at the newspaper stand in Maryland on Saturdays to share intellectual ideas whilst walking down on Sunmola Street. I can't believe this news, but this shows how transient life is. You played your part in an amazing manner. You were an epitome of excellence, brilliance and professionalism. You will be missed!!!

In shock

January 31, 2013
Coz, The last time we met was when Daddy brought you home days back in the 80s. I had always wish to meet you again thereafter but God knows the best. On the behalf of the entire Oloruntobas, I wish to say rest in peace my brother. From testimonies, you made the Ibitolas pround and am sure you will meet Daddy and Mummy up there. And if you do, you sure know what to tell them about what they left behind. Sun re.

short conversation

January 29, 2013



Akin:   Dayo, what is that customer's telephone number in Apapa?

Dayo:  I don't know it off hand

Akin:   Say that again?

Dayo: (Knew instantly that have blundered...this man has started his wahala)

Akin: I don't know it by heart and i can't say it off hand...

* That was Akin correcting me openly in the middle of 'Institutional Banking Group'... I stand corrected boss....I've also corrected so many people

January 4, 2013

Though we met only ones, but what i heard about you inspired me a great deal.You are a warrior and you fought greatly and over come many obstacles while you lived.You also lived your life for GOD and with this we are rest assured that you now rest in the bosom of the Lord.Rest In Peace Bro.

SO MUCH BRAIN WASTED

January 3, 2013

A47,

You were sublime in intelligence and incomparable in communicating it. As a colleague in Bank PHB, I used to look forward to our usual evening discussions ranging from Politics to Economy. All your analyses I still remember, just like yesterday.

You never accepted or tolerated mediocrity.

The sparkles of your white shirts and the correctness of your ties would always announce your presence. You understood and spoke your languages- English and Youruba idiomatically.

If the cause of your death was to be assailed, you would be alive today. You were such a great fighter. But in death, you are so loud even to high heaven but only heard by those who know your worth!

I will forever remember you as the only Akinzo, AK47 and Pepperized.

Good night the great Akin!

January 2, 2013

I met Akin, when we were both students at Leeds University. He was a close friend. We shared a lot together and plans for life. He was gentle, and easy to get along with. He was very committed to his family, and Lucy.

Each time we caught up, we talked about our good times at Leeds, and the beautiful memories.

I will greatly miss Akin, such a credible man, true to his words.

I am extremely sad, and find it difficult to accept his news, but God knows the best. 

Rest well...

GONE TOO SOON....

December 30, 2012

i never knew you were in Milton Keynes,all this while,but the fond memory i had of you was in Lagos,it was precious and exciting.

Though you were my brother"s friend..but that friendship extended to us.

though you lived a short life...but you blazed a fulfilled life..you left an undeliable mark on the lives of those you knew.

Rick warren said "the donation of ones life is better than the duration of it".
you sure did touch hearts and even changed lives and your legacy will continue to point the way to a fuller,richer ,more compassionate existence.


someone once remarked "there is nothing better than knowing you are going somewhere when you have done it off your own back". 

Mr akinwale abiodun ibitola..you have ran your race and you have kept the faith.

abide in the bossom of the Lord...till we shall meet again at his appearing.

and to the wife and children ..the comfort and peace of the Lord be with you as you celebrate a life well spent.

December 29, 2012
My last memory of Akin was shortly before they relocated to london.  " i the event planner extra- ordinary" made a budget for Agbolade's party,  when I showed it to Lucy she hit the roof and said " moj Akin ma pa wa" (yea you can laugh)   I emailed the budget to him and to my surprise he approved it.  He called me during the party and said  "madam you have done well, good party really nice thank you"  that was the last conversation I had with him  Take heart my friend  God  will never leave nor forsake you God will forever show up for you and  your children Amen! 
December 28, 2012

Dear Lucy,
My sincerest sympathy on the passing of your dear soul-mate.
 Its been quite a while and sadly this is the occassion to communicate.

My last memories of your husband was at the birthday party for Agboola and Anjola before you relocated.


May his soul rest in peace.
God will comfort you and the children.
keep his good legacies alive.

My warm regards to agbolade,agboola&anjola


God will abide for you all. Amen            
  

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