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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Andy Bruce. We invite and encourage you to post your own memories, stories, pictures and prayers.

Andy was a 2007 graduate of Strath Haven High School in Wallingford, PA and a 2011 graduate of Colgate University (A.B., History). He also spent time studying at Trinity College, Dublin and the University of Pennsylvania. At the time of his passing, Andy was pursuing his Master's Degree in Education. In September of 2013, Andy married his college classmate, Alexandra (Alex) Marshall. Andy relished his time with children, including his experiences as camp counselor, tutor, Big Brother and coach. Andy is survived by his wife, Alex, his parents, Scott and Gigi, his sisters Gillie and Sarah, his brother-in-law Will and his nieces Lucy and Claire.

A memorial service will be held at Saint David's Episcopal Church (763 Valley Forge Road, Wayne, PA) on Saturday, June 2nd, beginning at 2pm with a reception to follow.

In lieu of gifts or flowers, a scholarship fund has been created in Andy's name at the summer camp where he worked. Funds will be used to finance tuition for campers and their families that cannot otherwise afford the cost.

Checks can be made out to: "BB&N"
In Support of the Andy Bruce Camp Scholarship Fund
80 Gerry's Landing Road
Cambridge, MA 02138


April 24, 2022
April 24, 2022
Thinking of you and your family today. Holding the memory of your kind smile and generous spirit and sad you can’t be here to share them with your nieces. But hopeful that some of you lives on in each of them.
April 24, 2020
April 24, 2020
Andy, I will always remember you as that sweet, loving young boy that we watched grow up. I will always remember our trip to northern New York to ski and staying at the big haunted house, your friendship with my 2 children, your gentleness, your smile. Love to your Mom, Dad, Sisters and Granddad. Rocco
April 24, 2020
April 24, 2020
Always in my thoughts....Andy, Alex, Gigi, Scott and the entire Bruce family. xoxo.
May 22, 2019
May 22, 2019
Thinking of Andy today, Alex, Gigi and Scott, and the entire Bruce family. Forever a part of our camp, our staff, and BB&N. Much love for the amazing person that we were blessed to be with for such a short time.
April 24, 2019
April 24, 2019
Andy -
I'm singing off key and dancing for your birthday today!!! 
Laurie Ernst
October 11, 2018
October 11, 2018
Thank you Andy for all that you did with and for children. My son Christopher will miss you dearly. He was a former camper at BBN. I want to thank the Bruce family for your scholarship contributions.
July 13, 2018
July 13, 2018
I was devastated to hear about Andy's passing. My heart aches for Alex, Scott, Gigi, Sarah, and Gillie. Andy was the best of us, in so many ways. I will forever remember his good nature, his compassion, and his sense of humor. He will be missed terribly.
We hadn't been in touch in a few years, but being able to count Andy as an old friend going back all the way to WES meant a lot to me.
I'll always cherish the memories of watching the Flyers run to the Stanley Cup Finals together in the spring of 2010, complete with Andy's great TV appearance during the Bruins series.
June 6, 2018
June 6, 2018
Dear Alex & Bruce Family,
There are no words for such a loss. While I have only known Andy just shy of a full year he was a very close treasured friend and true blessing in my life. He could always make you laugh through his obsessive sports knowledge, illogical loyalty to all things Philly and wit. So smart and generous for others. He will be missed every day. He was incredibly blessed with such a loving and supportive family all of whom meant the absolute world to him. My prayers, support and love to you all.
June 1, 2018
June 1, 2018
I have fond memories of running into Gigi while walking around the Green Valley neighborhood with her two toddlers – Sarah and Andy. My mom, who often accompanied me on these walks, was infatuated by Andy’s adorable demeanor and infectious smile – qualities that he retained throughout his life. We tenderly remember Andy dancing away at Boppin’ for Betsy, bartending at Caroline and Courtney’s graduation party (who always thought they would marry him) and stopping in to see our new golden retriever. As the years went by, I became known as Mrs. D and Andy grew to make us all proud to know him. Alex, Gigi, Scott, Gillie and Sarah and Will... you loved him so well. What a classy, beautiful, charming man. It has truly been an honor to know him.
