I met alan when i was 16 he was 28 we got married when i was 17 and had 4 children in all and 13 grandchildren i lost alan when he was 62 he had operatin that went wrong left him unable to walk he then caught an infection which killed him it has been 4 years and 4 months since i lost him i miss him terribly and dont seem to beable to move on i have suffered with depression since , we were married for 36 years when i lost him we went every where together i will always love him and have got beautiful memories of him which i will cherish for ever it has affected my kids and grandkids losing him we visit his grave regurlar he will never be forgotton he was one in a million xx