Memories of Alfredo D. Puckett, (1949 - 2021)

(Story contributions from Manong Douglas, Gary, Susan, and Warren O)

Not all golfers can teach, and not all golf teachers are good at playing golf. I think for the most part, you're either good at one or the other. To teach golf and how to play golf involves skills, talent, patience, and passion. I love playing golf but I don't have the patience and technical abilities to teach golf. I remember him talking about pronation of the wrist and arm during the golf swing. All my goal then was to make sure I hit the ball so I can watch it fly instead of rolling on the ground off the tee.

Manong Fred was blessed. He was able to do both.
His form and game were great, backed by multiple wins and success as an amateur golfer. Despite that he didn't stop. Older or not, he continued to work on his game and hit balls at the driving range.
Working at the driving range at CJH gave him the chance to teach golf lessons early on.
It was back in the 80's for us girls in the family when Mng Longay introduced us to golf. From then on we occasionally got lessons from Manong Fred at the driving range. Along with Judy, Thel and I continued when we went back to Baguio to finish our last year in nursing school.

Susan and Mat, even Alfree and Mikee got their own instruction at other times. Susan got a lot more when she met up with Manong Fred for vacation in New Zealand in 2019.
Gary got his lessons way back while working as pulot-boy at the driving range, when he caddied for him during tournaments, and whenever they played golf together.
Laureez may be the youngest student-she was putting and hitting balls before she was 5 years old.
Nico Valencerina thinks he was his last student. "Sayang lang ta very short nang isurwan na kanyak. Bka dagos ak linmaing if Uncle Fred didn't go immediately to the fairways in heaven".
Warren Oppod, a CJH caddie also said other caddies got better at golf after learning from Mng Fred.

He was patient. Judy and Susan said he just watched and observed, then build from there- improve or correct the flaws.
Richard S. Valdez said, "thank you for your untiring lessons...rain or shine".

In the beginning, golf in Baguio was for the elite and privileged. Our brothers who all worked as caddies when they were young saw it being in and around CJH.
Gary said, "At that time malagip ko dagiyay lang local military officers like Gen. Martin, some local doctors, lawyers, and politicians played golf in Baguio. Some tourist celebrities were also the costumers diay driving range bago da agay ayam".

Then golf in Baguio flourished in the 90's. Manong Douglas said,
"On those years, 1991 going forward, some City Hall employees, Mayor Domogan as number one; local businessmen. PMAers, some doctors.
Then other establishment owners and companies followed:
Beneco, NBI, Lepanto engineers and management, La Trinidad politicians, police departments all over Cordillera. Mostly nga inmasinso nga Igorot, nagsuro da met nga agay ayam ti golf.
Karkaro nga inmadu da idi adu ti businesses nga nag sponsor ti players to promote their establishment during the annual FilAm tournament.
Idi nakita dan no kasano karagsak ti maki join ti tournaments especially during the FilAm, adu ti nainganyu nga ag golf.
Isu nga dagidyay agrugrugi, kinamang da ni Mang Fred.
Isun ti naging word-of-mouth nga no kayat da nga lumaing, agpasuro da kenni Mang Fred".

Gary added,
"Dagiyay baro nga golfers ti Baguio manginaan da ti golf lessons, isunga ti ikaskasta da ag pa suro da idiay kadwa da nga beginners or caddies. Nu marikna da nga awan progress da, ag damag da nu sino ti pag pasuruan. Daddy's name is always recommended. According to Daddy, umay dan to lang ag pa suro nu makita da nga narigat gayam ti golf, tapos ken na develop en ti bad habits in the swing. There are a few nga ti amu da nu na i-suruan ti 1 lesson session, ayos en. Jejeje...
Dagiyay daduma ag birbiruk lng ti libre- puros lang damag nu kasano ti ikasta ti swing. Karkaro nu ada isuna idiay driving range, nagadu ag pa diagnose ken agpa correct ti swing. Mabain lang ni Daddy nga ibaga nga P400 per hour. Isuro an na latta. Ngem adu dagiyay long time na nga student from Juniors like Janjan Dacawi. Tata ni Janjan kalaban min nga top scorer ti ka division mi nga team idiay FilAm. jejeje... Ken adu met dagiyay binmayag nga sinursuro an na. Tapos dagiyay nabayag nga am-ammu na, like the Valencerina brothers, madi na ag pa bayad. Dagiyay daduma ag pa lunch da lang, ayos en kanyana.
On the other hand, nu isuna met ag kasapulan, they do not hesitate to help Daddy. Especially ni Doc Pul-oc nga surgeon, long time nga student ken friend ni Daddy. Isuna nang i serek kenyak trabaho idiay Pines Hospital tapos inoperaan dak keni Alfree idiay private hospital, libre PF na.
Ni Mr. Park studyante na met. Um-umay diay balay ag pa suro ti putting. Gapo ta haan nga kayat ni Daddy nga ag pa bayad, agi umay ni Mr. Park ti 1 cavan nga jasmine rice ken groceries. Ni Park pay mang bagkat diay bagas nga ibaba idiay balay. Jejeje!!!"

Susan remembers how it was surreal watching adult men getting lessons in golf at the CJH driving range. It's not unusual, just that here, we see more of kids learning to play golf at an early age.

Nico and his uncle Dr. Charles Valencerina and his brothers echoed the same sentiment as above: "He always gives instructions on how to improve your game for free. He never really charges for his golf lessons. I believe he is just so happy to teach golf."

I remember that a few years back, we were brainstorming on a golf instruction/club repair business model and proposal for him. Add to it an eatery that would cater to his customers, run by Manang Lau. His clientele was already established. He was the go-to golf instructor. He also had the infrastructure to repair golf clubs. Somehow, our plan didn't take off. True to Mommy's words from long ago, "running a business is not in our family". She said that bodes well for the other side- the Uncle Bagtang and Sinaking side. They were successful and did well in business, but not us.
He could have done more-Fred's Learning Center or something like that, made more money, but it wasn't meant to be. We don't regret it, I don't think he did either. He was content and rich inside with his passion to play and teach golf. Looking back, we appreciate how much he has given back to his community and how he influenced a lot of people .

Pinewoods GC opened in Dec. 2014. It helped popularize golf even more because it's a public course. More new golfers followed. He even taught the caddies crew of Pinewoods.
"At least lately before Covid kunana nga inmadu estudyante na nga contractors ken pulis." (Gary)

Atty Gregorio Jr Abalos summed it all, "he was part of every John Hay golfer's life."
"It is an honor and privilege to be taught by you even in a short time (Dr. Geranyl Laguardia).
Even a widow friend had a special request:
"May there be golfing in the next life. Try to teach my husband if there is" (Gatumay Sumebang Sudaypan).
"To the greatest golfer of Baguio of all times...I'll never forget your teachings Manong Fred (Rommel Frencillo).
They thanked him for the golf lessons and tips; for being their teacher, mentor, coach, adviser; "for everything you taught us during our junior golf days" (Macky Garcia), even "your tips on how to play BCC I will forever cherish" (Raymond Bunquin).

Unfortunately, others missed out.
Pigeon said, "he was always telling me to start playing, never did..." However he got to see golf in action from Mng Fred as he was one of Baguio sports writers who regularly covered the golf events.

Maybe Aprille will be encouraged to pick up a club and give golf a shot.

And so I say he helped grow the game in Baguio and the Cordilleras. He gave back to the community by teaching golf, by teaching he influenced, and he greatly did.

