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Dear friends,

It is with profound sadness that I inform you on behalf of my sisters that our beloved father, Al Pesso, died suddenly on May 19th after a long illness and seven months hospitalization. There will be a joint memorial service for both our mother and father in Cambridge, MA in late summer at a time and date to be determined.

Extending a warm hug to all who loved him and will miss him,

Tana Pesso

(Al’s eldest daughter)

 

Albert Pesso, beloved husband of Diane Boyden Pesso & son of Esther Albala & Bohor Ben Saba Pincas Pesso, died after a long illness on May 19, 2016 in Boston, MA. Born Sept. 19, 1929 he leaves 3 daughters, Tana Pesso, Tasmin Pesso, & Tia Pesso Powell, 4 grandchildren, Chris F. Edley III, Kyra Chu Pesso, Jonathan Pesso Chu, & Xoren Pesso Powell, brother Sam Pesso, & sister Sylvia Waldner. 

With his wife, Al created Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor, a widely respected interactive technique that helps clients create new memories to compensate for emotional deficits in the past.  He has been called one of the 3 living masters of body-based psychotherapy and was chosen in 2012 to receive a Lifetime Achievement Award by the U.S. Assoc. for Body Psychotherapy.

Al began his career as a dancer & choreographer, studying under Martha Graham and May O’Donnell. He & Diane met as Bennington College students, then married & danced in NYC. Al received his B.A. from Goddard College. In 1956, they established a dance center in Quincy, MA & within 5 years developed the foundational theory of PBSP. Encouraging dancers to allow their bodies to act out their inner feelings, they observed that the resulting emotional outpouring was cathartic, but did not help the individual heal their emotional scars. They went on to develop an interactive model that drew on spatial relationships, specific wording, & physical touch to provide a response from the outer world to each of the inner needs expressed. This facilitated the creation of new body-based memories to counteract memories of past emotional deficits. Al was a tenured assoc. professor & dir. of Emerson College’s dance dept. while he & Diane developed, practiced, & began teaching their new form of body-based psychotherapy.

Al served as dir. of Psychomotor Therapy at McLean Hospital & the Pain Unit of the N.E. Rehabilitation Hospital; adjunct prof. at Fielding Inst.; & consultant in psychiatric research at the Boston VA Hospital. He also taught PBSP at Harvard’s continuing education program & at other educational & medical institutions abroad. He has written & contributed to many books & more than 50 articles, & led hundreds of seminars around the world.

Al was a featured speaker at many psychology conferences, such as: the American Academy of Psychotherapists; the Assoc. of Humanistic Psychology; the National Inst. for Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine; the Berlin Psychoanalytic Inst.; the European Congress on Body Psychotherapy; & the American Assoc. of Marriage & Family Therapy. He also presented at medical schools & hospitals, including Grand Rounds at BU’s Medical School.

Considered a uniquely gifted ‘therapists’ therapist’ Al helped thousands of clients to achieve lives of greater happiness, satisfaction, & meaning. He established PBSP training centers around the world which have certified hundreds of PBSP therapists & trained an excellent cadre of PBSP trainers & supervisors who carry on the work to the highest standards. It brought Al & Diane deep gratification in their final days to know that they left had their life’s work in such capable hands.

Like his wife, Al had a deeply compassionate wish to heal all the wounds of the world. He will be sorely missed by friends & family who remain inspired by his life's work, fierce dedication, playful spirit, & unique soul.

A joint memorial service for Al & Diane will be held in Camb., MA TBD. See http://www.forevermissed.com/albert-pesso/#about for tributes.

 

June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
As the last group in the UK to be trained personally by Al, we would like to pay tribute to what an inspiration he was. His wise humanity, brought with warmth and love, helped us to open our hearts, minds and souls. We are determined to continue his and Diane's work with the precision and compassion we saw in him. Thank you for teaching us, Al - we hold you in our hearts. With gratitude and love from Tom, Sue, Mick, Sue, Asgeir and Elena.
June 20, 2016
June 20, 2016
Dear Al,

fifteen years long you were our teacher and therapist in the Munich Group of Richard Hoffmann.
You helped us to become more who we really are!
We began to understand much more about our familysystem, which changed profoundly over the years in a healing way. You helped us to work as mediators more clear and caring with our clients.You were our honored master and more and more beloved friend.
When you became ill in Munich just before our group should start in last autumn, we saw you in the hospital. When you took the plane home some weeks later we had a last hug.
In love and highest respect for your mastership we say good bye and thank you, Al!

