All week, since learning about Pipe’s death, my mind has been roaming around the past 13 years, searching for memories of him.
Unfortunately because we lived in different countries, I was not able to see him as a baby or as a toddler. I met him when he has a handsome boy playing with his videogames, struggling to walk because of his illness, but ready to overcome any obstacle to get to his cousin’s room to play with his toys.
When Pipe was a small boy, he was diagnosed with Muscular dystrophy. Thus began his journey in search of trustworthy doctors, effective treatment, and good health. He fought long and hard to live.
He was always bright and articulate, funny, and brilliant. He was purposeful, always ready to learn, explore, and share what he was up to. But he was not always easy to know, and I sometimes struggled to make our relationship work, not unlike the common awkward conversations between people of two different generations.
As he grew older, he became more and more amazing. He was a good student in school and he turned his attention to learning more about science and math. In fact, he was so good in math that he became a math athlete.
In spite of knowing about his illness and following his countless hospitalizations, it still came as a shock to all of us when we got the news that Pipe had died sometime during the night of September 8.
Gone was a gifted kid, a young life, a child who was afraid to be thirteen. We who loved him weep for having lost him too soon
Tia Lucia