September 22, 2021

Manong Fred The GOLFER, The CHAMPION, The LEGEND

Manong Fred was born & started growing up at CJH until the family moved in 1954 to Greenwater, aka "Campo Utso" back then for some, according to Manong Douglas. He practically grew up in the par-69 golf course where he learned the rudiments of the game. As a young kid, he worked as a shag boy (ball retriever) at the driving range then later on as a caddie. To make more money, he also looked for lost balls in the rough and woods around the golf course then sold them to golfers.

As one of his younger sisters, I remembered him more as a caddie who lived a simple life. He loved to hang out or "ag istambay" at the caddies house with his friends when work was slow or "awan makadian da", especially during the rainy season. Before going home from work, Manong Douglas said, "apan kami agbiruk ti oong diay bantay around CJH ta mamati kami adu oong nu napigsa ti tudo ken bagyu".

But I didn't know that he can play and he's a good GOLFER. He started winning & collecting trophies on their monthly caddies tournament. He was the best amongst the caddies during his time.

He treated the golf course as his playground, from Luzon, Visayas, & Mindanao whenever he had the chance, in either individual or team events. He kept on winning and became a regular figure at the stage to accept his awards. He was very prominent in the annual Fil-Am Invitational Golf Tournament, whether with the same or different team. The Texans was his team back in 1989. He also played for Greenwater Meadows, but mostly for either team CJH or Pugad for many years.

His teammates relied on his A game, although sometimes they did have "a bad day at the office". But in golf there's always betting- pinnustaan. His friends, especially the Koreans, love to bet and with more money. They would bet on him because they know they would get their money back.

He got lots of congratulatory texts & messages amongst his friends & other people who knew him every time he won, like "champion ka manen, awan kupas na, mayat"; "congratulations Manong Fred, Legend ng Baguio"; "the champ is always a champ".

He was well known to a lot of people especially in the local golfing world. But knowing him as a soft spoken person and not one to announce himself, he just let his golf clubs and his game do the talking. He never complained when his game was bad and he was never hard on himself either.

Whenever he got the chance, he was sending messages in the Puckett message center. His last one was "Happy Father's Day to all the fathers out there" on 6/19/21, six days before he passed.

He got to meet and know a lot of different people aside from his regular teammates and some close friends. But they also wanted to learn more of his game since he was known as the best amateur par buster in the summer capital.

Golf is a wonderful game. He loved to play because it gave him joy and satisfaction. He was fortunate to have had the chance to play at many different golf courses and be able to appreciate the beauty of nature while out there playing. He had the freedom to play whenever he could, not wasting a minute every time he played. He played his last shot at hole #17 until he couldn't play anymore. Sadly there's always an end to everything we do. God had other plans for him. Who knows, there could be a greener pasture in heaven.

Thank you Manong Fred for giving us a glimpse and making us appreciate your very successful career in golf even though we're far from each other and not there to celebrate with you every time you won. We didn't know how big your impact would be until you were gone.

You have the heart of a CHAMPION. Your collection of trophies and awards will remind us always of who you were - from your humble beginnings to becoming a LEGEND.

Gone but not forgotten, your memories will live forever. Heroes are always remembered but LEGENDS never die.

THANK YOU MIKEE

August 31, 2021

I struggled for a story for Michael because I don't really know him other than from what I hear from the family. Manang Lau shared that the name "Michael" was chosen by Mng Fred from the Bible - Michael the archangel. Mng Fred's second son, he is Mikee to the family. I was not in Baguio anymore when he was growing up.
I realized that my story for Mikee is a special and simple Thank you Mikee.

The world is changing in many different ways. They say the only constant is change, thus to change we adapt and try to move on so we can continue on this road of life.
"Lockdown" leaves a bitter taste and smell in my senses. Much as we wanted to fly back to Baguio in June, it became a very difficult undertaking. For Alfree and Mng Longay who got it done with the help of family, we couldn't ask for more, considering all the challenging times of new protocols, rules, and guidelines.
Our existence is steeped with traditions. No matter how the world advances, we will try to hold on and continue with what we were raised with as a family and a community.
Death and dying is not new, but it is a significant event in the cycle of life. Though absent from Baguio and separated by a long distance, we still had to be part of Mng Fred's passing and partake in the tradition of 'namatayan'.

Mikee made it happen while dealing with his own sorrow and shock since he last saw his Papa at the hospital.

With his old computer, some technical skills, and rigging here and there, he bridged the distance between Baguio and wherever else family and relatives were to be able to participate. From Cambodia, Alfree and Mng Longay in quarantine in Manila, the Douglas' and Mat's family, Manang Josie, Susan, Epin, Thel, and Aprille in California; George in Washington State, Mng Susan in Las Vegas, Grace in New Jersey, Mng Arcee in New York, Leah in Iowa, BJ in Germany, Aprille in Egypt, Judy and family and Gary in New Zealand, and Auntie Terry & Eulinette in Australia. We were virtually attending the lamay, catching up with family, Greenwater and Baguio - our 'lupang sinilangan'.
We attended the funeral and burial service virtually- the new way of connecting with each other as the world is changing.

Mikee and his computer were
hard at work for over two weeks, 24/7 even after Mng Fred was finally laid to rest. Aprille said he had to place a fan next to his setup to cool off the computer. He worked hard to ensure our connection was always there and we were always able to be part of the lamay- whether on our own or as a group for us here in San Diego.

Thank you Mikee. Though very surreal and different, we somehow were still able to partake in the tradition and practice of lamay.
It wasn't the same as being there in person, but under the circumstances, we can't complain, and we let it be.

You'll be proud Mng Fred and Manang Lau, your son delivered.
Like his Papa, it seems like he doesn't talk much so we don't hear much from Mikee, but he gets things done as he had shown us. In the initial absence of Alfree and without Gary, Mikee was there to help support Mng Lau & Laureez. It's almost fitting that he didn't leave for abroad- not yet anyway. We can look back now and say maybe there was a purpose to that.

Thank you Mikee for all your hard work and for sharing all the pictures from your family albums.
"Leader Of The Band" was specially selected for you by Aprille.
Thank you Aprille for specially thinking of Mikee and that project. You have a big heart and I know you have his back.

(Pictures from Mikee, Alfree, Aprille, and Gary)

June 25th

August 30, 2021

Here I am again on quarantine and memories keep on flashing back. Overwhelmed with emotions, I grabbed a pen & paper and scribbled down the words coming out of my head then later on typed it here. So here it goes...

Life is unpredictable! You don't wake up in the morning, plan your day and expect it to happen just exactly as you planned.