Dr. Gisela und Dr. Hans-Georg Mähler
Lawyers and mediators, Munich, Germany
June 11, 2016
June 11, 2016
I have been processing Al's death; what a loss for Humanity! Pesso's legacy will continue to enrich our clinical community. Hopefully, those who trained by him (I was, both in the States and in Portugal), will also continue to heal others in one of the most effective ways I know.
Thank you Al; thank you Diane! Thank you PBSP trainers!
June 10, 2016
June 10, 2016
I had the privilege of experiencing Al's work through one of his students, while also having some contact with him directly in relation to a couple of podcast interviews we did together. Sometimes, and very surprisingly, he would just call me up on Skype, wondering how I was doing. Seeing his big smiley face suddenly light up on my computer screen was enough to leave me happy and beaming with energy for the rest of the day. He has had a huge impact on my life already and I hope to bring some of his wisdom with me as I move a long the path. Rest in peace, dear Al.
June 9, 2016
June 9, 2016
I'm thankful for all the knowledge both Al and Diane produced and for what they represent to me. I'm profundly sad that they passed away. Even though I hadn't the opportunity to meet them in person and learn PBSP with them, I feel that my life has changed because of their writings. I admire them and have them as inspiration in life. I still want to be trained for PBSP and I hope that the coordinators and supervisors can offer me and oportunity of continuing studing. Warm hugs from Uruguay.
June 8, 2016
June 8, 2016
When I first met Al Pesso 25 years ago, my life began to transform – both personally and professionally. I learned such a humane and respectful paradigm – a way of looking at human beings and soulful healing that moved me to the depths of my heart and soul. I am so grateful for what I learned from Al. I’m glad I was able through the years to express my gratitude and love to him. I’m glad he knew how dear and influential he was to me. Although I did not train so much with Diane, the time I did train with her was very fruitful and enriching to me. I was so glad to tell her how important her teachings were to me and how much I loved her before she died. It is with such humble gratitude I say goodbye to both Al and Diane.
June 3, 2016
June 3, 2016
My knowledge about PBSP was a coïncident because of reading a RINO brochure for therapists in 2004. This resulted first in therapy for myself with so good results that I later did the training to become a therapist.
Last year I was blessed to do a whole week training with Al in Boston.
I withnessed again that it is really an artform the way Al worked. I hope this form of art to heal deficits from our past will be continued even now Al and Diane are no longer physically here.
May they rest in peace and memories of love.
June 2, 2016
June 2, 2016
With deep sadness we had to learn that Al Pesso isn't any longer among us with his physical shell.
His spirit will though always be with us and he will have his place in numerous hearts.
With this big loss our thoughts are also with his family.
Al contributed with his humanity as a therapist and with the method, that he and his wife developped, in an extensive way to the benefit of people. They could discover and heal their wounds of the soul and unfold undreamed -competent-aspects of their selves.
We are all very thankful that we were able to live to see him as the great therapist and inspiring teacher of the ingenious method of PBSP.
He and his wife helped to make this world a lighter and warmer place by igniting many -hidden- lights and fires within people's hearts.
We will do everything to protect this light and spread it into the world for the benefit of mankind.
in behalf of the board of the PVDS/PVSD, Germany
Dr.med. Agnes Friederici, CEO
June 1, 2016
June 1, 2016
Al,
I met you in 1981 and did a structure. I had been in therapy much of my life and was so frustrated with the quality of care available. In that first structure I realized that something in me opened into an world of possibilities, in the years that I studied with you and since I continue to explore that sphere and am steadily grateful. Rest peacefully  Paul
June 1, 2016
June 1, 2016
As I think about Al Pesso, my thoughts are of Al as a story teller... and boy could he tell a story! It is easy to recall him in the center of a circle of entranced therapists and helping professionals. When Al spoke, he did so with a soft voice, his hands gesturing, his eyes twinkling, and his words riveting. He did not have a narrow bandwith. His topics ranged from the latest brain research, philosophy and God, the workings of relationships, and the newest updates on PBSP. He told the story in a way that allowed you to sharpen your understanding of clients, as well as gain new insights into your own family and your own self. Al opened his life to us; sharing details of his beloved Diane, his wonderful family, and how he learned to embrace every life experience. I was fortunate to be able to see Al a few days before his death. We talked about the brief hospital related psychosis he experienced and how he was amazed that even that experience gave him a greater understanding of the real Self. I was amazed at how Al’s brain never stopped working, analyzing, and mostly creating.