June 1, 2018
Roughly 20 years ago on a hot, humid fall day, Widener was hosting Lycoming College in football. The rival with Lycoming had a long history. Lycoming had won the last five or six games meetings, usually on a last minute score. 
This particular Saturday had a different feel to it. The then Widener head coach, Bill Zwaan, asked if I would bring President Bruce to the football locker room after the game if we had won.
President Bruce showed up that day with not only Judy but a handsome (cute, charming, television-star looks) young boy named Andrew. Andrew had full run of the President's Box (Grandad's Room), had made several runs to the dessert table, charmed all of the ladies present but watched the game intently.
On that hot and humid day Widener FINALLY won on the last play of a double overtime game. Andrew accompanied the President to the locker room, and along with Grandad, he received hugs, cheers and the game ball.
When I asked what he thought about being surrounded by all the big football players, he replied: "They smelled bad!"
Pure eight-year-old honesty!
-Mike Mahoney
May 31, 2018
May 31, 2018
Scott, Gigi and Family,
We are so deeply sorry to learn of the loss of Andy. We have no words to express how saddened we are for you and all of your family and friends. Please accept our sincere condolences and know that we are thinking of you and your family at this sorrowful time.
Fondly,
The Bredt's
May 31, 2018
May 31, 2018
How rare is that person who makes a profound impact on everyone he touches, yet whose touch is gentle, unassuming, self-effacing. That was Andy. From his days as a first grader, tasked by his teacher to bring the attendance slip to the office each day--(And I, the principal, used to say to anyone in earshot, "That's my future husband!")--to his time as a high school student, coming back to his elementary school and volunteering, Andy's kindness, smile, and generosity of spirit impacted all of us. His time was unthinkably short, but his contributions to our world remarkably significant. My thoughts, condolences, and love go out to the entire Bruce family. Andy's goodness was a reflection of all of you.
May 30, 2018
May 30, 2018
Profound loss is the ultimate price that we must pay for profound love.
One of the all-time great people that I ever had the opportunity to teach. He was kind, compassionate, and a true gentleman. I will always remember all that he gave to our school community. You will never be forgotten, buddy...
May 30, 2018
May 30, 2018
It is with a heavy heart that I send my deepest sympathies to Andy's family and friends. I was fortunate to have known Andy during his high school years. His infectious, upbeat energy, kind smile and compassion for others was uplifting and inspiring. I will always remember him with great fondness and admiration.
May 30, 2018
May 30, 2018
My heart is broken for Andy, his family, and his friends. It seems like only yesterday that Andy was on my TV screen sitting over right-handed batters' shoulders at Phillies games during their memorable playoff runs, flipping burgers as the original Strath Haven Tennis Team Grill Master, and filling the hallways at school with good cheer. Andy will be missed at Haven by all who knew him--he was a special person and we were fortunate to have him in our classrooms, on our teams, and in our lives.
May 30, 2018
May 30, 2018
Andy, as his sisters, was a wonderful contributor to life at Strath Haven High School. We are all reeling from the news of his passing, and sending our prayers and wishes for healing and peace for the Bruce family. Thank you for sending us such beautiful students, and may you all be comforted by your memories of such an amazing son and brother.
May 30, 2018
May 30, 2018
I searched for words that could express my deep and profound sadness with the news of Andy’s passing but no words could convey my feelings as eloquently as this poem .