I woke up on the 25th of June planning what the day would be like. It's Friday, it's almost weekend and it's summer break so, no work! I was thinking of doing laundry, continue the TV series I was watching, food to eat, and coffee with friends in the afternoon. It was never in my plan to end up with a heart breaking event. It was lunch time when Mikee called. His intro was, "ano na pangalan nung friend mo dito sa ER sa BGH?" I told him her name and asked why? He said, "Si Papa natumba daw sa John Hay." This pandemic made it difficult to know what exactly is happening. As per hospital protocol, no one is allowed to go inside. So, I phoned my friend who works at BGH, asked if she's on duty but unfortunately, she isn't. She said she'll make some calls to get an update. I was on the line with Mikee when the doctor in charge came out to give an update. The words that had registered to me were massive heart attack, CPR, 13 cycles. Everything in between the calls, messages , and prayers were blurry. When he came out for the next update, he said that Papa responded, he's got pulse but still unconscious. They allowed Mikee to go inside for a while to see him. The camera was on so I was able to see him too. He was lying motionless and Mikee was talking to him, telling him "Pa, bumangon ka ah, urayen ka." That was the last time we saw him that day. We need to wait for him to be transferred toICU then a watcher will be allowed. When I called again at around past 4 (5 in the PI) to askhow was the transfer, Mikee was not picking up. Then, I received a message from our group chat - " Mng Fred now with the Lord." It didn't make sense, we were just waiting for him to be transferred in the ICU. I called the tita who sent the message but she isn't answering too. I tried Mikee again and this time he picked up but didn't speak. His camera was on. I was crashed! I never saw him cried like that. Papa didn't make it to the ICU. Everything around turned dark but I needed to pull it together because I have things to do. Thanks to my friends here in Cambodia, they were my systems coz mine were not functioning well. I was numb and I felt like I was floating. With them, who did most of what's needed to be done, I was able to fly home. I got through my flights, the 10 days quarantine, the unreasonable "protocols." Then, it was time to face reality! I mean looking at him lying there "virtually" is not the same as seeing it personally. I was preparing myself, calming my nerves, getting hold of my emotions but after seeing him lying there so peacefully, I realized I didn't need to coz he already did it for me. The heaviness in my chest that I felt ever since I've heard the painful news, it suddenly felt so light. Until now though, I'm still not convinced it happened. When I was home, it feels like he's just somewhere playing golf and will be home soon. Now that I'm back here, still waiting for him to appear in front of the camera and do his "artista poses" like he always do when I'm having a video call with mommy. But I do know that he's there watching over us, all of us! Miss you Pa

FROM CADDIE TO MENTOR

August 29, 2021

(Copied newspaper article, May 1, 1989 "CADDIES CAN PLAY")

A golf tournament was held to find out once and for all just who was the best among the Camp John Hay caddies.
     It turned out to be very hotly contested and a tournament in which the spirit of competition was quite visible. Not to be outdone by the golfers they caddie for, the tournament ended in a sudden death play-off.
     When the dust settled, Fred Puckett emerged as the best of the best, shooting a one over par 69. He was given a trophy and a gift certificate for his accomplishments.
     All the caddies took home mementos of the competition. It is anticipated we will be having future caddie tournaments regularly to keep a close eye on just how good at the game of golf these full time mentors of our game are.

He was a caddie who was also good at his game, developed early on from being in and around CJH. He probably learned golf from caddying and from the amateur and recreational golfers at the base, back then were usually military personnel, some visiting from Clark, Subic, or other US bases in the region. Then on his own as that was the way back then - no golf instructor to go to. Luckily for the caddies they had their own Caddie's day on Mondays when they were allowed to play golf. Surely this gave them a chance to practice and hone their golfing skills. I don't know when this tradition started, but Marcelo and Warren said this was eliminated when the base was turned over to the Phil. govt. and a new administration took over. This was in 1991 according to history.
"1986 ngrugi ak nga kadi during American time, ada idi caddies day every Monday ken agpapa caddies tournament d py, ngem di na iturn over dan, naawanen caddies day.." (Warren Oppod)

He went on to compete in other national caddies tournaments, the earliest picture we've seen dates back to 1974, the year Daddy passed, I was seven years old.
Looking at the picture recently, Susan was amazed that even back then, they had a gallery of spectators. I noticed his driver was a persimmon head-a far cry from today's high-tech golf clubs.
From the '80s-'90s and going forward he was competing and playing in different golf tournaments as an amateur golfer. For almost 50 years he played and showed how good and passionate he was at golf. He started out as a humble caddie, and now regarded as a mentor to many who learned to love and play the game.

Papa was Rich!

August 25, 2021

“Your father is a golfer? So, mayaman kayo!” I get this a lot. I would usually answer- “yeah, if we could sell his trophies then we will be.” Little do they know that he could play like Tiger Woods but he’s not being paid like him. It’s actually quiet the opposite ‘coz instead of him being paid, he was the one paying when he played. His prize was doing his passion, the trophies were just consolations. Another consolation prizes were the things he got from the lucky draws at the end of each tournament. He was lucky enough to have brought home TVs, washing machines, and other appliances but ran out of luck in bringing home a car. One day though, he came home from a tournament that was held somewhere in the lowlands (sorry nobody remembered where exactly). “Enka kunin yung motorcycle natin doon sa taas,” Papa told Laureez. In doubt but curious, Laureez went up. She came down with a bicycle instead and Papa was laughing then he said, “mag aral ka ng mag bike.” That’s one of his latest present to Laureez. She’s still learning to ride it and I know Papa is there to keep the balance for her to keepmoving…

Yes, our father is a golfer, a legend in fact! Yes, he was rich ‘coz richness is not about what you have. It is about who you are. He was humble, genuine, generous, and he touched the lives of others. With golf and his passion, plus his attitude, fellowship, social skills, etc. he gained respect, friendship, brotherhood, and more. That’s what made him rich!

FATHER And DAUGHTER

August 24, 2021

Alfree said her Papa was the only one who called her Apee.
It makes it special just between the two of them, father and daughter.
We all know she took the long- and I'd say - winding road to get back home to family to help out and be there to support her Mama, Mikee, Laureez, and Manong Jack.
Ten days of quarantine at a hotel the moment she landed in Manila from Cambodia on June 29. I can't even imagine but I'm sure being sequestered that long is not fun, let alone knowing she wanted so much and needed to be in Baguio while her Papa lies in wake at home. On top of that, follow all protocol of the new world order.
Did you know there was a plan for what I called "Operation Alfree"?
Back in June, Susan found out and shared that:
"When she started her quarantine, the nephew of Mng Cathy and the cousin of Mng Lau who are both police big guns finally discussed what to do with Alfree. Unfortunately, they realized it was already late since she was outside of their jurisdiction & territory. Had they made plans earlier and coordinated with the Pasay PD, they could have whisked her away as soon as she got off the plane so that she will not go in that quarantine line!!"

As we know, 'operation dakma-in si Alfree' didn't end up happening. The universe provided for a different experience and story instead.

Susan has more to add to Alfree's story:
"We got to know her more during Mng Fred's wake, vigil, funeral, and interment. She is now the adult Alfree. Little did we know about her growing up because she was so quiet and out of the picture. I didn't realize she was in nursing school, then she had Laureez, then all of a sudden went to work abroad. When Mng Fred passed away, that's when she took the big role of a daughter and she did it so well. I'm so thankful she was able to go home for all of us. Now we get to know her more and this made me happy and for Mng Fred because now I know that he has a smart and responsible daughter."

Thank you Alfree, you make your parents and us all proud.

Against all odds, she took the long and winding road to see her Papa again and to say goodbye for the last time.
But the song says otherwise. It is very fitting as well. Manong Fred is telling her,
    "When times are hard, I know
                 you'll be strong.
     I'll be there in your heart, when
                 you'll carry on.
   ...Fathers and daughters, never
                  say goodbye."

We will all carry on, each and everyone in our own ways and our own timeline. Though we are not all together, know that you are not alone. We can all grieve as a family, but also celebrate a well lived life and keep his memory in our hearts and minds.

(Story collaboration with Susan, pictures from Alfree & her FB, & from the memorial website).

GOLF BUDDIES

August 19, 2021

The Valencerina brothers were close friends and golf buddies of Manong Fred. Throughout the years they shared friendship, camaraderie, golf lessons, and maybe even brotherhood. They have built relationships beyond golf that surely for Manong Fred were important and ones that he respected.

