What a price to pay for dedication to professionalism!! When the Ebola episode broke out in Nigeria and we all learnt that First Foundation Hospital was involved, one’s mind went to Dr. Ameyo Stella Adadevoh, the Medical Director of the hospital who had already made a name for herself with the way children born in the hospital were treated as “royals” each time they made repeat calls for one ailment or the other.
The full page advert published by the hospital to put the public’s mind at rest that the establishment was in control of the situation was jointly signed by Dr. Benjamin Ohieri and Dr. Ameyo Stella Adadevoh. That advert was very reassuring. Thereafter one followed the news about this very deadly virus as it unfolded in Nigeria.
As if in self-denial and hoping that no bad news would come about any victim, not just Ameyo, one’s mind wondered to Ameyo every now and again for days but one could not summon enough courage to ring any of her aunties and cousins to find out how all these affected her. Then the press conference attended by two of Ameyo’s Cousins, along with other family members and friends who pleaded publicly with the Federal Government to do something to help the unfortunate care-givers who had been exposed to the virus. At that point running away from asking about Ameyo was no longer an option.
A call to Ameyo’s aunties and cousins was all one could do at that point. Each member of the family was dealing with the situation as best as he or she could. Some switched off their phones and hoping against hope that only good news about Ameyo would come through. Others could only be reached by text messages at best. The situation was the same with the Atlanta end. All seem to have withdrawn into one shell or the other praying for Ameyo and others so affected. Even emails could not smoke her loved ones out of their unwanted comfort zones.
Then the sad news on Tuesday August 19th that Ameyo had passed on. What a sacrifice. Talk of occupational hazard!
I recall ringing Ameyo a few months back after seeing her son, Bankole’s business being featured on CNN. She knew about the program but had not seen that particular episode by the time of my call. She however said that there was another one aired earlier on and like any mother, she was very proud of the young man’s achievement.
The last time we met was on her Aunt’s landmark birthday in April. She was so active at Awusi’s house that day, helping her cousins to serve guests who dropped in. She was all over the place, to the delight of her aunties, Sisi Stella, Awusi and Koshua Adu. The atmosphere at that event reminded one of so many such family gatherings at the Adadevoh family house on Ikorodu Road and Bishop Oluwole Street, Victoria Island residence of her parents, especially when the Ghana delegation was in town. What a legacy of rich heritage made up of good character and values, very rare commodities these days.
I can still see Ameyo in my mind’s eyes when she was just four years or so wandering from her paternal grandparents’ sitting room to the balcony at Denton Street, Oyingbo. Her grandfather Papa J.G.K. Adadevoh’s houses were the rallying points of the extended Adadevoh family in Nigeria and the link with the family in Ghana was so strong. One could not help but believe no Ewe man would settle in Lagos, if not in Nigeria, without seizing the first opportunity he had to pay homage to Papa J.G.K. Adadevoh as the Ewe Community leader in Lagos, if not in Nigeria. The man was worth his weight in his stature and in the character and values with which he raised his children and those who came in contact with him; not less that of Ameyo’s grandmother, Mama Sarah Idowu Adadevoh of the Crowther-Macaulay family.
With such a solid parental background on all sides, Adadevoh, Crowther-Macaulay and McIntosh and the Christian background with which all the upsprings were raised, one could not be surprised by the dedication to duty and the selflessness with which Ameyo paid the ultimate price. All these have been attested to in various tributes paid to Ameyo on the internet.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Folabi and Bankole and members of the Cardoso family for this irreparable loss. Seeing Ameyo’s mother, Sisi Deborah at the memorial service today was a bit of a relief; that she has been able to accept this unfortunate and irreparable loss. As Christians, all we can do is to continue to console and pray for each other that God in His infinite mercies will continue to let us accept that which we cannot change.
To Ama, Kojo, Ami, Ameyo’s siblings, her cousins, Afio, Ade, Bunmi, Deji, Doyin, Taiwo, Kehinde, Olumide, Kwame, Awoyo, Eyi, Etcha, Kwame and not forgetting Prof. Sydney Kobla Adadevoh, Mr. Willy Fugar and other members of the extended Adadevoh family in Ghana, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
May Ameyo’s beautiful soul continue to rest in perfect peace, Amen.