Throughout my 30 some year relationship with Al, I experienced him as warm, friendly, inviting and offering wonderful hugs. He would always inquiry how I was doing and never failed to ask about my wife and daughter. Al could offer you a sense that you belonged, that you were important. And he could offer you a new story. 

Al's stories had one overriding theme, just as when you think of Stephen King you think of horror or suspense, when I think of Al, it was a love story. He and Diane went too amazing lengths to teach us about what the shape of love looks like and how that our entire being, all that we are, every small bit of us, needs validation, naming, sometimes limiting, but everything, even our most shameful parts could be brought into the light and be loved. It reminds me of Mr. Rodgers quote, "...anything human is mentionable, and anything mentionable is manageable." Al inspired us to believe that we can be happy in an imperfect world and that our histories can be changed, creating new memories is possible, and our future can be brighter.  I know Al changed my life. His work will continue to bring healing to the world. Thank you Al for all your love, wisdom, and mostly for being Al.   
Curt Levang
May 31, 2016
May 31, 2016
Dear Tana, Tia and Tasmin, dear colleagues,
What a great loss to you and to all of us. Al was such a loving and wise presence, that his absence feels so big and painful. Especially so soon after the death of your mother, your loss is huge.
For me Al always was the wise and humorous Jewish rabbi who stood in an eternal tradition - although he did not want that. The connection with his family roots in the sephardic community of Bitola -Macedonia- was for me obvious and inspiring, as an extra to PBSP.
I say a loving Kaddisj for his soul and wish you all the warmth and support that we together - as a circla around you - can provide.
Marietta van Attekum.
May 31, 2016
May 31, 2016
Dear Al
I was looking for something, a change of career and direction, to take me through to the end of my useful days. In your and Diane's brilliant creation I saw the answer. Personal growth for me and wider benefits for the community through my practice - win, win.
I am forever grateful for your genius and dedication. And so glad that I had the opportunity to be taught by you. Rest in peace.
May 30, 2016
May 30, 2016
Last weekend, doing structures in Denmark, one of the group said: It's not only a method, it's a kind of art. To Al and Diane this is a great compliment. PBSP is not only a wonderfull method of helping people through severe disturbances, it's a work of art to humanity, a tribute to hope, justice and the capability of people to learn to deal with an everlasting imperfect world.
Al and Diane thank you for your teaching, your creativity to build this and may you both rest in peace.
May 30, 2016
May 30, 2016
Dear Al,
in deep gratitude for the time spent together and the chance to learn from you.
You will stay a treasure in my heart!

With deepest regards
Ulrich Holzapfel
May 30, 2016
May 30, 2016
Al,

You made my world comprehensible. Your intelligent insights and applications are gifts for the ages and for all ages. 

I will always cherish your intrepid spirit, your keen professional insights and boundless capacity for candor and kindness. 

What a wonderful life--my friend.
May 30, 2016
May 30, 2016
Dear Al,

when we met the first time 20 years ago and I learned to know PBSP I immediately had the feeling of having found the "missing link" for my therapeutic work and for my "sight of the world."

Quite soon I realized that is was much more: it was you as a warm and present person and a brilliant teacher who helped me to work on my personal missing links and to develop as a human beeing and a therapist. The more than 50 trainings I always felt touched, inspired and enriched. I am so grateful, Al!

I want to share one memory that comes up. Both you and me were waiting before Richards practice in Munich one morning (the door was still locked), leaning on the railings, when I asked you how your night had been and you said that you had slept well this night, because you had called Diane in the evening and "it was like a lullaby, Martin"..

The last time I have seen you was in the hospital in Munich last October. You were still full of energy, and now you are gone. I will carry on PBSP, your present to the world, also to my world, in Austria like I did the last 20 years.

I miss you, Al.