Nico, son of Clifton V. shared:
"Me and my uncles were the ones who encouraged him to come back and play since he stopped during the pandemic. Uncle Charles is a doctor and always giving him vitamins and lagundi tablets, and easily convinced Uncle Fred to get back to the fairways, so he joined us and started teaching again or guiding. Maybe I was one of his last student po. Sayang lang ta very short nang isurwan na kanyak. Bka dagos ak linmaing if Uncle Fred didn't go immediately to the fairways in heaven. Dyay maysa drive na, Papa was really amazed how he drives because awan ka effort-effort and it's very far, sunga "dwaaah" ti reaction ni father ko.
Uncle Fred may be enjoying the fairways in heaven. He has a very good heart. Madi na agpabayad kanyami dats why we bring him along no ayna pag fellowshipan mi as a family. And we laugh a lot even if Uncle Fred already stopped drinking. He joins us with lots of stories".
He shared the picture taken around April or May 2021 at Pinewoods and the video clips in this story.

Dr. Charles V. said, "that's the usual flights at Pinewoods every Saturday n Sunday.. From the left is Cyril V, Charles V, Ceasar V, Manung Fred, Clement Trinidad, Clifton V."
"It was a privilege to have known and be a friend with Manong Fred for the last 31 yrs. He was also my swing coach. Though we all wish he could have lived longer to enjoy the game he loved so much, but I guess God had other plans for him."

How is Manong Fred in golf?
I asked Charles.

"He is always good in golf playing like a pro. He makes sure that after the game his golf mates would learn something from him. He always gives instructions on how to improve your game for free. He never really charges for his golf lessons. I believe he is just so happy to teach golf."

The other brothers have high regards as well for Manong Fred:

Cess Valencerina:
"Rest in peace Mang Fred, my idol and coach from 1994, thanks for all the golf tips Mang Fred, u will be remembered for ever".
Gary said "Ceasar is the sparring partner of Daddy."
He also plays during FilAm for the NBI team.

Cyril Valencerina
"Rest in peace MANONG FRED. CONDOLENCE TO THE FAMILY. YOU'VE BEEN A GOOD TRAINER, A FRIEND, N ELDER BROTHER TO US."

Then there's also Dr. Inoc Laranang who played and stayed to the end with Mng Fred on June 25. It was very comforting when he shared his thoughts about that fateful day at John Hay. That day was surely life changing for him and Marcelo, Mng Fred's long-time caddie.
I'm sure there are other close friends, expected, as we know he taught countless golf enthusiasts in Baguio and the Cordilleras.

Buddies and friends - linked together by camaraderie, respect for each other, and love for the game of golf.

Thank you for all that you are to Manong Fred.
*. *. *. *. *. *

Videos & photo from Nico V; photos from Cess V and Alfree.

THEIR STORIES

August 16, 2021

I need not tell their stories. They were telling us with heartfelt expressions when they showed their outpouring of support upon hearing that Manong Fred was taken to the hospital, then offered condolences and words of sympathy with his passing. He has won multiple trophies and awards, but I think most importantly for him are the friendships and relationships that were forged with so many people throughout the years. He was even an idol for some. As we know, there would be no idol if there are no fans to appreciate the outstanding performance and achievement. Friends or fans, golf student, partner or buddy, even as adopted brothers, in golf or in life, thank you for all that you are to Manong Fred.

Here are some of their stories:

Kassandra Bacoco: Kayam data Uncle Fred...matago tago ka.

ConGen Kamagong Guevarra

God is always good. We pray for Ka Fred for his recovery.

Joseph Esteras
Get well soon brod...prayers.

Guiller Galwan
healing vibes

Peter Go
Get well soon partner.

Roly Bautista
paimbag ka super master idol Fred.

George Gorospe
Wishing your fast recovery. I will see you this coming seniors Fil-Am. God bless.

Chester Calpotura
Praying for your fast recovery Mang Fred. Magkasama pa tayo nung Sabado.

Noly Cariño
Had the rare privilege to be in a foursome with Mr Puckett during the FilAm Tournament years back. Rest In Peace, Fred.

Cess Valencerina
Rest in peace Mang Fred, my idol and coach from 1994, thanks for all the golf tips Mang Fred, u will be remembered for ever.

Scott Nevins
I played with him in the Fil-Am in the 80s, he was a very nice man! RIP.

Geranyl Laguardia
Rest in peace Sir. It is an honor and privilege to be taught by you even in a short time.

Cyril Valencerina
Rest in peace MANONG FRED. CONDOLENCE TO THE FAMILY. YOU'VE BEEN A GOOD TRAINER, A FRIEND, N ELDER BROTHER TO US.

Chester Calpotura
Mang Fred will be missed badly. Enjoy your golf in heaven with other family and friends who went ahead of us. God bless your soul manong.

Jonas Cochico
The North's counterpart of Mang Teroy in the South (Luzon).

Thomas Yahnke
Rip Freddie. In heaven only fairways, birdies, aces, pars, and eagles. You will be missed.

Rommel Frencillo
To the greatest golfer of Baguio of all times. Rest in peace, condolence to the family. I will never forget your teachings Manong Fred. God speed.

Fermin Ubungen
Condolence to the family.... Alfredo my Elementary classmate.

Oscar V Velasco
RIP- Fred my classmate.

Jolens Amangan
One of my fan, a good man. Rest in peace.

Manny Yra
RIP gayyem Fred.......prayers and sympathy to the family.....

Romeo Toribio
My deepest sympathy and condolences to the family of my dear friend Fred. RIP brother.

Den De Castro
rip idol#legendary

Michael Lawana
Rest in peace coach manung Fred Puckett!

Tony Abriol
Mang Fred
Bye
My friend
My mentor
My idol
Rest in peace

Jonathan A. Vergara
Godspeed mang Fred! Thanks for the golf tips and memories from way back.
You'll be missed Mng Fred! Condolences to the family.

Rey Anthony Leung
Very sad news. My prayers for you in your journey ahead Sir Fred.

박종원
I will never forget My best friend Fred Puckett.

Top Fan - Fhelina Humakey
Condolence to the bereaved family. Rest in peace sir..

Neov Isond Ciarga
(Luisita G&CC)
Condolence..a good man.RIP.

Ej Casintahan
Rest in peace partner!

Top Fan - Pinky Medez Silva (Bacolod)
Rest in peace sir Fred

Mark Llandro L Mendoza
(Batangas, Secretary Gen. of Phil. House of Representatives)
Rest in peace Manong Fred.

Charmaine Molintas
RIP Uncle Fred Puckett! Thank you for the golfing lessons wayback 1997 at the old Camp John Hay!

Nathaniel Jan Dalisay
Rest in Peace Idol! I'm always in awe whenever I watch you play during Fil-Am.

Noemi Dumepnas Padua
Rest in Peace sir! you will be missed.

George Gorospe
Rest In Peace kayong. I will be missing our brotherly conversations every time I take a vacation.

Zenyti De Guzman
Condelence Sir Fred. Parang kelan Iang kinadihan pa kita sir. Rest in peace sir.

Gardo Abalos
Rest in peace and condolence to the family.

Eunyoung Seo
Rest in peace sir Fred...

Beloy Gomez
Oo amo nko louy kaau.
Salamat sa lahat lahat na kabutihan at sa mga binigay mo. Paalam ser Fred.

Matthew Chin
Farewell Manong Fred my good friend and idol. You will be missed dearly.

Artemio Ambulog
Travel well Manong Fred.

