Alice's Love - by Joyce Wind
Alice moved from Old City in Philadelphia PA to Fishtown, a small neighborhood in Philadelphia PA. Alice lived in a small row home from about 2006 to 2011. During this period of time, Alice gave life to Liam, Adelaide and Franklin. All her children were born at Pennsylvania Hospital, Philadelphia PA. Liam, a beautiful little boy with an amazing imagination. Addie, a stunning little girl with curls and so intelligent. And Franklin, a curious little fellow who is quick and light in motion.
Alice loves Liam, Addie and Franklin with a love that is more than love. In May of 2011, Alice gave Liam a wonderful Fourth Birthday Party. And I was invited. I asked Alice why did she invite me to a kid‘s party? Alice gave me that smile of hers and told me that I was Liam’s favorite person. I must attend Liam’s party. I must wear a sticker on my shirt. Everyone has to wear a sticker on their shirt that notes your name and the role you play in Liam’s life. I thought to myself--that Alice is such a charmer--Liam‘s favorite person--hmmm. Alice has a way with people and you can not resist her charm. My only choice was to attend a child’s birthday party.
I met Alice in 2006. Alice moved into a little house, two doors down from me. My first impression of Alice was “who is this hipster with that big hair?”. I have been living in Fishtown (a small neighborhood in Philadelphia PA) all my life. The neighborhood is changing with new young people moving in. It seems to me that all the new people who are moving into “my neighborhood” are wearing black outfits, wearing black eye glasses and food shopping at Trader Joe’s. Who are these people, where do they come from and why do they want to live in Fishtown? They are going to change everything!
As fate would have it, I learned to love Alice and I learned to change. I found myself telling others--ALISON IS NOT A HIPSTER! Yes, Alice buys me “organic” chocolate candy bars from Trader Joe’s. So what! Alice and her children moved out of Fishtown during the Summer of 2011. Over that five year period of time, not only did I grow to love Alice but also learned to respect her as a person…as a mom of three children.
As a mom of three grown sons, three daughter in laws and six grandchildren, I know about “babies”. I would see Alice coming and going, living her life with her children. Alice would shine as she looked at her children playing outside her home. Alice was in love with Franklin, Addie and Liam.
After a long day on the job, Alice would come home, carrying Addie and Franklin in their car seats into her home and telling Liam his turn is next. At times, all the kids had to wait in the car, until Alice unloaded all the food bags. I would go to help Alice and she would tell me that she was “ok”. I would help her, despite her words.
…and when Liam turned four years old, Alice held a party for Liam. The home was full of people from Liam’s life wearing stickers on their shirts. A grand mix of children and adults. An amazing Transformer Cake and Transformer prizes. Spare ribs from Trader Joe’s. Delicious home made dumplings. And, Alice was in her element; surrounded by children and joking around with the adults.
In all of my photo’s of Liam’s Birthday Party, Alice is never alone. Alice is always holding a child or helping a child. Alice’s love for all children is very deep. One can only imagine how deep her love is for Addie, Franklin and Liam. It is more than love…