In deep gratitude,

Martin
May 30, 2016
May 30, 2016
Beloved Al,
Thank you for being. Thank you for being you. You manifested humaneness, brilliance, fearlessness, precision, openness, compassion, a big heart, warmth, kindness and strength. Thank you for healing us. Thank you for teaching us. Thank you. With gratitude and love, Agathe
May 30, 2016
May 30, 2016
I am very sad your that you aren’t in the physical world anymore. Dear Diane, dear Al - I am very grateful that you shared your great knowledge with us and that you brought so much bliss into our world. 
With love
Gabriele Scheiterbauer
Stockdorf, Germany
May 29, 2016
May 29, 2016
Dear Al,

meeting you was like "opening a door" for me to a much more intensive and fulfilling private an professional liife.
Thank you for this "new map", you will always be in my thoughts and in my heart!
I´m a "PBSP-Therapist" - and I´m very proud of it!
May 29, 2016
May 29, 2016
Dear Al, thanks for all You and Diana has give us. Your presence, Your teachings and to experience and see You working was a great pleasure. My heartfelt sympathy to the family.

Farewell, great magican, untill we meet again.
May 29, 2016
A Jewish proverb says, thinking about death, is thinking about life. We believe Al would have wanted that. And so we think about the miracle of life, even about Al’s and Diane's life, about our lives and how we got to know Al. Also how much he has influenced our lives and how we have planned our annual schedule matching his annual workshops. We remember the myriad structures that Al has made us and a smile comes to our faces when we are thinking of our ideal parents, and how often we have chosen a placeholder for Al with a principle of an ideal father on it. All this remains alive in us.
His whole work is a model for a therapeutic movement in the future. We want to help to continue it.
In gratitude
Baerbel and Guenter
May 29, 2016
May 29, 2016
Dear Al,

It's with sadness that I heard about your passing away.
we know each other more than 40 years in variable roles. First you were my best example of how to be parent for my children, by the method you and Diane developed. Secondly you trained me for a professional therapist in a way that I learned how to be a true "craftsman". Your precise en precious gift to the world will find new ways to be continued by the trainers and therapists.
With grateful feelings, goodbye beloved Al.
May 29, 2016
May 29, 2016
Caro Al,

My message is going to be different from the other I read here.
I have never met you and I was not aware of your existence since two months ago. Then something happened. A few people in my life who don’t know each other mentioned about Pesso-Boyden therapy. At first, I thought it is was a coincidence but then when I heard about you from the third person I thought it was like an invitation to go online to type Pesso Boyden.
That day the therapeutic method you invented together with your wife Diane entered my life. I have been looking for a long time for a body therapy to integrated into my clinical practice. And yours got it all: body, mind, spirituality and philosophy. I watched the You Tube videos of your lectures and I must say Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor blew my mind away. I did not know what to do with such a discovery. I kept pestering my husband telling him everything I could understand from what I read about PBSP. He held and contained my excitement.
I looked online and the training in PBSP was going to start in a few days in the UK and not far from where I live. I felt that the coincidence transformed into synchronicity. But then my mind began whispering: how can you get into this training when you haven’t had experienced a structure yourself before or have been into a PB group? I thought that voice echoing my thinking mind was wise and it was taking all the precautions necessary in order for me not to land on the terrain of disillusion! I made my decision and it was a NO to the training. The day in which the training started I wake up at 4am and I washed my hair. While doing this I asked myself what on earth I was doing and why I was doing it? My thinking mind was confused but my body wasn’t. That morning my body led me to Bristol to the PBSP training. I was there at 10am. I was in and I am in now.
In the next three years I will get to know more about you Al and the people who collaborated and worked closely with you.
I found you and soon you ‘left’ me. I believe it is not like that as physical death is not the end of life but a continuation. And I will continue to meet you again and again. My wish is to integrate PB in the therapeutic work I do with traumatized children and I am sure that from where you are now you will help me to figure this out.