Juriel Rain Gacayan Subli

Amante Fernandez Ria
I will cherish the things you taught me Manong Fred... It was an honor. Till we meet again ...

Eugene Martin
Condolences to the Family.. Rest in Peace Mang Fred.. Keep on playing the game up there...

ConGen Kamagong Guevarra
Eternal Rest grant unto you Ka Fred, we will miss you so much. Condolence to the bereaved family..

Top Fan - Charles Valencerina
Rest in peace Manong Fred. My swing coach for 31 years.

Jun Cabiles
Rest in Peace my mentor.

Gatumay Somebang Sudaypan Condolence, maybe there is golfing in the next life. Try to teach my husband if there is. Goodbye for now. Rest in peace.

Robert Bob Binaldo Basco
Manong Fred may be gone but never forgotten..

Roldan E. Cabatan
RIP Manong Fred...enjoy the fairway in heaven.

Valentina Abnasan
Our condolence to Manang Laura and family, siblings, and relatives.

Robert Laguipo
Rest in peace classmate.

Top Fan - Raymond A. Bunquin
RIP Manong Fred, your tips on how to play BCC I will forever cherish.

Top Fan - Macky Garcia
Rest in peace, Mang Fred. Thank you for everything you taught us during our jungolf days.

Matthew Chin
Farewell Manong Fred my good friend and idol. You will be missed dearly.

Artemio Ambulog
Travel well Manong Fred.

Noemi Dumepnas Padua
RIP sir! You will be missed.

Nico Valencerina
Rest in peace Uncle Fred. Thanks for the lessons. Condolence to the family.

Jun Cabiles
Rest In Peace Fred! My teacher/adviser! My mentor.

Baniaga Baniaga
Rest in Peace great teacher, you're now in the hands of the almighty and with your friends before you.

Law Camuyot
Rest in peace my coach Manong Fred. Condolence to the family.

تيفاني آن تيفاني
May you rest in peace sir Fred.

Mars Pucay
Condolences and prayers. May you RIP Manung Fred Puckett.

Mimi Foronda Conde
Kuya Fred rest in peace. Praying for your soul; how you love golf you even played till your last breath. Our condolence to your family.

DaNet Wong
Be missin' our very own legend....Praying for comfort to the family.

MA Rty
Go rest high...coach.

Brenda Lee Solang Sudaypan
It is such sad goodbye Mang Fred......

Chester Calpotura
I didn't know that was our last time to talk and be together in that elevator Mang Fred. I asked him, kmusta Mang Fred, inya napangabakan yu? 'Awan butata,' and his famous smile. Happy golfing with everyone who went ahead of us. May your soul RIP.

Shiloah Baoanen Tamonan
Prayers to the bereaved family. Manong will always be remembered of a well lived life and shared moments with us all.

Jun Salting
My deepest sympathy to the family. Condolence. Kunak no agkita ta pay partner.

Rubi Cuta
Go rest high..Mang Fred..

Banz Togz
Mang Fred rest in peace. Idol.

Ewing Decendario
CONDOLENCE POH IDOL MANG FRED.

Robert Bob Binaldo Basco
Manong Fred may be gone but never forgotten.

George Gorospe
I'll see you whenever we see each other again Kayong

Alfredo Malatag
RIP tukayo, and condolence to the family.

Richard S. Valdez
RIP Mang Fred...thank you for your untiring lessons...rain or shine ...

Jun Salting
May you RIP partner. My deepest sympathy to the Puckett family.

Francis B. Cuyop RIP master, condolence to the family.

Cesar Aragon
RIP GODFATHER.

Janice Domogan
Deepest condolences to the bereaved family.

Minot Galicia
RIP Teammate.

Roy Tarnate Sonson
RIP pare Fred.

Cotallis Lanie
RIP Uncle Fred, pakikmztah kmi ken Daddy.

Tom Dailey
I was one of the blessed to have known him.

Saldy Thomas
He will be remembered as a friend and the legend. Condolence to the bereaved family.

Peter Young
Condolences to the Puckett Family! May the peace of GOD be with them all during this time!

And to all the many others who simply said Condolence to our family and Rest in Peace for Manong Fred, thank you. You were all a blessing to us in our time of sorrow. God bless you all.

THE GOLF CONNECTION

August 11, 2021

"Sakyo!"
I can hear the calling out for Gary by his Mama or Dad, somewhere from their house, or maybe even as a loud summon to get home- enough playing at the bantay!
Manang Remy said she named him 'Sakyo' because he was a tiny kid, "haan nga dumak dakkel".

Turk or Gary, as we know him now, was remembering his younger days with Manong Fred:

"I don't remember much of him when I was growing up and in the elementary school.
I do remember that trip to the beach with my Dad and cousins when I was little. There was some sort of wooden tower and of course, who could forget the Airforce green jeep of Tito Jack. So many fun memories of that Jeep.
I started getting to know Dad more when I was in high school. Sometimes I'd go to his place in Zamora where they lived before to ask for allowance.
We got closer when he started teaching golf at the driving range at John Hay, and on summer school vacation and holidays like Christmas.
I used to go to the driving range and worked as shag boy picking up range balls. When there were no costumers, I got golf lessons from my very own The Legend."

"I also had the opportunity to watch and learn from the master at work when I caddied for him during the Fil-Am tournament. No caddie fee for me though when we lost the "pusta", jejeje.
Every other caddie on our flight envied me. I just handed Dad the driver or iron club for his tee shot then just waited for him around the greens. Next I'd give him a wedge or the putter for his next shot. Sadly for the other caddies, they were yelled at and abused by their boss for not finding the ball that flew out of bounds onto the kasamsamekan. When their boss mishit their shots, it was always the caddies' fault."

"Not in my case with my boss the steady golfer. "Natimbeng", that's what they called him because he drives the fairways most of the time. No looking for lost balls in the woods for me. His tee shots are mostly straight then would draw in the end."

"I'm glad that I learned and love to play golf because that is my "connection" with Dad.
And now whenever I am playing golf, it seems that he's just always around, watching my shots and pointing out my errors."

"With Daddy, the lessons are never ending..."

"WE DON'T SAY GOODBYES"

August 6, 2021

Manong Larry was able to make the long trip from San Diego back to Baguio on July 2, 2021, though he didn't make it to Baguio in time for the funeral and burial service on July 10. He had to be on a 10-day quarantine in Makati where he wrote the following eulogy for Manong Fred.

"Fred, we don't say goodbyes.

On the front-nine of your life as you have scrambled through the roughs and rugged roads, you have seen the pathways of human life, beset with triumphs, temptations, struggles and hardships, all terminating at last in the grave - the end of earthly ambitions.

Continuing on the back-nine to the journey of your life would be to that undiscovered country from where no travelers return. It would never be a challenge on your part. For what I have seen, knew, and experienced with you, and as evidenced by the zillion well meaning messages, words of sympathy, condolences, and videos all throughout, and from your fans, students, family, relatives, and love ones, I still have to come across a negative remark about you.

That in itself, My Brother, My Idol, and My Friend Fred, is your passport to The Fairways To Heaven.

We all will miss you so much. But please forget us not, because we will always remember you in our minds and in our hearts."

Thank you for unselfishly sharing your life amongst us."

