I would never have known Alan if my daughter, Carmen, and his son, Michael, had not met and married. All to my benefit, since I got to spend the best of times with Alan and Joanie - occasions to learn more about this remarkable man and this beautiful couple.
Over time, I came to see his singular ability to ride with events both tragic and joyful and turn them to their utmost good. Maybe it was the cycling and racing that gave him this ability; more likely, this is the gift he brought not only to cycling, but also to his art, family, marriage, and life as he lived it. In all of this, he was buoyed up in the best way by Joanie, who will never, ever fail to see where joy might abide, and remain upbeat and uplifting in the fracas.
Once a few months ago, I ventured to ask Carmen if she thought Alan could beat the cancer that seemed to be overtaking him. She cut me off saying, “Everyday he’s alive, he’s beating it. And he did, and he still is - by inspiring us, showing us delight in whatever has a glimmer of beauty, enduring what must be endured, all with the greatest truth – that life is not the reflection of what happens to you, but what you do to make the best of it.