Arrivederci Al,
Francesca
May 28, 2016
May 28, 2016
Dear Al,
you brought me the soul back (after i have leaved the s.j.priesthood)and also the international 'Pesso-family'. You inspired my thinking. We have fighted (when i was in the government of the Dutch `Pesso-association) but remain honest and respectfull. I dreamed of you the night you were dying! We loved each other. Thank you. I hope you are now in the highest extremely love
May 28, 2016
May 28, 2016
Dear Al
I miss you! I am very grateful to have you known: I owe you so much. I will have a warm place for you in my heart. Thank you.
May 28, 2016
May 28, 2016
Last week we received the sad message that Al Pesso has past away. We will remember him as a great creative thinker and teacher. For so many therapists he has been an enormous inspirator with his constantly renewing method and way of working. Engaging the body in psychotherapy as he (and his wife Diane) has always been doing in a dedicated careful and respectful way, has given PBSP a unique position to PBSP in the therapeutical field. We are very gratefull that we have learned so much from him.

Our thoughts are with his children and others who were dear to him.

The Board of the PBSP Community, Netherlands
May 27, 2016
May 27, 2016
Dear Al,
thank`s a lot for inspiring me and the rest of the world, with your creative and encouraged approach , specially the psychological one with it`s desperate searching human beings. Your input enriched my work profoundly . My colleague Sabine Lück and I could take a further step to develop our Methode Generation-Code. And I promise I`ll do my very best to take care of your wealthy,wealthy gift !
I wish you a good journey into another space !
Ingrid Alexander
May 27, 2016
May 27, 2016
From his obituary.

Albert Pesso, beloved husband of Diane Boyden Pesso & son of Esther Albala & Bohor Ben Saba Pincas Pesso, died after a long illness on May 19, 2016 in Boston, MA. Born Sept. 19, 1929 he leaves 3 daughters, Tana Pesso, Tasmin Pesso, & Tia Pesso Powell, 4 grandchildren, Chris F. Edley III, Kyra Chu Pesso, Jonathan Pesso Chu, & Xoren Pesso Powell, brother Sam Pesso, & sister Sylvia Waldner.

With his wife, Al created Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor, a widely respected interactive technique that helps clients create new memories to compensate for emotional deficits in the past. He has been called one of the 3 living masters of body-based psychotherapy and was chosen in 2012 to receive a Lifetime Achievement Award by the U.S. Assoc. for Body Psychotherapy.

Al began his career as a dancer & choreographer, studying under Martha Graham and May O’Donnell. He & Diane met as Bennington College students, then married & danced in NYC. Al received his B.A. from Goddard College. In 1956, they established a dance center in Quincy, MA & within 5 years developed the foundational theory of PBSP. Encouraging dancers to allow their bodies to act out their inner feelings, they observed that the resulting emotional outpouring was cathartic, but did not help the individual heal their emotional scars. They went on to develop an interactive model that drew on spatial relationships, specific wording, & physical touch to provide a response from the outer world to each of the inner needs expressed. This facilitated the creation of new body-based memories to counteract memories of past emotional deficits. Al was a tenured assoc. professor & dir. of Emerson College’s dance dept. while he & Diane developed, practiced, & began teaching their new form of body-based psychotherapy.

Al served as dir. of Psychomotor Therapy at McLean Hospital & the Pain Unit of the N.E. Rehabilitation Hospital; adjunct prof. at Fielding Inst.; & consultant in psychiatric research at the Boston VA Hospital. He also taught PBSP at Harvard’s continuing education program & at other educational & medical institutions abroad. He has written & contributed to many books & more than 50 articles, & led hundreds of seminars around the world.

Al was a featured speaker at many psychology conferences, such as: the American Academy of Psychotherapists; the Assoc. of Humanistic Psychology; the National Inst. for Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine; the Berlin Psychoanalytic Inst.; the European Congress on Body Psychotherapy; & the American Assoc. of Marriage & Family Therapy. He also presented at medical schools & hospitals, including Grand Rounds at BU’s Medical School.

Considered a uniquely gifted ‘therapists’ therapist’ Al helped thousands of clients to achieve lives of greater happiness, satisfaction, & meaning. He established PBSP training centers around the world which have certified hundreds of PBSP therapists & trained an excellent cadre of PBSP trainers & supervisors who carry on the work to the highest standards. It brought Al & Diane deep gratification in their final days to know that they left had their life’s work in such capable hands.

Like his wife, Al had a deeply compassionate wish to heal all the wounds of the world. He will be sorely missed by friends & family who remain inspired by his life's work, fierce dedication, playful spirit, & unique soul.