Larryzan or The King as you once called me
July 8, 2021

BROTHERLY LOVE

August 5, 2021

Manong Fred and Manong Jack, 2nd and 3rd in the Puckett Family of siblings, with distinct personalities and very different from each other. They don't even agree with each other all the time.
Lakay Fred is how Manong Jack refers to him at times. A generous brother, he shared his home with Manong Fred and his family so they moved from the main family house 'apartment' to a bigger space at his house.
They both play golf, though not as much for Manong Jack, and at very different levels.
Early on, Manong Fred was competitive. The local sportswriters in Baguio have described him as 'veteran parbuster Fred Puckett, a consistent top individual medalist in the annual Fil-Am International Golf Tournament'.
He was also a regular competitor and winner in amateur tourneys in Baguio, other cities, and as far away as Davao.
Manong Jack had different interests and endeavors in life. He says he's also done it all- golfing- but really "ha-anak met mahilig ti golf."
He recalls a recent golfing trip to Dagupan with Manong Fred and his friends. He wasn't happy that he was the driver for the group and he didn't win. I got the sense he would rather not be playing golf with Manong Fred. But he enjoyed the raffle drawings and prizes after the tournament. He's even won a few.
Jokingly, I told him he is only second-rate to Manong Fred. He burst out laughing & said I was right. Mat, Thel, and I were telling him it's now his time to shine since we lost our Legend Golfer. We all shared a good laugh.
Gleefully and happily, he told us that recently, also in Dagupan, on a yearly tournament, "naabak ko isuna!" He beat Manong Fred, by 2 shots!
What a feat! I'm sure that made his day. I think Gary has been trying to also beat his dad.

The morning of June 25, Manong Fred knocked early for Manong Jack to drop him off to his tournament at John Hay.
"Thank you" were his parting words with Manong Jack.
And so it was- the last of the brothers seeing each other and the last in the family to see him off. Manong Fred played until he couldn't play anymore...
My heart ached for Laura, Mikee, and Manong Jack who were there at home and had to be the ones to face it first. Once again, as was many decades ago for Manong Jack & Grace's & BJ's Mama, he was summoned to help attend to the immediate loss. We've dealt with other losses in the family, but it was different for him in the case of Mommy and Manong Domenic.
Resilient as we know him, and with a good disposition, we know he'll be ok. With a repaired heart, we all hope he's got more years ahead of him, because whether he likes it or not, I think Manong Fred passed on the torch to him. He has big shoes to fill, so let's go easy on him.
We will never have another Manong Fred, but we have a Manong Jack, Lakay Jack to a few of the nephews. He is also deserving of our brotherly love and support, just as he showed, in his own way, brotherly love for Manong Fred.

DAVAO EAGLEMASTERS

August 2, 2021

Considered the Fil-Am of the South.

Manong Larry recalls his last tournament with Manong Fred in Davao:

"Ditoy sa last nagkitaan mi ni Fred, Davao Eaglemasters in 2019. Isuna team Pugo, siak Iwakuni. Kadwa mi taga Binloc ken Bibak North East. Nanalo sina Fred of Team Pugad."
(Larry Puckett)

*. *. *. *. *. *

"Always in awe whenever I see Manong Fred play during Fil-Am, Davao Eaglemasters, and PAL Interclub. I hope he's playing up there too with Jesus."
(Nathaniel Jan Dalisay-Davao

June 2021)

We Will Dearly Miss You

July 30, 2021

"Rest in peace Manong Fred.
It was nice being your neighbor, kainuman and one of the close nga barkada ni tatang ko, kapamilya ti Greenwater and kapamilya ti Aclupen Family. We will dearly miss you. Just hoping and praying that you did not suffer on your last minutes. Dibale ta agkita kayo met kini Tatang ko ket ituloy yo latta ti inum ah ngem han yo latta nga sobsobraan dita wen.
Rest in peace again Manong Fred and thank you for everything that you were to us and especially to my Dad."
(Joy Grail June 26, 2021)

Mr. PARK

July 29, 2021

"I will never forget My best friend Fred Puckett."

"Even Tiger Woods Cannot Orchestrate That!"

July 28, 2021

Susan's wrath July 16, 2021:

OMG Alfree!! THANK YOU!!
Everyone should go and read Alfree's post on the memorial wsite. I was on my way to a late appointment in the next hour but I decided to go to the wsite to check on the latest posting. I'm glad I did because I got to see the inner thoughts of Alfree about the loss of her Papa. She was able to put to words the inner and true persona of Mng Fred... so true, poignant, yet honestly funny in a way!!

I now have to admit .. all those efforts I did nagging him to get his colonoscopy; offers of smoke patches which I finally gave up; get physical check up; asking him to do lab works which didn't work. Gary ended up doing his blood draws, get MD orders from his friend doctors and run the blood specimens to the lab!!

He is right.. in the end all of these were not needed because he left this world HIS WAY- doing what he loves to do in his home course!!

What can I say!! I just realized how much I want him to stay healthy and live long so that we can golf with him when we go home... it's a privilege you know!! When Mat called me at work crying at around 3am, I was speechless; but most certainly, the clue that I heard amidst her crying spell that gave me a peaceful feeling was that: he was golfing when he went down!
l so thank you Alfree for sounding off ❤. I got to know how smart you are when putting your thoughts together and in writing like Tta Epin. Most importantly, your thoughts helped me and I hope the rest of us heal and deal with our sorrow and emptiness now that we realize he is really gone ❤.

Funny, but after reading your post, I felt like he just came down and said: "o, basaem daytuy tatnu maymayat ti riknam." I actually felt this way.

Thank you Alfree. Sorry I got carried away. Have a good day everyone. Thanks for reading to the end of my wrath!!❣️❣️"
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You said it best - "even Tiger Woods cannot orchestrate that!!!"

Baby Boomers to Alpha's

July 28, 2021

Have you ever wondered how our Family evolved over time?

Let’s analyze History and how it applies to our Lineage and Experiences

The Baby Boomer Era – these were the babies born after World War II. They are born between year 1964 – 1946 Ages 57 – 75 yrs old.

Why the rise in birth rate? After the war and Great Depression, soldiers went back to their hometown to start a family. Technology was unheard of, no telephone, just a black and white TV and a simple radio. How ironic since Bill Gates was born in this Era.

Baby boomers are “Manual Laborers”. They don’t need a fancy tool or machinery to complete a job. They relied on their physical strength and hands.

Higher Education is not the main focus, instead, survival to live. They worked around the house and helped in taking care of their siblings. It’s a generation where women stayed home to take care of the family while the man of the house works.

Divorce is frowned upon and the living situation is often shared in 1 roof.

Below are the Baby Boomers in the family. They were the product of Lolo John & Lola Rita.

Jocie
Fred
Jack
Larry
Douglas
Domenic

The Generation X - Born between 1980 and 1965 Ages 41 – 56 years old (Middle Age Years)

Unlike Baby Boomers, they were introduced to more opportunities & gadgets. Higher Education, Colored TV’s, Dial-up phones, type-writers, old fashion computer with a floppy disk storage, MTV, Video Games etc….. It’s the generation that technology was 1st introduced to. Computers at that time were not as fast as they are now, but it did its job.

Generation X are often referred to as the neglected generation because of the rising group of Millennials who are more sophisticated. As kids, Millennials were exposed to high tech computers with fast speed internet.

The Gen X’ers had to balance work, school & raising a family.

Even women’s rights movements are on the rise. Women demanded the same equal rights as their male counterpart.

Majority of the X’ers learned to self-support themselves to be able to pay their bills for school or any living expenses. Young adults started moving out of parent’s house and its more common to see single people living on their own.

The X’ers were also educated in Investing thru Stocks/Bonds & Real Estate.