When Great Trees Fall

by Maya Angelou

When great trees fall,

rocks on distant hills shudder,

lions hunker down

in tall grasses,

and even elephants

lumber after safety.


When great trees fall

in forests,

small things recoil into silence,

their senses

eroded beyond fear.


When great souls die,

the air around us becomes

light, rare, sterile.

We breathe, briefly.
Our eyes, briefly,

see with

a hurtful clarity.

Our memory, suddenly sharpened,

examines,

gnaws on kind words

unsaid,

promised walks

never taken.

Great souls die and

our reality, bound to

them, takes leave of us.

Our souls,

dependent upon their

nurture,

now shrink, wizened.

Our minds, formed

and informed by their

radiance,
fall away.

We are not so much maddened

as reduced to the unutterable ignorance
of
dark, cold

caves.


And when great souls die,

after a period peace blooms,

slowly and always

irregularly. Spaces fill

with a kind of

soothing electric vibration.

Our senses, restored, never

to be the same, whisper to us.

They existed. They existed.

We can be. Be and be

better. For they existed.
― Maya Angelou

We will miss your beautiful heart Andy and the way you spread goodness in the world.

We are better in so many ways because you existed in our lives.
May 29, 2018
May 29, 2018
Heartbroken for everyone. Andy was somebody special from day one. Not a mean bone in his body. Just a giving spirit, sense of humor, and deep compassion-even as a child. Tho' we didn't see him often in recent years, we will always be grateful for the evening we had together in Boston over a graduation weekend...where we had the chance to get to know his wonderful Alex and to see Sarah, Will, and Gillie too. Having our last memory of him be of them all together gives us a small sliver of comfort. But not nearly enough. Our deepest sympathy and so much love to one and all.
May 29, 2018
May 29, 2018
It's impossible to express the depth of sadness at Andy's passing—in so many ways he was the best of us, so much so that he helped all of us become better over the years. His unwillingness to make people face life alone, even when it meant staying out too late and acting stupidly together, is still the model of friend I try to be. He was the purest example to all of us of someone who didn't need to succumb to the pressures of the world around him—Andy was just Andy, and we were all so much better for having him there.
May 29, 2018
May 29, 2018
When we lose someone to the next life, there is always sadness at the passing. However, with someone like Andy, the world is a lesser place for our loss. A nicer, kinder, gentler, beautiful person I have not met, nor ever will. We all love you, Andy, and will always remember you.
May 29, 2018
May 29, 2018
It has been almost an exact year since the day that I met Andy. Bright, smart, happy, confident. A smile in his voice. Is that possible? Does that make sense? For all that had the pleasure to know him, I think you know what I mean. He came to me with a business background looking to work a part time gig at BB&N camp. I pushed him on the subject, questioning why anyone with his financial experience and business skill set would want to work for our camp.. or any camp for that matter. He smiled. A lot. His face literally lit up when he began talking about children; his passion to work with them and his new pursuit to become a teacher.
I had no question Andy had what it would take to be a great addition to our camp staff, though I just did not realize how great of an addition he would be. He set the bar and then he raised the bar all summer long. His energy never wavered. His smile never dimmed. When I say it was a pleasure to work with him, it is with admiration for his joy, his compassion, his dedication, and his ability to bring a smile to children's faces throughout a long hot summer. 
We, Janine and I, did a little happy dance once we got Andy to sign on to work in the BB&N After School Program after the summer was over. He was, of course, amazing with our BB&N kids and staff, kind, caring, energetic and fun. I am so glad that Andy came to BB&N and shared with us a little bit of himself. We are certainly the richer for it. He would have made an exceptional teacher.
Andy was a recipient of our Staff Spirit Award last summer and given that he embodied BB&N camp spirit and then took it to the next level (think dressing up as a shark, the Green Monster, Ella, and any other creation that he could get away with at camp) it is only fitting to rename the award "the Andy Bruce Spirit Award". His joy as an educator and a creative mentor to children will continue at BB&N to inspire our staff each year.
Much Love and prayers to the entire Bruce Family.
Colleen O'Connor, BB&N Director of Extended Year Services
May 28, 2018
May 28, 2018
Dear Bruce Family,
    My heart is breaking. I drove by WES the other day and memories of Andy came flooding back. I hope I told you this at the time - When I was the building sub, Andy came over from the high school to work with the kids. He was absolutely beloved by the teachers and especially by the kids. I was frequently assigned to work with a 4th grader (I think mainly to give his class and teacher a break). Despite my best efforts, I really struggled reaching this student. Then Andy started talking and playing basketball with him and for the first time he begin to respond to an adult. He really cared about pleasing Andy and it was magical to see. I know that there are so very many stories about Andy’s impact on our others. I hope that they provide some peace.
   
                With Love,
                 Lyn
May 28, 2018
May 28, 2018
Scott, Gigi, Sarah, Gillie and Alex,
We are all so sorry for your loss. Please know that Andy’s humor and decency and empathy touched countless lives and quietly enriched each one of them.
All our love to you and your families,
The Piccins
May 28, 2018
May 28, 2018
My heart is so heavy. The first thought I had of Andy was what a wonderful leader was. When Alex started on the golf team at Strath Haven, I believe Andy was Captain. It was an especially stressful time, and Alex was stepping into an already established team, but I remember Andy making a special effort to welcome him and make him feel that he belonged. As was his way, it was done quietly and with kindness. I don't think I ever expressed to you or him how very much those kindnesses meant to me. I do know that it was no big deal, that was just Andy. But it meant the world to me. Sending you my love.

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April 24, 2022
April 24, 2022
Thinking of you and your family today. Holding the memory of your kind smile and generous spirit and sad you can’t be here to share them with your nieces. But hopeful that some of you lives on in each of them.
April 24, 2020
April 24, 2020
Andy, I will always remember you as that sweet, loving young boy that we watched grow up. I will always remember our trip to northern New York to ski and staying at the big haunted house, your friendship with my 2 children, your gentleness, your smile. Love to your Mom, Dad, Sisters and Granddad. Rocco
His Life
May 27, 2018

Andy grew up in Wallingford, Pennsylvania, where he spent time developing life long relationships with childhood friends and their families. Andy attended Wallingford Elementary School, Strath Haven Middle School and Strath Haven High School, from which he graduated in 2007.