A joint memorial service for Al & Diane will be held in Camb., MA TBD. See http://www.forevermissed.com/albert-pesso/#about for tributes.
May 27, 2016
May 27, 2016
Dear Al
I miss you and i will have a warm place for you in my heart. I am so grateful to have known you: i owe you so much! Thank you.
May 26, 2016
May 26, 2016
Dear Al
The world is a better place because of you and your gift of PBSP to the world. The work has changed my life both personally and professionally. You were a giant of a man despite your stature and I consider myself lucky enough to have been your student. Your sparkly eyes, and wayward brows, your balletic exercises in the breaks, I will miss you. Wise, compassionate, intuitive and gentle, I will carry you with me forever. I will continue to work with PBSP in your honour and as you wanted. I take comfort in knowing you are with your beloved Dianne. A brilliant gem, I am so grateful, thank you.
Kate McGeever PBSP practitioner UK.
May 26, 2016
May 26, 2016
Dear Pesso Boyden kin family (and wider therapy family)
I hope that the immense legacy of your parents and the positive impact they have had on peoples lives is of comfort to you. PB helps at so many levels and the work continues through the trainers and teachers who have been so inspired by Al.
Your gallery is beautiful, thank you for sharing this with the world.
Heartfelt condolences
Clare
May 26, 2016
Lieber Al
von Herzen möchte ich dir danken für die vielen Schätze
die ich von dir erhalten habe
Du bist mir ein großes Vorbild und wirst mich in meinem Innersten immer begleiten
JAI SAT CHIT ANAND
Tiare
May 26, 2016
Lieber Al
von Herzen möchte ich dir danken für die vielen Schätze
die ich von dir erhalten habe
Du bist mir ein großes Vorbild und wirst mich in meinem Innersten immer begleiten
JAI SAT CHIT ANAND
Tiare
May 26, 2016
May 26, 2016
Al, I am back here, just to write that we were able to publish your book in Spanish also thanks to the contributing author and your coteacher and Senior Trainner, Lowjis Perquin, to whom I am thankful for his generosity, wisdom and compassion.
May 26, 2016
May 26, 2016
Dear Al,

I am so sad getting to know that you left this world. I missed the chance to meet you once again last year. But I am so grateful having met you at all! You have influenced my life so deeply, in professional as well as in personal terms. Representing the most important psychotherapist for me, being a great teacher and model, I am keeping your warm and smiling face in my heart.

I remember meeting you and Diane in Amsterdam in 2009, talking to you about my study, Diane and you holding hands. That was a moment of happiness for me, a real click of closure.

Thank you for everything,

farewell forever,

Silke Wächter
May 26, 2016
May 26, 2016
Dear Al,

I remember the first time I met you, being so impressed by the clarity of your lectures and the profound answers that you were able to give to such complex questions, that seemed to make everything clear. I loved the way you referred to 'the boys in the back room' when using your decades of experience and wisdom to work with someone. And I love that PBSP is about the soul as well as the ego.

I can honestly say that your work has changed my life. So much that I feel dedicated to spreading the word about PBSP. Thank you for such insight, wisdom, and grace. I am not alone, in the community of Pesso Boyden practitioners, when I say that you will be missed as a teacher, guide and mentor. A heartfelt thank you for what you did for us all.

Juliet Grayson, UK PBSP trainer
May 25, 2016
May 25, 2016
The first time I met you in Munich was 1996: I was deeply impressed by your person, your technical competence and your openness and sensitivity towards people. I experienced your creativity during all these years as very enriching. I am very grateful to you for your contribution of the psychotherapy in German. We will miss you everybody very much.
Leonhard Schrenker
Trainer vor PBSP
May 25, 2016
May 25, 2016
Dear Al,