These gen X’ers saw how hard their parents work but luxuries were not given to them. They swore, things will be different for their children. They wanted their children to have the things they never had.

Puckett Generation X’ers

Susan
Judy
Mat
Epin
Thel
Gary
Grace
Brian
Len - Len
Jayson

The Millennials – Born between 1996 – 1981 Ages 25 – 40 Yrs Old (21st Century Adult) Social Media Era

Millennials grew up with computers, high speed internet, smart phones, Vlogs, Influencers, Graphic Interface, social media such as Facebook, Instagram, You Tube. Familiarity with APPLE, AMAZON, GOOGLE & E-Commerce. Popularized selfie, social in nature, busy with school activities.

Unlike their Gen X parents, Millennials have a reputation of being spoiled, impatient, misunderstood, and self-entitled.

Everything was handed in a “silver platter”. I often hear Gen X parents say to their children; “When I was your age I did not have a smart phone or a laptop …..you have an iPad, laptop, smart phone and still neglect your studies because you’re always on the phone or computer chatting”.

These were the Millennial’s characteristic growing up, but eventually they grew out of it and became productive, self-reliant, family-oriented parents themselves.

As in our family of Millennials, I don’t think they were brats. Instead, they too strived hard to jump start their career and for some, raise a family.

Thanks to the Millennial’s parents they have it much easier in life who laid foundation for their future and next generations to come.

Dixie
Alfree
John Paul
Aprille
George
Andrea
Nathaniel
Michael
Robert

Generation Z – Born between 1997 – 2010 Ages 11 – 24 yrs old (Zoomers)

Generation Z has a lot of growing up to do still.

Being born in a Tech Savvy world they are labeled as the Tech Natives. Just like Millennials these generation will never experience the dial up computer connection. They are used to instant connection as well as instant gratification. If they want to connect with someone, text, Facebook and other social media platforms is just a click away.

Racial Diversity - this will be the last generation that will be predominantly white. Everyone will have a mixture of any ethnicity. Open Minded generation, financial mindedness, shrewd consumers (thanks to the digital world of shopping).

More buying power.More opportunities of growth.Great Foundation given by their parents.

Jaden
Priszeia
Jayla
Samantha
Jay Jay
Meadow
Laureez
Jacob
MJ

Generation Alpha – Born between 2011 – 2021Ages 0 – 10 yrs old

Most racially, ethnically diverse generation.

Generation raised by college educated adults. Generation affected by Pandemic way of life. Digital learning, zooming and home schooling.

The smartest, most tech savvy, go with the flow, inquisitive humans.

Aging parent’s of the Alpha’s , no need to worry, “Robots” will take care of your needs ….OMG !!!

More buying power. More opportunities of growth. Great Foundation given by their parents.

Bai
Sophia - JP
Sophia - J
John John
Pria
Ragsak
Alfonse

Tito Fred, as you can see you left a long trail of Puckett's on earth. I’ve listed them from the oldest, Tita Jocie to the youngest, Alfonse. May you bless each and single one of us, guide and protect us. Watch all of us from up above.

Take My Hand, Precious Lord

July 27, 2021

Featuring Susana

Gary’s Tribute

July 27, 2021

Part 2

Gary’s Tribute

July 27, 2021

Part 1

Singing Lesson

July 27, 2021

Featuring Douglas

The Rose

July 27, 2021

Featuring our very own cowboy superstar…

Manong Fred’s Salidumay

July 27, 2021

Featuring Mat, Brian, Epin, Susan, and Thaniel

Tributes

July 27, 2021

Messages from Mat, Andrea, Judy, Brian, and Susan

A Heart for the Wee Ones

July 25, 2021

Growing up in the early 70s was something for us. Manang Josie, the firstborn, and our five brothers - Fred, Jack, Larry, Douglas, & Domenic were already young adults in their 20s. The younger girls in the family-Susan, Judy, Mat, myself, & Thel were still little girls, maybe around 5-10 years old then.
For a big family like ours, the generation gap is huge. Manong Fred is the second child, I am the second-to-the-last child. In this long line of siblings, there is a gap of 18 years between the two of us.
It was another stormy day in Baguio, wet, cold, and muddy outside. All we can do was stay in & play inside the house. Typical of little kids, we were noisy, giggly, and having fun.
I will never forget that Manong Fred was awakened from his sleep, then came storming out of his room to where we were at. He was so mad, jumping up & down in front of us while scolding us for being noisy and disturbing his sleep. Scared little girls, we just cowered together on the kumen on the floor. We had to be quiet from then on.
I don't remember if Susan was with us, or already in Bontoc staying with Auntie Terry. As a little girl, I thought he was "nauyong", mean for that.

Fast forward decades later and all I see is a different person. He was a family man, Dad and Papa to his kids, a Champion golfer, very accomplished in his golf career. We know he does not say much, but some of us know he does complain and grumble when unhappy about something. Who doesn't? We're humans after all.
I heard he was patient. When Aprille and Jacob went home to Baguio in 2018, he enjoyed showing Jacob the wild weeds we played with as kids. For fun, he probably even darted Jacob with the spiky buds that stick to your clothes.
We know he didn't talk much but got a lot done and accomplished at home, in his career, and personal life. Like a fine bottle of wine, he got better as he got older.
Looking at his pictures with kids, I can't help but remember how it was different for us way back then on that one afternoon. I smile looking at these pictures & I think they're very precious.
He did have a heart for the wee ones and a hope for their bright future.

"HE FORGOT MY BULBS"

July 24, 2021

Mat's story on July 23, 2021:

"I just read the 2nd story of Natsu about Mng Fred the Gardener of the house. I was so emotionally struck by it n crying again..it was well said Natsu. I commend u for that. You have a very strong memory n observation of what he's been busy n up to in his daily tasks around the house. It's true being the man in the house, since we left, he's there all by himself doing all the necessary stuff in order to keep our property clean n well maintained. It's hard work for him but still found time to do what he loved most..play golf and enjoy every round he played. Just watched one of the video of Mng Longay.. back home when it was raining hard. I saw the bird of paradise plants in the front yard, lots of pretty red flowers being swayed back n forth by the strong rain n wind, dancing like floaters in the air. Then I remembered last time we went home in 2019, me n him sitting in front yard watching the flowers in full bloom, again while he puffed his cigarette. Also below those bird of paradise plants, (the green leaves plants) he said another pretty blooms (annuals) pink colored flowers like Easter Lily. I was supposed to bring back home to California some bulbs but he forgot to dig them up for me. Now he's gone, who's gonna be doing all those stuff around the house?
...he's gone but will never be forgotten. RIP Mng Fred."

(Credit to Manong Longay for the video clip. A great reminder of Baguio and the rainy days we grew up with).

Baby boomer to zoomer

July 24, 2021

Papa was not the "sunod sa uso" type of person. When almost everyone else was using smart phone, he was contented using his keypad phone. Then, I got him a smart phone and got himself busy learning how to use it. He called Laureez or Mikee to show him how to do this or that. They created a Facebook account for him and when he learnt how to use social media, he stayed up late at night watching videos and sending them to people - Puckett's Message Center was one of his favorites, he would send pictures, videos, quotes, and even GIFs. He was the first to send greetings on your birthdays and on any other occasions. He learnt how to post a status in his fb, send messages in messenger and viber, and search youtube whenever he wanted to know something like how to incubate duck eggs, etc.