Andy played numerous sports growing up, including soccer, baseball, ice hockey, football and golf. He began playing ice hockey in the 3rd grade and continued throughout high school, including as captain of the varsity ice hockey team. Andy was also captain of the high school's varsity golf team. While in high school, Andy was an honor roll student and received the principal's award for excellence in Academics, Athletics, Arts, Altruism and Activities.

Andy attended Colgate University as a member of the Class of 2011, earning a degree in History. While at Colgate, Andy was a member of the University's Link Staff, volunteer for the Office of Admissions, member of the Senior Class Gift Committee and the Phi Kappa Tau fraternity. After graduation, Andy became a member of the Colgate Club of Boston.

Andy met his beautiful wife Alex during their freshman orientation and move into Stillman Hall. They married in September of 2013 in Swarthmore, Pennsylvania and moved to Cambridge after Alex completed her M.S. in Chemistry from the University of Virginia.    

Andy spent a great deal of time utilizing his prolific gift with children, including as a tutor at Hamilton Elementary School in Hamilton, NY, as a member of Big Brother Big Sisters of Massachusetts Bay in Boston, as a tutor for the Cambridge School Volunteers in Cambridge, Massachusetts, as Head Counselor at Running Brook Day Camp in Waltham, MA, as a tutor and staff member of the after school program at the Buckingham, Browne & Nichols School in Cambridge, as well as a summer counselor at BB&N. We are saddened by the generations of young people who will never be able to experience Andy's gifts.

Our memories of Andy are too numerous to recall, but we very much would like to hear yours....please feel free to share them on this site.

Recent stories
June 4, 2018

As a teacher, there are children that come into your life that are so very special, that they never leave your heart......that is Andy. 

My deepest sympathies.

May 30, 2018

Though heartbroken for your unimaginable loss, remembering Andy instantly brought smiles to our faces. Andy’s welcoming and joyful personality touched our lives, particularly as a classmate, teammate and coach. Bryanna recollected their 5th grade talent show as the Jackson’s. Andy enthusiastically stepped up in the role as Janet Jackson and brought down the house with his performance! Rocco and all the Carzo's recall Andy’s many hockey games, both as a player and a coach. Andy’s love and enthusiasm for the sport was infectious and he supported and encouraged his teams, even when no longer playing himself. Daria and Mikaela recall Andy as a skilled, kind and supportive coach and most especially, Mikaela's wonderful memory of Andy as her first crush!  Andy’s giving spirit was a gift to all.  Sending our love and prayers of comfort to Andy’s beloved family.

May 29, 2018

The morning after my and Walker's wedding, Andy had to swing by my parents' house to drop off some of the groomsmen's suits. It was supposed to be a quick errand, especially since he was responsible for driving some friends home that day; friends who, after not hearing back from Andy for over an hour, were growing anxious. As they later found out, my dad had invited Andy inside to join the family for brunch that morning, and Andy had accepted. While his phone was buzzing in the background with missed calls, Andy was happily joking with and charming my family to the point where, since that day in 2014, whenever they’ve heard his name, they’ve always responded with, "Andy! We love Andy!!”

Andy did that a lot. He turned acquaintances into friends, and friends into family. I’ll never forget meeting him for the first time when he came to visit Walker at Davidson College in 2010, and being blown away by how close they were to each other. He was warm, and welcoming, and genuinely seemed to care about his friends so much. In fact, a couple months later, when Walker thought he needed to “convince” me to date him, he simply called Andy and handed the phone to me. Andy spent a *full* fifteen minutes regaling me with tales of Walker’s wondrousness. I couldn’t get a word in edgewise to tell him it wasn’t necessary; but, if I hadn’t been on board before, I’m sure I would have been after Andy stepped in.

Andy had boundless love for the people around him. He was a defacto brother to those boys whom he met in diapers and a once-in-a-lifetime friend to others who were lucky enough to meet him along the way; a proud sibling who bragged about his sisters and brother-in-law; an utterly and completely smitten uncle; an admiring son who emulated his parents in every way; and a devoted, adoring husband to Alex (or, as Andy would say, “a total babe”). He really, really, really loved Al.

This loss is immense and unimaginable and brings fresh waves of grief every day. I send my whole heart to the Bruce and Marshall families, as well as my sincere thanks for sharing Andy with all of us. We will love and miss him forever.  

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