I am very very proud of being one of your practitioners in Germany. I never found again such a wonderful way of becoming who we really are.
Thank you for making this world to a better world with your being. You are with me and my work where ever I am.
Thank you Al. 
Eva
May 25, 2016
May 25, 2016
Dear Al,
my heart is filled with sadness and thankfullness.
I remember when I first got to know PBSP being in another training. I knew at once I wanted to learn the method. What I felled without having words for I could develop during the last 16 years. And I still am developping...
But most of all I could become a happier person - with you and all the other people you taught and inspired.
Thank you!
May 25, 2016
May 25, 2016
I am deeply grateful to have met such a warm, creative, wise and inspiring man. Al has had a profound impact on me personally and professionally, since I first met him in our PBSP training group 24 years ago. His understanding of the essentials of human existence, the importance of the body and the power of healing interaction is a gift to the professional field and to all of us who came to know him. Thank you for the dance, Al! Odd Harald Røkenes, Trondheim, Norway
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
Today we received the sad news that Al Pesso has died.
Many of us were connected in various kinds with Al Pesso. As part of the lecture and workshop at the HAKOMI Summer Conference Berlin in 2014, he has given us a vivid impression of his body prychotheratic approach.
A master of body psychotherapy, which will allways remain important to us, is gone. We mourn a great teacher and warmhearted man.

In thoughts to his family, which has to cope with this heavy loss.

On behalf of the faculty of HAKOMI Institute of Europe e.V.
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
Dear Al,

as we didn't ever meet each other, I would like to thank you anyway. As you and Diane are authors of PBSP, "you" helped me to stand again on my feets when I felt really hopelessly. It was such a relief to really feel, know and understand, what is going on in my head and in my heart. And have opportunity to fill my needs.

So I decided to enter PBSP world as a thearapist. I really feel sorry I'll not get to know you as a teacher. Your work and your spirit will not be forgotten.

Frank Soukup, psychiatrist
Czech Republic, Central Europe
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
Dear Al,
My heart is filled with gratitude and sorrow. Thank you for showing me the opening of the heart, the mind, the body, the soul, and the integration of them.
Thank you for comming to Norway, years after years , starting back in the eighties, teaching, sharing and becomming a dear friend.
With deep honoring to you and Diana.
With lots of love to your daugthers and theire families.
Magnhild Kvamsdal Hope
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
Dear Al,
your way of working was scientific and art at once. It was with heart and mind. Timeless. Diane and you are ahead of your time, for many years. Thank you.
Mona from Freiburg
May 23, 2016
May 23, 2016
Dear Al
Thank you for all your wonderfull therapeutic solutions, for your warm hearted advice for how to change desperation into hope. I will carry your gift in my heart and let others know about you and what you gave to the world. Thank you Al, yours Sabine Lück
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May 8, 2022
Dear Al,

I'm remembering you this month with gratitude for my personal healing and the skills you taught me as a trauma therapist. You would love all the brain research that has come out since your passing! May your soul continue to elevate. May you, your family and all have peace and happiness.

Much love,

Barb Segura
Recent stories

Captain Nemo

June 20, 2017

You were so proud of your little boat. During our trips on the lake I teased you bij giving you the name Captain Nemo. 

Franklin

June 20, 2017

This picture was taken in  Fall 1980 when I visited Al & Diane in Franklin NH.I was the director of De Borckerhof in Orvelte, Netherlands were Al started his first therapy groups in the Netherlands. He named it 'The womb' of my project.
We became friends and I stayed with them in Franklin.

aLBERT pESSO AND dIANE LITERALLY SAVED MY LIFE

February 23, 2017

i MET AL AND DIANE AND WORKED WITH PSYCHO MOTOR FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS.......yEARS EARLIER I WAS RADICALLY TRAUMATIZED WHEN AT ABOUT 6 YRS OLD I WENT WITH MY DR FATHER TO WORCESTER AND SAW THE RESULTS OF THE TORNADOES IN WORCESTER MA AND WENT INTO ACUTE PANIC...i HIDE IN MY BASEMENT FOR ALONG TIME AND WITHDREW INTO MYSELF...i MET AL WHEN I WAS ABOUT 18-19 YRS OLD STILL DEEPLY REECESSED INTO MYSELF.GOING FROM SPECIES STANCE TO DEALING WITH M,Y MOST BLOCKED EWMOTIONS. AL HELPED LIBERATE ME...NOW I AHVE WANDERED ALLL OVER THEE WORLD HANGING OUT WITH SAINTS AND NOW AM WITH THE ENORMOUSLY BEATIFIC BRACO FROM ZAGREB...i FOUND WAHT I WAS LOOKING FOR. iT WOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED WITH OUT AL AND DIANE....

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