He also learnt how to order online via Lazada or Shopee. Some of the grips he used to repair clubs were ordered online. When I went home on December 2019, he wanted to buy us presents so, for days he was looking at his shopee app and deciding what to get. He finally decided to get himself a necklace with a cross pendant, he got mommy and me bracelets, necklace with a volleyball pendant for Laureez, and a necklace with a dragon pendant for Mikee. Not many of us may know it but Papa likes jewelry - I just found it out that time. I was not able to wear mine because it wasn't delivered when I left but I have it now with me - a charm bracelet with my chinese zodiac: Ox.

A present I will forever treasure

THE DREAM TEAM 2009

July 23, 2021

This is another story of Gary when I was asking about a particular Fil-Am tournament:

"The politics of Fil-Am golf. Jejeje. Dad was always the neutral one. He always played for a neutral team so that there will be no "sakit ti nakem".
In 2018, Tito Douglas had his own team - me, Winnie, John Paul, Brian, and Robert Tisoy for Greenwater Golfers. Tito Larry had his team - Jack, Ramsey, Eduard Dait, Taba, and any other they can pick.
This is one reason why Dad doesn't want to team up with us or Tito Larry's team. Kuna na, "Tanu awan ag apus nu kaspangarigan naki team ak with either team."
Despite that, every team wanted him in their team. He liked the Pugad Adventures team of General Martin. They took care of everything for him, from uniforms and they even gave him money to pay for his caddie fee.

It was just in 2009 when the dream team happened. Me, Dad, Titos Larry, Douglas and Jack. We played for the championship division but we did not get a trophy.
I'm glad that we had a photo of the score card."
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Manong Larry said, "No individual honors won, but All Brothers playing and bonding together is Priceless."

My memories of tito fred 2

July 22, 2021

The gardener of the house.

It takes days, weeks, and months to clean after and maintain our beloved home in Greenwater, and without telling, tito fred took the main role as the gardener of the house. We may have also done our roles and helped out whenever we could, here and there, but its still him who we see doing most of the job. If not playing golf or fitting clubs in the garahe, you'll often find him in the garden. He never stops making our home green, lush and neat; specially after the rainy seasons when he clears out the over-growths of marapait and all sorts of weeds from the out skirts of the property. I believe we've had awards from the barangay in the past for having the best landscapes or cleanest backyard or something.

Just some images in my mind when i think of him on a regular day in the garden...

Inside his rusty blue tool sheds made of yero; he orginizes and cleans his old rusty overused handy dandy tools, which may need a squirt of wd40 to work, but still does the job pretty well.

Under the heat of the sun, he squats at the side of the lawn, droplets of sweat trickle down his sundried brown skin on his forehead to his eyebrow, his water hose on one hand, watering his beloved bermuda grass and a cigarette on the other hand. Panda, mikee's late dog, with the most unique white budubudu like fur, lay close to him whenever he work around greens.

At the main gate, going down the stairs, along the cavite covered in moss, lines of golden bush grow. With his big scissor like bush trimmer tool (just found out its called hedge shear), he trims the goldenbush into small rectangular shapes that matches the zigzag of the stairs. On every cut of his hedge shear, outgrowing leaves and branches drop and scatter to the ground. The munching sound of his tool as he cuts through bush is so satisfying to hear, "chomp".

Protected by his blue overalls, he carries on his shoulders piles of weeds and tree clippings he cleared out from the yard. He spreads them under the sun to dry to be burned late in the afternoon or at night. The only chance to burn them is after sundown to prevent the smoke to get into the sinampay and it is also iparit ti barangay.

After the days hard work, you'll often see him squating around the corners of the yard , nakatambay, with a coffee mug on one hand and his everlasting cigarette on the other, just staring and looking up at the trees and plants as if communicating with them. He communicated with the bayabas, kape, avocados, sayote, oranges, kalamansi, saba, chesa, pears, blackberries, kawayan, golden bush, starapple, beans, sunflowers, mais, (i know theres whole alot more)... but lastly his beloved bermuda grass putting green.

Who lit the Candle

July 22, 2021

I really don't know much of tito Fred because Jayson and I were very young when we left PI. He did not reside in GWV yet the short time we were there. Although he came to visit us. I remember as soon as he's in the house he looks for Gary. "Ayan na toy ni Gary?" LOL. Ada idiay Bantay uncle agbasbasketbol" my reply. Then he lights up his cigarette. "Ibagam apan gumatang iti cigarillo keni Bagyan or Aligmayo".

One thing I can say about him is he never bothered anyone, he was never verbally nor physically abusive. He kept to himself and never involved in any kind of "Family Drama". Now that I read stories and testimonies, he's certainly a one of a kind. A great man !!! MAY HE REST IN PEACE

He did come visit me here. One of my electric candle was burning flame one morning and a butterfly flying in the house.

Every time I see a butterfly flying around my place someone I know just died. It never fails.

My memories of tito fred 1

July 22, 2021

From my younger age - 'kapre sa ilalim ng kape/kawayan'

The story about the kapre is suppose to put fear among us kids back then to prevent us from wondering around the woods specially at night times. A Kapre, supposedly, is a tall dark hairy muscular creature hiding among the trees while puffing clouds of smoke from their gigantic cigar. For all i know, Kapre is not really considered as evil. They are there as sentinel protecting the trees. They only got their bad reputation from playing tricks on people. They are said to get people confused, disoriented and get them lost in the woods. But the kapre in our house is very different. He may also have a dark toned skin but he is just a short one, not so muscular, and leaves just a small puff of smoke from his tiny cigar. Yes he is there taking care of the trees but he is also out there keeping an eye on us and the house, our very own nightwatchman. He is not one who plays tricks on people, actually quite the opposite. There were instances when we get home late at night (at times drunk) confused,and disoriented and he is there. I will always remember those moments. Walking in the darkness, you see at the side of the house among the bamboo and the coffee trees, a tiny trail of smoke that leads you to a tiny red glowing dot, and as you squint your eyes to see clearer in the light of night, there he is, quietly squating and smoking his cigarette. That is our kapre, he is not there to scare us or get us lost, but rather he is always there to watch over us and make sure that we get home safely.

LIKE FATHER LIKE SON

July 19, 2021

December 2018 was a very special Fil-Am tournament for Manong Fred, Gary and the Greenwater Meadow team. I thought they were teammates that year when I saw the picture. Not so according to Gary. Here is the story he related to me.

"We were not team mates. I played for Greenwater golfers, Tito Douglas' team. Dad played for Pugad Adventures or John Hay, I think. After I got my individual champion trophy for Class B Division, Dad grabbed me and we had a photo on the stage. I think it was even Aprille who took the photo. He was so proud that I got the individual award, wherein many times in his career, he won individual medalist in his Division A, which is the highest championship division."

Friends and family were very happy for the Champions and the congratulations poured in. Here are a few:

"Wooohooo!!! Congrats Mang Fred and Gary." (Richard Salcedo)

"Wow congrats... may pinagmanahan" (Ballog Lambac)

"Mayat...maipatawid gayam ti laing ti golf!! Congrats!!! (Rubi Cuta)

"Ayos pards naala na latta jy laing mo." (Jun Salting)

"Congratz father son tandem!!!!!" (Benita C. Carame)

"Congrats Mng Fred ken Gary. Isingit dak to met team yo next year" (Favored Wins)

Manong Fred replied with thank-yous. But not much for words as we know him, his best reply was, "Thanks. It's in the blood."

I saw a face beaming with a big smile when I read his reply. A proud father indeed.

(Copy of picture and replies from Manong Fred's FB page).

HUMILITY: it makes men angels.

July 15, 2021